What makes an unforgettable blow job?

[angelkin 1,326]

So, someone in chat - who shall remain nameless - asked me if I liked giving oral and if I was good at it. Well, yes, I replied I like giving oral pleasure, but I honestly don't know if I am any good at it, LOL. Hubby says I am, but that's like asking if I am fat...how else is he supposed to answer?

 

That convo got me thinking, what makes a great blow job? I've heard it's enthusiam, but suspect technique has got to have something to do with it!

 

Give me your best tips for making a blow job mindblowingly unforgettable. Was there a technique she used? Ladies, what's your signature move? Guys, do you like it nice and sloppy, suck hard or soft or mix it up? Do you like a little touch down below? Like your balls worshipped?

 

Personally, I like to nibble around the head and when very excited...while getting fucked for instance, I tend to bite harder at the base. I supposed this move is more for me than him, but hey, what else is a girl to do with a cock in her mouth while having an orgasm?

 

I am really wanting to step it up a notch in this department and set myself apart from the pack. Very much looking forward to any assistance you sexy people can offer!

[TheSwingerSet 205]

Honestly it is very hard to give tips on how to give a good BJ. But I will give it a shot, now remember not every guy likes it the same just as no woman likes to have her cunny licked the same. Here is what I like.

 

Start slow, make eye contact, there is nothing like looking in your eyes as you take it in your mouth. Then mix it up, hard sucking, light nibbles, a little hand action as you suck on just the head. Then don't forget about the berries, I shave those for a reason. I guess the most important thing is your being into what you are doing for me.

 

Hope that helps.

[Mr. Truelove 81]

So, someone in chat - who shall remain nameless - asked me if I liked giving oral and if I was good at it. Well, yes, I replied I like giving oral pleasure, but I honestly don't know if I am any good at it, LOL. Hubby says I am, but that's like asking if I am fat...how else is he supposed to answer?

 

That convo got me thinking, what makes a great blow job? I've heard it's enthusiam, but suspect technique has got to have something to do with it!

 

Give me your best tips for making a blow job mindblowingly unforgettable. Was there a technique she used? Ladies, what's your signature move? Guys, do you like it nice and sloppy, suck hard or soft or mix it up? Do you like a little touch down below? Like your balls worshipped?

 

Personally, I like to nibble around the head and when very excited...while getting fucked for instance, I tend to bite harder at the base. I supposed this move is more for me than him, but hey, what else is a girl to do with a cock in her mouth while having an orgasm?

 

I am really wanting to step it up a notch in this department and set myself apart from the pack. Very much looking forward to any assistance you sexy people can offer!

 

All of the above. lol. If you are posting this, you are eager enough to make it work.

[BigNikki 43]

Never having received one, what could I say?

 

Well actually I think something meaningful. After all, I've been on the receiving end of some analogous things -- including massages.

 

I think that because of subjective matters on the receiving end, both things peculiar to the receiver and things peculiar to the moment, there's not a great deal that could be said.

 

But here's two things that go into a great one: 1) good reading of the recipient's responses and 2) the ineffable ability to sense when to do more and when to do less.

 

Boys? Your guidance?

[a_d_xxx 663]

BigNikki said:

Boys? Your guidance?

 

Pure mechanics aside, I think communication is key (especially with an unfamiliar set of genitalia in your mouth/hands).

 

Blower: Solicit, encourage, and respond to feedback. "Do you like when I stroke like this?" "You taste so good, do you like when I suck/lick/kiss like this?" "Do you want me to touch/stroke/caress your balls?"

 

Blowee: Be an involved recipient. Tell the blower what you like as it happens, encourage the good, let them know how much you are enjoying/appreciate their effort. "OMG that feels amazing." "Uhh, keep doing that." "I love it when you stroke my cock firmly with your hand."

[TheRedHalf 81]

This one is easy.

 

1. Wet wet wet.

2. I love the tip to about 1/3 of the way down sucked (tongue use encouraged).

3. Balls balls balls.. (Ass play works too )

 

This makes me shake uncontrollably during orgasm.

