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I first brought up the idea of introducing others to our sex life about 4 years ago after a role playing session just made something click inside me. At the time she thought we should just keep it in our fantasy world. Fast forward ahead about a year, upon finding Facebook and reconnecting with several old high school friends she connected with her first real boyfriend who she hadn’t seen or talked to in over 15 years. She comes to find out that he and his wife have just entered the lifestyle and he would very much like to initiate us.

 

This ex was the first guy to ever play with her boobs or finger her. They did lots of heavy petting, including mutual masturbation, but no actual sex, oral or otherwise. He and his wife live in the same area she grew up in which is about 180 miles away from where we live now.

 

This excited me very much and she was intrigued by the idea. When she learned they were members of Adult Friend Finder we were able to find their profile and emailed them as an anonymous couple. For a week she teased him including putting up faceless nude pictures for them to see. Once she came clean with him and let him know it was her we continued chatting with them including a video chat session where we watched them have sex. He was very much still attracted to her. I told my wife this was the perfect couple to break into the lifestyle with. She was comfortable with him I found his wife attractive and the feelings were mutual.

 

We had a trip planned to the area for a family gathering and they asked us, while we were there, to come by for a visit and maybe more. We planned on going right up to the day but my wife got too nervous and we backed out. So she still hasn’t seen this guy in person for 20 years.

 

That was two years ago. After that my wife and him keep in contact off and on through Facebook with the occasional reference to sexual memories and how he and his wife were progressing in the lifestyle. My interest in swinging never died off and I would bring it up now and again over the last two years. She would claim to be interested in being with a woman and a MFM threesome really appeals to her. But her issue is with jealousy when thinking about me being with another woman.

 

I’ve encouraged the MFM fantasy for a while and then yesterday happened. During a chat on Facebook with the ex he asked if she/we were still interested in the lifestyle or if it was just a phase. She told him about my continued interest and her issue with jealousy that has kept us out. He suggested a MFM threesome and he’d love to be the second M. I asked her what she thought and she told me she was open to it. When she told me about this I encouraged her to talk more about it with him. It turns out that he says he and his wife do play occasionally alone.

 

So this morning after sleeping on it we talked about it and my wife thinks that even though her ex is not the most attractive possibility, that the comfort level with him will be more important. And I also know she is a bit curious as to what it would be like to have sex with him after all this time. So we agreed to proceed with this guy with the following plan. First my wife is going to let him know we are interested in having him as the third for our first MFM threesome. But before that happens she wants to talk to his wife to make sure she knows what’s going on and that his wife approves. Also my wife wants to chat, talk, and meet non-sexually with him before we get down to the actual threesome meeting.

 

I’m extremely excited about the looming possibility of taking our first step into the lifestyle. I’m just wondering what everyone thinks of this scenario and if we’re approaching it correctly or if we are making any mistakes. Sorry this was so long I just wanted to give everyone a glimpse of how we got here.

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I am one that usually cautions against meeting a friend for a first time experience in the lifestyle, but this is different for a few reasons:

 

While this is a friend, and old flame it is just that....OLD. The sparks that existed were 15 years ago and those embers have long been extinguished. If it were a recent ex, that would be a red flag for sure.

 

You are doing the right thing by having her talk with his wife about it, meeting first in a non sexual way and placing her comfort first.

 

I think you guys have some great communication, but you will both want to be the devils advocate and ask each other how you feel about

 

Kissing?

What if he is bigger?

What if he is smaller?

Better performer or maybe more experienced or talented?

Condoms?

Boundaries? What lines do you NOT want to cross?

 

 

This is a very short list but will help get you thinking of other things.

 

Best of luck and be sure to update everyone.

 

Kyle

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Welcome to the board. There are plenty of people who will tell you that exes and friends are not the way to go, and plenty of others who have made it work. One thing I would caution you about. Don't assume that her jealousy will go away just because she wants to have sex with her potential partner.

 

Hope all goes well in whatever adventures you may share!

