Ana 15 Posted March 6, 2002 I just finished reading the question that Corinne asked, and it helped me get past some issues, I'm one of those guys who's of ave size and thickness, whose told his wife MORE than once that I wish I was a couple of inches longer/wider, but she has told me more than once that I satisfy her, but still worry that if she gets a bigger dick will he satisfy in a way I'll never be able to do, I guess time will tell. Quote Share this post Link to post
gambit 15 Posted April 13, 2002 This is probably one of the most frequently asked questions on the net, and that's a shame, because it's really a pointless question. Penis size is important if and only if you think it is. If you have sex with men and you desire a large penis, then penis size is important to you, and only to you. If you feel your penis should be larger, then penis size is important to you, and only to you. Many women report that too many men are hung up on the size of their penises. The vagina is only eight to thirteen centimeters long, and even a small penis can touch every square centimeter within the vagina. Do not worry about the size of your penis. Let's look at it this way. You don't worry about the size of your feet, do you? They are relatively well proportioned to the rest of your body and serve the task for which they were intended. Whether you believe in evolution or God or something else. Your feet serve their purpose quite well. The penis is the same way. It is "designed" to fit in a vagina and assist in the propagation of the species, period. Wishing to have a penis which is an inch or two longer is purely vanity. Many women say that they too prefer larger penises; however, they too are often speaking from vanity rather than practicality. Once they have experienced the pain of a forcefully thrust penis hitting their cervix they soon desire a more moderately sized penis. In fact, most woman and men, for that matter, don't even know how large a "normal" size penis is. They just know that it should be larger. This is a sure sign that they don't know what they are talking about. So don't worry about the size of the penis. Just have fun with it. Quote Share this post Link to post
Ang101 15 Posted February 19, 2003 Ok. One of my biggest pet peeves is girls who say that if a woman says that size doesn't matter, then they are lying. I personally don't think that size matters. And I am not lying. I have been with many different size guys and have gotten pleasure from all. I don't think that a few "size queens" should speak for all women. I'm not judging anybody. If you like big dicks, that's your thing, more power to ya! I'm one of those girls who just loves them all! I don't have a question or anything. Just wanted to get that off my chest! :evil: Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted February 19, 2003 Originally posted by Ang101 Ok. One of my biggest pet peeves is girls who say that if a woman says that size doesn't matter, then they are lying. I personally don't think that size matters. And I am not lying. I have been with many different size guys and have gotten pleasure from all. I don't think that a few "size queens" should speak for all women. I'm not judging anybody. If you like big dicks, that's your thing, more power to ya! I'm one of those girls who just loves them all! I don't have a question or anything. Just wanted to get that off my chest! :evil: I have an enormous penis. It has been a factor in my life. Not only from the girls that seem to like it but from the guys that seem to like watching here lady take it. At swing clubs I have gotten a whole different response before dress down and after dress down. My love life has been affected by this. Even though I'm broke sometimes the ladies sure like it. Swingers like big dicks. Swingers also like a lot of other things. For us fortunate enough to have a really really big dick we get tired of hearing how size doesn't matter. Generally we go out of our way to avoid the subject. But every once in a while you gotta know it gets to us. Women can flaunt there shit anywhere they go. When I'm not hard my dick is like 3 inches. When I go to the beach no one knows. When I'm at a party absolutely know one would have any idea how large my penis is. Women have it made in the shade. It doesn't matter how you dresss, if your good looking everyone can see it. That doesn't make you pussy any better, but it sure makes you attractive. WHy is it that when women make love to me they just can't get over how HUGE I am? Then they will say to anyone around them that "size doesn't matter". The husbands are worse than the wives. Once they see me hard they want to see their wives get me. I guess its a man thing. HAHAHA.....just kidding cuz females love to have a big one now and then. Its a fantasy for them too guys. But, for a balding old guy that doesn't even have sex I think from past experience that size counts. Not for everyone, but for quite a few. For swingers its just a temporary thing though. I sure won't dismiss it though. John Quote Share this post Link to post
