swinging with my wife and brother

[bimarriedguy82 17]

so my wife and i havent been into swiinging very long. we go into it and then she got pregnant but after the baby was born we both decided we really wanted to pursue it again. so far we have done it with 2 guys we know personally, 1 guy we met online and 1 guy we met at a party.

 

a week ago my brother was staying with us, he is younger than me. we were all at a birthday party for a friend and lets just say a lot of alcohol was involved. when we got home, my wife and i started playing and my brother walked in.

 

he was ready to walk out at first but my wife saw him and didnt seemed bothered so he started watching. this turned into a 3some.

 

while it was happening i was thinkging that it was by far the best most erotic and intense 3some we had done. my wife also seemed very into it. the next day i wasnt sure how she would feel about it since we were all dirinking, and i was hoping it wasnt going to be a event that we all lived to regret. but it was quite the opposite. my wife had the same feelings about it as i did and after talking to my brother about it later i found out he felt the same way.

 

we want to continue, but does anyone feel this is too far over the line? or is anything game in swinging? any opionions are appreciated as we dont want to end up regretting something later donw the road

[Chicup 41]

While I personally hear the sound of banjos in the distance when I think about this, WHO you swing with is completely up to what you feel comfortable with. Its not that anything is fair game in swinging, its a couple decides whats fair game (within the law).

 

Its not OUR fair game but if its your fair game thats up to you to decide, knowing what potential family fallout there might be if others get word of it.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

It wouldn't be something we'd be interested in, but that's probably because of our family dynamics, and our general preference to keep swinging and things like family, work, and vanilla friends as separate activities. I can understand how this would work for others though.

 

I agree with Chicup; as long as you understand, and can accept the potential pitfalls, it is up to what you as a couple, and your potential partners want to do.

[bimarriedguy82 17]

Thanks everyone. My brother and I have always been very close and open with each other. We have dated a lot of the same girls before. I know it is crazy, but it is the most insane feeling when we were all together.

 

We all want it again but we were all afraid what each other would think lol.

 

He is young, (22), so I just want to make sure he knows what he is doing.

 

Oh and my wife has her tubes tied so we dont have to worry about any more babies and who they belong too lol

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

I think it sounds hot. If everyone is communicating and being upfront I'd enjoy the fun.

[angelkin 1,326]

I think it sounds hot. If everyone is communicating and being upfront I'd enjoy the fun.

 

I second that emotion! My husband has two brothers and I have to admit, I have a bit of a fantasy about them...we often get together for family bbq's and my mind frequently drifts to the "what if" and I get hot and have to take advantage of my husband when everyone leaves.

 

Go for it! So long as everyone is open and comfortable with the situation...that's what matters!

[bimarriedguy82 17]

I second that emotion! My husband has two brothers and I have to admit, I have a bit of a fantasy about them...we often get together for family bbq's and my mind frequently drifts to the "what if" and I get hot and have to take advantage of my husband when everyone leaves.

 

Go for it! So long as everyone is open and comfortable with the situation...that's what matters!

 

Have you ever told your husband about your thoughts?

 

I know my wife has been attracted to my brother and vice versa. So when the alcohol let our inhabitions down and the fun happened I was so happy about it. Since he is my brother we can trust him compltely, and he is very "gifted" in the bedroom which is a plus lol

[ViSexual 1,008]

My sister-in-law is 10 years younger than my wife.

 

I thought she was very attractive when she was around the age of your brother, (22).

 

My wife and I were swinging back then and my sister-in-law did have a crush on me from the time my wife and I met (my sister-in-law was 10 at the time) through at least the time she was 22.

 

OK, with that background said..., sure it was tempting but, not only my wife would never have gone along, I didn't think it wise either.

 

Today my sister-in-law is about as a big a prude as my wife. I can just imagine the drama now if we had indulged back then.

 

People change a lot as they get older and a brother, or sister, is someone you do stay in contact with.

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

My sister-in-law is 10 years younger than my wife.

 

I thought she was very attractive when she was around the age of your brother, (22).

 

My wife and I were swinging back then and my sister-in-law did have a crush on me from the time my wife and I met (my sister-in-law was 10 at the time) through at least the time she was 22.

 

OK, with that background said..., sure it was tempting but, not only my wife would never have gone along, I didn't think it wise either.

 

Today my sister-in-law is about as a big a prude as my wife. I can just imagine the drama now if we had indulged back then.

 

People change a lot as they get older and a brother, or sister, is someone you do stay in contact with.

 

Who knows? Maybe a threesome would have changed her and she'd be less of a prude, maybe it would have driven her crazy her whole life. I think that's why communication is really important.

[wifes_toy 53]

I see this as no different from having 2 sisters or mother daughter in a FMF. Not something I have done but I assume it does happen.

[Tina and Bob 236]

I don't see any issues with it. At twenty two your brother should know exactly what he's getting into. As his brother, if you are comfortable with him doing your wife and your wife is obviously more than OK with it I say go for it as well.

[shymxcpl 71]

It would make for a very interesting Thanksgiving Dinner...

 

We personally don't like to involve family in our little escapades, but I do see how if we say we're open-minded people, we can't be completely closed to the idea.

[angelkin 1,326]

Have you ever told your husband about your thoughts?

 

Yes, but he prefers to keep this side of our lives to ourselves, but does tease me about it before and after any family gathering. LOL I suspect it's a fantasy better left unfulfilled

[bimarriedguy82 17]

I don't see any issues with it. At twenty two your brother should know exactly what he's getting into. As his brother, if you are comfortable with him doing your wife and your wife is obviously more than OK with it I say go for it as well.

 

LOL yes my wife is definetely MORE than ok with it. I got the brains in the family and he got the huge dick lol.

[sweet_tna 680]

I have absolute ZERO attraction to my brother-in-law, and Mr. Sweet cannot stand my sister . . so that'll never happen with us.

 

But as long as it's what the three of ya'll want, and it's working for you, then go for it.

 

=)

[snapps 78]

this is wild, cant say i agree with it at all.... but then again, I allow my wife to tease my cousin alot every time he comes over..... but i dont think I would ever be ok with her messing with my brother, thats a bit too close.................. ya.... but good luck

[Alura 2,774]

Mrs. Alura and I discussed this concept when we were first looking for playmates. Her decision was quick and simple:

 

"I wouldn't trust any of your brothers to keep his mouth shut about it."

 

I had to agree.

 

Alura

[MN Tom 251]

Yes, if you have the trust and/or lack of worry if something is said, then enjoy. If not, avoid it.

[LFM2 1,482]

My opinion is pretty much what the others have said, too. If you're comfy all the way around with it... go for it. I personally couldn't do it, but then again.... I'm not attracted to any of Dave's brothers.

[Miss Sunshine 29]

We love taboo! Taboo would make a good thread!!!