Jump to content
Erotics

Exploring male bisexuality through swinging

Recommended Posts

I'm as straight as an arrow and never even looked at another man in a sexual way. We play as a couple and have had regular 3somes (mfm) which she thoroughly enjoy. The focus is always on her, giving her pleasure and making sure she is having fun.

 

Recently we were in a 3some with this gent and while we were playing (foreplay) he asked me whether I have ever been touched by or touch another man myself. The answer was no.

 

He then dared me to touch him, which I then proceeded to do. Funny enough, it was not so weird as I thought it would be and although it felt strange, at the same time it felt familiar.

 

I then proceeded to keep his dick in my hand and point it towards her mouth while she was blowing him. He did the same with me while she was blowing me later.

 

Suddenly it was not strange anymore and I even guided his cock into her pussy later on. It all felt so natural in the situation. Fun was had by all 3 of us and it did not gross me out or even the wife.

 

We (me and wife) had a discussion afterwards and she said she found it actually very kinky and she would like to see me in a male-male experience. Ever since it has been playing in my head and I don't know what to think.

 

Touching is one thing, but actually going down on someone is something totally different (or is it not?)

 

Although I still don't look at men in a sexual way, I found myself thinking about this a lot. A part of me says don't do it, you don't find men sexually attractive, but a part of my tell me to not to knock it and try it at least once and then make up my mind.

 

The wife said that she became bisexual by also experimenting and only later become attracted to females as she became accustomed to the situation.

 

Do you think I should proceed and experiment?

 

I don't think I have the guts to take a cock in my mouth and suck it, but a part of me tells me I have the guts and should go ahead. I know it would be big visual turn-on for the wife and I would do anything to turn her on...just not sure about sucking a cock to turn her on. LOL

 

To be honest, I'm very nervous.

Share this post


Link to post

Do you think I should proceed and experiment?

 

As with all things swinging, I think you should do whatever you're comfortable with. ;)

 

Good luck.

Share this post


Link to post

I think you have already made your decision and at this point you are just looking for some kind of reassurance, encouragement or acceptance...not exactly sure but I completely agree with Two4you and if you feel comfortable then that's all that matters.

 

It's definitely not my thing but swinging isn't this nice little package that's easily definable.

Share this post


Link to post

One of my biggest surprises in life was when I was about 10 or 11. Me and a friend agreed to jerk each other off to see what a hand, other than our own, would feel like.

 

I was so surprised to find that my hand on his cock felt as good, or even better, than his hand on my cock!

 

After a while he asked me if I'd suck it and I, without hesitation, said, "no way"!

 

I've often wondered what I might have missed by not, instead, saying, "you first"!

 

The very first time my wife and I swapped with another couple I took his cock in my hand and inserted it into my wife. It was more to show my complete acceptance of the situation but it did feel nice.

 

OK, I don't find men physically attractive either but I find sex very attractive. And, men have different things to offer than women so..., why not?

 

One couple that my wife and I befriended about ten years ago was into 'dressing' the husband. Now my wife wasn't into that but she didn't complain. And, to be very honest, having sex with a guy who dresses, and looks, like a woman was pretty darn good!

 

To each their own but this is what this lifestyle is all about, isn't it? Don't worry about what's taboo and stretch your boundaries! If you like it then cool, if not then don't do it again!

Share this post


Link to post

Guy half here. As a previous reply posted, sounds like you are curious. If your partner will find pleasure in it and supports your curiosity, you made it past the hump. As others have posted, I'm not into guys, but I am into bi oral, especially if the girls help us out with it. Not that I am a stud, but, I have had my fair share of pussy as a single man. It's hot to know I can pleasure the guys too. If you find a couple you connect with on a social level, having explored each others' bi-side can help make your social relationship very tight. No pun intended.

Share this post


Link to post

The first time I tasted a cock I was amazed at how different it felt than I imagined it would. It was fun, interesting, but most of all, it was powerfully sexual. Male sexual. There was the same pleasure giving sexual, just as when you go down on a woman and she has an orgasm, the same feeling of the pleasure of giving pleasure. Yet different in that it was familiar. I knew exactly what it felt like to have my cock sucked, and now I was sucking one. Perhaps because of that I was more in tune with what it was feeling to him.

