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How was your first swinging experience, was it good or was it bad?

 

If it was bad, what caused it? If it was good, what did you do in advance to help make it that way?

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The first couple we met for swinging, we met online and made arrangements to meet them halfway (about 40 minutes or so from each of us) for dinner and then we were going to split a hotel room (first bad choice). Dinner seemed ok, but since we had already made hotel arrangements we felt a little pressured to move things along even tho we probably shouldn't have (there really wasn't that connection).

 

We attempted to play and both of the guys ended up having some problems getting/keeping it up. We hadn't really discussed our prefs/boundaries ahead of time and that caused some friction as well.

 

The next morning we basically went our separate ways... but the story does have a happy ending. A few years later we ran into this same couple via another common interest. We discovered that we'd all grown a lot and we got to be really good friends and even managed to play a few times together.

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Our first experience we met an experienced couple through a pay site and we all decided to meet for drinks and then attend a group social together that was being held in a downtown hotel. The couple was fun, but the social was for the birds. The people were rude and left us feeling very unwelcome. We ended renting a room in the same hotel and playing quarters. First for drinks and eventually for articles of clothing. We were all having a great time and ended up on one bed with our own partners, with a little cross play going on as well. It was a great time, but then hubby starting having trouble keeping an erection. I think the combination of the alcohol (which will do that to him in a regular encounter) and the first time jitters. The other couple was really great about it, but hubby was pretty humiliated and we soon left. We still chat with them from time to time, but they have withdrawn from the lifestyle for a little while and they live a few hours away so we haven't been able to try again with them. We try to be very careful about how we play now...little alcohol,and I try to make sure hubby is completely comfortable before we begin anything.

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Our 1st try was a MMF... he was polite, interesting and attractive...He just couldn't get an erection and while we tried to make him cofortable and reassure him it happened on more often that he thought he still was really upset. She became upset AFTER her left and thought it was something to do with her...

 

It was just too much too fast...

 

Poor guy, like shooting pool with a piece of rope! :rolleyes:

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Our first experience was not a good one. We met at a club and decided to meet for dinner the following weekend. All four of us were new to swinging, and there were no rules or boundaries set up at all! We jumped right into playing and things moved way too fast for my comfort level, but I didn't speak up for fear of hurting anyone's feelings. The other gal tried to initiate sex with my boyfriend without a condom, and complained to him about being frustrated when he wanted to slow down. I was not attracted enough to the other guy to want to go that far, so after a while we felt like the 2 of us were just sitting around watching the other 2. I had hoped all 4 of us could play together, but it turned out that the other couple had been fighting, so they were trying to avoid each other. We managed to end the night gracefully, somehow, but learned a few lessons there.

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Our first was actually very good in the sense that they were sensitive to the fact that we were new. We had chatted for a while via online and phone, but never told them until the day we actually met that we were new. (Bad mistake there folks...always let them know.) We spent most of the day visiting art museums and the Air Force museum, getting to know each other. We planned to meet for dinner and at dinner was when they asked how long we had been in the lifestyle. (We must have given the appearance of having been in it for a while.) We let them know that they would be our first and their moods sort of shifted. From there on out they were real cautious in their approach to us.

 

After much talking through dinner, they suggested that we go to a club that they like to frequent when they are in town and we agreed. The night ended with us going back to their motel and playing around some, but actual intercorse only occured between my hubby and the other woman. My shyness and I'm sure my fear made the hubby of the other couple very leery.

 

End result, we have met with this couple about 1/2 dozen times, either going to their neck of the woods or them coming to ours and we have a great swinging relationship with them now.

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Originally posted by JustAskJulie

How was your first experience was it good or was it bad?

 

If it was bad, what caused it? If it was good, what did you do in advance to help make it that way?

 

We had known this couple for a long time before we actually started swinging, and to me that made it all the better we already were comfortable with each other and nobody was nervous.

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I would have to say our first experience was a learning one and a stepping stone into the lifestyle. We met this couple, whom which we had had dinner and many conversations with, at their hotel. After having gone out to eat and stoppiog to pick up some refresments we went back to their hotel to start with some icebreakers. The woman ended up together as well as well as myself with the other couples wife. But it turns out he was having difficulty getting sparky to rise to the occasion. Turns out they had been visiting some of the local sites before we met that day and already enjoyed themselves in public. That left the misses feeling like she had missed out . At that point I promised her if she wanted to try swinging again I wouldn't try stopping her. ;):fun:

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Our first experience was a goody. Subsequent experiences have been better, but the first was still good. The people we chose to share it with were newbies like us, but they were sassy, knew what they wanted, and knew well in advance what their and our limits were.

