First time....with an Escort!

[azcoupledr 16]

Ms. AZdr and I have been together 5 years and have almost as long been talking about having a threesome with another girl. Of course finding a unicorn has been next to impossible, although we have had a few near misses that have only made us more eager. The Ms. and I make love 7 to 10 times a week, and if I even mention another girl going down on her, she cums immediately...and hard...Works for me too!

 

We have finally decided to enlist the services of a beautiful escort when we go to Las Vegas in several weeks. We found a beautiful, well reviewed escort online and have already scheduled an appointment. Since then, we have probably doubled our love making activity and the Ms. has been coming 3 to 4 times per session....just from the thought of Vegas.

 

So, here is the question. For those who have had threesomes the same way....any advice for us?

[ClosetSwinger 112]

I personally wouldn't do it.

 

The thought of paying someone for sex of any kind is a total turn off for me. I have to know everyone is into it and wants to do it. I think it's a bad idea but to each his own.

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

I'm with closetswinger. The idea of paying somebody for sex never even began to float my boat, or even offer a drop of water. Just me I guess.

 

I know it can be hard to find a unicorn, and maybe this is a way through that if you're both ok paying somebody to have sex with you.

 

That said, I'd do it legally. There are legal brothels in Nevada that service all sorts of kinks. This isn't a kink, or even close. Wives are welcome at brothels. Plus, the women at brothels are regularly tested for STDs. Escorts, it's a crap shoot. I've heard the STD rate among prostitutes in Vegas is over 50%.

 

There are plenty of brothels listed in the yellow pages in Nevada. You can find lists of them online. Call them, and you can prove to yourself they'll welcome you AND your wife.

 

In short, if you're going to do this, do it right.

[fun4Ds 1,098]

Its your choice going this route, I have no objections.....

 

OK, Ill cut the bullshit. Hiring as hooker was always a fantasy of mine !

 

Although not experienced other than role-playing, which seemed pretty fulfilling of my desire...

 

Sheepishly, I want every detail while you do this

 

 

Don't you dare leave nothing out, I need EVERYTHING ! Including details !

 

 

fun4ds

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

Just curious. I have had some misconceptions about sex for hire in Nevada in another post (VegasLee straightened me out) as I have never done that.

 

Maybe I am being naive again, but how do you know the escort service provides women that are for hire sexually. Since I know they are legal all over the place, there surely some that provide JUST escort service. How do you know she will be up for a threesome or even sex for that matter?

[BiloxiCouple 695]

Just curious. I have had some misconceptions about sex for hire in Nevada in another post (VegasLee straightened me out) as I have never done that.

 

Maybe I am being naive again, but how do you know the escort service provides women that are for hire sexually. Since I know they are legal all over the place, there surely some that provide JUST escort service. How do you know she will be up for a threesome or even sex for that matter?

 

2 more questions to ask yourself:

 

1. How do you know it is not a police sting operation?

 

2. How safe is she? STD's.

 

Ads are meant to make everything look better than real life. VegasLee like you said has good knowledge on the Vegas/Nevada situation in this area. Listen to him.

[azcoupledr 16]

Just curious. I have had some misconceptions about sex for hire in Nevada in another post (VegasLee straightened me out) as I have never done that.

 

Maybe I am being naive again, but how do you know the escort service provides women that are for hire sexually. Since I know they are legal all over the place, there surely some that provide JUST escort service. How do you know she will be up for a threesome or even sex for that matter?

 

Well, we have done a bit of research. First, we are not planning to use an escort agency. There are many independent women out there and quite a few that cater to couples. There are also many sites on the web that provide reviews from previous customers with the biggest being the erotic review. These will give you a good idea about what the girl is willing to do.

 

This idea is very exciting to us. Of course we would also love to find the unicorn who is not an escort and will keep on searching!

[VegasLee 1,486]

Ok, what your setting up in Vegas IS NOT LEGAL.

 

Might be legit, might be a police set up, might be you getting ready to get ripped off.

 

The pictures of the girls on the web sites, in the phone books and on those cards they pass out on the Las Vegas Strip are just that, PICTURES. They are NOT the girls that will meet you. I know this for a couple of reasons. I know the owner of the largest escort agency in Vegas, he buys pictures from photo dealers of very hot looking women. He would NEVER publish a photo of a girl that worked for him even if she was hot. He has better sense then that. Why put a picture of your real girls out there for the police to keep on file?