 

The simple feel of it was amazing, hard yet velvety soft, pulsating, a hard, throbbing energy rather than the softer, wetter feeling of a woman. Tasting my first male orgasm was as amazing. I could feel the same spurts I've ejaculated into mouths ejaculating into my mouth. The sexual energy is intense. I found it far more sexual than I imagined.

 

I don't find men attractive in the all encompassing way I find women. But oral sex with a man, especially in a three or foursome, is very powerful sexually. The women in my experience simply love watching and being a part of it. I can't imagine going through life without experiencing this.

  • Like 1
  • Hot! 3

Share this post


Link to post

I am in agreement with Lascivious L&L, I have given a number of men head and many to completion and i find it sexually powerful as well.

 

I also have to say I do not find men sexually attractive. i don't ever say "wow look at that guy, now he's hot", but I do say "I'd love to give him head". The desire is totally sexual in a very male way. Like just getting ones rocks off, but not getting involved.

 

My wife and many women that I have talked with, need to feel a connection. I need to feel a connection with women, to be truly passionate and enjoy her. But not with men, just a disengaged sexual encounter.

 

Hope that makes sense.

 

if i were you, I'd give it a try, oh right I did and I liked it. If it's not for you you'll know, but do allow yourself to experiment, that's half the fun.

  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

We evolve, we change, we adapt, we grow.

 

Go with the flow, don't force it, when the situation presents itself & it feels right...

 

When you get to the stage when labels no longer matter.... I mean at high school age the attitude is "you suck cock, you gay".

Now it's who cares, life is too short for regrets, let's all just chill out, have fun and ball each other!

 

I have a bad habit of overthinking things. I have kissed a guy, and he gave me head. Afterwards I agonized over whether I should have reciprocated, should I be searching out these experiences... being trolled by my own brain!!

 

What I REALLY like about loosening my sexual orientation and becoming more bi is that it makes everything so much more relaxed. If the guy makes a move on me I'm not going to freak out, I'll either go with it, or if the mood's not right I think I'll be comfortable enough to handle it right. And the days of "OMG a I touched a man's pee-pee! I must be a homo! quick get the bleach!" are happily long behind me. :)

  • Like 3

Share this post


Link to post

Go for it! If you don't try it you'll never find out if you like it or not. We agree with other comments here. Sex between two men is a very powerful sexual experience. And if your wife is anything like Jo she will get very excited watching you and soon join in on the fun.

  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

I agree with previous posts - I had been straight as an arrow all my life. I then began playing with couples - the second one I played with the hubby was bi. As we did our threesome he went down on me first and then later on in the evening I returned the favor! It was all new to me - but I have to say that feel of his cock was great - so hard yet so velvety -and the taste was just great. When he came in my mouth I was a bit apprehensive but his wife and I shared it - I have been hooked on cocksucking ever since especially during MMF!

  • Like 1
  • Hot! 2

Share this post


Link to post
As we did our 3some he went down on me first and then later on in the evening I returned the favor!

 

I think that's what it takes, something to help break through the mental barrier. All our hangups (and our pleasures) are just in our heads.

Share this post


Link to post

Feeling nervous is "perfectly normal"

 

Some folk may be uncomfortable with your "heteroflexibility" (a term I really like, by the way) ... and you don't have to worry about labeling yourself. The term "bisexual" (in my opinion) has always been a bit too vague and the meaning of it has always been different from person-to-person.

 

In the privacy of your relationships & sexual encounters - as long as you're comfortable with who you are and what you're comfortable doing, just enjoy it. The fact that your wife is comfortable with your explorations ... in fact, she sounds like she's encouraging it! ...means you've got a "safe" place from which you can do that exploration.

Share this post


Link to post

There is stigma in the lifestyle for bi or bi curious males. So they keep their interests to themselves.

 

I cannot see how MM is different from FF. I have enjoyed MM and do not feel gay.

 

But we do our activity in a closed room, at home, at a motel, but not in an open room where someone can make noise and bitch.