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To quote you:

This ex was the first guy to ever play with her boobs or finger her. They did lots of heavy petting, including mutual masturbation, but no actual sex, oral or otherwise. He and his wife live in the same area she grew up in which is about 180 miles away from where we live now.

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It is erotic to hear and think about past history. We have done that and some of our best sex follows. However, 180 miles and reconnecting with an old flame would be to close and too dangerous for us. Personally we believe there is a better way for your first time. However that is just our opinion and we will not have to live with the possible:trainwreck: that may follow.

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I suggest that you make sure you are a part of every step of this process. Although your wife tells the ex you are on board, he has no way of being sure of this unless he hears your voice.

 

You and your wife should go together to meet him and his wife. I don't think your wife should meet with the other wife alone. In fact, it seems it would be a good thing if your next First Step would be for all four people to meet. This way you know exactly what is said by the ex and his wife, rather than your wife trying to report back to you. It's very hard to remember everything that is being said during a meeting, so it would be an advantage to your wife and you to be in every conversation and meeting together. How you each preceive this couple's body language and responses may be different.

 

Good luck with this.

 

LM

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You be the teacher and we'll be the student on this one. We all learn from each other on the Swingers Board.

 

Please keep us informed and continue posting. At this point I see no right or wrong, you guys are very self informative and show great communication, to say the least.

 

And by the way, welcome back to the board :)

 

 

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We were in the lifestyle for a year or two, when the very same thing happened to us. We had maintained close contact (but long dist) with some non lifestyle, high school/college buddies that live several hundred miles away. We never played with them when we were younger. But we found out that they always had the hots for us, and us for them! We ended up meeting them and playing with them. Since that time we have gotten together many more times and started full swapping with them. It's awesome!

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So far, no major red flags popping up. I think LikeMinds321 is absolutely correct; the meeting should be all four of you. Everybody will be a much greater ease and comfort if you do.

 

I'd also caution that there be no expectation beyond the proposed MFM. Make that clear to yourselves and to the other couple. Everything is step by step.

 

Also, ENCRYPTEDTX is quite right; discuss every angle of this before doing it. The first time has lots and lots of unknowns. Talk with your wonderful wife about all these subjects and more.

 

As lustylearning pointed out, stock advice usually is don't make playmates out of friends. I too don't think the stock advice applies here.

 

What I'm reading into this is you are happy to move along at a faster pace than your wife. There's nothing wrong with that. But, the stock advice in that regards applies in spades; always go at the pace of the slowest. Certainly do not push your wife. Just open doors. If she chooses to walk through them, then great. If she doesn't, then great. But, don't get disappointed if she doesn't. It's all part of the journey. Don't get your expectations incredibly high either. Just enjoy what comes.

 

Remember, remember, remember; you're in this TOGETHER.

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So far, no major red flags popping up. I think LikeMinds321 is absolutely correct; the meeting should be all four of you. Everybody will be a much greater ease and comfort if you do.

 

I'd also caution that there be no expectation beyond the proposed MFM. Make that clear to yourselves and to the other couple. Everything is step by step.

 

Also, ENCRYPTEDTX is quite right; discuss every angle of this before doing it. The first time has lots and lots of unknowns. Talk with your wonderful wife about all these subjects and more.

 

As lustylearning pointed out, stock advice usually is don't make playmates out of friends. I too don't think the stock advice applies here.

 

What I'm reading into this is you are happy to move along at a faster pace than your wife. There's nothing wrong with that. But, the stock advice in that regards applies in spades; always go at the pace of the slowest. Certainly do not push your wife. Just open doors. If she chooses to walk through them, then great. If she doesn't, then great. But, don't get disappointed if she doesn't. It's all part of the journey. Don't get your expectations incredibly high either. Just enjoy what comes.

 

Remember, remember, remember; you're in this TOGETHER.

 

Absolutely, I would however disagree with the "list" ENCRYPTEDTX yes there are generalities that need to be worked out, whats in, whats out.. but worrying about being bigger, smaller, better or worse..

 

Bottom line, and the only red flag I see, is the meeting between the ex, and your wife.. even if its supposed to be non sexual. Be there, for support, and to make sure this is a person YOU want to invite into your bedroom or share your loved one with.

