Swinging with siblings or in-laws?

[rounder 17]

Just bored tonight; thus the topic (certain to draw flames; hopefully not resulting in getting banished). With all the experiences being posted (and some indication that some people have been caught or nearly caught in the act by in-laws), it might be safe to assume that swinging family situations have arisen (a few have been posted). This is merely a hypothetical question (although it would be interesting to hear about any real experiences), so treat it like an unscientific poll.

 

Here's the question: Under the right circumstances, would you ever participate in a swinging experience with a sibling? This might be having merely having sex in the same room (say, two brothers or sisters on vacation having sex with own spouses in same motel room without swapping); it might involve swapping spouses with sibling; it might have been a double-dating experience in which you observe sibling having sex). I guess the truly extreme kinkiness would involve bro & sis swapping partners in same room or even participating in a full swap (I think this is called "incest"). Since most undoubtedly would not consider any of these acts, there's no need to ask about parents/parents-in-law.

 

If a sibling started getting frisky with husband/wife, would it be possible to get caught up in the moment and start fooling around with your spouse in front of your sibling (to the point that it would lead to openly having sex)? Or is this totally off limits?

 

Again, don't waste your time flaming...this is just a curious question regarding the limits to which your swinging would go (realizing the repercussions that might follow at the next holiday gathering).

 

Myself, I would never consider this with brother & his wife...she's a bitchy control-freak and he's annoying enough in real life (and my wife can't stand being around him, much less being intimate with him).

 

Anybody comfortable enough with sibling to get naked and do the nasty in front of them? Or have you heard about anybody who has done this?

[Roxysbayou 20]

I have never thought about this before. But my sister is not really as wild as me when it comes to sex. At least not that I know of. But if the situation ever arose, I don't see any big deal about doing it in the same room with my spouse and she with her spouse. Swapping, I don't see that happening. I did have a friend that I grew up with that had sex regualrly with her brother. Starting from about age eight and all the way through high school and probably later. Actually when I had my first time and didn't achieve an orgasm, she gave me a few pointers. When I asked how she new all of this, she openly admitted it to me. I heard all about oral and various positions through her. It always struck me as odd (other than for obvious reasons) because she had boyfriends that she was involved with sexually as well. I guess that because it was her brother she didn't consider it cheating. Who knows. In my opinion, because it started at such an early age, she just grew up with it as a normal thing. I am sure that she realized that it was wrong, but I guess she did it anyway. She admitted enjoying it and having orgasms. But I can help but think that it warped her in her later relationships. I saw her go through a lot of guys.

[OhioCouple 40]

During our High School years, (me being the youngest) my sister, oldest brother and myself went out on a 'triple' date with our dates to the drive in. We all ended up doing some kissing and heavy petting with our own dates. The only way that Dad would let us girls go out on any date was for the oldest brother to be there. Boy, not one to let two tag along sisters and their dates drag him down, did what he wanted to do and we just figured "Hey, if you can't beat 'em, join 'em."

 

I think it would be safe to say we had the steamiest car in the lot...

 

As for getting naked in front of them and doing the ditty, I could have never done it.

[Brit_Pair 62]

Much as we might try, we can't conceive of being in a situation where anything sexual took place in the presence of family, period. "Never say never", the wise say. Well, it's extremely unlikely, all the same.

 

And as for the more extreme scenario, we haven't even fully swapped with strangers/comparative strangers, so the chances of us entering into such an experience with sibblings or in-laws are about 273 points south of zero.

[Bluebirds in San Jose 17]

Same-room sex has happened with siblings... actually, it was same-tent sex on a camping trip.

 

It was dark, so, no, I never *saw* my wife's sister and her husband .... but we certainly heard them, and they heard us. The occasional bumping knee or shoulder was the contact we had, though. We all had one of the best weekends out camping -- EVER.

 

It was more emotionally satisfying than anything else; we all thought it brought the four of us closer than ever before.

[bbcpl4cpl 17]

Okay, well before I truly knew what swinging was or anything I (I was 17) had my little half sister and her boyfriend (both were 16) over for the night at my apartment. My sister was on the floor and I was on the bed. She started kissing her boyfriend but wouldn't go further with me in the room and I was teasing her and him. Well, she stayed kissing him and I ended up giving him a blowjob on the floor. Nothing went any further than that. It was just in fun.

[Ashley 22]

My family is not sexually open enough for anything like that to ever happen. I did meet a woman on the houseboat trip however that told me an intriguing story. It seems she came out to her adult daughter and since that time, the daughter and her hubby have become swingers also. Now they frequent the same club. V said it doesn't bother her so long as they don't share the same play space. I just can't conceive of ever being that open with my children.

[sexypairca 41]

I have never considered it before and after doing so I am quite confident that it would never happen.