Share this post


Link to post

Continue to explore this in your mind. You are on your way to purging yourself from the ideals that were put in your head by others. Those ideas are the thing that is not natural, not your enjoyment of sex even if the sex happens to be with a man. If you aren't trying to have a baby then gender is irrelevant to sex play anyway.

 

10 percent of the population of men prefer sex to men.If millions are that into it there must be something to it right?

:soapbox:

 

There is NOTHING wrong with it at all. I started out thinking it was unnatural and disgusting then I started to explore in my mind why? I wanted to know what all those men saw in it. I got over my hang ups and now i very much enjoy satisfying both members of a couple. I love it! Took a while though.

Share this post


Link to post

Back in junior high I gave my best friend a blow job. It was a one time thing and I enjoyed it. I told my wife about when we first started dating and she thought that was so hot. She gets turned on by MM and she has wanted to see me giving and/or receiving a bj. It is also something that I have been wanting to do again. So after 14 years we have joined a swingers club to live out our fantasies. We have been swinging (slowly) for about a year and having a great time. So if it feels right for you go ahead and try it.

Share this post


Link to post

You are not alone. Many of us, myself included, find it hot to see two men. For me personally, I would love to see my man in that position, but not to get fucked. To watch him receive oral and then fuck the guy. More power to you is all I can say.

Share this post


Link to post
I'm as straight as an arrow and never even looked at another man in a sexual way. We play as a couple and have had regular 3somes (mfm) which she thoroughly enjoy. The focus is always on her, giving her pleasure and making sure she is having fun.

 

Recently we were in a 3some with this gent and while we were playing (foreplay) he asked me whether I have ever been touched by or touch another man myself. The answer was no.

 

He then dared me to touch him, which I then proceeded to do. Funny enough, it was not so weird as I thought it would be and although it felt strange, at the same time it felt familiar.

 

I then proceeded to keep his dick in my hand and point it towards her mouth while she was blowing him. He did the same with me while she was blowing me later.

 

Suddenly it was not strange anymore and I even guided his cock into her pussy later on. It all felt so natural in the situation. Fun was had by all 3 of us and it did not gross me out or even the wife.

 

We (me and wife) had a discussion afterwards and she said she found it actually very kinky and she would like to see me in a male-male experience. Ever since it has been playing in my head and I don't know what to think.

 

Touching is one thing, but actually going down on someone is something totally different (or is it not?)

 

Although I still don't look at men in a sexual way, I found myself thinking about this a lot. A part of me says don't do it, you don't find men sexually attractive, but a part of my tell me to not to knock it and try it at least once and then make up my mind.

 

The wife said that she became bisexual by also experimenting and only later become attracted to females as she became accustomed to the situation.

 

Do you think I should proceed and experiment?

 

I don't think I have the guts to take a cock in my mouth and suck it, but a part of me tells me I have the guts and should go ahead. I know it would be big visual turn-on for the wife and I would do anything to turn her on...just not sure about sucking a cock to turn her on. LOL

 

To be honest, I'm very nervous.

 

I remember the first time I explored my bi side and it was amazing...I had always loved women but a tiny part of me always wanted to go down on a guy and when it happened for the first time, I knew it was something that felt good and right to me. Never been interested in anal or penetration but it's great sucking dick in a hot 3sum and jacking off with another dude when the mood strikes AND I can actually find a bi couple.

Share this post


Link to post

I love this board, we have been able to find about any information we have wanted or needed. I am so blessed to have a wife the understand me, accepts me and encourages me to test waters I hadn't before. She and I talked recently and reviled that we are both bi-curious. We have even opened up to exploring that together.

 

We have never played with another couple, or experimented with the same gender but we are getting ready to. It's exciting as hell for both of us. I don't know if I will like sucking a man off, but I want to try it sometime, I will at least know what it is like and not wonder anymore. I have also wondered about anal, but right now I know I am not that adventurous yet...I may never be and that's fine.

 

My advice it find someone you trust to give you sound advice without pushing you in any direction. Talk to him about his experience and than mull it over. Decide what you would be comfortable with as a starting point.