 

What did we do to make it good? Communicated. The four of us talked lots, in person and via emails/messenger. By the time of the meeting, there were four people in the room who literally begging for it!!

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Our first experience was the best. However, we learned from that to know each other boundaries.

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It was horrible!! We had a ffm realtionship for about 6 months and after that was over, thought we might try a club and expand our boundries. We walked in the door and ran in to a couple I knew. I was very antsy as the last thing we wanted to do was run in to people we knew. Then I spilled a drink on my wife-she was wearing all white and I was drinking red wine. We were the youngest people in attendance and must have looked like fresh meat to all the old gappers. There was a woman at least 20 years my senior rubbing my chest while the couple sitting across the table from us were busy drooling over my wife. We hit the hottub and I knew right away the general was never going to stand at attention. I was nervous as hell but she was a champ and did her best to make me fell comfy, but alas to no avail. The crowd was lining up to take a shot at us and we beat feet it to a private room and were promptly followed by two other couples. A puanchy, balding, middle aged man was making a move on my wife and after a look from her that said nothing but "Ewww", we decided to call it a night. Of course when we got home we hit the sheets like a couple of rabbits. Go figure...

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Originally posted by autumn528

after a look from her that said nothing but "Ewww", we decided to call it a night. Of course when we got home we hit the sheets like a couple of rabbits. Go figure...

I think that you win first prize for the worst possible night! :( I hope that things go better for you in the future!

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Our first experience..... at least Maggies first experience. Was great! Abd involved not one couple, but two couples :)

 

Sorry I was already in the lifestyle, a long time before meeting her LOL. My first sucked :( But that was a long time ago.

 

We actually look forward to having more than 4 people in the room now days.

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Originally posted by autumn528

A puanchy, balding, middle aged man was making a move on my wife and after a look from her that said nothing but "Ewww", we decided to call it a night. Of course when we got home we hit the sheets like a couple of rabbits. Go figure...

:lol: I'm with Roxy, you definitely get first prize! I'm curious though, how old are you when you are considered an "old gapper"? :rofl:

 

Well, maybe not not laughing too hard....I may be an "old gapper"! ;)

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Age really wasn't the problem. Although most of the club consisted of people in their 50's. It was just disturbing to see naked men looking like they were wearing fur coats and having sex w/ people who looked like we should've been throwing 'em back in the water. Here's the funny thing: We figured it was just a bad night at the club-after all they must have both good and bad nights. Soooo, we went back a month later and it turned out that the first night we were there WAS a good night.

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Our first time was with friends we had known since h.s. We had boated, camped, played softball & volleyball and had been good friends for years. One evening after dancing and a few drinks, we ended up back at their house. Before the night was over we had full swing, and wife had her first passive bi experience. Wife and I had been married about 10 years and we had never discussed the idea.

 

Later in the evening they revealed that they had done it with other couples, most whom we knew. We had no idea. I guess we were kinda naive.

 

We live in a small community, and decided not to meet with that couple again, for fear of gossip. They were very understanding and never pushed the issue. We still see them from time to time, but no swinging.

 

Wife thought the other lady was too agressive, and told me I could have backed off. I reminded her that she never backed off, when she went down on her. We kinda laughed about it later.

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First off, hello to everyone. I'm not too new here (been reading posts since Feb.) I finally decided to reply :) My husband and I just had our first experience recently. It was good but not outstanding. After several months on a pay site and a few meetings that didn't pan out: we finally got up the nerve and asked a mutual friend. We felt that she was attracted to both of us, asked if she'd be interested and she said yes. The first time we got together we were all kind of nervous and were just mainly getting the hang of keeping everyone involved. Last weekend we met with her again for the second time and things were much more relaxed - no one felt left out. I must admit watching hubby with someone else for the first time was kind of strange (a mix of emotions: erotic but wierd). However, the second go 'round seemed much more natural. She and I really get along well, we have a lot in common and she is a wonderful lady so that bond really helped us talk to through the awkwardness...

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My first time was great. My husband and I talked to the couple alot via email and exchanged pics, then agreed to meet. WE played strip poker and ended up swapping partners and ended up being my first experience with another woman(which was great i loved it). When we got home we still had enough energy to have a great lovemakeing session of our own.

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Our first experience was VERY good. But we didn't consider ourselves swingers yet (Mostly becuse the term never crossed our mind).

 

We had a soft MFM with a friend of ours and we found it incredibly wild & hot.

 

It was over a year before we tried it again and that time was pretty good to. Although not quite as fun because he was pretty hammered, but it wasn't his fault. He didn't know what was coming and neither did we till nights end.