 

I do not care if its 15, 20, or 50 years later, there is an unspoken question in your wifes mind.. If as you say they never actually did anything beyond heavy petting, the question of what He is like in bed has swirled her brain at least once or twice.. The trip and nerves .. it happens..

 

There is an unspoken component that hasnt been addressed by the rest of the posters.

 

In a perfect world and I might wonder if its not lurking in the back of your brain.. The concept of fair is fair, or whats good for the goose..

 

Her frank statement about jealousy needs to be worked out. Sure, granting her fantasy, might lead to a relaxation of her attitude concerning this, but, it might not. It does suggest a small insecurity concerning the relationship you have, perhaps because of a previous expereince, I dunno, its an unspoken thing, but it needs to be discussed and she needs to be re assured of your feelings for her. Once of the things I always tell newbies is, be sure to explain regardless of what happens during the evening, at the end of the night, you are still going home together.. your relationship is first and foremost, enjoy sex, is like enjoying a great game of ______ (insert whatever team sport here) its done for mutual enjoyment and pleasure.

 

I may be way off base, and concerned over something that doesnt need to be, but, I believe as was pointed out, cover all the bases.

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First I want to thank everyone for their advice it is much appreciated. I guess in my original post I wasn’t clear that our plan was for both of us to meet with him once before anything sexual occurs. The meeting is as much for me as it is for my wife since I have never met him before.

 

Also it has been mentioned that there be no expectation beyond the proposed MFM on my part. I can assure you that I have none. I am very voyeuristic by nature so a leading motivation for swinging with me all along has been seeing her with another man. But I understand completely that this something we’re in together and I will heed the advice given to move at the pace of the slowest, to not push for things, and to let her find her own way.

 

Also I have an update. We chatted with him yesterday, just some general swinging chat, asking him about his experience level with MFM threesomes, etc. His answer to my wife’s question of what happens if someone gets cold feet really put a lot of her fears to rest. He told her if that happens then we just stop with no hard feelings. That he has experienced that situation before and everyone left as friends. This really did make her feel more comfortable.

 

We decided to talk some more on our own before extending the offer to join us for a threesome and we’ve done that today. She is quite nervous about another man touching her (we’ve been married for 15 years) and at the same time excited to be fulfilling a fantasy. We’ve agreed that we are ready to proceed and invite him to join us. We’re taking a long weekend trip away starting tomorrow and we’re going to talk to him on Monday when we get back. I will keep everyone updated.

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His answer to my wife’s question of what happens if someone gets cold feet really put a lot of her fears to rest. He told her if that happens then we just stop with no hard feelings. That he has experienced that situation before and everyone left as friends. This really did make her feel more comfortable.

 

One of the most common, basic, fundamental rules of swinging is "No means no". No can be said at ANYtime, ANYplace. You can even be in the act of having sex with someone, with both of you close to orgasm and decide NO, voice it, and be done. The only time you CAN'T say no is after something has happened. All you can do at that point is choose to learn from the experience.

 

Nobody...NOBODY...should feel they must do something out of expectations placed by other people. Your wife should never, ever feel obligated to do anything she doesn't want to do herself, even if this other fellow wants it, even if you want it, even if she agreed to it before.

 

We all reserve the right to change our minds at any moment, for any reason, and walk away.

 

My wife and I have a hard and fast rule about this (though it's never been invoked by either of us): If for any reason one of us wants to pull the plug, we voice it. The other will agree and leave together, without challenge or question. We can then talk about it after we're out of the situation. This rule is very important; it's empowering. We both maintain control over any given situation, and both respect each other's wishes. That rule was in place the first time we swung, and has remained in place since. It's never been invoked because we've been having too much fun :blush:

 

Just some general advice, not really asked for but adding this in...

 

This wasn't an obstacle to us swinging, but my wife had difficulty wrapping her head around the idea that I actively wanted her to have sex with other men, and would greatly enjoy watching her do so. She doesn't have a problem with me having sex with other women, but she doesn't extract much vicarious pleasure from it. Also, it took lots of support and patience for her to feel comfortable enough to voice to me that she was sexually attracted to someone else. Your wife may encounter (or has) similar feelings.

