What percent of men give women oral sex?

[Guest What A Girl]

I know a man that is 23 years older than me. The sexual chemistry is amazing between us. We haven't had sex yet but we do plan to.

Even though he is an older man he is very limited when it comes to sex. He is from the old school, where men don't go down on women, EVER.

The other night he asked me if I would like for him to go down on me? He explained to me that he has never done this to a woman before, not even his ex-wife. I asked him WHY would you want to do it now? What makes this any different from your other relationships? His answer was that he thought that I would enjoy it.

You have no idea what a turn-on this is for me, but it got me thinking...

 

Here is my question

What would you say the % of men are who DO go down on women?

I always thought the answer was 100%.

I never had a man who didn't.

What do you think?

[Roxysbayou 20]

Hmmm, I have never met a man that wouldn't either. I would have to guess that they are very few. I wonder why. Is it that they have never done it and are afraid that maybe they wouldn't know what to do? Or if they just think that it's gross? Good question. I hope that someone has a good answer.

[Alura 2,773]

Well, Girl, I think you should give him the opportunity. I know I was hooked by the taste alone the first time I tried it. Maybe he will be, too.

 

I'd also suggest you give him a lot of personal instruction. The first lady who took time to do that with me improved my knowledge and technique immeasurable in the first ten minutes. If he's never done it, it may be that he will have no idea how to get it done.

 

Maybe he wouldn't have an "ex" if he had learned earlier.

 

Mr. Alura

[ciscosv 26]

Originally posted by Alura

 

Maybe he wouldn't have an "ex" if he had learned earlier.

 

Mr. Alura

 

This could be very true!

 

Recreational sex just does not seem right without some oral massages.....

[Dani&Drew 15]

I think I've only met one guy in my life that didn't. Wow.

[BK4169 15]

Well, such an interesting topic. We may never know the exact pct, but for me, I got hooked at the ripe old age of 19. My then girlfriend was 18, and a virgin, so I figured that I'd do like Capt Kirk, and "Go where no man has gone before", lol, little did I know, that some 26 years later, I still love to go there! I loved the way she smelled when she got excited, and I still love that excitement today. At any rate for me, I go down every chance I get!

 

BK

[Michcouple 15]

Going down on a women to me is one of the most erotic activities. I really love going down on my lover, and thanks baby for keeping those legs spread for me.

[OhioCouple 40]

I've never had a lover that didn't desire to go down on me, but I once had one in which that was all he would do. He didn't like to have intercourse, said it did nothing for him.

 

End Result: Relationship lasted about 3 weeks.... (twenty days too long)

[alabamafuntonig 20]

my wife enjoys me to go to the zone as she calls it ...although i had 2 best friends who would not they said they did not like the smell or taste...I almost lmao when they said that. I suggested they try with another girl who showwerd regulary..lol

[What A Girl 15]

You might just have a point. They should really be showered. LOL

[alabamafuntonig 20]

I myself enjoy the taste (or lack of one I may add) to a freshly showered women thang….nothing like a good 20 minutes or oral refreasment. P.s.ladies it does help not to be excessively hairy in the nether regions.

[CLITFRIEND 15]

I was just wondering I never had conversations like this in school???

 

Anyway--I got my very first taste of pussy when I was 9years old. I am not joking. She was 13. She wanted to show me her 'hair'. I told here I was already looking at her hair. She slapped me. "You dummy!--I mean my hair down there." When she had her hand over her crotch I was still clueless. I asked her why she would have hair there. She showed me her 'hair"--very unusual looking I thought. Then she show me some pictures in a magazine that her brother had of a guy eating some other ladies hair----She asked me if I could do the same thing so she could feel what that felt like. I was guillable. Down I went. I was hook from the first peck. In fact I am seriously addicte to giving woman oral treatments--I have probably done more licking in my lifetime then I have actual intercourse. Soo--defitnitly count me in the percentage that defitnitly goes down on women!

[Brit_Pair 62]

18 years an addict and still no sign of a cure. By now, I must have tongue muscles like Arnie's quadraceps.

[Botcpl 15]

A friend told V she really liked oral sex the best. V said she thought oral was part of sex.

 

She likes it, I like it: win, win.

 

P

[DragonsLair 26]

Midnight seduced me by asking "Can I taste you?". Needless to say, oral is always a part of our lovemaking.

[Ashley 22]

If a man told me he didn't do oral that would end it. He could lose all his appendages except his tongue and I could still be a happy woman. Having said that I did have a boyfriend once who wouldn't do it.....but we were both very young and he was hispanic. I don't know if the hispanic culture...machismo, whatever had anything to do with it. Any hispanic gentlemen out there wanna comment?