 

But it was after that we decided to become "Active" and looked into the swinger world.

 

We did some experimenting in the first year (This past year) to find what turned us on the most and where we got the most fullfillment & enjoyment out of swinging. We found it to be what got us into the swinging in the first place. MFMs. facelick

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oh well, i would like to share mine. It was a bad one :sad:

 

I have a freind who is really good in swinging as he have participated in many swinging/groupies before and he gladly invited me to go for a swingers party last year. It was a married couple we meet on the chat room, he managed to chat wt them arranged a meeting . So i managed to rope in a single girl whose seeking fun and of course two of us. So in total five of us decided to meet up in a place. we travelled few hundred miles and end up missing the whole meeting due to some bad miscommunications and arrived a bit late. Bearing in mind tht was our first meeting , we decided to persuade them to atleast meet up for a drinks but they refused to turn up. It was a bad day for me and my friend as we spend half a day travelling just to meet em up. So bad communication played a factor here. This teached me and my friend a lesson to be carefull in communicating with the people who we are going to meet. :(

 

 

This year i haven't found any luck yet, but i hope i will find someone very soon .

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Our first time actually doing more than just surfing internet ads was not a consummated swinging event. Don't know if that counts, but I feel that that was our first attempt at swinging. We made several mistakes. The only mistake we didn't make, I think, was to come up with a keyword to each let the other know "We're bailing. Now."

 

Our first mistakes were to agree to meet a couple at their house(#1)...for dinner (#2)...with their kids at home (#3). We had no idea how to weed through ads like we do now, and we ended up meeting a couple without seeing pictures of both of them, and not figuring in how important the stability of their relationship is. Nowadays, we simply won't play with a couple whose relationship isn't up to the challenge; we feel it's unethical and irresponsible. But anyway, we had dinner and it just wasn't clicking physically. The other husband was very disrespectful towards his wife, and her attitude wasn't much better ("If he's going to fuck around on me the least he can do is bring it home so I can get some fun out of it."). The interest on their part was very one-sided, and it came across to us that he didn't give much thought to his wife's pleasure, enjoyment or comfort level in the situation, so long as he got what he was after. So we bailed.

We were all newbies once. We all make mistakes.

 

Our first actual experience was great, but we stuck to soft swing. They were a more experienced couple and were awesome about the whole thing. Our first full swap was also terrific! We had a blast.

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The first meeting with a couple was a disaster. In person they were drastically different from how they came across through phone calls after initial email contact. Went home disappointed. :sad:

The next couple was GREAT and introduced us to a great group of friends.

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Our first exp was a soft swing situation with a male friend. This was hot. This led to an all out mfm which was the best. the both of learned to enjoy that situation (with that person) and still do to this day. That was 7 yrs ago. and he is still our friend.

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hi everybody. this is the first time we are actually posyting something on this site. our first experience was real mindblowing one reason could be that we played with a couple aho are actually very close friends. we have spent so much of time together that getting naughty was a matter of fact. we had discussed this thing between the four of us so many times that we never felt as first timers. we are looking forward to extend oue horizons. we promise to keep u guys posted.

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Our first experience was awesome. We had met for dinner a couple weeks before and we really clicked then. They wanted to play that night but I promised myself I didn't want to play the first night. So we invited them over a couple weeks later to spend the night and have whatever happens happen. It started off slow because we were both newbie couples but when someone (the other female) decided to make a move things moved very quickly from there. There were a couple things that we wanted to be careful of next time but it wasn't anything to lose sleep over.

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Our 1st was good, we meet some one from out of state for MMF. I was bi courious and we did play a bit. We did not know what boundries to set but he was polite and willing to stop if requested. He was not truthfull about his age and this was a slight turn off. Once play began it also became apparent that he was not as bi as he made him self out to be, but he did play; probably to keep up the apearence. I discovered that I did not take it well when he came, but have agreed to except it. She agreed that I could not come to terms watching her cuddle with some one else afterwards, and would no longer do this. In all if was a good experiance and have had 1 additional sense then. We just try to screen a little better now. I am no longer bi courious how ever, I am bi.

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Ours was just OK. Drew wasn't as attracted to Mrs. Playcouple as I was to Mr., but we weren't wise to (or discussed) the whole taking-one-for-the-team concept. Not that it was terrible, but having lots of great experiences to compare it to, the first experience certainly wasn't one for the record books.

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Our first experience was great, not perfect.