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I have an update for everyone. We have taken the next step towards our first MFM threesome. We have asked him if he’d be interested in joining us and of course he said yes. So we are set to meet with him for dinner and drinks the next time he is in our area, which is a week from Friday. He also told us that he has gotten the green light from his wife to join us. Now we haven’t confirmed this with her yet but we feel comfortable moving ahead with this get to know (for me) and get reacquainted (for my wife) dinner. Of course if things go well the next thing will be to talk to her directly to make sure she’s onboard with this proceeding to the next step.

 

One other thing, as a surprise for my wife I purchased “Between a Cock and a Hard Place” DVD for us to watch together. She had asked to see some MFM porn to get ideas for when we actually have our MFM. We watched it over the weekend and it really got her heated up. She got so worked up that we used her Jack Rabbit vibrator as a “third person”. Also she got the idea of texting him while we did all this. It was very exciting for everyone and made for a really memorable night.

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(him) Well I'll chime in here and say I'm not 100% sure an old flame, no matter how old is a good way to go, let alone a good way to start out.

 

Don't know and maybe it's just me but if she came to me and wanted to play with an old flame I'd be a tad leery of it and I'm pretty sure she would say the same thing. There's an emotional past (link) there and more times than not I have seen emotional links cause issues between couples that swing.

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I have an update for everyone. We have taken the next step towards our first MFM threesome. We have asked him if he’d be interested in joining us and of course he said yes. So we are set to meet with him for dinner and drinks the next time he is in our area, which is a week from Friday. He also told us that he has gotten the green light from his wife to join us. Now we haven’t confirmed this with her yet but we feel comfortable moving ahead with this get to know (for me) and get reacquainted (for my wife) dinner. Of course if things go well the next thing will be to talk to her directly to make sure she’s onboard with this proceeding to the next step.

 

One other thing, as a surprise for my wife I purchased “Between a Cock and a Hard Place” DVD for us to watch together. She had asked to see some MFM porn to get ideas for when we actually have our MFM. We watched it over the weekend and it really got her heated up. She got so worked up that we used her Jack Rabbit vibrator as a “third person”. Also she got the idea of texting him while we did all this. It was very exciting for everyone and made for a really memorable night.

 

(her) Is it just me or does something just not sit right here?

 

You start out with an "old flame" of hers (sounds like a coulda, woulda, shoulda) and his wife and now you're talking MFM. What happened to the wife?

 

This whole situation screams 'major fishy' to me. Not trying to play devils advocate but this does not sound like the best scenario for a good outcome.

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(her) Is it just me or does something just not sit right here?

 

You start out with an "old flame" of hers (sounds like a coulda, woulda, shoulda) and his wife and now you're talking MFM. What happened to the wife?

 

This whole situation screams 'major fishy' to me. Not trying to play devils advocate but this does not sound like the best scenario for a good outcome.

 

 

I'm certain there's nothing fishy going on. We've been in this together from the start. The idea of a traditional swap involving both wives was abandoned a few years ago and my wife has been very up front all along about her jealousy issues.

 

I have excepted her limits and out of that was born the idea of the MFM threesome. The constant is just the same guy and I have been the one to push for him, not her, in fact I had to work at showing her why I felt he's the right one.

 

I have told her that for the first time I think someone she's comfortable with would yield the best outcome. That's why I've pushed for him since he is experienced and, she's familiar and comfortable with him.

 

Thanks bi4me2 (her) and everyone for your comments and advice.

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You talked initially about swinging as a couple and that seemed to get both your motors running. Now she's claiming jealousy over sharing you with her old bf's wife. I think she may simply be selfish. What she may want is to complete unfinished business with the high school sweetie leaving your desire for some variety and spice just dangling in the breeze. I'd insist on the couples meeting first and when you do, seriously discuss a foursome. While in that discussion, observe and try to get handle on your wife's true motives. You may be in for an unpleasant surprise.

