The appeal of swallowing cum

[ubermenehune 15]

Hello all,

The other day, my wife and I had a discussion about swallowing (she always spits after I come in her mouth). When she asked me why I want her to swallow, I couldn't produce a convincing answer. Why the heck do I want her to swallow?

 

I assume it doesn't feel any different than when she spits. Am I correct in my assumption? So why should I care where the come goes after I get off? Perhaps its the visual aspect or the excitement generated from the act itself. Perhaps I watch too much porn....

 

Folks, help me understand why this particular act is so appealing (at least to males).

[OhioCouple 40]

I think you could be right on the porn aspect. My hubby loves to watch it and wishes that I would. I absolutely refuse. I don't like it in my mouth or even on my face. Unless we find swing partners that will allow it (all the others we have met are just like I am) then he'll just have to live with the fantasy on video.

[DragonsLair 26]

My husband loves it when I swallow, which I don't do often. I'm just not a fan of the taste or the feeling of choking. Hubby is generous, shall we say?

 

But I do know that he has stronger orgasms when I do swallow. So it's something I do occasionally. He'd like it everyday.

[RnLinohio 17]

Hey all,

 

My husband always explained his liking it to me as it being a little kinky, so it just adds to the experience. I used to be like you OhioCouple. I didn't like it in my mouth or on my face, but eventually he talked me into trying it just one time. After i did it, i realized it wasn't' that bad, and if it made him happy them i was willing to do it. After I started swallowing, he said that with his head so sensitive when he cums, and me swallowing while still around it adds a good feeling to it all. Not just the visual pleasure.

 

Hope this helps.

[OhioCouple 40]

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Originally posted by RnLinohio

After I started swallowing, he said that with his head so sensitive when he cums, and me swallowing while still around it adds a good feeling to it all. Not just the visual pleasure.

 

I've tried it and I just flat out don't like it. I don't think I'll ever get used to it and he has had to get used to the fact that I won't. Just thinking about trying to do so turns me off completely.

[jen 16]

Tasting happens on the taste buds...on your tongue...yes?

 

If that is right then the swallowing is well -- after the flavor & so why not? I mean once the taste is already in your mouth, you lose the flavor just as quickly if you spit or swallow...or at least that sounds sensable.

 

After all, when you try a new food, say at a nice restaraunt, do you spit out the tastes you dislike or politely swallow & then say -- no more for me thanks.

 

I think its just in a persons thoughts. An example for me woud be Strawberries, because they have that crunch. I love the flavor, but my thoughts equate those little crunches from the seeds, to the sound of stepping on bugs. So I love/hate them & eat them often.

 

If you aren't going to allow it in your mouth at all, then so be it, but once it is already on your tongue...game over...right?

 

Wow, it looks like I see this one from the guys end of the act.

 

Look, if you see me here after 10pm my time, send me to bed, I need more rest.

 

[OhioCouple 40]

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Originally posted by jen

Tasting happens on the taste buds...on your tongue...yes?

 

If that is right then the swallowing is well -- after the flavor & so why not? I mean once the taste is already in your mouth, you lose the flavor just as quickly if you spit or swallow...or at least that sounds sensable.

 

For me it is the texture of semen which repulses me and the idea that millions of little fishies are swimming in my mouth/throat. No thank you, I'll stick to below the neck or in my vagina.

 

(Now I'm all grossed out! Yuck! )

[Roxysbayou 20]

I am with you Lori. I don't really want it in my mouth period. If I go as far as allowing him to it, it is surely not going down my throat! The thought of it is making me want to gag right now! ?

[BradAndJanet 70]

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Originally posted by Roxysbayou

I am with you Lori. I don't really want it in my mouth period. If I go as far as allowing him to it, it is surely not going down my throat! The thought of it is making me want to gag right now!:p

J agrees with you and OhioCouple; she just hates the idea and it makes her gag (we have tried.) It's not a big deal, but like OhioCouple's hubby, I wouldn't mind finding a receptive woman who'll let me cum in her mouth. It's not so much the swallowing (I really don't care what she does with it!) as it is the wonderful feeling of cumming while a warm mouth is sucking my cock (as I remember it!)