 

I joined AFF and read over the site for 1 month before showing it to my husband. After showing it to him, he was excited and suggested we register as couples. This action began the first night of many talks on Swinging. We researched all the words we could thing of to describe sex with other people other then spouse/partner. We spoke to people on AFF and joined a group. We did this from start to beginning for 3 months.

 

Then it was time for a greet n meet. Neither of us knew what was expected of us or if we could follow through. We have been with each other for 8 years. We have excellent communication, honesty and trust between us is awesome. There was no pressure from the people in the group to participate in sexual activities. In fact upwards of 100 people were to meet socially at a bar for dancing, drinking and meeting each other.

 

We got there and met 2 couples right away that we had an instant spark with. Such as same interest in hobbies, music and professions. It was great. We joked, danced, bought each other drinks and laughed together a lot. Then they dropped the bomb, " Do you want to go play back at the motel room?" I ignorantly asked, " Play what?" lol My husband and each of the 2 couples burst out laughing. I felt like an idiot. But yet, that was our big, "Ice Breaker" None of us were drunk either.

 

We had set our boundaries ahead of time and on the way to the motel, we went over them again. My husband reassured me that if I was uncomfortable, we would politely leave. As a teen, and pre-married adult, my husband had participated in group sex. I had participated in 3 separate threesomes which included BI favors. But still this was the first for us as a couple. These 2 couples had previously played together and the 1 couple we had seen post in the group.

 

We walked into the room and it was a spontaneous relaxing environment. The lady from the main couple shed her clothes and announced she was going to shower. I surprised myself by doing a strip-tease and getting in the shower with her. With some coaxing from us we got the other one in the shower. We 3 became familiar with each others bodies.

 

By the time we filed out and headed toward the bed , we were ready for each other. The 3 of us engaged in play and 1 by 1 the guys got involved.

 

This is where my perfect ends and the good comes in. Another man actually touching me? Could I handle this? I did not know.

 

My hubby was having a ball and gave me a look that said, "if you want to bail, let's go" One of the guys did not perform. He just likes to play and it turned out so did my hubby! Go figure. I thought he wanted penetration. He is str8 and so were the other 2 guys. But only 1 was into the penetration and he wanted me. Part of me was ready to run!!

 

I sat down in a chair and smoked a cigarette to calm my nerves. (that did not offend any one either as they also smoke ) He began to rub my feet and legs and talk to me. Eventually he had me melting in his hands. When he pulled me from the chair to the bed, i wanted to run again. He actually laid me next to his wife. She immediately took my hand and held it stroking the back of it with her finger tips. My husband was playing with her. That relaxed me again. 1) I knew he was there if I needed him and would stop anything that would hurt me, or if I said no to something. 2) The wife held my hand so lovingly, 3) The gentleman talked to me the whole way in such a loving and romantic way. It was as if we were all lovers, instead of here playing and having sex.

 

My husband left to play with the other lady and her husband came to play with the one next to me. She continued to hold my hand and stoke me and my "new lover" continued to talk to me and they both held me close when I orgasmed. The whole experience was erotic, romantic, and intensifying!

 

Afterwards everyone held each other for a little snuggling and talking. When it was time to leave by mutual agreement, we each hugged, kissed and exchanged #'s and plans for a future play date.

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Our "first time" was when Mrs. Nova hooked up with a mutual friend's wife. I had apparently neglected to tell her that while my fantasy was for her to have sex with a woman, I would, in fact, like to be in the room at the time.

 

So I got to sit outside a locked bedroom door listening to them. Not fun. :sad:

 

But she made up for it a hundred times over later!

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It was ok.

 

It was the first for the other couple too.  We had communicated quite a bit online and talked on the phone a few times before both traveling several hours to meet in the middle.  In person, the chemistry didn't turn out to be completely 4-way, and then there were some performance nerves with the other guy.  I've been there myself even after that, so totally understand it happens, but all of us being inexperienced didn't really give us the tools to know what to do about that and other things.

 

So, all in all, wasn't the best experience we've ever had, but it wasn't horrible either.  Just turned out to be what you would expect when you try something totally new and sort of off the charts, not great, but good enough that you knew this swinging thing had potential with a little more practice :)

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The question for me is what constituted my first swinging experience.  I broke up with my fiance and moved out, but we couldn't break it off, so we were still seeing each other and screwing (because we both had to get it from somewhere).  Was it when I met and started dating my future husband, and got so excited that I went back and fucked my ex?  Or when I started fucking my future husband while still fucking my ex?  Or when my future husband told me he knew about my ex and said he was OK with it?  The whole thing was great and made me feel powerful, wanted and loved.