 

For goodness sake don't entertain the thought that if you touch a man or have oral with him once you are branded for life. That's bullshit, this is your body, your life, mind, everything. You own it, ENJOY it as you see fit. If you try it and find you enjoy it, run with it, you found something else in life that feels good. If you find it's not for you, well, nobody says you have to keep doing it. If you are curious check it out to the extent you want, otherwise you will always be wondering.

 

I'm not attracted to men, but I'm attracted to the idea of the taboo and it being so different. I told my wife I will never ask or make her do something I'm not willing to do myself, guess I can prove that too. LOL

 

Be good or at least good at it.

Share this post


Link to post

I should have added. I'm so happy that this topic is now being discussed. A few years ago when I receded from this board, this topic was taboo. Welcome all you bi and bi-curious guys.

Share this post


Link to post

It is nice that we can be honest, isn't it? The times, they are a changing!

Share this post


Link to post

NakenInSeattle, I'm glad you're back! I haven't seen you in a very long time.

 

Absolutely nothing wrong with MM. If everyone is having pleasure and it's all consensual, go for it and have a party!

Share this post


Link to post

My wife thinks it's hot and would like to experience seeing me have MM contact during play. Can't say the though doesn't cross my mind. I know I'd need some encouragement for it to happen. But under the right circumstances would probably give it a try.

Share this post


Link to post

I am not attracted to me per se but I have found M2M play to be very erotic especially in the wife's company. I was nervous at first but have never regretted it for a moment. I feel liberated now having the desire and ability to give pleasure to both sexes. I highly recommend that if you are considering it, do try it under comfortable conditions of course. Now the most fun of all to me is when I can share with a couple and give them equal attention. I have never had an experience when everyone didn't leave very happy not to mention satisfied.

 

It's has obviously made me very aroused just thinking about it. Obvious if you could see me that is.

Share this post


Link to post

supposed to be men not me

 

I am not attracted to men per se but I have found M2M play to be very erotic especially in the wife's company. I was nervous at first but have never regretted it for a moment. I feel liberated now having the desire and ability to give pleasure to both sexes. I highly recommend that if you are considering it, do try it under comfortable conditions of course. Now the most fun of all to me is when I can share with a couple and give them equal attention. I have never had an experience when everyone didn't leave very happy not to mention satisfied.

 

It's has obviously made me very aroused just thinking about it. Obvious if you could see me that is.

Share this post


Link to post
My wife thinks it's hot and would like to experience seeing me have MM contact during play. Can't say the though doesn't cross my mind. I know I'd need some encouragement for it to happen. But under the right circumstances would probably give it a try.

 

Please don't take this the wrong way because I'm not trying to be judgmental or anything, but I always wondered about this kind of thinking. If it isn't causing pain or against someones will. Why on earth wouldn't you try something you're curious about.

 

What do you imagine will happen if you put a cock in your mouth - the guys from Queer Eye going to show up at your door the next day and start making you wear chiffon and an ascot to work?

 

I have thought about it many a times and a few times before it nearly happened. And granted if it wasn't for her wishes I would probably would not have actively sought out the experience. It's not on my top 5 but it comes pretty damned close due to the effect it has on her and the world didn't come to an end.

Share this post


Link to post

For many people there is 30 to 40 years of ingrained thinking about M2M contact starting from the first time boys start to shower together in school. It's often very hard to go against something you have been told for that long. I understand completely. I must also say that going against that thinking and following through with the fantasy is well worth the effort. Keep fantasizing and go for it! The world really doesn't come to an end and you aren't automatically labeled anything.

Share this post


Link to post

I'd love to get into a situation where a nice guy is fucking my wife doggie, whilst I am 69'ing her... Not really knowing or caring whose equipment I'm sucking or licking at the time.

 

Hot fantasy!

Share this post


Link to post
For many people there is 30 to 40 years of ingrained thinking about M2M contact starting from the first time boys start to shower together in school. It's often very hard to go against something you have been told for that long. I understand completely. I must also say that going against that thinking and following through with the fantasy is well worth the effort. Keep fantasizing and go for it! The world really doesn't come to an end and you aren't automatically labeled anything.