Ang101 15 Posted February 19, 2003 So do you think that maybe guys are more concerned with penis size than women, because they think that is what women want? For me personally, I am more concerned with if we are attracted to eachother and comfortable with eachother than if he has a huge dick. Quote Share this post Link to post
Michcouple 15 Posted February 19, 2003 When it comes to swinging I think that size can matter.....Bigger or smaller That doesn't mean that bigger is better. It does mean it's something different from what your partner is used too. We have trade off with many couples where the "other man" was bigger than myself. Where has my partner enjoyed being with someone bigger.....the "other woman" enjoyed being with someone smaller. Yes there are a few "size queen's" out there....but I serious think they are the minority. Just my two cents. Quote Share this post Link to post
Alura 2,773 Posted February 19, 2003 Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN Generally we go out of our way to avoid the subject. Then they will say to anyone around them that "size doesn't matter". John In our limited experience, two of the guys we played with had big cocks. Neither one told us about it beforehand, while we were in the "discussion stage." One claimed 9.5 inches and looked like it was true. Mrs. Alura insisted the other guy was larger, but she had no trouble accomodating either. I don't know if her height would be a factor or not; she's 5'9". She certainly seemed to enjoy both! She still says "size doesn't matter." She's usually noisy during her climaxes but she seemed a bit louder than normal to me with both men. It may not matter, but she sure had a good time! Mr. Alura Quote Share this post Link to post
J & K 16 Posted February 20, 2003 "J" here the male half of "K" Well I hear size. Is that length or girth or both. I have a erect size of 6 to 6.5 inches with a normal girth size. Never had a complaint. I know taller women have longer canels verse a smaller lady. My wife is 5 ft 2 inches and when I go all the way in sometimes it hurts her and long toys hurt her, but short with girth she likes very much. I think size ionly matters to what feels good on a lady. There is more to a man than his dick when having sex. If it was all based on dick size for ladies then we wouldn't need a thing called foreplay ever. How long you are in a non-erect status don't matter. Hell--if it is cold out or I wear tight underwear all bunched up and a lady saw me naked she would go what a small dick---lol. Then when it is warm or been naked for a while it is a bit longer just "hanging"around. There are men that have "Long" dicks of 7 inches or more and have no girth and vice versa. There are ave dicks of 5 to 6.5 inches that have girth and vice versa. We can only use what we were born with. There are ladies out there that their man just has a big dick so they think anything less than their man is "small" so they compare thinking a smaller dick than their man won't please them. So they ask for men with big dicks----then that is where men get this "Dick size" complextion problem because woman are demanding it. Is sex all based on dick size? To some it is which I feel sorry for them women. Some awesome good looking men who are great in bed will get passed up because they have an ave dick size. Is it how big it is or how well you are in bed? There is more to sex than penetration. The ave woman has an canel length of 7 inches. Anything longer than that a ave woman can't take. Ave I mean is 5 ft 5 inches tall. Now the majority of women can take any girth size and a large girth can make women sore but very rare if there is enough lube. Heck---a baby's head is bigger than a dick---lol. Also---a woman's canel only feels the penis the first 2 inches and the canel after that just makes a ballon shape which isn't around the penis. Her nerve endings pretty much stop feeling anything after 2 inches. So why would size matter then? Maybe it is just a way of having longer strokes. The tip of your dick is bigger than the shaft---maybe woman ought to say they want a large "head" on a dick than the length. Then men will start comparing the heads of their dicks----lol. Anyways---if "longer" dick men want to boost about their dick size---who cares. It isn't the size that gives a woman an orgasm---it is how well the man has sex overall. Touching, kissing, blowing, foreplay, etc. If you don't have them skills no matter how big you are a woman will have just plain sex. Her whole body has nerve endings to give her an orgasm--not just her canel. We men on the other hand our main nerve ending is our dick and that is why we want all the attention on it compared to women who want the WHOLE body being please. Enough said on Size matters---what a joke!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post