 

Lots of people have multiple sex partners in the dating world, so maybe swinging started for me when hubby and Red and I had our first MFM.  It was fantastic.  It was the way I felt sex and relationships should be since even before puberty.  (In Catholic school, fourth grade, another girl asked what a "mistress" is.  The nun said obliquely it was a girlfriend to a married man.  I thought that that was cool and contemplated what it would be like to be a mistress or have a husband who had one.)

 

If "swinging" requires some sort of swap, then it would be when hubby and I started couples swapping with Lora and her boyfriend, Walter, who then got married but kept swapping with us.  It was fun, but I was more interested in Lora than Walter.  (Lora left Walter and joined our family.  She was more interested in hubby and me than Walter. ? )

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Our first swing experience was simply great.  We met the guy and his wife in Key West, just randomly, staying at the same hotel, all of us using the topless portion of the beach.  We went out with them and their friends one evening.  Later they contacted us and asked if we wanted to meet them, and when we asked, it was for some type of foursome or swap. Still just dating, not having even thought about swinging before we said no. A few months later, the male half of the couple again contacted us by text and said he would be in our city on business and invited us to meet him for drinks.  By this time, we had thoroughly discussed swinging and kind of mutually decide that my only starting point would be MFM, so I suppose I had that in the back of my mind as did my yet to be husband.  While, it happened, drinks in a hotel and then up to his room and I simply loved it.  Being adorned and pleasured by two men at once was totally my cup of tea.

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Our first experience wasn't horrible, but it wasn't that great for me (the male) either.

 

We went to a swing club and didn't get invited to play with anyone that night. (We met a numbers of couples, and played with some of them on subsequent nights.)

 

One couple invited us over to their home, (Mary was into him, to me she was just okay.) We went, and sat around for at least an hour, both Mary and I wondered what was going on. Then, I don't remember exactly how, it was agreed that Mary would go into the bedroom with him, I'd stay in the den with her. The other wife wasn't very receptive to foreplay - I don't believe she performed oral sex on me - but she did let me screw her in missionary. It was over very quickly.  Then, for the next forty-five minutes, I heard my wife whooping it up with the other husband, while I felt I had to sit there with the other wife.

 

Was it terrible? No, I got laid. My wife had a wonderful time. We learned a lot. Our first experience was over, we quickly had much better times with other couples.

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      They give you a phone number. A city two hours away. They are a better than average couple.  No heavy weights. He is bi, she is straight. Your are 24.  They are 33 and 35.  You haven't tried bisexuality before, but your heart is racing now, anticipating something new, something erotic...your first threesome.
       
      You call the number. The wife answers and you give them the phony last name that you made up on the letter, and they give you the phony last name that they made up.  It's part of the game.   You banter nervously. They ask questions. You ask questions.  "What do you enjoy?"  "Do you like anal?"  "Do you like cum in your mouth?"  It doesn't matter.  If they said that they were going to cut your throat afterward, you would still go.  You are hooked. You set up a weekend meet at a motel at their location. King-size bed. Hard to explain to the motel clerk why you are asking for a king-size bed.  They don't ask. They've seen it all.
       
      The husband picks you up at the motel. Nice guy. Personable. Not his first rodeo. He drives you to their place, which is a surprise, but you are so nervous that you don't remember the address or how to get there. You go in. You meet the wife and son. She doesn't disappoint.  She is a looker. The teenage son is off to a friend's place and you are just someone going to a party with his parents. He doesn't know that you will be soon fucking his mother.  After the son leaves, they show you photos of their past swinging adventures.  If you had doubts, then now you are sure that this isn't their first rodeo.  Your cock or your mind. Both are about to explode.
       
      They follow you back to the hotel room that you rented.  Locked door, "Do not Disturb" sign.
       
      She kisses her husband and it starts. The disrobing. You are nervous. What to do first. Follow their lead and try not to appear overbearing or demanding.  She's on the bed, and he dives into a mouthful of vaginal bliss. You nervously start kissing her, massaging her breast, kissing her nipples.  Then you get on your knees and present your mediocre cock for her to devour.  She doesn't hesitate.  She has your cock buried down her throat while the husband buries his tongue in her bush.  The husband comes up for air, and moves to her breast, teasing.  You move to the holy of holies.  You lick, suck, and drink in the juices, probing with deep tongue thrusts, tasting the walls of her vaginal cavity while she is licking the husband's cock. Your member is not much different than his. You are relieved.  
       