 

The STD rate is not 50% plus on the illegal hookers in Vegas. That is one of those great Vegas rumors that people like to spread. The health department says that rumor can not be backed up with facts but does not keep people from spreading it. Many of them are druggies though.

 

Why take the legal chance when you can hit the legal places. Some of them will even send a Limo to your hotel and pick you up. They are about a hour away. Nice women, Nice places and clean. The women are checked each week and have a clean bill of health.

 

Nothing wrong with what you want to do if that is what works for you but might as well try to be safe about it.

 

Many of them that "come to you" will quote you a low price. All that normally does is get them to your room. Once they get there it is a whole different ball game. They will want more money no matter what they tell you in Email or on the phone. That is how the game is played in Vegas.

 

Do the girls at the legal houses cost more? More then you are quoted up front by the local girls yes. When all is said and done most of them are not any more expense then what you will really pay for what you want.

 

If you want to know about a couple nice legal places send me a message and I will give you links to them. I know the owners of two of the best and nicest places in Nevada.

 

 

Vegas is great but you have to use good common sense or you are asking for trouble in this town.

 

Come to Vegas, have fun but think before you do something you may regret.

[azcoupledr 16]

2 more questions to ask yourself:

 

1. How do you know it is not a police sting operation?

 

2. How safe is she? STD's.

 

Ads are meant to make everything look better than real life. VegasLee like you said has good knowledge on the Vegas/Nevada situation in this area. Listen to him.

 

1) Most of the escorts have reviews and history. I guess you never know if it is a sting operation, however I believe most of the sting operations go after the escorts, not the customers.

 

2) STD's are also a worry. I guess not really different than with a swing partner. You need to have some precautions, no different than any partner. Also, I do not believe the STD rate is that high. Many of the high end girls are very safe, although from what I have read, most the girls will do BBBJ's which is not a high risk activity.

[BiloxiCouple 695]

Sting operations can go after both.

 

The reviews and histories can be developed and managed by them.

 

Use common sense, I can't live your life for you.

[Cajun2Step 65]

You have been cautioned. Prostitution is not legal in Vegas.

That being said, we know a couple personally that got caught in a sting operation in Vegas.

 

If you want to experience your fantasy and pay for it go over the hump to Pahrump. Prostitution is legal in that county. There are a couple of brothels who will be happy to fill your fantasy.

 

If you do not know how to find them ask at the Pahrump Chamber of Commerce. We were guided to one of the brothels as one of the best places to eat in the county.

 

The Philly Cheese Stake sandwich at Shari's is very good.

 

We did not, have not, and will never pay for sex with an escort or what ever you choose to call her or him. It would be a big turn off for us.

 

That being said we are not judgmental. Do as you like. But you have cautioned by several of us who have no dog in this hunt to avoid any call girl/escort service in Vegas.

[BiloxiCouple 695]

azcoupledr said:

Thanks for the caution. I hear you and maybe the legal way is the best. Just did not want to travel the hour out to the brothel. While I know stings are a possibility, I feel that you can take a lot of the risk out of it with homework. We have already contacted one very well reviewed, higher end Courtesan and believe, she is even more worried about security than we are!

 

We will let you know how it goes. Maybe we will get lucky and find a single girl, non-escort before then.

 

What homework? I bet the vice cop who got busted would like to know the answer also. Here is some of my homework: Las Vegas lawyers explain Nevada Solicitation & Prostitution laws hope it helps.

 

Again, reviews are only worth the time it took her to type it. Higher end Courtesan? Is she 7 feet tall? Her worry about security may get you a quick thump when he shows up to roll you. She is just trying to ensure you are not police.

 

We keep harping as a group. Most of us have already worked thru this fantasy of yours. We are not trying to move at the speed of light in order to achieve it.

 

And watch all the COPS shows that you can, especially the stings. I love cops, the show.

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

If we don't hear back from you I guess we can assume things did not go well

 

As they say you can lead a horse to water.

 

If there is one thing I have learned on this board (actually there are many things lol) It is that when it comes to Las Vegas, listening to VegasLee is a good idea.

 

Good luck, I hope it works out well for you.

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

I found a thread that might interest you:

 

How To Use An Escort Service?

[lotsoffun201 175]

We did it for many years. It was easy, you could pick who you wanted, the reviews (on well known independant review sites) were usually spot on. The problem is that it got expensive. Couples calls were usually in the range of $500-$600. As the economy tanked the prices went down. Using a "service" is a bad idea because of the bait and switch and prices are always a joke. The brothels are an even bigger rip off for prices and having a timer go off with a voice over a speaker telling you time is up sucks even more. We did that once and it wasn't worth the drive.