OhioCouple 40 Posted February 20, 2003 Penis size is of importance to me. For whatever reason after I had my hysterectomy I find a larger penis to be extremely uncomfortable. In length though not girth (I don't know how you guys figure out girth anyway). We have some friends that we have met and enjoy being with them for non sexual activities but admittedly I am scared to death to take it to a penetration level based on his penis size. The thought of it just makes me stop dead in my tracks and I lose all interest. Now I don't really know what constitues big, but this person is probably 9 or more inches. My comfort level is 6 inches or less and with even my own husband who is in what they call the average range, there are certain sexual postions that we cannot enjoy due to the penetration becoming too painfull for me. I wish that he could shave off an inch or so.... Larger penis' are a huge turn off to me. I think that sometimes overly endowed men tend to be less focused on pleasure and more focused on ramming what they think women want...... Guys, your turn to speak up here. Lori Quote Share this post Link to post
OhioCouple 40 Posted February 20, 2003 J & K, Wish I would have waited another day to read your post and then I could have just said.... DITTO! Lori Quote Share this post Link to post
Additude 457 Posted February 20, 2003 What I usually say is, "Honey, I may not be long...but I'm built like a beer can"! No complaints from the ladies ever. More compliments than not. Size of dick is to some what large breasts are to others. I consider it a personal thing and not something that should be a consus judgement. If you do, you do. If you don't, then you don't. Quote Share this post Link to post
2New2it 19 Posted February 20, 2003 We have a slightly different slant on this. My wife has had a man with about 10 inches and average thickness. She said it was extremely painful and says my 7 inches is about right for length. She might be able to handle 8, but that's it. What she has never had is a really thick penis and she keeps hoping to find one attached to a man she is attracted to. We are not promiscuous and are only interested in threesomes, so we make a point of asking for a nude photo before we decide to meet her playmate. We have seen photos that look great and by the time they get into bed, the advertised thick 8-incher is a modestly-thick 6 inches. Short of asking for photos with a ruler, we are lost for a way to deter disappointment before getting in bed. Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted February 21, 2003 The well endowed men really need to know how to use half of it when neccessary. That technique took me a while to learn, but the biggest problem I have with it is that somtimes small women want me to really push hard at the last moment. It is painful to me to ejaculate into a "wall" so to speak. It isn't penis size, its the whole package that counts. Being well endowed, I certainly have had my fair share of compliments on that subject, and it really seems like the guys that watch me with their wives get off on it more than the wives do...size concerning. I get many more compliments on my gentle love making techniques though. I try to let the woman tell me which way to go. Some like it very hard and very fast. I don't go for that. Some like it slow and with an increasing beat until the "moment". I like that. I have though mastered the technique of using as much as is appropriate and have been shocked at how even as much as I have to offer doesn't seem like enough sometimes. It is because I just can't thrust for hours on end. I have a back that won't allow it. I try to make up for it by using long foreplay and lots of positions because using the same position seems to aggravate my back if i do repeated thrusts. Oh well, size counts but so does the whole picture. Im kinda happy that I got my big ole dong in the long run cuz I can use as much of it as I want to. LOL JOhn. Quote Share this post Link to post
Chicup 41 Posted February 21, 2003 I'm about 6 inches which is 'average' but a bit bigger in girth then most and that seems to make women very happy. Most women I know have answered that girth is more important than length (within limits). Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted February 21, 2003 My only point was that size does count. Whether its small, fat, long or short. John. Quote Share this post Link to post
Sweetdevil 17 Posted February 21, 2003 Philosophically speaking, size does matter. But we are dealing with reality and most women do not want "Mr. Big Dick" all the time. My wife and other women have constantly stated, "...a big dick is good every now and then, but not all time, nor most of the time. It just good to have a big one every now and then." So, now we have to deal with "what is a big dick?" It is relative to the individual woman preference. Some women like length over girth, some like girth over length, there are some who like both girth and length, and some like medium for all the different type of sex they can have. So philosophically, size does matter but it depends on the woman's sexual desires and needs. Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted February 21, 2003 Originally posted by Sweetdevil Philosophically speaking, size does matter. But we are dealing with reality and most women do not want "Mr. Big Dick" all the time. My wife and other women have constantly stated, "...a big dick is good every now and then, but not all time, nor most of the time. It just good to have a big one every now and then." So, now we have to deal with "what is a big dick?" It is relative to the individual woman preference. Some women like length over girth, some like girth over length, there are some who like both girth and length, and some like medium for all the different type of sex they can have. So philosophically, size does matter but it depends on the woman's sexual desires and needs. It heals my heart to know that I am wanted even if its "every now and then", lol. JOhn. Quote Share this post Link to post
LadyandLordAro 15 Posted February 23, 2003 My ego that is Lil guy seems to be very happy with his size, and I have never had a complaint about leaving a woman unsatisfied. ( maybe they were just nice..I really have no clue ) I think the only way a bigger cock wouold improve my life would be the fact that i would be more desoreable as a porn star..after I lost a few lbs of course lol. By the way..the wife says most men with a big cock have only that going for them..they have no clue how to use it Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted February 24, 2003 Originally posted by LadyandLordAro My ego that is Lil guy seems to be very happy with his size, and I have never had a complaint about leaving a woman unsatisfied. ( maybe they were just nice..I really have no clue ) I think the only way a bigger cock wouold improve my life would be the fact that i would be more desoreable as a porn star..after I lost a few lbs of course lol. By the way..the wife says most men with a big cock have only that going for them..they have no clue how to use it Well, I'd make a lousy porn star, but as far as knowing how to use it, that depends more on the size of the organ between the ears than the one between the legs IMHO. John. Quote Share this post Link to post
JustAskJulie 2,595 Posted February 24, 2003 Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN I have an enormous penis. John Ok John, I want proof! :p Quote Share this post Link to post
babydragon 16 Posted February 24, 2003 I will firstly say, I am not trying to flame anyone nor belittle any male here, I just think you need to get over yourselfs. Men in general seem to foget that a woman has no real nerve ending inside the vagina, our nerve ending are at the opening and for mabye a couple of inches inside. Your right a huge cock might attract some woman but from my own experience, I have to say no thanks, sex is suppoded to be fun not painful. I am 5'5 and after 4 kids, anything over 7 inches is extremely painful. At the time I didn't think anything of it, but I realised afterwards that I had been unable to grip the cock with my muscles Like i do with my own hubby. The man was really understanding about it all and even took it as a compliment, but for me, I was in major pain the next day. So yes size does matter, but not the way you think. I'd say nine out of ten ladies here would state, if given a choice that they would prefer someone with girth more than lenght. I would love to find a nice thick one but if you put anything over 7 inches I'll start to cringe:( . Everywoman's body is different, yeah maybe your wife can take 10inches maybe she can only take 5inches. but at the end of the day if your SO can satifiy you who cares???? Quote Share this post Link to post
J & K 16 Posted February 24, 2003 BabyDragon--you must of read my post here and it came from a male writing it---hehehehe---me. Quote Share this post Link to post
babydragon 16 Posted February 24, 2003 Originally posted by J & K BabyDragon--you must of read my post here and it came from a male writing it---hehehehe---me. I did read it lol, I was not going against you, just stating it from a woman's point of view, which I believe is just as valid as a males point of view??? Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted February 25, 2003 Julie Yeah I have proof. you little shit. I just posted this to stir up the pot because us guys with large members are really put down sometimes. Some of actually know how to use it. And like I said I even know how to use half of it...or if necessary less....its all in the technique. Now and therefore....i would gladly post it for you right here on the sight but I for one would not like my daughter seeing it, so I will send you a personal photo and you can just tell me if its enormous. I am really charged up by this conversation though. I see a lot of super defensiveness concerning this subject. Hey I do have an enormous cock. I get tired of people saying that isn't a part of SOME peoples desires. Its like if your well hung you must be bad at lovemaking, or you should never disclose the fact. HAHA I Did. I have an enormous cock AND I know how to use it so there!! If you like little cocks then thats cool though. John.....Julie, tell us all what you think anyhow......lmfao Johh. Quote Share this post Link to post