 

OK, excuse me, I have to go now...

[Brit_Pair 62]

Originally posted by OhioCouple

For me it is the texture of semen which repulses me and the idea that millions of little fishies are swiming in my mouth/throat.

 

(Now I'm all grossed out! Yuck! )

Little wonder. That's some image!!!

[OhioCouple 40]

Okay fella's

 

We have:

 

1 swallower

1 toleratant

1 on occassion

3 gaggers

 

Odd's aren't looking so good. Best hold on to those memories or videos!

[ga_cpl_frknit 17]

Well, I seem to be in the minority here. I like to swallow. Taste nor texture are a problem for me and I LOVE the reaction I get out of him. It's good to be in control of the situation. And, according to QuizDiva, giving head is my tongue's talent...and I put it to good use. LOL

[Roxysbayou 20]

Maybe it has something to do with the diet of the guy. Perhaps the ones whos signifigant other does swallow is eating more pineapple and cotton candy, therefore the taste is sweeter and they have less gag.

 

[Buck 17]

My lovely spouse likes for me to cum in her mouth, she says it's a turn on to her; however, she prefers to spit it out. That's fine with me...at that point, I could care less whether she swallows or not.

[ga_cpl_frknit 17]

https://www.tinynibbles.com/fellatiotaste

 

just a link I remembered viewing awhile back. Thought it might be of interest.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

I am actually a swallower and to me the idea of spitting it out afterwards is more gross than swallowing it. To me it's like saying I don't want this "crap" in me.

[FlyBiNiter 16]

This is one of those preference things. For me, ewwwww.... I don't want to taste it, and I sure can't make my self swallow it, even though I enjoy everything up to that point. Luckily for me, my SO doesn't like to shoot in my mouth anyway, so no worries. He likes my mouth to stay "clean" for kissing after... he's one of those men who just can't bring himself to kiss a woman with a mouthful of cum. That's just fine with me, because, no matter how hard I try, I just can't get into the taste or texture of it in my mouth. If you can, more power to ya, but not for me, thanks.

[Brit_Pair 62]

Well, I must have done something right in a former life, because in this life, I have a wife who simply loves to swallow.

 

(And I don't have a problem kissing her afterwards, either.)

[Guest Seymore]

Just thought I'd add my 2 cents here...

 

My wife actually gets sick to her stomach if she swallows, especially on an empty stomach...not because of the taste, she just has a sensitive stomach. So naturally she spits it out afterwards.

 

I can't say that it makes the slightest bit of difference to me one way or the other. The actual oral sex feels exactly the same. I can't tell if she's swallowing or not while in coming...and once I've come, I like to relax for a second anyhow...

 

Whatever is more comfortable for her is fine...in fact I think she really enjoys me coming in her mouth.

 

I kinda wish we were doing that right now in fact...

[autumn528 16]

Y'know it's a weird thing. If I'm with a women and she's a spitter I WANT her to swallow, BUT if I'm w/ a women and she swallows I want her to let me make big mess of her face/tits/hair/bed/dog/mom...well you get the picture. I was once with a women who was a spitter. I couldn't wait to get her to swallow and one day she decided to give it a go. I was so excited by the thought. So she was doing her thing and the more I thought about it, the more excited I got. I didn't just cum - I CAME! Then she threw up on my stomach and we never did that again.

[OhioCouple 40]

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Originally posted by autumn528

I didn't just cum - I CAME! Then she threw up on my stomach and we never did that again.

You are just full of some really bizarre experiences! LMAO!!!

 

Can't wait to hear more!

[jen 16]

I am actually a swallower and to me the idea of spitting it out afterwards is more gross than swallowing it. To me it's like saying I don't want this "crap" in me.

Go Julie,

And all the other swallowers, there's safety in numbers......and also bunches of fun!!