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We met with him on Friday night for drinks and dinner. Everything went great. We spent a few hours catching up on my wife’s part and getting to know each other on my part. My wife was very at ease and as comfortable with him after 20 years of no face to face contact as she is with our regular friends. And we were both surprised how comfortable I was. Normally I am very quite and reserved around people I just met but not this time.

 

On the ride home I asked how she felt and she said that she felt comfortable but needed some time to think if he is the one and if she is ready. She texted with him during the ride home about what we thought and what he thought and it seemed like everyone was ready. :D Once we got home that night we had a great sex session with no mention of the threesome, which was a surprise to me but I just followed her lead.

 

Saturday was full of family activities for us so there was very little mention of the next step. After last night’s sleep we talked this morning and she told me that she is ready to proceed. So we texted him and worked out the scheduling and we are set to meet for the threesome on the last weekend of September. I wish it was sooner :( but our schedules just didn’t match up until then. After the texting ended I asked her if she was nervous now we have a date set and she claimed that no she wasn’t because she could still call it off at this point. But for now let the anticipation begin. I have been walking around with a semi-hard-on all day long and I can’t keep my hands off of her.

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With the exception of the other wife, sounds good so far. Maybe I missed something on the other wife. Is she in the loop and up to date?

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Sorry to take so long to get back to everyone. Well do to scheduling problems on both our part and his we never did meet with the wife's old boyfriend. But last Saturday night we did have our first MFM threesome and it was good. My wife had a good time and for me, getting to finally watch her with another guy was even better than I had fantasized about. :splooge: I will be posting an account of that evening under the First Time Experiences section soon for those who are interested.

 

This is going to sound bad but since getting involved in searching for other potential partners my wife had realized she can do better than her ex and really has no interest in meeting him at all now. So as things have turned out we just weren't meant to meet up with him. I want to thank everyone for their advice throughout this thread.

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Well, I have to say this "solution" sounds better than the plan.

 

Basically you both got what you were looking for, that being an MFM, and you didn't have to deal with the issues of stirring up an old relationship.

 

And you had plenty of discussion along the way, hopefully dealing somewhat with the jealousy she has in terms of you being with someone else.

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      The position changes. She lays on her side. He enters her vagina from the rear, leaving her clitoris exposed. She discussed this with you on the phone.  Licking her while her husband fucks.  You go down and start to lick that clitoris, less than a inch from the pounding cock. You remember that he is bi. He wants this. You hesitantly reach up, and start to cradle his jewels, all the time her juices mingles with the fleshy taste of cock.  You can't bring yourself to put his cock in your mouth, so you go on licking the clit and fondling the balls until he grunts and fills her with cum.  He withdraws. You switch position.  His cum lubricates her vagina.  There is nothing sloppy about these seconds. You pound her while he licks and returns the favor of cradling your balls.  He doesn't suck you off, not sure if you will be offended. It doesn't matter he says. They just love fucking.  
       
      You release your semen into her, and you all relax, sitting and talking while a double load of cum streams from her pussy. You regret what the hotel maids will have to clean up. She pees. Returns. The ritual starts again. This time the cunnilingus is mixed with unfamiliar flavors. His cum. Your cum.  You don't give a fuck.  The thrill of the three-way has over ridden any social mores that you were raised with.
       
      More sex. More bi touching. This time you pull out and shoot your cum over her.  With that baptism, the holy rites have been completed. There are photos and kisses given. Promises of future sex.
       
      This was your first threesome.
    • By C3po
      This all started around forty years ago when my wife Beth and I had dated for a few years then married. It wasn't long after we married that I introduced her to her first big realistic porn star dildo.  When she first saw it she laughed and said, "That'll never fit in my pussy, are you nuts?!" But she agreed to trying and found not only did it fit but she really enjoyed it. She was amazed by how much she enjoyed it.  So much so that she requested I use it on her quite a lot. She also discovered she enjoyed big cock porn, she was fascinated by it. Soon was I combining using a huge dildo on her at the same time she watched big cock porn, this led her to experience huge orgasms. She couldn't get enough. She was finally exploring her sexuality and expanding her outlook on sexual pleasure.
       
