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HI, We are a F/F lesbian couple exploring the lifestyle. We went to a club near us this past Friday and people were friendly. But we are wondering how well we will be received and what kind of results we will find. Are there many other F/F couples out there?

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Ok you mean 2 females?

 

What exactly are you looking for?

 

If you are looking for 2 more females, then you are in the wrong place. I've never met nor seen an f/f couple on a swinging website nor at an event. Seen plenty of f/f/m combos though, but never just 2 females. Probably the only thing more rare would be m/m couple.

 

If you are looking for an M/F couple, you might find it, although it will be a bit challenging depending on what you want. If you want to have both straight and bi play, it should be pretty easy to find. If you want only bi play though, your options will be more limited, although you still could find it.

 

And, if you are looking for 2 single guys, you've hit the jackpot :lol:

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HI, We are a F/F couple exploring the lifestyle. We went to a club near us this past Friday and people were friendly. But we are wondering how well we will be received and what kind of results we will find. Are there many other F/F couples out there?

 

Okay, I took a quick look at your profile and appears you are primarily interested in females, but couples are a minor interest? And you are predominantly soft swap based on how your profile read? Your profile is not real clear exactly what you are looking for and leave people to guess, which means some will be right and other wrong. I am going to assume since you came here you are looking for both M&F.

 

So I will break it down by the numbers so to speak.

  • If you are looking for couples (M/F) and are interested in the male, then you should have plenty of options.
  • Couple (M/F) and play with female only, the odds get pretty long. Most couples play as couples only, but some play solo or are fine with watching.
  • Looking for single males, they are a dime a dozen numbers wise, have fun.
  • If you are looking for single females, get in line, they are not called unicorns for nothing. I would also imagine you might get the cold should a bit from some people, since single females are in such high demand, competition form a F/F couple might rub some the wrong way, they might see it as kind of greedy :) . I cannot speak for single females, but I would imagine the majority are looking for a little of both male and female since they are in the lifestyle. There are just to many other options to find one or the other outside the LS.
  • As for soft swap, most of the people we have met are full swap. I am not sure what the numbers are but I would imagine it is heavily tilted toward full swap. So that is potentially another factor that can effect your success in the LS.

 

Either way, welcome to the boards, and have fun.

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We have seen a few F/F couples at clubs and parties we have been to and they were treated just like everyone else. With that said, F/F couples are a rarity in the lifestyle from our experience and even though lifestylers always talk about how open minded they are we have found a high percentage to be closed minded when it comes to people that are "different" than them or their group of friends.

 

You may find that one group or club will welcome you with open arms and the next may not be as welcoming. Unfortunately, that is something a lot of people experience in the lifestyle and you just have to try to find the place that you fit in and feel comfortable.

 

My wife and I actually met a lesbian couple and have become really good friends with them. We hang out with them a lot, but when it comes to playing it's just the ladies.

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I guess I should clarify a bit, yes we are a lesbian couple. Interested in females only, like threesomes. If it was a M/F I wouldn't mind the man watching, my partner, not sure. So if you were looking at my sls profile I guess I need to make it more specific to what we are wanting.

 

Like I said the club we went to seemed very friendly and they signed us up as a couple's membership, without even a look when I said something. So we may have just found a fun place to hang out and be ourselves or maybe a place with some potential for playmates.

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You are looking for the unicorn like the rest of us Bi girls here. I think it would be a blast, most of our swinging is hubby watching me girl/girl play. Girl groups are my favorite, but you will have to be open to allowing the male half to watch, maybe even touch a bit, but set your rules and come looking, we are out there!!

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I wish you all the luck truly but I would caution you to understand that if you are in a swinger party environment many if not most will assume you are bi sexual. Not a big deal but you must be prepared to get hit on by men, your partner to get hit on by men and be able to handle that and defuse the situation politely , respectfully and without any drama. It is not uncommon for "some" men to be too touchy-feely as well with any women they see, inappropriate yes but also a fact of party life. Most people once they understand your situation will politely apologize and move on .

 

I am not suggesting you avoid these types of get-togethers but just be prepared and comfortable enough to handle situations like that. Keep in mind that all women face these situations no matter their sexual orientation but the chances are multiplied in a swinger environment.

 

May all your fantasies come true.

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Guest screaminggood

I agree with some of the previous posters: finding a M/F couple will be very easy if the guy can watch. Just approach the F with your thoughts...and go from there.

 

I'd love to part of an all female orgy...and the guys could just drool...and drip while watching!

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WE are in Indy and the club that is here welcomes F/F couples as far as I know. I haven't seen any incidents of them not welcoming them. Some here have said that you should expect to get hit on by men, unfortunately that is probably true. The thought of a F/F couple to the single male population in a swing club is enough to cause a near riot. If you make it clear you aren't interested in contact with men they'll back off and be respectful. I can't speak for the clubs in Muncie or around Kokomo, but as far as here in Indianapolis , you should be fine. We have a couple of lesbian couples we are friends with, they don't USUALLY frequent the swing clubs but use internet sites or the gay bars in town to fulfill their desires for extracurricular sex partners. One F/F couple we know has house parties every month or two where couples are invited and fun is had by all. They set the rules and are able to play whatever way they feel and control who comes to play too. WE have been invited on several occasions and had a blast. If you would like maybe we could put in a good word for you and maybe finagle an invite for you. I'm sure they would be sympathetic to your problem, that's why they started having house parties in the first place. That is if you don't mind driving as far as Greenwood on the south side of Indianapolis.

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