[CLITFRIEND 15]

Ahhh the discussions that take place in this group are simply mouth watering!

 

Anyway, here is my take on the subject. If one person does not enjoy it, then it is not good for either partner! I was married to a woman who only allowed me to shoot in one place, her vagina, that was it! Never in her mouth, on her breasts, or anywhere else! I made the mistake of shooting on her stomach one time, and she didn't let me touch her for a week after that! She allowed me to shoot in her vagina, and she enjoyed that, and since she enjoyed that, I enjoyed it too!! I have also met a lady (after my marriage unfortunately broke up!) who claimed that she had a second clit inside of her throat which made her have an orgasm just about every time she felt a man's cum sliding down her throat! Sooooo, down her throat my cum went! I admit that it was a different feeling, but I grant that feeling to knowing that she enjoyed herself doing it. My sexual philosophy has always been if I was in it for my own pleasures, how would I ever know if the lady enjoyed me??

 

On the other hand, I very, very much enjoy having my tongue crushed by a woman's orgasm. It is one of my most favorite meal. Having a woman's pussy sucking my tongue while she is in a climatic state turns me on big time!!! Any guys share the same sentiments???

[Handyman69 15]

Well Cuz...put me with you. Not that I don't want to but I gag when he cums. I really don't want to throw up on him I wish I could get over it...

 

Rhonda

[OhioCouple 40]

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Originally posted by Handyman69

Not that I don't want too but I gag when he cums...I really don't want to throw up on him I wish I could get over it.

I've tried numerous times and to be quite honest the only thing that WILL calm my stomach after the event, is hugging the throne, putting cool cloths to my forehead, and an ice cold Coca~Cola. (It usually takes at least two). I think the coke kills them, much like it eats off the corrosion on battery terminals. Needless to say, prep time and the experience of what he must do afterwards, have stopped my hubby from asking anymore!

[Vjklander 138]

My hunny swallows and loves it. She will do it anytime anywhere. And I swear she cums when she swallows. Its not unusual for her to ask me for a mouthful after I shower in the morning.What a way to start the day!!!!!! A big part of the reason she likes it is because my orgasm is much stronger and lasts much longer when she swallows. She can even get me to hyper-orgasm when she does a very slow sensual BJ.

[Alura 2,774]

Mr. Alura: We used oral sex for birth control for two and a half years between kids. We've both guzzled a lot of each other's bodily fluids (and a few other people's) over the past 20+ years and love it. The wife of one couple we played with didn't like to swallow so I never asked her to. The lady had a very good technique but there is always something missing if a guy has to worry that some escaping cum might offend his partner. There is a special feeling in relaxing while your partner lets you know she is not only willing to swallow your cum but is anticipating it.

 

Mrs. Alura: I've probably never had a more appreciative swallowee than her husband. If you don't get it often, it's a treat. Hmm. That goes both ways, doesn't it? I like the taste. But the real pleasure is smiling into a guy's eyes while I suck the cream out of him. And smiling "I love you" into Mr. Alura's eyes while I'm swallowing another guy is a very special part of swinging to me. I wouldn't want to give it up.

[Uneed_Love 15]

To swallow is a symbolic act. You spit something You dislike but you eat and swallow a good dish. Swallow or share are proofs of Love while IMHO spit is showing some disgust and dislike

 

JC a male opinion about why it is important to swallow instead of spit...

[Roxysbayou 20]

Originally posted by Uneed_Love

To swallow is a symbolic act. You spit something You dislike but you eat and swallow a good dish. Swallow or share are proofs of Love while IMHO spit is showing some disgust and dislike

 

JC a male opinion about why its important to swallow instead of spit...

 

Umm...I don't mean to be vulgar but the cock is not worried about that when it spits into my mouth. Why should I worry when I spit it out?

[Uneed_Love 15]

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Originally posted by Roxysbayou

Umm...I don't mean to be vulgar but the cock is not worried about that when it spits into my mouth. Why should I worry when I spit it out?