 

This goes for wives who have been brainwashed about not being that type of girl too! Hey, we're all adults now and allowed to explore!

Share this post


Link to post
I'd love to get into a situation where a nice guy is fucking my wife doggie, whilst I am 69'ing her... Not really knowing or caring whose equipment I'm sucking or licking at the time.

 

Hot fantasy!

 

And, believe it or not, a pretty common fantasy too. Oh, and not to mention how much fun that has to be for your wife!

  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

I say go with it, life is too damn short. If you don't like it don't do it anymore. Sucking a cock is not like a "gate-way drug" to homosexuality.

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post
I think you have already made your decision and at this point you are just looking for some kind of reassurance, encouragement or acceptance...

 

It's definitely not my thing but...

 

Maybe you are on a bi-sex board for the same reason... just sayin' :)

Share this post


Link to post

Mr occ here. Mrs occ likes group play. Couples but also gang bangs. I have found that once you really dive into group action touching other guys just happens due to proximity. Once I got over the initial "omg I'm touching another guy" thing, then it became a turn-on. So now, if everyone is comfortable with it, bi play just becomes part of the fun. Whether it's just touching or full on blowjobs or more. Just find your comfort level and then let go.

  • Like 3

Share this post


Link to post

Thanks for updating your thread Erotics. Always good to know how things turn out for the board members when they share a situation, thought, or desire.

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post

It sounds like you found the perfect guy for your first time. You're lucky there! One of these days I hope to find that perfect guy too. Oh, I've found several that might have been close and a few that I still wonder why I was with them! :)

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post
Mr occ here. Mrs occ likes group play. Couples but also gang bangs. I have found that once you really dive into group action touching other guys just happens due to proximity. Once I got over the initial "omg I'm touching another guy" thing, then it became a turn-on. So now, if everyone is comfortable with it, bi play just becomes part of the fun. Whether it's just touching or full on blowjobs or more. Just find your comfort level and then let go.

 

The whole group fantasy is a powerful thing. I would love to dive into a pile of bodies and let go, like you said.

  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

You will never know if bi with a man has any excitement unless you try. I tried over 10 years ago, and I adapted to it well. Still go down on 'one' when offered......

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post

As a solo guy I've been in a few MMF's where the male part of the couple played with me and preformed limited oral on me. I did not find it awkward and it appeared to turn the lady on tremendously. I did return the favor. Do I consider myself bi? Maybe sexually flexible or opportunistic. I am not attracted to men when I walk by them on the street, but I am when seeing women.

  • Like 2
  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

Hi

 

Mr Frojoe here. I'm bisexual and pretty much have been my entire life (had my first experience at 13). Personally, I'd say try it if you're curious. You won't know for sure if you don't...and don't be scared to push your boundaries a bit either. I see a lot of guys aren't into anal sex but again I would say don't knock til you've tried it. If you're curious but reticent to actually go that far with a guy, get your SO a strap-on and give that a try.

 

I get that some guys are worried about coming off submissive when engaging with another guy. That's your ego and years of programming working against you. No one looks at two women together and sees one as more dominant.

 

Anyway, those are just some thoughts that probably could have been expressed better but I'm hungry. Lol.

  • Like 2

Share this post


Link to post

I haven't read all the responses yet, but I'll chime in. I think it shouldn't be unexpected that a sexually open person would develop a healthy curiosity about playmates of the same gender. I know a lot - if not most - women in the lifestyle are bisexual, and it's sort of what got us into swinging in the first place. Turns out I was actually bi-curious, but having explored that option, no holds barred, I discovered that I'm genuinely heterosexual. It was an interesting experience, and I wouldn't say no to playing with a woman in a group play situation, but I don't exactly go looking for it. I think you're probably just going through the same bi-curiosity phase. I wouldn't be afraid of experimenting, and try to not over-think it. Really the whole point of swinging is for individuals to explore their sexuality without judgment and with the love and support of their spouse or partner. It's that vulnerability that makes the magic.

 

Edit--> Aaand that's why you should read the whole thread, intuition897. Erotics, I see you've already updated us with your recent experience. Glad to hear you enjoyed it and that it seemed to open new doors for you.