      The position changes. She lays on her side. He enters her vagina from the rear, leaving her clitoris exposed. She discussed this with you on the phone.  Licking her while her husband fucks.  You go down and start to lick that clitoris, less than a inch from the pounding cock. You remember that he is bi. He wants this. You hesitantly reach up, and start to cradle his jewels, all the time her juices mingles with the fleshy taste of cock.  You can't bring yourself to put his cock in your mouth, so you go on licking the clit and fondling the balls until he grunts and fills her with cum.  He withdraws. You switch position.  His cum lubricates her vagina.  There is nothing sloppy about these seconds. You pound her while he licks and returns the favor of cradling your balls.  He doesn't suck you off, not sure if you will be offended. It doesn't matter he says. They just love fucking.  
       
      You release your semen into her, and you all relax, sitting and talking while a double load of cum streams from her pussy. You regret what the hotel maids will have to clean up. She pees. Returns. The ritual starts again. This time the cunnilingus is mixed with unfamiliar flavors. His cum. Your cum.  You don't give a fuck.  The thrill of the three-way has over ridden any social mores that you were raised with.
       
      More sex. More bi touching. This time you pull out and shoot your cum over her.  With that baptism, the holy rites have been completed. There are photos and kisses given. Promises of future sex.
       
      This was your first threesome.
    • By C3po
      This all started around forty years ago when my wife Beth and I had dated for a few years then married. It wasn't long after we married that I introduced her to her first big realistic porn star dildo.  When she first saw it she laughed and said, "That'll never fit in my pussy, are you nuts?!" But she agreed to trying and found not only did it fit but she really enjoyed it. She was amazed by how much she enjoyed it.  So much so that she requested I use it on her quite a lot. She also discovered she enjoyed big cock porn, she was fascinated by it. Soon was I combining using a huge dildo on her at the same time she watched big cock porn, this led her to experience huge orgasms. She couldn't get enough. She was finally exploring her sexuality and expanding her outlook on sexual pleasure.
       
      One night after some really hot sex I  questioned her if she ever fantasized about fucking other men, especially well-hung men. She responded that of course she did, stated that most women had this fantasy, and she believed it was quite common. So I pursued it further and asked her if she wanted to try another man's cock and how much did she really desire to do it? She said that it sounded exciting and fun but she would never do anything to endanger our marriage. I said,  "What if I told you that I wanted to watch you have sex with another man, one that had a really big cock. Would you then consider it?" She laughed and said she'd be game if it was something I was serious about and really wanted her to do. She said, "Come on, let's be real. It's exciting and fun to imagine it, but to really do it? Please! That's a major game changer."
       
      So I said, "I'm very serious. I've watched the way you enjoy the dildos especially while watching big cock videos. It turns me on big time seeing how excited you get and how many times you climax from doing these two things at the same time. I want to watch you do it for real. No BS, just watching you getting slammed by a big cock would be a huge turn-on for me. So what do you really think now that you know that I'm serious and am giving you this opportunity?"
       
      I could see her giving it some serious thought, she didn't get mad or upset at me or the idea, no resistance whatsoever to my request.  The more she considered the idea the more it appeared to me that she was very intrigued with the idea and it excited her.
       
      She started asking all kinds of questions, like wouldn't I be jealous, or think the worst of her, or what if she really enjoyed it and wanted more or didn't feel comfortable screwing another man, then what? Were there any rules and what were the consequences? Was I absolutely sure that I really wanted her to do this, because once done there was no going back!
       
      After she finished asking everything she had concerns about I answered all her questions and we talked about the rules/boundaries we would have in place to keep it fun and exciting without any reservations or guilt. This was to make sure she fully understood my concerns and alleviate all of hers as well. It seemed she came to a decision at which point she smiled and enthusiastically said yes, she'd do it! Did I have someone special in mind she wondered? She said she had to agree to my choices for her sexual escapades or it wasn't gonna happen.
       
       I then informed her I was thinking of Bruce. Beth squealed with glee, she admitted she has had fantasies about Bruce for some time now and I couldn't have picked a better choice for her first time. She would absolutely love to fuck Bruce. She said she was getting wet thinking about sex with him.
       
      A few days later I met up with Bruce for an after work drink. As we enjoyed several drinks we talked a lot. Soon I steered the conversation towards my wife Beth. I asked  Bruce to be honest and tell me what he thought about Beth. He admitted he thought Beth was smokin' hot. She had a killer body and was just gorgeous, always was friendly, and liked flirting with him when they were together. I asked him if he' ever had the chance would he consider having sex with her? He looked a bit concerned by my question but answered yes, he wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of such an opportunity. So I told him that Beth really wanted to have sex with him, and that I was okay with them hooking up. I explained that was my kink watching her get fucked by other men, it really turned me on. Bruce considered it for several minutes then said okay sure, he'd love to fuck Beth. Just give him the details when we're ready to make it happen.
       