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

I have got to get MrsCE22 on here for this one. Last year she made it her mission to learn how to give the best blow jobs after I made mentioned that a partner gave a great bj.

 

I already thought my wife gave great blow jobs, but I have to admit she has blown my mind (pun intended) with what she has learned to do.

 

I cannot tell you all the techniques she uses but here are a few.

• When she starts before I have any erection at all it is incredible. She gets very active with her tongue and it sends chills up my spine.
  
• Licks from bottom to top, flicking her tongue left to right
  
• Gentle nibbles, and sometimes not so gentle, all along my shaft, - it is not IN her mouth, she is positioned more like she is playing the harmonica rather than sucking on a lollipop, if that makes sense.
  
• She deep throats - something about the pressure from the back of her throat really feels good.
  
• She REALLY deep throats - she will lie on her back with her head hanging off the bed, like she is looking at the wall, and is really able to go deep AND I am in perfect position to play with her breast and pussy.
  
• She applies a good bit of pressure with her tongue, flicking it back and forth all around the base of my penis, like the soft spot between my leg and abdomen. It almost tickles, but it drives me wild.
  
• She REALLY sucks it, I don't mean just puts it in her mouth, I mean REAL suction, particularly towards the head. She will create a great deal of suction and then pull back so that I pop out of her mouth making "pop" noise when the suction breaks. The pressure on the nerves around the head is intense and fantastic.
  
• Enthusiasm!! Her BJ's are great and she REALLY likes giving them, but there are times when she is so gung ho to have it in her mouth it is unreal. When she wants to suck it is great, when she is craving to suck it, it is out of this world.
  

 

Those are just a few of her techniques that I can describe. Like I said I hope she comes on here and gives her point of view, because she gives the most incredible bj's ever.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

For background: Good Blow Jobs!

[angelkin 1,326]

Thanks SW_PA for adding the link...I tend to forget to search before posting.

 

The info is great, keep it coming so I can keep it cumming:) Hubby is sacrificing his time daily to coach me...what a swell guy to be so selfless

 

I will try your techniques and feedback...stay tuned.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

My response to the question is that some women simply have a sixth sense, can apparently read my reactions and, like Star Trek, take me places where no man has gone before. Others only need a subtle verbal suggestion from me, "That's heavenly; now run your tongue up and down here."

 

Footnote: Although oral sex is wonderful there is nothing better than being face-to-face with my sex partner.

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

Hubby is sacrificing his time daily to coach me...what a swell guy to be so selfless

 

Her quest for the perfect BJ is time consuming, but I feel it is only right that I support her 100%. If it requires more of my time for her to practice, so be it. I am willing to sacrifice all the time required for her endeavors. And as they say, practice makes perfect.

[campgirl2in1 74]

For me the most unforgettable blowjob my wife ever gave was while I was fucking her.

[Lascivious L&L 866]

For me, a male, the best blow job comes about from the very rare pleasure in giving a blow job. Not just the pleasure of giving pleasure, but pleasure in the act itself and of itself. I speak from having just received the most intense blow job of my life. Was it the best? Who knows, but it certainly was in the top five of my life.

 

Not many women truly enjoy the blow job itself, the act separate from the pleasure of giving pleasure. The pleasure of giving pleasure will ensure a good blow job, perhaps even a superb one. But after receiving this one I notice the distinction between the pleasure of giving, and the pleasure of actually enjoying the blow job giving for itself.

 

Two parts are essential. The love of the feeling of a cock in your mouth, the male sexual energy of cock and male arousal AND the love for result of whipping up all that male sexual energy, his orgasm, his cum. If you spit, it won't be the best blow job. If you don't like the feel of cum spurting into your mouth and are swallowing it only to give pleasure, it won't be the best blow job.

 

I have intimate experience with blow jobs. I've sucked more than one cock and had my cock sucked more than a few times. And now I realize that I have not yet given the best blow job, even if I've given some damn good ones.