 

 

STD's with high end well reviewed escorts are relatively rare since this is their occupation and they don't take many risks. In fact their risk taking is less than what we see at most swing clubs.

 

If you are looking for a GUARANTEED single female to join you while you are in vegas and the cost is not a problem then its a good way to go IMHO. Just stick to a well reviewed independant escort and have a good time. Sting operations are generally from craigslist and the services. They are looking for catching the girls more so than the customers.

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

azcoupledr said:

Thanks for the caution. I hear you and maybe the legal way is the best. Just did not want to travel the hour out to the brothel.

 

Choices:

1. 1 hour drive, legal, STD rate almost non-existent.
2. No drive, illegal, much higher STD rate, possibility of being caught in a sting.

 

Is there really any debate about this? Saving yourself two hours of driving is worth risking STDs, being arrested, a big fine and/or jail time? You're so wanting to be careful that you're doing a bunch of research. Why not be careful and do this LEGALLY and SAFELY?

 

 

VegasLee disagreed with my assertion of the STD rates among prostitutes in Las Vegas. Very well, I'll back it up with cited fact:

September 3, 2002: Dr. Randall Todd (Nevada state epidemiologist is in charge of tracking sexually transmitted diseases): "HIV has turned up in hundreds of Las Vegas prostitutes". Contrast that with another quote from him: "We see very little STD among the working girls in [legal] brothels" (cite).

 

So I guess the question becomes; feeling lucky?

 

azcoupledr said:

While I know stings are a possibility, I feel that you can take a lot of the risk out of it with homework. We have already contacted one very well reviewed, higher end Courtesan and believe, she is even more worried about security than we are!

 

What, and cops aren't capable of setting a good sting? Having the bait tell you she is careful about security? What did you expect, the bait cop would say "Oh honey, don't worry about security! I'm not a cop!"?!?!?

 

[VegasLee 1,486]

bbarnsworth said:

 

VegasLee disagreed with my assertion of the STD rates among prostitutes in Las Vegas. Very well, I'll back it up with cited fact:

September 3, 2002: Dr. Randall Todd (Nevada state epidemiologist is in charge of tracking sexually transmitted diseases): "HIV has turned up in hundreds of Las Vegas prostitutes". Contrast that with another quote from him: "We see very little STD among the working girls in [legal] brothels" (cite).

 

So I guess the question becomes; feeling lucky?

 

 

I disagreed that your statement of over 50%. As stated in your "cite" it is found in 100's. In this town we have THOUSANDS of Illegal hookers. Your also using a 8 year old article. Believe it or not, a few thing have got better in Vegas. Last Health Department information shows that HIV has had a big drop in Clark County.

 

You are correct that there are many with STD's but I have problems with over statements about most anything.

 

Vegas is easy to pick on because there are a lot so stupid things done in this town but I do my best to try to keep it a bit real. I love this town and hate to see people do really stupid things that make us look worse then we are.

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

Vegas is easy to pick on because there are a lot so stupid things done in this town but I do my best to try to keep it a bit real. I love this town and hate to see people do really stupid things that make us look worse then we are.

 

I'm not picking on Vegas, but rather the choice to use an illegal prostitute when legal prostitution is only an hour away. That's really a compliment to Vegas, not an insult.

 

We know the STD rate among illegal prostitutes is considerable, whatever we'd like to state it to be. We know the STD rate among legal prostitutes in Nevada is very low to the point of almost non-existent. That's all the comparison necessary to add on to the heap of reasons why choosing an illegal prostitute for this fantasy fulfillment is, in my book, a seriously bad decision, most especially when legal avenues are a stone's throw away.

[slevin 1,374]

We know the STD rate among illegal prostitutes is considerable

 

We do?

[azcoupledr 16]

lotsoffun201 said:

We did it for many years. It was easy, you could pick who you wanted, the reviews (on well known independent review sites) were usually spot on. The problem is that it got expensive. Couples calls were usually in the range of $500-$600. As the economy tanked the prices went down. Using a "service" is a bad idea because of the bait and switch and prices are always a joke. The brothels are an even bigger rip off for prices and having a timer go off with a voice over a speaker telling you time is up sucks even more. We did that once and it wasn't worth the drive.

 

STD's with high end well reviewed escorts are relatively rare since this is their occupation and they don't take many risks. In fact their risk taking is less than what we see at most swing clubs.

