Are you hung like a horse and can screw for hours?

[LFM2 1,482]

Random thoughts this morning....

 

I've often heard from other women, not just here, that they're looking for someone who's hung like a horse and can fuck for hours. Seriously? That scares me. Maybe it's my age and I've experienced a lot of different sized men and have gone for minutes to hours. The hour stuff was mostly in my youth when I could get a handle on it.

 

I'm not sure why some women prefer the well hung male. Anything over 7 inches is scary to me. It's painful. Literally. I've been with males hung like a hamster to hung like a horse. I like the in-betweens. They're "comfortable". They just fit. Plus, it's no secret I'm a girth girl. I do love girth. Some men are more gifted than others, but I wouldn't trade a single play date I've had. It's all been fun in one way or another.

 

Now, I got an email from a sweet, single gentleman yesterday who said he could go for hours. That's also scary to me. Is it just my old body screaming "NO!!", but realistically, 20-30 minutes of constant penetration and friction is too much. I can go for several sessions that last for hours, but not hours on end all at once. I love sex, I really do. If I didn't, I doubt I'd be swinging with my sweet husband. But am I the only one who isn't after someone hung like a horse that can last for hours? I hope not. I hope I'm not some anomaly who thinks this way. I've noticed that most letters we get from single males share this same thought... they can go for hours. Do they think that's what we need to hear? What we want to hear? I'm not sure. What are your thoughts, girl on the board. Men, I'm curious what you think, too. Thoughts anyone?

[Dont.Stop 339]

Seems to me if you're screwing for hours you're missing out on a boatload of other stimulation opportunities. Our last encounter was three hours, and very little of that was actual penetration. To each their own.

 

Personally, I prefer giving oral until she begs that she's had enough. That's easily an hour spent. And I find it more fun.

[Chicup 41]

I see that even in SLS chat now and then when some woman (supposed) will say she wants a man who can go for a minimum of X hours.

 

Honestly I think they are full of shit. Most women I've been with get sore after a couple of go arounds, and frankly I'm not lasting a few hours.

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

We both like to go for hours, BUT it is not strictly penetration. There is a great deal of changing activity (intercourse, oral, foreplay, who takes the lead and brief breaks), also changes in tempo and positions. There is no way I could just "screw" for hours, nor would I or my wife want to. I know my wife would hate it because there have been occasions that we have gone too long and it painful the next day or more. I prefer it when she lets me know if we are going to long and she usually does.

 

Hours of play time, sure we are both for that. But if you want to screw non-stop for hours on end, we will pass.

 

As for hung. I am average length with extra girth, so I guess I would fail on both parts for those profiles. That is fine, there are plenty of folks out there that fit what we are looking for and vice versa, and it's not porn stars.

[PB&J 1,086]

If they mean out and out bangin' away for hours, no thank you! But if they mean hours of a variety of activities in the bedroom (with breaks for snacks and dinner), interspersed with actual penetration, then that is what I enjoy the most.

[MN Tom 251]

Well, the part about being huge is just a preference for some gals. Most Ive met are intrigued, but have no desire to play with a huge guy for very long, its something they like in very short bursts.

 

Some gals might be looser per se, either due to surgery or just how they were made, and maybe they can enjoy a giant cock for hours. I havent met any of those though, maybe they hang around in different circles, who knows.

 

On the subject of going for hours, that just depends on the feelings at hand.

When I have a condom on, I can go for hours (I have to really concentrate to climax with a condom on), and Ive met a couple of gals who wanted to test that limit. Most aren't that way, (or maybe only want such a long encounter once in a while, such as my wife), but some are. With one gal I spent over 4 hours of penetration in a 6 hour timeframe. Yeah our legs and glutes were fried, and it was something else. That isnt every time though, I'm definitely no porn star. And most gals seem to be plenty happy with 30-60 minutes of penetration from various angles.

[LFM2 1,482]

 

As for hung. I am average length with extra girth, so I guess I would fail on both parts for those profiles. That is fine, there are plenty of folks out there that fit what we are looking for and vice versa, and it's not porn stars.

 

Exactly. I'm not seeing where you fail at all. I'm sure you're *busy* all the time!!