Roxy I assume that the cock which would fill your mouth do not sneak here by surprise... so I should be surprised that it was something done against your will. Am I right ?

 

In such case to spit is a mark of a dislike while to share or to swallow are marks of Respect and Love but that's just my opinion and every one can do as he/she prefers...

 

Take Care.

[OhioCouple 40]

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Originally posted by Uneed_Love

I assume that the cock which would fill your mouth do not sneak here by surprise... so I should be surprised that it was something done against your will. Am I right?

 

In such case to spit is a mark of a dislike while to share or to swallow are marks of Respect and Love but that's just my opinion and every one can do as he/she prefers...

Well, JC...If I follow your pattern of thinking I suppose I'll have to stop sucking cock all together as I don't really care to be disrespectful, especially to my husband. Do you mind telling my him?

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

For what it is worth.

 

I have never been involved with a female that would not swallow and never will be.

 

Not worth much huh?

 

Hey, I've been turned down because I don't prefer doing it doggie style ALL the time, and one particularly good looking female that took an interest in me wanted it anally more than anything, like that was the only way she got off...uh uh....ill do it now and then though.

 

Not my cup of tea.

 

I say to each their own.

 

Swinging or otherwise...I just gotta have a swallower myself. Sure, I'll do it doggie style, or anally when she wants it, but I just don't really get my load off right unless she swallows.....so I say fair's fair. Any gal that I have a LTR with is gonna swallow or its not worth it.......just like she may want me to do her anally sometimes ya know? Now swinging is different...or a sexual relationship...you can't expect someone to do everything for a casual encounter.

[Uneed_Love 15]

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Originally posted by OhioCouple

Well, JC...If I follow your pattern of thinking I suppose I'll have to stop sucking cock all together as I don't really care to be disrespectful, especially to my husband. Do you mind telling my him?

Hmmm I don't want to start World War III

 

Now I must precise something else. There would be 2 very different attitudes to adopt according to the fact that the things happen between "hubby and wife" or "wife and a swapping partner" IMHO.

 

Between a "hubby" and his spouse - as I assume there is Love between those two - my answer is : either swallow either share with a kiss. As i said swallow is a proof of trust and love while spit is showing some disgust. If there is a dislike or a disgust then there is no respect from hubby to ask his wife to do something she dislikes just to please him. Quite selfish from the male and then it's not a mark of kindness, love and attention for the feelings of his wife. But as I assume that a woman does a blow job not to please her man only BUT because she likes it then why not to show him how she loves him and swallow ?

 

Now what about a woman and some occasional swing partners which is a quite different situation ? As there is no real love between the partners but just a search of pleasure and fun, in such case, my advice is : never swallow.... and even more I should say.... suck ONLY if there is a condom to prevent ANY risk... because even if the risk if very low there is always a risk!

 

But as I said previously I can agree people to disagree with me. Those are MY rules for me and my Kitty. She prefers to share instead of swallowing (until now she never swallowed me... sniff sniff) and I respect HER choice. Respect is the key at least it's mine.

 

Kisses to You.

[Brit_Pair 62]

Originally posted by happysexaddict

I have also met a lady (after my marraige unfortunatl;y broke up!) who claimed that she had a second clit inside of her throat which made her have an orgassm just about every time she felt a man's cum sliding down her throat!

Didn't the plot of the classic porno Deep Throat hinge on a similar point? Only in the film, Linda Lovelace's character only had one clitoris, which was down her throat?

[OhioCouple 40]

Originally posted by Uneed_Love

Between a "hubby" and his spouse - as I assume there is Love between those two - my answer is : either swallow either share with a kiss.

Hmmmmm, well to counter you, JC. My husband loves shrimp. I am highly allergic to it. Should I consume it to show my devotion anyway? He loves to hunt and fish, should I adapt and do so even though I cannont bare the thoght of needling a worm through a hook or pumping buck shot into a deer? I respect what he does and I love him, even though I don't necessarily agree with it. So I don't think by saying "NO" I won't swallow, that I disrespect him in any way.