      One night after some really hot sex I  questioned her if she ever fantasized about fucking other men, especially well-hung men. She responded that of course she did, stated that most women had this fantasy, and she believed it was quite common. So I pursued it further and asked her if she wanted to try another man's cock and how much did she really desire to do it? She said that it sounded exciting and fun but she would never do anything to endanger our marriage. I said,  "What if I told you that I wanted to watch you have sex with another man, one that had a really big cock. Would you then consider it?" She laughed and said she'd be game if it was something I was serious about and really wanted her to do. She said, "Come on, let's be real. It's exciting and fun to imagine it, but to really do it? Please! That's a major game changer."
       
      So I said, "I'm very serious. I've watched the way you enjoy the dildos especially while watching big cock videos. It turns me on big time seeing how excited you get and how many times you climax from doing these two things at the same time. I want to watch you do it for real. No BS, just watching you getting slammed by a big cock would be a huge turn-on for me. So what do you really think now that you know that I'm serious and am giving you this opportunity?"
       
      I could see her giving it some serious thought, she didn't get mad or upset at me or the idea, no resistance whatsoever to my request.  The more she considered the idea the more it appeared to me that she was very intrigued with the idea and it excited her.
       
      She started asking all kinds of questions, like wouldn't I be jealous, or think the worst of her, or what if she really enjoyed it and wanted more or didn't feel comfortable screwing another man, then what? Were there any rules and what were the consequences? Was I absolutely sure that I really wanted her to do this, because once done there was no going back!
       
      After she finished asking everything she had concerns about I answered all her questions and we talked about the rules/boundaries we would have in place to keep it fun and exciting without any reservations or guilt. This was to make sure she fully understood my concerns and alleviate all of hers as well. It seemed she came to a decision at which point she smiled and enthusiastically said yes, she'd do it! Did I have someone special in mind she wondered? She said she had to agree to my choices for her sexual escapades or it wasn't gonna happen.
       
       I then informed her I was thinking of Bruce. Beth squealed with glee, she admitted she has had fantasies about Bruce for some time now and I couldn't have picked a better choice for her first time. She would absolutely love to fuck Bruce. She said she was getting wet thinking about sex with him.
       
      A few days later I met up with Bruce for an after work drink. As we enjoyed several drinks we talked a lot. Soon I steered the conversation towards my wife Beth. I asked  Bruce to be honest and tell me what he thought about Beth. He admitted he thought Beth was smokin' hot. She had a killer body and was just gorgeous, always was friendly, and liked flirting with him when they were together. I asked him if he' ever had the chance would he consider having sex with her? He looked a bit concerned by my question but answered yes, he wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of such an opportunity. So I told him that Beth really wanted to have sex with him, and that I was okay with them hooking up. I explained that was my kink watching her get fucked by other men, it really turned me on. Bruce considered it for several minutes then said okay sure, he'd love to fuck Beth. Just give him the details when we're ready to make it happen.
       
      When I got home I told Beth about my conversation with Bruce and what he said. She looked startled and said she couldn't believe I did that. So I asked her if what I did was so wrong and did she still want to go through with it? She excitedly said Oh hell yes she did, and no I wasn't wrong! So we made plans and set a date for Beth's first cock. 
       
      The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight.
       
      Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show.
       
      Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge.
       
      They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left.
       
      Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
    • By Falcon88
      My wife and I have been together for almost 25 years. Through out the years sex has been fantastic. No complaints on either side. We are very faithful and never cheated on each other.
       
      Then one day two years ago we were having a few drinks and watching porn. We watch all kinds of porn. That night we were watching some really good gangbangs. Curiously, I turn to my wife and asked her if she ever thought about swinging and group sex. If it ever crossed her mind. Surprisingly, she looked at me and said she’s been thinking about it for while. So we ended up talking about swinging and group sex for hours. We got online and read stories on experiences about swinging and group sex. The pros and cons. It turned me on taking about it but at the same time I got a crazy feeling in my stomach. Nerves I guess.
       