 

If you are looking for a GUARANTEED single female to join you while you are in vegas and the cost is not a problem then its a good way to go IMHO. Just stick to a well reviewed independent escort and have a good time. Sting operations are generally from craigslist and the services. They are looking for catching the girls more so than the customers.

 

This was exactly our thoughts. We have done quite a bit of research on several well reviewed escorts and have chatted on the phone with one. She was very easy to talk to and put my wife at ease. She is an independent escort not from an agency. However she is expensive, about $800 for two hours.

 

While we are not happy this is illegal, it seems like the risk is low. Frankly, while getting arrested for this would be a big inconvenience, what is the penalty for a visiting tourist in their own hotel room in Vegas? It would not ruin our lives.

 

As for STD's, it seems to use that the risks are also there in the swing community. You always need to practice some precautions, no different with an escort.

 

The big surprise is the hostility from some in this forum. You would thing swingers would a more open mind. We are not offended, just surprised.

[sweet_tna 680]

You're surprised that the members here have expressed concern for your safety and want to help you avoid the possibility of getting arrested? Funny, that doesn't strike me as hostile.

 

You've been given some sound advice from those in the know. Either way, it's still your life to live and you have to live with the consequences. For ya'll sake, I hope it turns out wonderfully.

 

If not . . . well . . . caveat emptor.

 

=)

[PB&J 1,086]

Well, this article seems to think there's a possibility you could be arrested...

"In a related effort, undercover female officers make arrests of men who try to hire prostitutes. "

 

This site warns that the consequences of being arrested in Vegas DON'T stay in Vegas:

"Las Vegas criminal defense lawyers indicate that a substantial number of tourists get arrested there on Las Vegas solicitation for prostitution charges. Some of the arrestees are under the mistaken belief that the activity is legal in Las Vegas, or that vice enforcement really doesn’t take place in Sin City. But many undercover sting operations take place, and these net numerous arrests.

Under NRS 201.354 , a person convicted for engaging in or soliciting prostitution in Nevada sustains a misdemeanor and the judge can send him/her to jail for as long as 6 months."

 

Seriously, is that what you want?

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

The big surprise is the hostility from some in this forum. You would thing swingers would a more open mind. We are not offended, just surprised.

 

I don't think anyone has been hostile toward you. Cautionary, yes, and perhaps a bit dumbfounded that you are willing to take the chance with legal method not too far away. (Or with a bit more patience you could find a SF to play with, or work a deal with another couple for 3some swap.)

 

Also, it's not a typical swinging question since prostitution is not what most would call swinging. It's, well, prostitution, regardless of how many are involved or the reason.

 

Asking for advice on hiring a prostitute on a swingers site is kind of like asking marital advice on a young singles site, there is just not going to be a lot of practical experience to draw from. So most of the advice you will get is likely to be cautionary (it's not too safe, it's illegal), rather than "here's how".

 

I think most people on this forum are of the opinion that it is your life, live it like you want, but we don't really know what to tell you, other than be safe.

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

azcoupledr said:

The big surprise is the hostility from some in this forum. You would thing swingers would a more open mind. We are not offended, just surprised.

 

I'm with Sweet tna. Further, you asked for advice. It's being given. Not liking the advice being given doesn't mean we are hostile to you. I don't make posts here to people asking for advice to be a yes men to their poor decisions.

 

My opinion, reject it if you like, is that engaging an illegal prostitute when legal avenues exist with considerably less risk of STDs all in the name of saving 2 hours of driving is just insanely stupid.

 

This isn't exactly the same topic, but it shares some common traits. Ever see the show "To Catch a Predator" with Chris Hansen on MSNBC? All of the men caught in those sting operations thought they were dealing with a legit underage girl. Every last one of them got suckered in. So, I guess you're smarter than all those guys. You've done your research, you've talked to the escort on the phone, and you're just too smart to be caught in a sting operation.

 

You were advised of the consequences under Nevada law. Apparently a six month prison sentence for you and your wife. Just an inconvenience. Do you have kids at home? Do you think it would just be an inconvenience to them to have their parents in jail for a few months? How about your jobs? Do you think your jobs would be waiting for you when you got back home?

 

All of this crap can be avoided for the simple 'chore' of driving a total of two hours.

 

But, you're bound and determined to do this illegally. Have fun.

[Trace Ekies 186]

You come here and ask our advice and then find us "hostile" because you didn't get the answer you wanted.

 

Okay, here goes...