[Tia Vampire 167]

Every guy will be different. The best BJ's I've given was by asking the guy how he liked the BJ to be done. If I do what he says and how he says he like it, you can't go wrong.

[Meetussoon 68]

The best blow job I have ever gotten, which made me light headed, involved a slim wet finger in my ass. I don't know if she stumbled upon my prostate with her ass play, but it was AMAZING, and has not been repeated since...yet.

 

Tom

[angelkin 1,326]

Alas, no time for "practice" yesterday...but thanks to all these hot tips, hubby will enjoy himself tonight

[angelkin 1,326]

So, I did practice again and the review was improved...but, we also enjoyed the company of a couple last night and he quite enjoyed himself as well. I did solicit his likes/dislikes and I think he liked giving me direction. That's something that wasn't mentioned

 

I did take my time and dive in slower, teased a little more. With both guys that was a hit.

 

Thanks so much to everyone who replied and shared their collective knowledge. I think my skills are improved and I shall keep practicing

[AZCouple 99]

My wife gives a GREAT blowjob. She really mixes it up, but I know it is going to be extra special when she pulls out one of her vibrators and rubs it around my balls and slides it into my ass. Every once in a while she will make it doubly extra special by swallowing, which is something she really doesn't like to do. She loves me and wants to please me just as I want to please her.......

[Chicup 41]

Biting hard, it won't ever be forgotten.

[angelkin 1,326]

Biting hard, it won't ever be forgotten.

 

lmao Funny, sometimes I get carried away and do just that - but not for the memory factor

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

Biting hard, it won't ever be forgotten.

 

Amen!! I still have scars, mental not physical, from one girl I dated.

 

Once in a while is excusable, regularly is unforgivable.

[J&LJ 15]

The best is done by someone who wants to give pleasure, not by someone who feels they should try.

[DigginIt 1,132]

Biting hard, it won't ever be forgotten.

 

LMAO...Mrs. Diggs, back when we were dating, came to meet me in Germany where I was taking some R&R from Bosnia. We were both really excited and she meant to bite my jeans and tug at them...she accidentally got a little skin pinched in there as well.

 

She won't ever get to live it down because I give her a hard time even today (playfully of course).

[MN Tom 251]

Like in many areas, the ones who are the best at it are fairly well practiced and are very good listeners.

 

Some gals just have the knack, and some it seems are unable to learn, much like oral for guys. Everyone else is in the bell curve in the middle.

 

For me its a combination of pressure, motion and how the gal controls her body. Ive had a gal that was doing pretty well but was inept at body control and ended up digging her knees into the sides of my thighs. One gal lost her balance a few times (and thus interrupted the pleasure).

 

It's also a matter of desire, just like anything else, some people really enjoy it, some just do it as a matter of course.

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

She won't ever get to live it down because I give her a hard time even today (playfully of course).

 

Yes, sometimes unforgettable is not a good thing.

[divenaked 325]

Biting hard, it won't ever be forgotten.

 

Some women have teeth...and know how to use them. some women have teeth and DON'T know how to use them.

[DigginIt 1,132]

Some women have teeth...and know how to use them. some women have teeth and DON'T know how to use them.

 

I believe teeth are for eating steaks...

 

No teeth for my bj thank you

[celtic239 297]

Intense, deep moaning!!

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

The best is done by someone who wants to give pleasure, not by someone who feels they should try.

You have captured the essence of it. A blow job is best when it is given spontaneously. It is at its worst when it is demanded.

[RDfnd 180]

How good the giver is!

[sunbuckus 3,567]

Thanks for this thread! I know some men will say that any blowjob is a good blowjob but c'mon...I want some real feedback and wouldn't mind improving as well.

[doug39 80]

First of all, the woman has to be into sucking my dick. If she isn't enjoyIng it I cant enjoy it.

 

I like it slow, wet and deep.

 

I dated this chick 25 years ago that was the best I ever had. She loved doing it and wanted to blow me several times a day. She deep throated my cock, used lot of saliva and would go slowly using her lips and tongue so well.