[naughty A 23]

Originally posted by Alura

Maybe he wouldn't have an "ex" if he had learned earlier.

 

Mr. Alura

 

this was my thought as well.

 

can't imagine it. I would have guessed 100% as well.

[teknurse 18]

Women also enjoy this activity. I would be interested to see how many other women enjoy giving as well as recieving from another woman. I know I do.

[mopek 15]

I have known a few guys who would not go down at all. When asked why they would simply say "I just don't do that" with a look on thier faces like they were re-living a past trauma??

 

But they were all from cultures that had a more macho society so I think that had something to do with it.

 

mopek

[alabamafuntonig 20]

So I'm going to make what seems to be a stereotype but ill form it so not to offend some (I've been known lately to do that). This is a direct question for the black men out there, is it true you do not participate in oral sex on females or is this urban legend.

[Guest Willbfun]

I wonder how many men that don't go down on their women, have unhappy women. An old saying about "show me a man that don't eat his wife, and I'll steal her"

[ATAK 15]

In a recreational sex environment, I go by an per-case standard, if it smells funny, don't eat it.

 

But in a relationship, with a woman I have feelings for, you'll do good to get me up from there. I've been known to go down on my woman for up to 2 hours. Many has been the night when I was pulled from there with strict orders to get inside her before she exploded!

 

I think I enjoy the pleasing as much as she enjoys being pleased. It's not an ego thing or macho thing that I'm trying to prove anything, I just really enjoy eating pussy. Making the little circles with my tongue and flipping...................maybe I'm going a bit too far. facelick Let's just leave it as one of my most favorite activities.

[ATAK 15]

Originally posted by What A Girl

I know a man that is 23 years older than me. The sexual chemistry is amazing between us. We haven't had sex yet but we do plan to.

Even though he is an older man he is very limited when it comes to sex. He is from the old school, where men don't go down on women, EVER.

The other night he asked me if I would like for him to go down on me? He explained to me that he has never done this to a woman before, not even his ex-wife. I asked him WHY would you want to do it now? What makes this any different from your other relationships? His answer was that he thought that I would enjoy it.

You have no idea what a turn-on this is for me, but it got me thinking...

 

Here is my question

What would you say the % of men are who DO go down on women?

I always thought the answer was 100%.

I never had a man who didn't.

What do you think?

 

 

Here's a tip for him. Of course, you may wish to teach him all you want him to know yourself, and you should, but to get him started try telling him to imagine he's writing the alphabet with his tongue, and your pussy is the blackboard. My favorite letters are A, I, T, O, Q, H...or OU812.

[alabamafuntonig 20]

The art of cunnilingus

 

Am I to bold too ask

Why women enjoy this task

You moan and plead

Crave the mans seed

But yet I still wear your labia mask.

 

I orally satisfy you at whim.

I kiss and lick your luscious quim.

Your legs go crazy with desire.

A burning sensation unlike fire.

With only one request I ask you trim.

….

Finally the moments at hand.

Heartbeats beating like a band.

With small gentle licks.

And strokes from finger tips.

I will always love exploring this gland.

 

Mr Bama 6/10/03

[Alura 2,773]

HeeHeeHee. We have a lady friend we've known for about 25 years. About fifteen years ago she and her husband broke up. She spent a few years single and looking. She was having a terrible time finding a decent guy. Seems she was looking in the singles' bars.

 

Once she met a guy and had been dating him a short time. We asked her how he was at eating pussy. "Well," she replied, "He doesn't."

 

"What good is he"? asked Mrs. Alura. He was history immediately.

 

She asked us how to find a decent guy. We told her to get rid of her Japanese pickup truck, buy a Porsche and join the Porsche club. At least she wouldn't be meeting guys who wanted her to support them. (That had been a problem. She's a college professor and does well financially.)

 

To shorten the story, at the Porsche Club, she met another college professor who drove a 911, which was a good compliment to her 944. They've been together ever since. Ain't love grand?