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post

I can remember years ago when the wife and I just got started in the LS. We went to our first club and I think went into our first orgy room the same night. Well, we quickly met a couple who were somewhat older than the both of us. The wife was very interested in me and wanted me to fuck her. Well, being new the whole experience after my wife said that she didn't mind if I did I went forward with it. We were all in the orgy room when this all took place. I remember having sex with the woman and all of a sudden I feel her husband's legs if I can remember correctly cross over mine. Wow, hell no!!! This was my first reaction to what he did. So, while still fucking his wife I did kindly remove his leg from touching me and maybe gave him an awkward look.

 

Well, that was years ago and now my attitude about it is completely different. I have never thought about any kind of bi or gay activity in the past until a while back I came across a blog that I actually read all the way through. It was written by the husband of a bi-sexual couple. Another WOW by me after reading this. Still, not completely cool with it my mind just continued to wonder and wonder about it. So, I slowly started watching gay and bi-sexual vids on my phone. The more I watched the more I liked what I was seeing. Now my attitude is totally different about how I judge people and the lifestyle they choose to live as far as being bi or gay. I have not yet to have a bi experience but I must say that I'm totally for trying out the other side.

 

Honestly, right now I still just can't see myself sucking another guy's cock, but who knows!!! Only time will tell and I don't know when that time will be.

  • Like 2

Share this post


Link to post

Other than clubs or putting it in my SLS and Kasidie profiles, where do y'all meet bi males that is safe? I looked on our local CL..... and felt like I needed a shower afterwards... Ugh.

 

 

I'm genuinely curious about bi play but at the same time repulsed by what I saw on CL.

Share this post


Link to post

I agree with happy couple. CL is scary looking, although we have had a few meetups with CL people and had a good time. MFMF no bi stuff.

 

Can people recommend good sites or places to meet like minded couples. Bi-male, Straight-female would fit our style really well.

Share this post


Link to post
Guest adventure4514

Hi everyone - I too have often thought about exploring, and can't get it out of my head. The idea of a bi mmf just seems so erotic to me. Not too sure my partner would EVER be into it, and really not sure how to even mention it. Anyone else in this same situation?

Share this post


Link to post

Discuss it and go for it. My partner knew my thoughts and when the time came, we all agreed and let things flow. We did oral and both shared the experience. Her first and mine. Was the most erotic thing and felt more comfortable once we were all aboard. She liked to watch and it really turned her on. A couple experiences later and looking forward to the next.

Share this post


Link to post

Pursuing this direction can have consequences. If a guy is open to allowing same sex contact, it can cause a drastic change in the normal sex life and fantasies. Even if this person isn't the least bit turned on by the same sex. The usual impression of a guy never having mm contact is based on the act of holding, stroking, sucking another mans junk. Something that should be recognized and it is brought up more than once in this thread, is the rest of the story. Putting a cock in your mouth for the first time after holding it, looking at it, wondering if you can really do this, isn't what was expected. The feel, the taste, the texture is not what we expected. Also, most men hadn't considered the reaction this causes. Suddenly you feel something different, power, control, desire. Some guys that are natural pleasers can become addicted to this. IF you are very open minded, have no homophobic issues, love the feeling of giving pleasure during sex and if you have an addictive personality this can cause problems. Be aware that going into a mm experience needs to be approached the same as swinging. Rules should be set and communication with the other half needs to be as open as swinging.

 

I tag myself as bi but really see myself as about the straightest guy I know. I am absolutely hooked on sex though, and giving head, for me, was like heroin. 15+ years constantly looking for a 'fix' before finally getting it under control. Amazing to go through, horrid to look back on.

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post

First question, "What is normal?" Is swinging normal? Normal is a judgment word. Average might be better since it's a mathmatical word. Pleasure, desire, power and control are part of heterosexual encounters also. Becoming fixated on a particular pleasure is more a fetish than an addiction. You do sound as if addiction played a part in your experience if you feel that giving head was like heroin. Never did heroin but have been prescribed oxycotin for pain. Didn't like it one bit and would never compare it to sex. More like non-sex, down, uncrisp, not up. Each person has a different reaction to drugs, but my experience is that downers are down and sex is up.