      So to make a very long story short we ended up having an open marriage and took up swinging. We both decided to have (safe) sex with other people until we felt comfortable on having our first group sex. All this took very long planning and preparing, especially mentally.
       
      Finally last November we planned out her first group sex. We carefully selected three familiar friends to join in the fun. Of course they decided to do it and agreed on our rules.
       
      So, it finally happened that November night. I really enjoyed watching my wife get screwed by more than one man. She had the time of her life. She had multiple orgasms one after another. The crazy feeling never left my stomach but I really enjoyed watching though. After the guys left we kicked back and talked about our experience. Then we go back about agreeing on what we’re doing and never to do it without the other knowing. We keep an oath of trust. Every time we have a date with someone we let each other know. It’s always planned out days in advance so it will never interfere with our personal lives. We have a great understanding.
       
      Since last November she’s been involved in several group sex averaging 3-4 guys each time. Of course I joined in most of the time. Lots of lube is needed. But now she wants to go a little further. She wants to do a gangbang of 6-8 guys. Seriously.
       
      Lately she’s been playing with large toys to get her vagina ready. She wants to try double-vaginal penetration. I’ve been preparing her by inserting a dildo in her while I’m inside. Very carefully with lots of lube. We practice every time we have sex. She even carefully inserts a large thick toy in her vagina while watching a movie and keeps it in there. Yes, our sexual curiosities has increased tremendously. My wife wants to explore even more and I’m all in.
       
      Well the day we both have been looking forward too occurred this past weekend. We managed to round up 7 guys for an all night gangbang. It involved a lot of planning and phone calls. We’ve noticed that guys will be all in at first then drop out later. But eventually we got things going. That night when everyone arrived she was kinda nervous but excited to have that many cocks at once. Most of all, she finally had double penetration in her vagina from two guys for the first time. The strange thing I seemed more nervous than her. Lol But she absolutely enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed watching her. She came hard many times. She doesn’t like anal so that wasn’t attempted.
       
      So after joining in all the fun and after almost two hours of great sex we had the grand finale. My sexy wife knelt down and we all gave her an awesome bukkake. Her face was drenched with cum. It was one heck of a hot night. After everyone left we took a long shower and stayed up almost all night talking about it. We were both so turned on that we were already making plans for the next one. But we are gonna take a break for about three weeks. It’s just going to be me and her for now.
       
      Yesterday she mentioned about having a messy cum sex in the near future after watching a great creampie movie. I was like, a messy cum sex? She asked me what I would think about her having a messy gooey bukkake and creampie night. Having about 4 guys cum all over her face while 4 guys cum inside her. Then rubbing the cum all over her breasts. Man, just listening to her drove me crazy. My wife was willing to be explosive. But that would take lots of planning because we are very cautious. My wife cannot get pregnant anymore so that’s really something we don’t have to worry about. It’s about the unprotected sex. We do know many cool friends well enough that we can trust but still we must remain careful. Yet, I’m sure it’s gonna happen very soon.
       
      I’ve been asked if we have taken it too far. If there’s actually any sign of regrets. Some close friends wonder about my wife wanting too much now. Our answer is no because we enjoy it and have a deep understanding and trust. We are responsible adults and are having fun. We first talk about what we’re going to do and have to both agree 100%. Any sign of doubt from either side we will not do it. We are friends with our sex partners but no feelings are involved or ever shared. We have proven that to ourselves already.
    • By AdamGunn2
      It was a fairly typical night at D.J.s Island, an early autumn evening. Mary and I hadn’t set anything up in advance, we’d decided to go almost at the last moment. From the second we entered the door our radar was beaming across the club, searching for a couple that might be searching for what we were also interested in - an enjoyable tryst.
       