 

P.S. ~ This issue would make you and the hubby great friends! he is definitely on you side of the fence!

[lostinnvcpl 15]

Hello everyone. We are new, here couple 40 and 41. Read some topics before but this one forced me to register up..

 

I been with my wife 19 years. She loves to swallow and loves the way it feels going down. I don't think I could live without it.

 

I have experienced spitters, they jump and run to the bathroom and you hear them spitting you out. It is one the most terrible feeling of rejection I have ever felt. I think I would rather not have a BJ if in the end I am to be rejected like that.

 

Needless to say my wife and I both love to have her give such a wonderful moment to one our special friends. And I can tell you there is nothing more erotic than to watch her get a huge load and swallow it in front of me. Oh and a wonderful kiss from me to top it all off.

[Alura 2,774]

There is no right or wrong in swallowing. It's an individual decision. If a lady makes it plain she doesn't want semen in her mouth, I won't put it there; if she's obviously trying to bring me off and makes it plain she wants it, I'll give her every drop I can muster. I do feel she has the responsibility to tell me what she wants or doesn't want. I shouldn't have to guess.

[ArcaneReference 16]

I think it depends on whether or not he was drinking (rum&coke which I hate) or eating something repulzive like fried food the day before - it upsets the pH balance or something in his body and changes the taste.

[Alura 2,774]

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Originally posted by lostinnvcpl

I think I would rather not have a BJ if in the end I am to be rejected like that.

 

Absolutely, lostinnvcpl! I'd also like to pose a question to the non-swallowing ladies on this board, of whom there seem to be plenty. What would your reaction be to a man who raised his head from your pussy after you climaxed saying, "Ewh! Gross! Spit! Spit! Spit!"? There is plenty of cream there, too.

[Ashley 22]

*laffin* @ Roxy.....she has a point.

 

I have always been told by men that swallowing is an act of acceptance. Therefore, I don't mind doing it. Does it taste like chocolate ice cream? Noooo, but some men's cum tastes better than others and I think diet and health play a large role in that.

 

L is in really good physical condition and his cum is practically tasteless so I do a lot of swallowing *g* Wouldn't do it with a swing partner for the same reason we always use condoms.

[lostinnvcpl 15]

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Originally posted by Alura

"Ewh! Gross! Spit! Spit! Spit!"? There is plenty of cream there, too.

 

lmao. So very true! And another point to make as well. That's where us fellas are always putting our stuff. For some the gals they getting more than their special someones stuff there too. Why should we be expected to eat our own selves out a the ladies?? I mean there's what 100's of millions of those little fishies in there and well ladies I seriously doubt ya can get them all outta there all the time hehehe.

 

Although, I love going down on my wife and she claims it's one my best talents. I actually get even more excited about it after she has been road hard and put away wet by someone else. yummm Best part is she lifts right up off the bed and hits the ceiling. I'd be crazy to let a few 100 million fishy get in the way of her pleasure at that moment.

 

The sacrifices us men must make to keep our ladies happy.

[jdf7379 17]

J is not a big fan of swallowing, although she has done this for me. I do prefer someone to swallow, because after the initial orgasm I don't want to interrupt the bliss I'm experiencing for her to stop to unload. I love it when she is able to keep me in her mouth. Now this is very rare when this happens...because she is just so not into it.

 

I'm special that I have someone who will..."Suck it up" so to speak just to make me happy. Although I have in the past dated girls who where really into it...and that's a turn-on for guys...I think we (guys) do watch too much porn.

[OhioCouple 40]

Originally posted by lostinnvcpl

I have exsperienced spitters, they jump and run to the bathroom and you hear them spitting you out. It is one the most terrible feeling of rejection I have ever felt. I think I would rather not have a BJ if in the end I am to be rejected like that.

First off, welcome to the out of lurking mode and into the posting mode!