 

Their were times I couldn't last more than like 2 minutes - she did it so good.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

First of all, the woman has to be into sucking my dick. If she isn't enjoyIng it I cant enjoy it. .

 

Doug, this is the most insightful and encouraging thing you have said thus far. Bravo!

[Guest sandraandalex]

I have found the more that I'm into the blow job , the more the man is into me. I find that to be a fair symbiosis.

[angelkin 1,326]

sandraandalex said:

I have found the more that I'm into the blow job , the more the man is into me. I find that to be a fair symbiosis.

 

That's fantastic to hear, I am certainly an enthusiastic cocksucker

[Barr 15]

This forum is amazing, I have to make sure the wife reads this post, I think she'd rather enjoy it. ?

[Galanga 249]

The blowjob is simultaneously the most overrated and underrated sexual delicacy. I pondered the blowjob almost scientifically over the years, and I think I’m now at an age where I can summarize my “almost scientific” findings. I will tell you my secret of how to give the most powerful blowjob on earth. In a nutshell, to give a mind-blowing blowjob – don’t give a blowjob! Huh? Yep – suck his cock as if you were a young girl eating peanut butter off a stick. This may sound grotesquely perverted, but do this in the name of science. Tell your 8 year old niece or daughter that you have a new snack you want them to try. Take a breadstick and coat it with a thick coating of peanut butter. Then watch carefully at how they eat the peanut butter. If you mimic those mouth, head, and tongue motions on a live penis, you will give an explosive blowjob. Of course, don’t do to the penis what they eventually do to the breadstick.

 

Position? A nice position for the man’s pleasure is him laying on his side, you laying on your side facing him in fetal position with your body parallel to his. This is opposite of 69 position. 69 position places your tongue on the top of his penis, whereas the orgasm-inducing sensation is most effectively administered to the underside (the frenulum and the penile raphe). In this position keep your head still (don’t pump with your head), move your lips and tongue in a “kid eating peanut butter off a finger” motion, and let him pump back and forth in your mouth. Oh, and take the whole cumshot in your mouth. Don’t be squeamish about it. It’s only 6 mL, and it feels really sexy coming out in your mouth. Enjoy that sensation. One last thing – as soon as his orgasm is complete and you feel the shaft start softening between your lips, stop. Guys don’t like direct stimulation during the refractory period.

[skyguy6977 88]

The most unforgettable BJ I have ever given was several years ago. We were at the beach with a couple we had met with before and had spent the week end. We ere getting ready to leave the hotel when us wives decided to give the guys a good by bj. The other wife was sucking my husband and I was sucking hers. Just as he started to cum, he had a heart attack. He is doing well now but he never lets me forget what a memorable bj it was. Deb.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . he had a heart attack. .

Well, the OP did ask about the unforgettable.

[1hotminute 72]

Wifey gave me some head in the car on our way home tonight. Felt amazing and it was off the cuff we were driving down a fairly empty road she just pulled my dick out at a stoplight and when we got moving she went down on me.

[Fitlakecouple 451]

Deb's memorable BJ technique is now known as the "widow maker".

[Guest]

This is a good topic because a girl gets a lot of varying information on this. I have been told that it’s all about the level of enthusiasm with which one approaches it. You know, the more you go up and down and the harder you suck and the long the up and down motion. I do find that I am more enthusiastic about it when they are larger in size. On the other hand, there are those guys who kind of like to face fuck you and its less about what you do more about how much of their enthusiasm you can take so to speak. I’ve notice some guys like a lot of ball play or even ball sucking with it whereas others just can’t stand the ball sucking. How’s a girl to know?

[1hotminute 72]

Yes, I think enthusiasm is key when getting an amazing blow job. Tonging the tip licking the shaft and sucking/playing with the balls are all very enjoyable. Eve contact is nice too if the one giving head is into it. My most memorable blowjobs were probably from my first girlfriend who was really into giving. She would also let me cum in her mouth and would swallow. Basically going until the sensation was so intense I would have to ask her to stop. Also getting head while your partner is being pleasured feels great too. The vibration of their mouth while they are moaning in extacy feels amazing and if someone is fucking them from behind it’s even better with the pounding extra movement.