[LFM2 1,482]

If they mean out and out bangin' away for hours, no thank you! But if they mean hours of a variety of activities in the bedroom (with breaks for snacks and dinner), interspersed with actual penetration, then that is what I enjoy the most.

 

Yep, me too. We have to have our conversation time along with rehydration time and eatin' time.

[angelkin 1,326]

I am with you LFM2 - 7" is perfect and screw for hours - really? About an hour of pentration and I am all done...now the off and on with differing stimulation and break, you bet!

[Ed & Bunny 160]

Just the thought of screwing for a single strait hour is enough to make my muscles scream out in protest. It sounds more like work than actual sex.

[BigNikki 43]

Big Nikki here.

. . . hung like a horse and can fuck for hours . . . Thoughts anyone?

 

Well, my clit* is hung like a horse and I can screw for hours -- but I really wouldn't want to keep doing the same person. Let's come a few times and move on.

 

-- Big Nikki

 

* I'm a tiny person; that's the only thing physically big about me.

[BigNikki 43]

 

Ed & Bunny said:

Just the thought of screwing for a single strait hour is enough to make my muscles scream out in protest. It sounds more like work than actual sex.

 

A lot of us (including John and I) had the same muscles-scream reaction, but, since I cycle, I thought of the people who effortlessly and joyfully bike for hours and hours.

 

Now not everyone is into the slow-fuck, but actually I am. And the idea of an hour-long slow-fuck doesn't put me off.

 

Still, my 'druthers would be to fuck for a while, come nicely, and move on*.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

You know, of all the men we've ever known that were truly hung like a horse, none of them have ever bragged about it. Actually, none of them have ever mentioned it.

 

The only way we've found out was when it was mentioned (almost always discreetly) by the spouse, or when the dude dropped the drawers.

 

Come to think of it, every guy we've met that turns out to be an Energizer Bunny doesn't mention or brag about it either.

[MN Tom 251]

DE is something Ive heard people mention, but it's certainly not the case with me. I can climax within 5 minutes at times, or hold it off and go for hours. It's when the glove goes on that that I lose the ability to go quickly, it feels good, but requires more concentration to get over the peak and delays a climax considerably.

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

You know, of all the men we've ever known that were truly hung like a horse, none of them have ever bragged about it. Actually, none of them have ever mentioned it.

The only way we've found out was when it was mentioned (almost always discreetly) by the spouse, or when the dude dropped the drawers.

 

Come to think of it, every guy we've met that turns out to be an Energizer Bunny doesn't mention or brag about it either.

 

Those who can do, those that can't, talk. - by just about every coach I have had

 

Slightly different, but you get the point.

[Lascivious L&L 866]

I've never, not once, fucked for an hour straight. By fucked I mean penetration, intercourse, in and out, fucking, with no break. I've never biked for an hour with no break. My profession is very physical, and yes I'm sure there has been a task or two that I've worked at steadily for an hour, but that's not often.

 

For me breaks are essential when engaging in physical excercise. When engaging in hot sex, I want more than simple penetration, just moving in and out. Conversation, interaction, exploration and an engaged brain is essential to any sex I call play. I don't do work sex.

 

I have an excellent sense of time, whether it be how long something lasts or what time it is, without clocks. I've noticed it is common for people not to have an accurate sense, and when engaged in something fun, often over-estimate the time spent in that fun. My guess is that what seems like an hour may only be a half.

[Dont.Stop 339]

You know, of all the men we've ever known that were truly hung like a horse, none of them have ever bragged about it. Actually, none of them have ever mentioned it.

The only way we've found out was when it was mentioned (almost always discreetly) by the spouse, or when the dude dropped the drawers.

 

Come to think of it, every guy we've met that turns out to be an Energizer Bunny doesn't mention or brag about it either.

 

We find it a turn-off when someone has that info in their profile. Mrs. is of the belief that if you're advertising size and stamina, you're leaving out foreplay, which is more important to her ("Intercourse is the beginning of the end").

 

And it's weird... sometimes I feel a hair-trigger and have to slow down, other times I can pump and pump and know I'm just not gonna cum by intercourse. Go figure.