 

Hiring a prostitute in Las Vegas is a good idea.

 

Have a ball.

 

Trace

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

Had another thought about this. Feel free to be skeptical, since I've never had sex with a prostitute (propositioned a few times, but never took them up on it).

 

It strikes me as a very odd that a prostitute would agree, over the phone, to being willing to play with you for $$$. If she is so careful about security, I would think from her side that it would be a seriously bad idea to consent to illegal prostitution over the phone with a person(s) she's never met before.

 

I would think a 'real' (as in, not a cop, but illegal - as opposed to legal, in a brothel) prostitute would be a lot more cagey than that, most especially one who is experienced.

 

I'm sensing big red flags here.

[ALilOEverything 901]

This thread reminds me of an old poll. There is one couple who mentions a positive experience going that route. The percentages in the poll really surprised me but it is an old poll.

 

Poll: How many have used a escort service for swinging?

 

What I want to evaluate is if you take out all the risks (std's, legal) is it really going to be the experience you want? I think it's a very different reality than finding a third who WANTS to be there vs. someone who's doing it because she's getting PAID. The fun of the lifestyle is finding others who WANT to be with you. They are excited and aroused at giving you pleasure, that is their DESIRE as well. Knowing the other person touching you desires you as much as you desire them is a huge component of what makes swinging as fun and intense as it is.

 

The FMF's I've had have been pretty incredible. I cannot imagine that paying someone to fill that other woman's shoes would have made it as wonderful at it was. At least from the perspective as a wife. I know my husband would feel the same because we've had some great talks about what we enjoy about the lifestyle and we're on the same page.

[fun4Ds 1,098]

Ms. AZdr and I have been together 5 years and have almost as long been talking about having a threesome with another girl. Of course finding a unicorn has been next to impossible, although we have had a few near misses that have only made us more eager. The Ms. and I make love 7 to 10 times a week, and if I even mention another girl going down on her, she cums immediately...and hard...Works for me too!

This I can understand, although I don't understand your limitations finding another female companion ? Could you expand on this ?

 

 

We have finally decided to enlist the services of a beautiful escort when we go to Las Vegas in several weeks. We found a beautiful, well reviewed escort online and have already scheduled an appointment. Since then, we have probably doubled our love making activity and the Ms. has been coming 3 to 4 times per session....just from the thought of Vegas.

 

So, here is the question. For those who have had threesomes the same way....any advice for us?

Well its obvious you have a small group of people who HAVE used this alternative route. Sure anyone could voice their opinion on why they haven't or wouldn't, thats easy enough.. I hate to be Bobby Bummer but dang, were all adults here. Prostitution IS the oldest profession known to mankind. The OP didn't say anything remotely close to finding some crack head on a corner and doing the dirty deed. I think they have done their homework, know the ramifications, and made their choice. The are asking for experience or advice in something.

 

The thing is, do people who choose different alternatives have the answers. I say NO. Unless you have known or been with a professional hooker how can anyone say ?

 

I ask the OP AZcouple to share their experience, every detail. Not because I don't have an imagination, I can guess the worst possible scenerio....I can also be open minded enough to think of the possible good outcome. So why not follow along with them ? It might be a chance for postiterity....

 

I don't promote illegal prostitution, however I don't chastise people on something I personally haven't tried. I speak from personal experience and advise through that experience. I also think prostitution should be legal, but this isn't about anyones opinion of what is right or wrong.

 

I think plain and simple the OP asked for experienced opinions and this has gone to almost persacution. I ask, to share the details for others to learn something who may follow this path and yes I believe do it legally to begin with. I don't think anyone broke any laws at this point. I have to wonder what peoples ideas might have been had the OP enlisted the legal opportunities and what all might have said then ? What if at this point they do take a legal route, what would the questions be ?

 

Trying to stay on topic... AZCOUPLE, you mentioned that this phone call put MrsAZ at ease. Could you tell me how ?

[azcoupledr 16]

This I can understand, although I don't understand your limitations finding another female companion ? Could you expand on this ?

 

 

Well its obvious you have a small group of people who HAVE used this alternative route. Sure anyone could voice their opinion on why they haven't or wouldn't, thats easy enough.. I hate to be Bobby Bummer but dang, were all adults here. Prostitution IS the oldest profession known to mankind. The OP didn't say anything remotely close to finding some crack head on a corner and doing the dirty deed. I think they have done their homework, know the ramifications, and made their choice. The are asking for experience or advice in something.