[couplers 4,638]

Hello, Petra here. Why are all of the responses to this thread discussing what makes it good for the guy? For me, as a woman giving a blowjob (to completion), what makes unforgettable for me is:

 

- He's already been in a pussy, mine or preferably another woman's, but hasn't yet come (see below);

 

- He's totally flaccid (I like getting it all in my mouth to start and feeling him expand);

 

- He is not too long. A good blow job-size dick for me is short, but thickness doesn't matter - the opposite of what I like for anal where thinness is preferable and length doesn't matter.

 

- He lets me have control. I don't like it when a guy is thrusting his dick into my throat. I can deep throat some, but it doesn't make it good for me. I want to do it my way with a lot of tongue and take it farther down when I'm ready. Be patient and I can take it all the way.

 

- He lets me know when he's going to cum, because:

 

- I take all of his semen in my mouth;

 

- I hold it in my open mouth (to me the taste is anywhere from neutral to good), roll it around with my tongue for him and anyone else who's interested to see what I've done (naughty girl);

 

- I make a show of swallowing.

 

- Optional - Instead of swallowing, I like to snowball (pass the semen back and forth between our mouths before swallowing) by either kissing him or another woman. (I like to do it with another guy, but guys don't. Hubby's done it for me twice though.)

 

- Also option - Having someone fucking me or licking me while doing the above. I prefer giving blow jobs while upright (kneeling, standing, sitting) for control so I prefer doing cowgirl, reverse cowgirl or sitting on his/her face if it's going to be me doing these simultaneously. Doggy can work as well.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I've heard it's enthusiam, but suspect technique has got to have something to do with it!

 

OK ladies, angelkin ...

 

Enthusiasm makes unforgettable blow jobs! I like the foreplay. Kissing and licking from top to bottom before going for it. Making love to my cock is the same as making love to me.

[agreatguy 269]

Enthusiasm definitely.

 

I rarely orgasm during a blowjob mainly because I want to give back. Recently the wife had an opportunity to perform a blowjob in a very public place with a small window of opportunity to get it done.

 

She did it enthusiastically and made it know she wanted my load. It didn't take long despite the circumstances or possibly because of them.

[TheBiggerMan 83]

I need attention to my nuts but I don't like them sucked. I love when they are sniffed and licked. Run your lips and tongue on the under side of my shaft. Plenty of deep throat slowly sucking the head with the back of the throat. Let me come in the back of your throat. I don't like teeth or a lot of pressure or sucking too hard.

[padoc 1,703]

Enthusiasm is the key, not so much technique. Im certain that the women on this board know the difference between a guy who is giving you pro forma head and one who absolutely LOVES eating pussy and who wants you to cum on his tongue. Its the same with guys I think. All of the technique mentioned above feels wonderful but that is secondary to knowing that the woman loves having my dick in her mouth and wants me to cum. The old saying, "there's no such thing as a bad blow job" is more or less correct but it's infinitely better when the woman really wants to blow me.

[Numex 2,415]

For me, it's when a woman has good "follow through." As I orgasm, she continues just as she was doing before the semen started flowing. Both through the three to five squirts of semen, and the orgasm that continues for some time afterwards. Then watching her do an exaggerated swallow is nice.

 

My wife and one of the other wives has this down perfectly for me.

[EastInWest 1,524]

Sucking on my balls is usually a little much. It's too easy to drift from "wow" to "ouch. Long licks and something like an open-mouthed kiss work better.

 

Dirty talk, eye contact, and lots of tongue action around my head while she bobs are all sure winners. Numex is right about the follow-through, too. Slow it down but keep going, without suction.

 

Only three women I've ever mastered giving really good head, and I am lucky the third one picked me for the practice dummy and has decided to stick around.