 

Alura

[metboy77 15]

Well maybe this man feels since he has never done it before he would be inadequate at it. So it may be why it took him awhile to pony up and ask you. Now i know my first real great experience was oddly enough with a stripper. She let me go down and told me where and what to do. Though was easy to see i was doing a good job when i went to bring my head back a little and she tightened her legs so tight around my head i almost could not breath. Haha. Even after the show she tackled me into a booth and french kissed me. As most of all guys know no strippers kiss let alone with tongue to guys they have just met. So i guess i must have done something right? Any way from that day forward she named me "Tongueboy". I have proudly kept the name since and have had many women say it is well deserved. But if not for that first time who knows where i might be? I am clean and so was she too. Happy licking to all. Jamie

[alabamafuntonig 20]

I am going to have to question one fact: strippers don’t kiss. Back in the day(henry goes into a flash back sequence) before my current wife I was a strip club junkie. Yes folks me Mr.Bama a strip club junkie. I would spend 2-3 hours a day hanging out at the local skin joints. Needless to say I was regular. Several of the girls and I developed relationships outside the club(ie:my first real intro to the swing lifestyle) we all had no trouble kissing and even French kissing(if there is there any other kind). Well I enjoyed the story and wish you luck on many adventures to come.

[teknurse 18]

My neighbors when I was 10 were best friends w/ my folks. They all used to go out and leave us kids by ourselves ( the club on a secure base was only a few hundred yards away..) One night the girl next door and I found my dads stash of skin mags, and we started trying everything we saw them doing. I got my first blowjob, and my first taste of the 'danger zone' the same night, at the age of 10! From what I remember, she very much enjoyed it, even at that age....

 

Allen&Tami

[metboy77 15]

I know they don't. That is why this was so unusual. Believe it or not is up to you. Later.

[Chris&Amelia 253]

As far back as I could remember in my sexually active life, I've gone down on every woman who I've been intimate with. I enjoy eating pussy, and really enjoy watching her squirm, gasp, and moan when I make her come with my tongue.

 

Now, I've gone out with one or two women (back before our swinging days) who refused to go down on me ("Ewww. You want me to put my mouth on it? The same thing you pee with? No way!") Those relationships tended to not last very long for other reasons, but I'm sure the entire no-blowjob thing might have had been a factor.

 

ATAK said something along the lines of "for recreational sex, if it smells funny, I ain't gonna lick it!" That's understandable. But if it smells that bad, I ain't gonna stick anything in it either!

[alabamafuntonig 20]

My first taste came way too late I believe I was 14 and my girlfriend at the time (god bless her heart) was very much curios how it would feel. Being the respectful boy that I was I obliged. Take in to fact that I could not do this with my parents at home so we snuck into the woods. Being the nervous little Romeo I decided to chew some gum(not any gum but bubblelicious). Well all was going well the panties down the moaning ,the groaning maybe 10-15 minutes worth of pure virgin excitement. Well she was done said it was great so we decided to go home. As she was walking she said she had a sort of sticky feeling in her panties . As a matter of fact a big glob of a sticky feeling…(guys before you go down its important to spit out your gum..)

[What A Girl 15]

Originally posted by ATAK

Here's a tip for him. Of course, you may wish to teach him all you want him to know yourself, and you should, but to get him started try telling him to imagine he's writing the alphabet with his tongue, and your pussy is the blackboard. My favorite letters are A, I, T, O, Q, H...or OU812.

 

That's a GREAT idea! I've got to try that. Thanks for the tip ATAK

[BradAndJanet 70]

Originally posted by ATAK

Here's a tip for him. Of course, you may wish to teach him all you want him to know yourself, and you should, but to get him started try telling him to imagine he's writing the alphabet with his tongue, and your pussy is the blackboard. My favorite letters are A, I, T, O, Q, H...or OU812.

Yes, that seems to work very well for me...

 

-B

[Uneed_Love 15]

I can't imagine to ask a woman to give me head if I don't give her oral first. This is a mutual service done

 

And yes I've already heard that in countries where males are adopting a strong sexist attitude towards females they don't give oral... is this true or urban legend ?

 

I think it could be true amongst Muslim devouts. Any woman having such a "traumatic" experience to share about it ?

 

I whish You all a great day

 

JC

[Brit_Pair 62]

I think my tongue would wrench itself from my mouth and leap to freedom if I was to be denied the pleasure, nay, the honour, of going down on a woman.

[OhioCouple 40]

Originally posted by Brit_Pair

I think my tongue would wrench itself from my mouth and leap to freedom if I was to be denied the pleasure, nay, the honour, of going down on a woman.

Now that would be a very profitable piece of art. Low maintanenace, only eats one thing, which is free, and can't talk back to you without something to bounce off of, which in this case it would always be "muffled".

 

If anyones tongue abandons ship, I'm willing to test out the advantages!