 

Kudos to the guys who are hung, can go for hours AND take the time for foreplay and oral. Mrs. says "Look us up on SLS!"

[LFM2 1,482]

We find it a turn-off when someone has that info in their profile.

 

We agree. I find it totally a turn off and don't want to even continue with a meet-up. And then again, I often wonder if I'm not missing out on something that would be fun.

 

Those who can do, those that can't, talk.

 

Ain't this the damn truth? I've known a few that can do both, but most of the time....

 

For me breaks are essential when engaging in physical excercise. When engaging in hot sex, I want more than simple penetration, just moving in and out. Conversation, interaction, exploration and an engaged brain is essential to any sex I call play. I don't do work sex.

 

I have an excellent sense of time, whether it be how long something lasts or what time it is, without clocks. I've noticed it is common for people not to have an accurate sense, and when engaged in something fun, often over-estimate the time spent in that fun. My guess is that what seems like an hour may only be a half.

 

I am like the above. I can go for hours, but I need the breaks in between for engaging in conversation, water and bathroom breaks and then of course, back to fun.

 

Do you think that a lot of profiles that state that they can go for hours really aren't going for hours? Just seems that way? I really don't have a good sense of time. I don't wear a watch either. I might be close within half an hour, but not really accurate.

[Dont.Stop 339]

I have an excellent sense of time, whether it be how long something lasts or what time it is, without clocks. I've noticed it is common for people not to have an accurate sense, and when engaged in something fun, often over-estimate the time spent in that fun. My guess is that what seems like an hour may only be a half.

 

So, time doesn't actually fly when having fun?

[MN Tom 251]

Honestly I dont think I would ever write something performance related like this in our profile.

 

For one, going a long time is highly dependant upon both parties. The gal and guy have to both be interested in doing so, the situation has to allow it, and everyone has to be fully functioning.

 

Secondly, putting that in there looks like bragging.

 

Lastly, I think it would be encouraging people that lean towards such things to contact you, and discouraging others. We prefer our profile to be as open as possible, with as few restrictions and preferences as we can. Because in the end, it's all about the personal connection. And it can be fun to have frequent 5 minute sessions, one long session, or anything in between

[Alura 2,774]

No, and No.

[LFM2 1,482]

Alura said:

No, and No.

 

My favorite answer so far. Honest and to the point. If you don't have a picture of your junk on your profile, we're a match!!

[Alura 2,774]

I don't think I have a picture on my profile at all. I used to have one of myself and Laura but decided I need to move on...

 

I can't think of anyone I'd rather be a match with. If I ever find my way to "where the wind blows" or you find your way to Indian Territory... Who knows?

 

Thanks for the nice words.

 

Alura

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Come to think of it, every guy we've met that turns out to be an Energizer Bunny doesn't mention or brag about it either.

Well (getting Max Smart look on my face), would you believe a Duracell?

[BiloxiCouple 695]

 

* I'm a tiny person; that's the only thing physically big about me.

 

My daughter is in Japan and she is tall with red hair and stands out in a crowd there. She is in smaller villages and normally the only foreigner there or whatever the Japanese calls foreigners there. She does speak Japanese and has translated for us.

 

Maybe your clit is normal and your body is small for it.

[interested-05 135]

being just short of 7", bottoming out against the cervix is HOT, you're not bruising it and it feels soooo good.

[interested-05 135]

Lick awhile, bang awhile, taking turns providing and receiving pleasure.

 

Done right, at the end of play time, neither of you will be wanting more for at least a couple of hours.

[Dont.Stop 339]

being just short of 7", bottoming out against the cervix is HOT, your not bruising it and it feels soooo good

 

Have to agree with that. And Mrs. loves when this happens.

[LFM2 1,482]

interested-05 said:

being just short of 7", bottoming out against the cervix is HOT, you're not bruising it and it feels soooo good.

 

Wonderful memories!!

[sweet_tna 680]

First off, I don't carry a tape measure with me when I go to parties/clubs/dates. Seems a bit rude. I've found that it's more the person attached to the penis than the penis itself that does it for me. I will, however, admit to preferring girth over length.