 

The thing is, do people who choose different alternatives have the answers. I say NO. Unless you have known or been with a professional hooker how can anyone say ?

 

I ask the OP AZcouple to share their experience, every detail. Not because I don't have an imagination, I can guess the worst possible scenerio....I can also be open minded enough to think of the possible good outcome. So why not follow along with them ? It might be a chance for postiterity....

 

I don't promote illegal prostitution, however I don't chastise people on something I personally haven't tried. I speak from personal experience and advise through that experience. I also think prostitution should be legal, but this isn't about anyones opinion of what is right or wrong.

 

I think plain and simple the OP asked for experienced opinions and this has gone to almost persacution. I ask, to share the details for others to learn something who may follow this path and yes I believe do it legally to begin with. I don't think anyone broke any laws at this point. I have to wonder what peoples ideas might have been had the OP enlisted the legal opportunities and what all might have said then ? What if at this point they do take a legal route, what would the questions be ?

 

Trying to stay on topic... AZCOUPLE, you mentioned that this phone call put MrsAZ at ease. Could you tell me how ?

 

Hi Fun4D's, thanks for the interest We will definitely keep you up to date on how this goes. Your first question understanding our limitations on finding another female companion. Well, I think this is hard on many couples. First, at this time, we are BOTH only interested in females. We do not want to swap with another couple, nor loan the females out to each other. The Mrs. is also VERY willing, but not that outgoing. When in public places, she is not really ready to approach other single women....she gets very nervous.

 

We are looking for an escort as a sure thing, and are looking for a very high end girlfriend experience. We know we are paying her....but consider it kind of like role playing...hopefully she is really into it....or at least a good actress. We have found a very well reviewed escort who we are planning to see. We have never discussed money. Her website details the donation required, but we are assured it is an all inclusive experience. We are expected to leave the donation in the bathroom without ever discussing money.

 

We have spoke on the phone once and she was looking to understand boundries and limitations. She also put the Mrs. at ease...was very flirty...fun to chat with...and down to earth.....

 

We are VERY much looking forward to our first threesome!

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

Your date should be coming up in about a week.

 

When is your date with the escort?

 

Will you first meet in a public place, then go to a hotel room?

[fun4Ds 1,098]

I think allot about peoples safety, for reasons of our own I suppose.

 

What precautions have you taken at this point ?

 

Have you considered having someone to make a contact with via phone throughout the experience ? (Just a check) We do, if we have any suspicions and quite honestly we promote this to all, when meeting unknown people.

[azcoupledr 16]

LikeMinds321 said:

Your date should be coming up in about a week.

 

When is your date with the escort?

 

Will you first meet in a public place, then go to a hotel room?

 

Not so close, we are actually going to be in Vegas the last week of September....so still almost 4 weeks to go. The plan is to meet in the bar for a drink, make sure we are all comfortable, then go back to the room.

 

No money is ever discussed and there is no commitment. If for whatever reason, we are not happy at the bar, you do not need to go forward.

 

There are quite a number of independent escorts that cater to couples and are well reviewed on line.

 

Of course, if anyone here really worries about our safety and has a hotwife who wants to role play as an escort...we would would consider that too!

[fun4Ds 1,098]

Not so close, we are actually going to be in Vegas the last week of September....so still almost 4 weeks to go. The plan is to meet in the bar for a drink, make sure we are all comfortable, then go back to the room.

Well now thats not what I was expecting to hear I would have thought a deposit or some form of retainer fee ? Keep in mind, I have only had my information from men who claimed the use of a professional. But even with them, descriptions were vague....

 

No money is ever discussed and there is no commitment. If for whatever reason, we are not happy at the bar, you do not need to go forward.

If you wouldn't mind I would like to hear how this discussion goes later on. And I know, this may in fact be the stopper.

 

 

Of course, if anyone here really worries about our safety and has a hotwife who wants to role play as an escort...we would would consider that too!

Ohhh, so Now you see why my fantasy turned out so good with Mrsfun and her friend. But thats the thing, I did pay them with my savings. The money was gone other than they picked up the breakfast tab

 

The thing is, I learned something from it. Like others, I think the reciprocation is where I would feel the pang. I'm not trying to sound naive, but there is something about a professional wanting to be with us/me without the money, because we were in fact still a fun couple to be with. That is there for me personally. I know that doesn't make sense.... Funny when we cant find our own answers sometimes.

 

 

Again, please keep us posted with how you feel along the way, even if you decide not to follow through