2nd MFM could have turned out better

[funz1z 15]

I have a date with a couple that I met online for drinks and more if we click. I am super excited... it's been 25 years since my last and only MFM and I have been fantasizing about repeating that experience ever since.

 

It may seem strange, and I know it's "every guy's fantasy" but the idea of a FMF threesome has never really appealed to me. However the thought of sharing and totally focusing on pleasuring a woman is the most intoxicating fantasy I can imagine.

 

I guess I'm just too excited about the upcoming date to keep it to myself. The other couple is experienced and evidently they approved of my looks because they asked to meet. Id love any input or advice from couples who enjoy MFM threesomes before the big day.

[LFM2 1,482]

to the Board!! So glad you're here. An FMF is not my husbands fantasy, either. We have had our share of MFMs and we love them!! Have fun!!

[funz1z 15]

to the Board!! So glad you're here. An FMF is not my husbands fantasy, either. We have had our share of MFMs and we love them!! Have fun!!

 

Thanks for the welcome. I cant tell you how many times I recall my previous experience. My ex-wife, me, and my best friend were the last ones left at a party we were hosting at a house we had been house sitting for friends of her parents. We were sitting in the hot tub and my wife started flirting with my buddy while she was stroking my cock under the bubbles. She suggested we all take off our bathing suits, we both quickly agreed and she removed her top and bottoms. In the process she was sure to give my friend a view of her perky tits and round ass in the process. After about another 15 minutes of flirting she moved closer and whispered in my ear that she wanted his cock in her mouth while I was fucking her pussy. We had fantasized about this for some time. I still cant believe what my reply was...... I told her that if she was serious I didnt think it would be fair if I was the only one that got to fill her pussy. She quickly agreed and suggested I ask my friend if he was up for it. I was fairly certain he was because his cock had been sprung since he had removed his trunks. I told her to go into the bedroom and I would ask him. She gave me a wink and stood straight up, giving my friend one last look before she exited the tub. I think he figured the show was over but was he ever wrong.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

to the board!

 

How did the date go?

[funz1z 15]

to the board!

 

How did the date go?

 

It wasnt good. We met for drinks. I arrived well groomed, nicely dressed and ready to impress. The couple showed up late and looked like they just finished feeding thier donkeys (yes they have some). I was polite and spent the longest half hour of my life talking about their horses and trying to imagine how I could ever find anything attractive or appealing about her. I wish I would have required at a photo before meeting but didint want to be an ass, no pun intended. I think my 2nd MFM experience will never be realized.

[Pretty Blue Eye 15]

Don't give up. Hang in there. Patience and persistence will pay off.

 

-R

[ViSexual 1,008]

You know, I don't want to sound critical but I think you made a big mistake. And, I think you know it because you wrote it.

 

Guys, if you're agreeing to a threesome with a couple make sure you're going to go through with it.

 

And, before agreeing, make sure you find them as appealing as they find you.

 

This was their fantasy. This was something they'd planned and looked forward to. You, not only spoiled this evening for them, you may have spoiled their whole outlook for future adventures.

 

OK, sorry to be so blunt but, don't agree simply for some immediate gratification..., take your time and get to know them, who they are, what they look like, and what they desire. And, if any of those aren't your cup of tea, step aside and let another guy step in.

[The Fuse 1,012]

I think the only mistake the OP made was not asking for pictures. I don't think anyone is obligated to commit to having sex with someone they haven't yet met. I don't care how long the odds are against any particular person, regardless of single male status. Every person is still a human being, not a toy.

 

Mutual attraction is important, at least to most of us. A picture can help provide a guide, but even then, meeting in person is where the determination is made. Everyone has the right to say, "Thanks, but I don't think it's going to work".

 

funz1z, I would suggest in your communications with a couple, to provide your pictures with approximate dates they were taken, and emphasize that you take care to have good grooming, good hygiene, smell good, and dress appropriately. It's not untoward to state that you think those things are important to have the best chance of mutual attraction. Hopefully people will get the hint if you say that much. I don't think it's asking too much to ask for a few pictures as long as you're tactful and make sure they don't think you're asking for naked pictures. I would never ask someone to meet me without showing what I look like. In my opinion, if they won't show you at least something, then they think it shouldn't matter to you.

 

I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm sure you were really looking forward to the possibilities. I wouldn't give up, though realistic expectations are important. Good luck.

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

I don't think anyone is obligated to commit to having sex with someone they haven't yet met.

 

I absolutely agree. We have met couples online that looked and sounded like PERFECT matches and someone we were sure we would click/ Met them in person, not so much. Vice versa as well, couples we were 50/50 about, turned out to be awesome on person.

 

IF the OP made it sound like it was a sure thing and then did not go through with it, then I can see the couple being upset, but otherwise no. And if he did make it sound 100% sure thing, then that was his 2nd mistake. Backing out if you are not comfortable is not a mistake.

[PB&J 1,086]

Playing is never a done deal until the potential play partners have actually met in person. That's what the dreaded cup of coffee/ drink is for. Anyone who expects it to be otherwise is looking for disappointment. It seems that the OP understood that: he says "for drinks and more if we click" Hopefully the other couple understood it the same way.

[Lascivious L&L 866]

Having been the couple meeting single males for a threesome I can say from experience that there is simply no way to know before that all important first meeting how it will go. You can be so sure everyone is attractive and on the same page only to find that's not the way it works.

 

The surprise for us is how difficult it is to find the right male for a threesome. It's every bit as difficult as finding the right couple for a foursome. The OP sounds as if he had the right attitude, the right presentation, but was met by a couple with a very different sense of presentation. Such happenings aren't rare.

 

To the OP, understand that it will take time and patience to find the right couple. You had an experience impossible to duplicate, that of a couple at the right moment with a friend. The best possible MFM. You don't get many of those opportunities in life. So trying to find a similar match out of those online takes time, patience, and perseverance.