      When I got home I told Beth about my conversation with Bruce and what he said. She looked startled and said she couldn't believe I did that. So I asked her if what I did was so wrong and did she still want to go through with it? She excitedly said Oh hell yes she did, and no I wasn't wrong! So we made plans and set a date for Beth's first cock. 
       
      The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight.
       
      Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show.
       
      Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge.
       
      They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left.
       
      Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
    • By Falcon88
      My wife and I have been together for almost 25 years. Through out the years sex has been fantastic. No complaints on either side. We are very faithful and never cheated on each other.
       
      Then one day two years ago we were having a few drinks and watching porn. We watch all kinds of porn. That night we were watching some really good gangbangs. Curiously, I turn to my wife and asked her if she ever thought about swinging and group sex. If it ever crossed her mind. Surprisingly, she looked at me and said she’s been thinking about it for while. So we ended up talking about swinging and group sex for hours. We got online and read stories on experiences about swinging and group sex. The pros and cons. It turned me on taking about it but at the same time I got a crazy feeling in my stomach. Nerves I guess.
       
      So to make a very long story short we ended up having an open marriage and took up swinging. We both decided to have (safe) sex with other people until we felt comfortable on having our first group sex. All this took very long planning and preparing, especially mentally.
       
      Finally last November we planned out her first group sex. We carefully selected three familiar friends to join in the fun. Of course they decided to do it and agreed on our rules.
       
      So, it finally happened that November night. I really enjoyed watching my wife get screwed by more than one man. She had the time of her life. She had multiple orgasms one after another. The crazy feeling never left my stomach but I really enjoyed watching though. After the guys left we kicked back and talked about our experience. Then we go back about agreeing on what we’re doing and never to do it without the other knowing. We keep an oath of trust. Every time we have a date with someone we let each other know. It’s always planned out days in advance so it will never interfere with our personal lives. We have a great understanding.
       
      Since last November she’s been involved in several group sex averaging 3-4 guys each time. Of course I joined in most of the time. Lots of lube is needed. But now she wants to go a little further. She wants to do a gangbang of 6-8 guys. Seriously.
       
      Lately she’s been playing with large toys to get her vagina ready. She wants to try double-vaginal penetration. I’ve been preparing her by inserting a dildo in her while I’m inside. Very carefully with lots of lube. We practice every time we have sex. She even carefully inserts a large thick toy in her vagina while watching a movie and keeps it in there. Yes, our sexual curiosities has increased tremendously. My wife wants to explore even more and I’m all in.
       
      Well the day we both have been looking forward too occurred this past weekend. We managed to round up 7 guys for an all night gangbang. It involved a lot of planning and phone calls. We’ve noticed that guys will be all in at first then drop out later. But eventually we got things going. That night when everyone arrived she was kinda nervous but excited to have that many cocks at once. Most of all, she finally had double penetration in her vagina from two guys for the first time. The strange thing I seemed more nervous than her. Lol But she absolutely enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed watching her. She came hard many times. She doesn’t like anal so that wasn’t attempted.
       
      So after joining in all the fun and after almost two hours of great sex we had the grand finale. My sexy wife knelt down and we all gave her an awesome bukkake. Her face was drenched with cum. It was one heck of a hot night. After everyone left we took a long shower and stayed up almost all night talking about it. We were both so turned on that we were already making plans for the next one. But we are gonna take a break for about three weeks. It’s just going to be me and her for now.
       
      Yesterday she mentioned about having a messy cum sex in the near future after watching a great creampie movie. I was like, a messy cum sex? She asked me what I would think about her having a messy gooey bukkake and creampie night. Having about 4 guys cum all over her face while 4 guys cum inside her. Then rubbing the cum all over her breasts. Man, just listening to her drove me crazy. My wife was willing to be explosive. But that would take lots of planning because we are very cautious. My wife cannot get pregnant anymore so that’s really something we don’t have to worry about. It’s about the unprotected sex. We do know many cool friends well enough that we can trust but still we must remain careful. Yet, I’m sure it’s gonna happen very soon.
       
      I’ve been asked if we have taken it too far. If there’s actually any sign of regrets. Some close friends wonder about my wife wanting too much now. Our answer is no because we enjoy it and have a deep understanding and trust. We are responsible adults and are having fun. We first talk about what we’re going to do and have to both agree 100%. Any sign of doubt from either side we will not do it. We are friends with our sex partners but no feelings are involved or ever shared. We have proven that to ourselves already.
    • By AdamGunn2
      It was a fairly typical night at D.J.s Island, an early autumn evening. Mary and I hadn’t set anything up in advance, we’d decided to go almost at the last moment. From the second we entered the door our radar was beaming across the club, searching for a couple that might be searching for what we were also interested in - an enjoyable tryst.
       