babydragon 16 Posted February 25, 2003 Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN Julie Yeah I have proof. you little shit. I just posted this to stir up the pot because us guys with large members are really put down sometimes. Some of actually know how to use it. And like I said I even know how to use half of it...or if necessary less....its all in the technique. Now and therefore....i would gladly post it for you right here on the sight but I for one would not like my daughter seeing it, so I will send you a personal photo and you can just tell me if its enormous. I am really charged up by this conversation though. I see a lot of super defensiveness concerning this subject. Hey I do have an enormous cock. I get tired of people saying that isn't a part of SOME peoples desires. Its like if your well hung you must be bad at lovemaking, or you should never disclose the fact. HAHA I Did. I have an enormous cock AND I know how to use it so there!! If you like little cocks then thats cool though. Johh. Are we reading the same posts here? All I was saying was that sometimes trying to fit a HUGE (as you put it) cock into someone who just cant accomodate it is very painful. Immagine trying to put on a condom that is too small, it hurts right? you often end up splitting it? correct?. Well a woman cant just split open to accommodate any size. Most woman do have a fantasy about the well hung male, hell even I do , but fatasy and being able to live that fantasy is sometimes just impossible. On a Personal note from baby, I'd love to see a pic *giggle* Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted February 25, 2003 Originally posted by babydragon Are we reading the same posts here? All I was saying was that sometimes trying to fit a HUGE (as you put it) cock into someone who just cant accomodate it is very painful. Immagine trying to put on a condom that is too small, it hurts right? you often end up splitting it? correct?. Well a woman cant just split open to accommodate any size. Most woman do have a fantasy about the well hung male, hell even I do , but fatasy and being able to live that fantasy is sometimes just impossible. On a Personal note from baby, I'd love to see a pic *giggle* Oh its just a big cock. But as I have said before, even with the love of my life it got to be interference at times....cuz when whe wanted me to shove I felt like I was coming into a brick wall. That is very uncomfortable to me. But for the sake of love I took it. She just demanded that right at the moment of truth that I PUSH...when i just wanted to go in and out slowly..... She was tiny though and I always respected that. You can have a pic too though if you just wanna see another huge cock. Its not the point though. But sure... Hey if anyone posts this on this board im gonna really be upset. Any one else want one? John. Quote Share this post Link to post
babydragon 16 Posted February 25, 2003 Just on a side note to John, please clear some of your message box, it's full. Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted February 25, 2003 im catching on now. I just realized that it defaults to "last five days" I had messages in there from last year....damnit..sorry for those of you that I did not respond to. John. The puter GENIUS Quote Share this post Link to post
LadyandLordAro 15 Posted February 25, 2003 what are you going to do when the terrorists unleash smallcox on us? If a lady has a smallcox vaccination what does that mean? If a man has one what does that mean? the news about smallcox is scary...when i think of the implications..wow..will it mean there will only be smallcox? or...what does no more smallcox mean? wait.. hell we are all hung..smallcox been eradicated sorry. Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted February 25, 2003 Originally posted by LadyandLordAro what are you going to do when the terrorists unleash smallcox on us? If a lady has a smallcox vaccination what does that mean? If a man has one what does that mean? the news about smallcox is scary...when i think of the implications..wow..will it mean there will only be smallcox? or...what does no more smallcox mean? wait.. hell we are all hung..smallcox been eradicated sorry. ill tell ya one thing. NO ONE is gonna give me a SMALLCOX vaccination!! OH you must be thinking of big pocks. damn that scared me. john. Quote Share this post Link to post