      Mary took a few minutes to change into what she called a ‘trolling outfit.’ As I remember, that night it was a black babydoll with a loose bodice, thong, low heels. Many men admired her legs as I checked the forty or so women, many as scantily clad as my wife. None of our regular playmates seemed to be in attendance that evening, but we had our customs, we weren’t concerned. Perhaps an hour and a half later, I sat at a table next to the dance floor, Mary was on her feet, on the parquet, moving her body, seeing if anyone would move in. A slow sequence of men approached her, danced with her. Some would take liberties such as moving their hands under her garment, feeling the small of her back, perhaps place their palm on the roundness of her ass.
       
      I’d seen this many times before, I waited for one of two reactions.
       
      The first was that she’d spin away from the man; it signified she wasn’t interested in what he had to offer.
       
      The second was that she’d get closer, I’d watch her whisper in his ear. I knew the question, “Where’s your wife?” Some of them would shake their heads, they were attending as one of the few single men the club allowed, and when they received Mary’s response, they’d move away - that’s not what we were looking for at the moment.
       
      But the man might indicate where his wife was dancing a few feet away. When this kind of thing happened, Mary would glance to me and give our special signal - she’d put one hand on the back of her head, one on her stomach. When I got the cue, I’d come out, we’d dance as a foursome.
       
      As I approached, a man grasped the elbow of a tall attractive lady who was more modestly dressed, at least for the club. There was no conversation on the dance floor, the heavy volume of music and the thumping of the bass wouldn’t allow for speech. But I could tell the woman was interested in me, the four of us paired off and I often found myself facing this vixen. It was obvious they were as interested in us as I was in them, I could tell by the way Mary was rubbing against the man that she felt the same.
       
      After a couple of songs, Mary led the way off the floor, holding his hand, leading us off into a corner away from the speakers. As we sat, the man said, “I’m Ed, this is my wife, Marilyn.”
       
      Marilyn and I softly shook hands, I believe she raised the hem of her skirt to give me a view of her upper thighs. Ed had no problem seeing Mary’s legs, or where they met - she was sitting so that the babydoll was gathered to her side, leaning forward so her globes were exposed to his view.
       
      “Do you come here often?” Ed asked.
       
      “Every few weeks,” I responded, “you?”
       
      “This is our first time here.” Mary gave him a look that asked for further info. “We’re just starting this,” he admitted.
       
      Marilyn picked it up. “We’ve only had one time with a couple of friends. We liked it, heard about this place, decided to see if we could get into more trouble.”
       
      “Trouble’s our middle name,” I joked.
       
      Our conversation continued, where do you live, what movies have you seen lately, etc. It was a screen, of course, we were all calculating if the four of us would be pleasurable bedmates. I paid my attention to Marilyn, my wife had told me numerous times not to worry about her, she can take care of herself. My hand found Marilyn’s knee, she smiled at me, encouraged me to reach a tad higher. We bent towards each other, our mouths met.
       
      Marilyn opened her lips to me, the kiss was ardent, her mouth moist. She licked at my upper lip, her hand fondled the back of my neck. Our tongues clashed, promising cupidity, mimicking what I presumed our bodies might be doing in a few scant moments.
       
      We broke for a moment, Marilyn invited, “Would you guys want to go to one of the rooms?”
       
      I, of course, was all for it, but then I heard Mary. “Uh, not right now. But thanks.”
       
      We’ve always had the guideline that if one person doesn’t want to do something, she speaks for both of us. Regretfully, I pecked at Marilyn’s lips a last time, we stood, went separate ways.
       
      “You’re not upset, are you?” Mary asked me.
       
      “Of course not, not at all. You’re not in the mood?”
       
      “Oh, I’m in the mood all right, just not with Ed.”
       
      “Something wrong with him?” I asked.
       
      “I tried to get him interested,” Mary revealed, “but his kiss was a little cold, indifferent. I put my hand on his leg, he was too busy watching you and Marilyn, he never responded. My guess is that if we went into a room, he’d be watching you two, I’m not even sure he’d get hard for me.” It was a reasonable thought, it had happened to us a couple times before. “Hope you don’t mind, bet she’d have been a firecracker.”
       
      “Maybe. But you’re a firecracker too.”
       
      We headed back to the dance floor, in search of another couple.
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