 

I have a question lostinnvcpl, would you still have feelings of rejection if you knew in advance that a lady would not take a BJ to completion? Is this something that is part of your criteria when selecting swing partners? Do you by pass couples in which the female half will not swallow? (Nothing wrong with it, I'm just wondering).

 

Oh, and I'm assuming you have been swinging for a while by asking the above questions. Please fee free to correct me!

 

Ms. 'O'

[OhioCouple 40]

Originally posted by Alura

Absolutely, lostinnvcpl! I'd also like to pose a question to the non-swallowing ladies on this board, of whom there seem to be plenty. What would your reaction be to a man who raised his head from your pussy after you climaxed saying, "Ewh! Gross! Spit! Spit! Spit!"? There is plenty of cream there, too.

To answer your question Mr. Alura, if I knew in advance that my partner did not like to lap cream, I'd let them know the moment before hand with a gentle nudge to lift them up and bring them to my face to kiss me while I exploded. Now if they don't kiss....that would be a problem I wouldn't know how to deal with.

 

Ms. 'O'

[LarrySmith 15]

I'll take answer 'C', I love it when she takes it in her mouth, and then lets it dribble out slowly while continuing to suckle my cock.

 

This next part will probably get me flamed, so I apologize in advance:

 

If you gag on it, it's because you've psyched yourself into gagging on it. It has the same texture as ranch dressing, and goes down a lot easier than cold remedy pills. You are trying so hard to avoid the possibility of swallowing the least little bit, that you choke yourself clamping your tongue and soft pallet together, or you have psyched yourself into being so repulsed by it that you react as if you bit into an apple and found half a worm.

 

Gee, I better get off of this soapbox, it's starting to smoulder around the edges.

[Roxysbayou 20]

I like that to Larry. It's not like I am just going to turn around and spit like some kind of vagrant.

 

But I think that any guy who is offended because a woman does spit it out needs some serious therapy. Give me a break.

[OhioCouple 40]

Originally posted by LarrySmith

 

If you gag on it, it's because you've psyched yourself into gagging on it.

I'll have to agree here. In all sincerity, I tried really hard to learn how to swallow, it just doesn't work for me. I agree that if a man did come in my mouth, knowing that I don't care for it...he will end up feeling rejected as I am going to be as sick as all get out. What's better? A little cum on the sheets, breasts...etc, or some cum mixed with the contents of my last meal? I think most men will opt for the delightful aspect of a BJ and be happy to place it anywhere but in my mouth or on my face. Why spoil the evening, 'eh?

 

Ms. 'O'

[jdf7379 17]

here is another question that I (D) have...

 

J doesn't gag on cum, however, deepthroating is a whole different story. Like I said before...I watch way to much porn...but I've lately really been turned on by this one thing. J bless her heart just can't do it. She has a friend (that I declare my lust to daily to her and J) that just seems to be a natural at it. (I'm still trying to talk her into a demonstration). Anyway, my question is...girls...is this something you can just do, or can't?

[DragonsLair 26]

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Originally posted by jdf7379

Anyway, my question is...girls...is this something you can just do, or cant?

 

I think it depends on how strong your gag reflex is. Mine is pretty strong. I guess with time and patience you can train yourself not to gag. But it doesn't sound like much fun doing that training.

[Fire_and_Air 17]

To Swallow or Not to Swallow?

Most of the time I will swallow, as the taste does not offend me. The only times I haven't swallowed "all" of the cum is when he shoots too big a load... it is not so much the taste, but rather the texture which will make the decision for me. If it is too thick, I wouldn't swallow all of it, but rather than turn around and make him aware of that, I would do what LarrySmith mentioned - just let it dribble out of my mouth as I keep sucking on him.

 

Now, as to deep-throating... suppressing the gag reflex really takes practice, practice, practice. Let her start shallow and go a little deeper gradually each time. Personally, I've found it helpful if can breathe easily through my nose... because the only times I've felt like choking or gagging are when I had an allergy or cold and felt as if I couldn't breathe.