Emy_Fraser 15 Posted February 26, 2003 Originally posted by babydragon So yes size does matter, but not the way you think. I'd say nine out of ten ladies here would state, if given a choice that they would prefer someone with girth more than lenght. I would love to find a nice thick one but if you put anything over 7 inches I'll start to cringe:( . Everywoman's body is different, yeah maybe your wife can take 10inches maybe she can only take 5inches. but at the end of the day if your SO can satifiy you who cares???? This is so true. I am very tight, no kids, and also sometimes if the guy isn't very good at getting me ready I can tense up so its hard to get a finger in there. However, we do meet one couple where the husband is what I would call very large but he's really good with it and takes his time. I can manage him fine but I think he's a very good lover. The first time we met them Fraser was supposed to be playing the the wife of the couple and he asked for a time out so he could watch me and the husband, as he couldn't believe I had managed to take him. So I think I can manage large ones but its my opinion that a lot of the guys with big ones are not the best at using them. Quote Share this post Link to post
Brit_Pair 62 Posted February 26, 2003 Not wanting to appear to be deriding the larger male members here (board members, that is), but bigger-than-average cocks seem to have an almost novelty value appeal. I myself have idly fantasised about my wife encountering a cock of truly mammoth proportions, just to see how she (please excuse the pun) handled it. Would she gorge herself on it, like an ice cream aficionado left alone with the keys to the Haagen-Dazs factory? But how long would the fascination of extreme length and girth persist? And would that alone be sufficient to overcome any physical discomfort encountered? I think BabyDragon’s on the money – satisfaction is what counts at the day’s end. And whether it's ten centimetres or ten inches, so long as it's putting a smile on your partner's face, it's one more reason to be cheerful. Quote Share this post Link to post
OhioCouple 40 Posted February 26, 2003 Originally posted by JustAskJulie Ok John, I want proof! :p I've tossed around commenting on this for a couple of days and since I am feeling somewhat spicy I just have to say this. I'm not really sure what constitutes big, but Uberkraker posted a pic of the largest "cock" I had ever laid eyes to in my life. Since that posting was in response to a spamming pic collector claiming to have big cock pics for trade (Your pic got his) for fun, it is no longer here on the website, BUT Uberkraker would you mind reposting that in say maybe the General Cafe so that all these folks can understand and guage their own by your pic of the big cock? I for one cracked up laughing on your response to that poster and still laugh about it, I hated to see the thread go as it was perfectly timed and so very comical. Spam is spam though and it isn't tolerated around here. Lori Quote Share this post Link to post
babydragon 16 Posted February 26, 2003 Personally I would like to see a range of different sizes, not for the stare part, but for comparison. Quote Share this post Link to post
MagicEnigma 16 Posted February 27, 2003 Girth, that does it for me, much more than how long a man is. The longer I'm sexually active, the less inches mean. Quote Share this post Link to post
d and K 15 Posted February 27, 2003 As an average guy...i have found that regardless of how large and thick it mattters on how you put it to use....... One guy who was the talk of a party boasteda 10 inch and thick one ......unfortuanaly he only lasted a minute or two.......once. ( yes a new twist on the turtle and hare) Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted February 28, 2003 Mine is 9 inches long and if you put a tape measure around it it is 6 inches in circumference. That makes it rather long and rather thick. But, I have seen my partners go wild over guys that have 5 inchers and can wiggle better than I can....so its all in the beholder.....and what cums out if it is what you want to. I have been with guys that are bigger than me screwing my lady and it was a turn on, just because my ladies always prefer large dicks..... But they always came home with me...well they did...lol. One of these days Im gonna hook another one. But of course she won't know my dick size until I hook her....damnit. Its all fun...John. Quote Share this post Link to post
couple4openplay 15 Posted May 30, 2003 Share your inputs and thoughts here and lets see what we can cum up with! Quote Share this post Link to post
Roxysbayou 20 Posted May 30, 2003 For me it's girth not lenght that matters. It doesn't make a difference if you've 20 inches, you not getting much more than 6 into me. Quote Share this post Link to post
thump29 16 Posted May 31, 2003 Size doesnt matter as much as long as the guy knows what he is doing with what god gave him. There is such a thing as being to big. Quote Share this post Link to post
Brit_Pair 62 Posted May 31, 2003 Originally posted by Roxysbayou For me it's girth not length that matters.Bless you, Roxy. Quote Share this post Link to post
azwildcat 15 Posted May 31, 2003 Well, to be honest some say that it doesn't when it really does to them. well, me,myself i would rather have a guy who knew what he was doing, then a guy with a huge one, who didn't it's not the size of the boat, but the motion in the ocean BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the wilder half of the couple(FEMALE) Quote Share this post Link to post