 

Second, I don't carry a stopwatch with me, either. If I'm looking at the clock, it's not a good sign. That said, I do enjoy taking my time with my partner(s).

 

And third, when I say taking my time, I mean the whole kit n' caboodle. I would be perfectly happy with the bulk of the time being foreplay than banging away for "hours." Everybody tires out more quickly, legs get cramped, and ya' get so sweaty, ya' can't hold on any more. That's how accidents happen, folks!

 

Quality over quantity FTW!

[Guest BigBenC1987]

I'd say so yes, I've been told I'm hung like a horse on several occasions and with the odd comfort break sessions have gone on for hours.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I dated a woman that we had sex for hours. It was fun fucking her in all kinds of positions. I felt sore the next day from all the friction even though she was well lubricated from cum and (KY, Astro Glide .... insert your favorite lube). I don't know how it felt to her. It was kind of a nice feeling for a day or two knowing the feeling of soreness was from fucking her for so long. It is a very memorable experience.

[Sophy 569]

I do need the breaks, if I feel I am done or that I need a break I usually "tag" the other girl or I just simply say it: "I need a break" and stop activities to relax for a few minutes.

 

Don't get my wrong I care about my play-partner, and I want him to have as much as fun as me but when the guys are having problem archiving an orgasm there is no way I am going to suck it or getting banged for hours straight.

[EastInWest 1,524]

Seems to me if you're screwing for hours you're missing out on a boatload of other stimulation opportunities. Our last encounter was three hours, and very little of that was actual penetration. To each their own.

 

Personally, I prefer giving oral until she begs that she's had enough. That's easily an hour spent. And I find it more fun.

 

Noting that this is a thread from 2011, I'll still comment that I agree with this. "Hours" may mean something different to different people. We've had two or three hour sessions that started with hands in the car, oral in the foyer, me behind her in the kitchen, oral on the living room floor, me on top of her on the couch, her on top of me in bed... Varying activities, positions, angles prevents chafing and makes room for a few minutes of talking, touching, getting a glass of water.

 

We've also had a couple of those weekends where we have a session, take a shower, eat breakfast, have a session, eat lunch, have a session, eat dinner, hop in the jacuzzi, have a session, and repeat the next day. (...which I can pull off if the mood is right, but requires a few days of recovery.)

 

On the other hand, if somebody, of either gender, literally means that it takes them hours of thrusting to achieve satisfaction, I'd be inclined to wonder if they masturbate too hard, too much, maybe with a power sander, and should lay off it until they're a little less desensitized...

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

My daughter is in Japan and she is tall with red hair and stands out in a crowd there. She is in smaller villages and normally the only foreigner there or whatever the Japanese calls foreigners there. She does speak Japanese and has translated for us.

 

....

 

I was read haired, stand six feet, & lived in Japan two years back in the 1980s. I don't know what they would call your daughter now, but back then the term we heard translated as "giants".

[kikonkrome 844]

Can other guys really not 'control' when they finish?

 

I mean sex for me for 'hours' is multiple sessions, just because after a certain period of time, it's just time to end it and get a bit of rest. I am not saying I haven't had my share of multiply shots, with relatively little rest in between. At a certain point don't you just mentally decide to end it? Don't you ask your partner 'Hey, do you want me to finish?' Is this some amazing feature of orgasmic control or something?

 

Sorry if I am a bit confused? For me a quick first one just means I will be up for a second right behind it. If I wanted to hold out for 'hours' without finishing that would be possible just need to slow down the activity. I have even paced myself bringing it close to orgasm and then backing down.

 

Really is coming so involuntary for other men?

[bogeyman 31]

I know the very first time we had a MMF threesome which was in 1982 with my best friend, we went for 4 solid hours. But it obviously wasn't constant penetration straight away fucking. First my wife had us shave her, then we progressed into taking turns giving both of us blow jobs, hand jobs, there were literally hours of oral sex in the living room, on the couch, on the floor in the bedroom. We'd have her on her back on the floor with me performing oral on her while my friend hung his cock over her mouth. Then we'd switch, more jacking us both off, etc. I can honestly say though we both kept rock hard erections for 4 straight hours. We should have probably consulted our physician. :-)