Is anyone married to a 100% straight girl?
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mikeswinger56, in Bisexual Swingers
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By goatstar
I am in a situation where there are two straight girls who like me and I know that they don't like girls but I want to have a threesome with them. But I know the only kind of threesome that would be possible would be a FMF threesome where the females don't interact. I have had FFM threesomes where the females interact, but never this scenario.
How would you set about something like this because I do know that there are threesomes in which the females don't interact.
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By northindycpl
Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew Quote:
I'd never really pondered this a lot until talking with one of my friends. She was talking about a couple they'd just met and I asked if the women of the couple was bi. She said, "how many couples do you know where the women's not bi?". Hell, actually, I don't know any. I think it is a rarity to have a straight women in a swinging couple. Seems to me that it would make for an odd dynamic if the woman was straight. Often, when you meet a new couple, it's the ladies that get together first---at least in our experience. So, if you take that out of the equation, it seems like it would be more difficult to start the play.
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I have often wondered that myself. What do you do with a str8 woman in a foursome? I would really consider myself str8, as opposed to a lesbian, and playfully adaptive as opposed to str8. So what would I do if Mr. Indy and husband X were playing with str8 wife x? Let's say she is sucking my husband and hers is screwing her.... so I file my fingernails and wait?
I would really like to be enlightened on this topic if there are str8 women out there that could help?
The only str8 woman I have seen was at a club (swinging that is), and she was in a gang bang. I wouldn't suppose that is is all str8 women want, is it? I mean sans swap, or girl-girl (obviously).
Would a str8 woman be offended if a women touched her during play?
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By NJ Couple
Yep, intimidating. Not to ME, mind you, but to a lot of straight girls. Contrary to popular belief amongst males, not all girls are bi or bi-curious. Sorry guys. A lot of straight women I know are afraid of swing clubs because of the high interest in FF action. They worry because they think it'll be expected of them. I've never seen a girl get pressured into a girl on girl session at a club, but I do know girls that kinda said they were bi because of peer pressure.
If a girl is totally straight, that's fine with me. I hope that no woman is afraid of admitting she is not into other women for fear of being looked down upon. Be honest and truthful, for here is a man who would have sex with you ANYWAY! jk.
But seriously, you know what I mean. I hate to think that some women have to lie and feel intimidated because of the bi thing and should see that there are just as many women who are straight and happy that way.
That's all I have to say about that.
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By JustAskJulie
Ok, reading this post from OhioCouple got me thinking about how I discovered that I was bi.
I never would have considered myself bi at all or even attracted to women. Then one day a good friend of mine told me that she had been having dreams about us together. We started talking about it from there and a few months later she was my first. So in those few months I would say I was definitely bi-curious. Once I crossed that line and we had our first experience together I was definitely bi.
Prior to that I never would have even considered the thought of being with another woman. The idea was not a turn on. However, I could very easily look at other women and say "hey she's hot". I would even hang out with the guys I worked with and we would judge women as they walked by.
So for me, in a way a switch did one day just flip when the right woman came along. I am to this day extremely picky about those women I am willing to be with. Much more so than I am with men. For women their looks do have to turn me on. For men I look more for personality and they have to get to me mentally. With a woman I'm not looking for some emotional connection, basically just a woman that turns me on.
So now the question for those of you ladies who do consider yourself bisexual. What was the turning point for you where you went from being a straight woman only interested in men, to being a bisexual woman who was turned on by the ideas of being with another woman?
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By arvcpl
Hello, male half here. I need some advice and guidance on a common issue in the lifestyle.
First a little background, we have been active in the lifestyle for a year or so. I am fit and healthy (I workout, no beer gut) try to dress nice, am perfectly groomed and clean. I am of pleasant disposition and can carry on an intelligent conversation on a wide variety of topics and I am not obsessed with sex and can talk to women about anything and am always respectful and courteous.
Here's the problem, my wife is downright beautiful and I am not. I am not deformed or disfigured but I am no Brad Pitt by any stretch of the imagination, I am just a face in the crowd. It seems like it is pretty universal in the lifestyle that the female halves of couples are significantly more attractive than their male partners. My wife is straight and has no interest in F/F play so we are not one of those couples where the women play and the men just sit on the sidelines. Wherever we go she could have any male in the room but of course is only interested in those that she finds very attractive. That is fine in and of itself but those guys have partners that stop traffic and are way out of my league. Of the women that do give me the time of day and are in my league their partners don't do anything for my wife.
What my question is is how do I as an average Joe Sixpack compensate for lack of physical assets to make myself a more prospective match for women that are used to getting whatever guy they want? Please don't tell me this is an insecurity issue on my part. I am not insecure, this is an very real issue not only for me but for many people in the LS. I guess the bottom line question is what do women want from a male half of a couple when genetic re-engineering or cosmetic surgery is not an option? Any suggestions, hints or ideas will be much appreciated.
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