[Vjklander 138]

Well, lessee, my brother and I were part of a group of buds who used to pack our gear in our old hearse and grab some girls and beer and go camping in the White Mts of New Hampshire. It wasn't really swinging as much as an all out orgy. I guess two bros banging a girl at the same time counts. Then there is my wife's aunt, she might be mid 70's but she is the sexiest woman I've ever seen. She used to do nudie pics in the 1950's in Germany. We also had an interesting night with one of our friends and her daughter. Bi-women are proof the Gods love us and want us to be happy.

[Ttownsingle 15]

I can remember being around the adults as a younger guy (19) and I always thought there was something going on between some family members. Come to find out though my dad and step mother were sharing a camper with my aunt and uncle on campout and they were having sex in front of each other in the middle of the day. My dad told me this over some beer one day when discussing sex in general. He also told me when he and his siblings were all in their 20s-30s they thought nothing of skinny dipping in front of each other and with friends. Myself on the other hand, i have a step sister who is a stripper that i could probably picture having same room sex with no swapping, but that's b/c thats kind of her lifestyle, and i'm open to anything.

[perlwizard 15]

Originally posted by Ttownsingle

He also told me when he and his siblings were all in their 20s-30s they thought nothing of skinny dipping in front of each other and with friends.

 

I have gone skinny dipping with my brother(s) and his girlfriend. Not sure it would go any further than that though.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

I can't remember for sure which one, but I do remember that at one of the clubs in MI, the club owners son is the DJ.

 

I have a good friend who's mother is a member of the same swing club they are regulars at. They discovered this during Christmas when the mother spotted the Christmas card from the club on the mantle.

 

I know of a family that does amateur porn, where both the mother and daughter swing. To my knowledge they don't play with each other... but they have been known to play together (same room whatever).

 

My first bi encounter was with my sister in law (brothers wife) - he was not in the same room, but was within earshot. I have had sex in the same room while my bro was having sex with her tho.

[EternallySingle 32]

A woman from a swinger's magazine wrote and asked if I knew three other guys (ok, she did specifically ask for black guys) who would be interested in a gang bang for her sister's birthday. I joked with my brothers and my cousin about this and they said it sounded like fun. A few days later, my brother asked if I had called her and later that day I did.

 

Afterwards, I learned that my brothers and cousin had done that often when growing up in Chicago so it was no big deal for them.

[rounder 17]

Originally posted by JustAskJulie

I can't remember for sure which one, but I do remember that at one of the clubs in MI, the club owners son is the DJ.

 

I have a good friend who's mother is a member of the same swing club they are regulars at. They discovered this during Christmas when the mother spotted the Christmas card from the club on the mantle.

 

I know of a family that does amateur porn, where both the mother and daughter swing. To my knowledge they don't play with each other... but they have been known to play together (same room whatever).

 

My first bi encounter was with my sister in law (brothers wife) - he was not in the same room, but was within earshot. I have had sex in the same room while my bro was having sex with her tho.

 

Julie--were either you or your brother at all freaked out by the situation (seeing each other having sex) or was the experience comfortable for you (just a normal swinging encounter)? Have to admit that the idea of you & your sis-in-law having sex together is titillating (and must have been a real rabble-rouser for your husbands). Also, did you and your brother have sex with each other's hetero spouses? Did the family aspect (both the bi encounter and the same room play) add/detract to the experience or was it just the same as any other play (of course, the bi experience was probably special, being your first, but otherwise...does the question make any sense)? Thanks for satisfying my curiosity.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

No we never swapped... that would have required a bit of incest.

 

As far as the same room sex... it was dark and we were in seperate beds so it was no big deal there either. That was before we ever really got into swinging much, so I couldn't say it was "just another experience".

[Weezie 16]

One of my sister in laws knows what we do. A few months after we became swingers, my husband couldn't wait to tell someone about what we were doing. I guess he trusted her enough. Word traveled to the other sister in law and her boyfriend. Now when are around there are constant jokes and innuendoes. It's really funny. But no, we would never do anything like that. There's just no sexual attraction.

[Bluebirds in San Jose 17]

It's really funny. But no, we would never do anything like that. There's just no sexual attraction.

 

Don't just assume that there isn't any attraction.... The thought's passed through the minds of the men involved. They won't admit it, of course, but....

 

... they're MEN! for crying out loud!

[Roxysbayou 20]

Originally posted by Bluebirds in San Jose

Don't just assume that there isn't any attraction.... The thought's passed through the minds of the men involved. They won't admit it, of course, but....

 

... they're MEN! for crying out loud!

 

-J

 

... I know that is true! Hubbys cousins dropped in earlier this week and I thought that I was going to have to pull out the mop to soak up the drool that was running from his mouth!

[AndynRoxy 15]

You just can't help it. If they show up in tight ass hugging jeans and a barely there shirt with cleavage hanging out everywhere, you just have to look.