      Mary took a few minutes to change into what she called a ‘trolling outfit.’ As I remember, that night it was a black babydoll with a loose bodice, thong, low heels. Many men admired her legs as I checked the forty or so women, many as scantily clad as my wife. None of our regular playmates seemed to be in attendance that evening, but we had our customs, we weren’t concerned. Perhaps an hour and a half later, I sat at a table next to the dance floor, Mary was on her feet, on the parquet, moving her body, seeing if anyone would move in. A slow sequence of men approached her, danced with her. Some would take liberties such as moving their hands under her garment, feeling the small of her back, perhaps place their palm on the roundness of her ass.
       
      I’d seen this many times before, I waited for one of two reactions.
       
      The first was that she’d spin away from the man; it signified she wasn’t interested in what he had to offer.
       
      The second was that she’d get closer, I’d watch her whisper in his ear. I knew the question, “Where’s your wife?” Some of them would shake their heads, they were attending as one of the few single men the club allowed, and when they received Mary’s response, they’d move away - that’s not what we were looking for at the moment.
       
      But the man might indicate where his wife was dancing a few feet away. When this kind of thing happened, Mary would glance to me and give our special signal - she’d put one hand on the back of her head, one on her stomach. When I got the cue, I’d come out, we’d dance as a foursome.
       
      As I approached, a man grasped the elbow of a tall attractive lady who was more modestly dressed, at least for the club. There was no conversation on the dance floor, the heavy volume of music and the thumping of the bass wouldn’t allow for speech. But I could tell the woman was interested in me, the four of us paired off and I often found myself facing this vixen. It was obvious they were as interested in us as I was in them, I could tell by the way Mary was rubbing against the man that she felt the same.
       
      After a couple of songs, Mary led the way off the floor, holding his hand, leading us off into a corner away from the speakers. As we sat, the man said, “I’m Ed, this is my wife, Marilyn.”
       
      Marilyn and I softly shook hands, I believe she raised the hem of her skirt to give me a view of her upper thighs. Ed had no problem seeing Mary’s legs, or where they met - she was sitting so that the babydoll was gathered to her side, leaning forward so her globes were exposed to his view.
       
      “Do you come here often?” Ed asked.
       
      “Every few weeks,” I responded, “you?”
       
      “This is our first time here.” Mary gave him a look that asked for further info. “We’re just starting this,” he admitted.
       
      Marilyn picked it up. “We’ve only had one time with a couple of friends. We liked it, heard about this place, decided to see if we could get into more trouble.”
       
      “Trouble’s our middle name,” I joked.
       
      Our conversation continued, where do you live, what movies have you seen lately, etc. It was a screen, of course, we were all calculating if the four of us would be pleasurable bedmates. I paid my attention to Marilyn, my wife had told me numerous times not to worry about her, she can take care of herself. My hand found Marilyn’s knee, she smiled at me, encouraged me to reach a tad higher. We bent towards each other, our mouths met.
       
      Marilyn opened her lips to me, the kiss was ardent, her mouth moist. She licked at my upper lip, her hand fondled the back of my neck. Our tongues clashed, promising cupidity, mimicking what I presumed our bodies might be doing in a few scant moments.
       
      We broke for a moment, Marilyn invited, “Would you guys want to go to one of the rooms?”
       
      I, of course, was all for it, but then I heard Mary. “Uh, not right now. But thanks.”
       
      We’ve always had the guideline that if one person doesn’t want to do something, she speaks for both of us. Regretfully, I pecked at Marilyn’s lips a last time, we stood, went separate ways.
       
      “You’re not upset, are you?” Mary asked me.
       
      “Of course not, not at all. You’re not in the mood?”
       
      “Oh, I’m in the mood all right, just not with Ed.”
       
      “Something wrong with him?” I asked.
       
      “I tried to get him interested,” Mary revealed, “but his kiss was a little cold, indifferent. I put my hand on his leg, he was too busy watching you and Marilyn, he never responded. My guess is that if we went into a room, he’d be watching you two, I’m not even sure he’d get hard for me.” It was a reasonable thought, it had happened to us a couple times before. “Hope you don’t mind, bet she’d have been a firecracker.”
       
      “Maybe. But you’re a firecracker too.”
       
      We headed back to the dance floor, in search of another couple.
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