mopek 15 Posted June 1, 2003 Well I agree with Azwildcat that some say it's not that important when it may be.... But I think Roxy nailed it when she said it's GIRTH not length that counts. It doesn't take much more than 4 inches to fully penetrate a vagina so that means that most guys are adequate in the length department. It's silly that they/we all want 10+inches when 6 are enough. I believe that size(girth) may matter performance-wise. Having a thicker penis does 2 things to help performance. 1 - it stretches fills a woman more completely allowing for more area being stimulated and more easily creating an orgasmic plateau = she will cum faster. 2- Because of #1 ... the man will not have to thrust so much to bring the woman to orgasm which means he will last longer .... That is my belief about size from a strictly performance standpoint. Using that variable ALONE , it does matter. But there are MANY other variables that have an effect on the whole outcome of a sexual encounter. - Some women can't take bigger than average - the man's attitude and character matter alot more and vice-versa for women - comfort - cleanliness etc.... just my 2 cents... mopek Quote Share this post Link to post
JustAskJulie 2,595 Posted June 6, 2003 I just merged a couple of older threads into this one. Feel free to continue to add your responses. Quote Share this post Link to post
What A Girl 15 Posted June 11, 2003 Penis size is VERY important to me. I am extremely tight and a very large or wide penis hurts. I can use all the K-Y in the world and it still hurts. It doesn't only hurt me but the man also. I have on numerous occasions cut a mans penis. I am sure this wasn't a pleasant experience for the guy. So yes, I can't have them too long or too wide. Quote Share this post Link to post
Bob123 15 Posted June 11, 2003 I thought I already replied to this post. Didn't I? Oh well I must be getting senile or something cause I cannot find my reply. So I have heard about some likeing girth the most even though most of the measurements people give about penises are length. I have read the studies and such about what average girth is now I would like peoples opinions. What is average girth? What is large girth? What is small girth? Quote Share this post Link to post
Dionysis 15 Posted August 4, 2003 I don't know if this is going to help but I'm going to say it anyways. Endowment is random. If your big, be proud its just one talent someone else doesn't have. And I mean that, 'talent.' You can't do anything to make it bigger so why fret over it. Ok women can get breast enhancements with little medical consequences. They also don't pee out of their tits either. Again, why worry about it. You can't change your size. Its like being upset you're too short or too fat. Some things just can't be changed. And it ticks me off when I see couples that only want well hung men to play with them. It really doesn't matter. Worry about something important like your child's education and safety. Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted August 5, 2003 Originally posted by Dionysis I don't know if this is going to help but I'm going to say it anyways. Endowment is random. If your big, be proud its just one talent someone else doesn't have. And I mean that, 'talent.' You can't do anything to make it bigger so why fret over it. Ok women can get breast enhancements with little medical consequences. They also don't pee out of their tits either. Again, why worry about it. You can't change your size. Its like being upset you're too short or too fat. Some things just can't be changed. And it ticks me off when I see couples that only want well hung men to play with them. It really doesn't matter. Worry about something important like your child's education and safety. I wouldnt let it bother you. Like so many have said, its just swinging. Many couples want young men....im outta that one. Many like guys that are long haired too.......ixnay on the airhay. Its all a matter of hey, whatever works with whoever you hook up with. Most of the adds are pic hounds anyhow. Im well endowned and can verify that wihout hesitation. John Quote Share this post Link to post
Couple_DFW 15 Posted August 6, 2003 Size matters to a degree. Roxy is correct with the girth thing. However, I was recently with a man that was very small and I didn't enjoy the evening. That could have been because I became uncomfortable at the last minute and just got things done and over with. (That's where I should have just bowed out and said no but I didn't......) D is a bit above average and to be honest, anything less just doesn't feel right. Now that could be because he has me spoiled rotten and I don't think there is a better lover anywhere. I did date a guy once, many years ago, that was 12" (honest to God) and I kept a urinary track infection for months. My body was glad when he was gone!! That was really too big.....he could have used that thing as a weapon!! In all seriousness tho......it takes a man that knows more than just how to stick it in. P Quote Share this post Link to post