[azwildcat 15]

i can only say that most guy's don't know how to do it right in the first place and fail to ask how it should be done correctly. if they would only ask , believe me guy's most women would tell you just how to do it right.facelick

[Brit_Pair 62]

Originally posted by azwildcat

i can only say that most guy's don't know how to do it right in the first place and fail to ask how it should be done correctly. if they would only ask , believe me guy's most women would tell you just how to do it right.facelick

Shouldn't that read: "I can only say that most guys I've known don't know how to do it right in the first place . . . "

[azwildcat 15]

no ,brit_pair, it shouldn't because all the men i have had the pleasure to have come across knew what they were doing. not all men are like most but they should ask.

like it or not women know how to please a women a lot better then even you.

[OhioCouple 40]

Originally posted by azwildcat

like it or not women know how to please a women a lot better then even you.

I don't think that is necessarily true. I've had some pretty lousy women, while on the other hand I've only ever had one man that just didin't get it for me and that was because he was a 'nibbler'. All the rest of the men were able to pick up on what felt good and what didn't within in minutes and then they honed in on it. Pretty perceptive fella's I'd say. Unfortunately the women haven't quite met that standard....

[azwildcat 15]

well, ohiocouple what can i say all the women i've been with knew just how to get the job done . but you have to look at it like this us women should know how seeing we have the same body parts and seeing we know what feel's good to us and how to please ourselves it shouldn't be very hard to figure out what would please another women.

but hey this is just my experience facelick

[alabamafuntonig 20]

Holy shit your husband has an 8.5 inch cock. All the women you have been with are like gilla monsters with there tongue and everyone else on this board sucks or has no fucking clue in what they are talking about. Frankly im pms ing today and I must say start your own thread and let’s see what you have to say today and lets not piss on my friends anymore!

[azwildcat 15]

yes, alabamafuntonig, my hubby does have a 8.5 inch penis but i suppose that's just something you wouldn't know about huh. well, i can be a bitch, but hey, guess what if you don't like what i have to say then go f__k yourself. noone said you had to read what i have to say anyways. ()()

[alabamafuntonig 20]

Well yes I would not know like only 3% of our polled persons have 8.5 inch penis im in the majority. I can fuck myself I enjoy it very much thanks for the suggestion. Like most I rather share any one else want to join me while I go fuck myself. Ohio, Mr alura, brit_pair,uneed_love would you want to join me today , Fuck it lets all just get in a big circle and fuck everyone…..( you see now I’m being faciscious and I don’t like that)

[azwildcat 15]

well, as much fun as all this has been ,alabamafuntonig, to just get under your skin this way i must go. but don't worry sweetie i'm sure with your all so sweet personality you'll find a new friend to piss off soon. but hey , i'm so proud of you to be able to f__k yourself WOW!!!! so, impressive.

well, piss you off later. :p

[alabamafuntonig 20]

Thank you . knowing that i gave so much pleasure to you will only streathen my resolve to be a better person. Oh the wisdom i gained today. Where shall i use my new found skills...hum any ideas...

[azwildcat 15]

gee, let's see i don't know but hey do i care is the true question. either way your a little smarter then yesterday :p

[Brit_Pair 62]

Originally posted by azwildcat

no ,brit_pair, it shouldn't because all the men i have had the pleasure to have come across knew what they were doing. not all men are like most but they should ask.

like it or not women know how to please a women a lot better then even you.

Ah! I really should have known, shouldn't I? I mean, it should be obvious to *anyone* that all the men you'd ever slept with would have to be oral geniuses, while the majority of the remaining men on the planet are in need of urgent tongue retraining by other women.

 

Well, can I just say how much richer and joyful an experience this board has been since you joined. Thank you. No really, thank you.

[Uneed_Love 15]

Originally posted by alabamafuntonig

Holy shit your husband has an 8.5 inch cock. All the women you have been with are like gilla monsters with there tongue and everyone else on this board sucks or has no fucking clue in what they are talking about. Frankly im pms ing today and I must say start your own thread and let’s see what you have to say today and lets not piss on my friends anymore!

My Friend Bama I don't join You to call Mrs. "azwildcat" a bitch because I never use that kind of word for a woman. You can call her as You want it's your personal choice but I desagree with You on THIS very particular point. On another hand She can call me a dumb if she likes it, that's her choice and if she can feel happy with this... then I am happy for her

 

Besides I don't worry if she pissed on me... I am waterproof

 

JC the dumb joker

[alabamafuntonig 20]

Quote: Well, can I just say how much richer and joyful an experience this board has been since you joined. Thank you. No really, thank you. End quote:

 

Hell brit_pair I got your back. It has not been joyful I spent the better part of my day responding to rather insensitive ,idiotic,non specific,ludicris,insurmountable,petty,boorish and selfish comments on how men in a certain persons life sucked at sex and etc etc etc.

 

“Makes me wonder why so many men leave these types of women”