 

Loving a cock in your mouth is exciting both for the pleasure and for the relief from all the bullshit about being bi or gay. It's sex, it's pleasure, AND it's not what we were led to believe with all the putdowns and hangups about it. There's a feeling of growing up and out of something nasty, the bigotry toward male/male sex.

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post
Pursuing this direction can have consequences. If a guy is open to allowing same sex contact, it can cause a drastic change in the normal sex life and fantasies. Even if this person isn't the least bit turned on by the same sex. The usual impression of a guy never having mm contact is based on the act of holding, stroking, sucking another mans junk. Something that should be recognized and it is brought up more than once in this thread, is the rest of the story. Putting a cock in your mouth for the first time after holding it, looking at it, wondering if you can really do this, isn't what was expected. The feel, the taste, the texture is not what we expected. Also, most men hadn't considered the reaction this causes. Suddenly you feel something different, power, control, desire. Some guys that are natural pleasers can become addicted to this. IF you are very open minded, have no homophobic issues, love the feeling of giving pleasure during sex and if you have an addictive personality this can cause problems. Be aware that going into a mm experience needs to be approached the same as swinging. Rules should be set and communication with the other half needs to be as open as swinging.

 

I tag myself as bi but really see myself as about the straightest guy I know. I am absolutely hooked on sex though, and giving head, for me, was like heroin. 15+ years constantly looking for a 'fix' before finally getting it under control. Amazing to go through, horrid to look back on.

 

First question, "What is normal?" Is swinging normal? Normal is a judgment word. Average might be better since it's a mathmatical word. Pleasure, desire, power and control are part of heterosexual encounters also. Becoming fixated on a particular pleasure is more a fetish than an addiction. You do sound as if addiction played a part in your experience if you feel that giving head was like heroin. Never did heroin but have been prescribed oxycotin for pain. Didn't like it one bit and would never compare it to sex. More like non-sex, down, uncrisp, not up. Each person has a different reaction to drugs, but my experience is that downers are down and sex is up.

 

Loving a cock in your mouth is exciting both for the pleasure and for the relief from all the bullshit about being bi or gay. It's sex, it's pleasure, AND it's not what we were led to believe with all the putdowns and hangups about it. There's a feeling of growing up and out of something nasty, the bigotry toward male/male sex.

 

ummm...yeah I didn't really get any of these effects. It was all just kinda matter of fact and in the moment. I will readily admit my one on one experience with another man is pretty limited. It was really freeing though to be in a four way with another man an be able to do things with him that I could only do with the women.

 

Did I fantasize about men before this? Yeah, most of my life but make no mistake it is certainly women that move me to do really stupid things. ;-). I have always figured everybody has but men don't admit it. It has certainly been mostly women though.

 

Pretty hard to explain, but I have no desire for the 'power' dynamic in sex. I'll do the whole BDSM thing, but I don't fantasize about it. My wife says that it's because I am a natural dom, or alpha. I don't know, but it does explain some peoples reactions to me in group situations.

 

Anyhow what I enjoyed and got was the group 'affection' dynamic. That was awesome, I really loved that, and am looking forward to being involved with it again.

 

Now that I've had multiple MM experiences I am definitely in a different place sexually, but it's not really craving cock. Guess I am still processing this.

 

No, I really didn't feel a super barrier to touching his junk or giving a blow job. Going in for the make out session, that took a bit of close my eye's and just do it. I am glad I did, but there was certainly more of a barrier there. Oh and I will definitely do it again, I kinda feel like a sex act without kissing just leaves me flat.

 

This has definitely turned into a bit of a ramble, but like I said I am still processing the actual experience.

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.


  • Similar Content

    • By Mistral Wind
      I'm Mistral, and my husband Tim and I attended the most fabulous swingers party the previous weekend at our new friends' large manor house. We were filled with glee when they invited us back the following weekend for another cum-filled night of debauchery. They also suggested we bring some friends if we liked.
       
      John and Wendy were a couple we knew from our charity work. They were young, idealistic, and very open-minded. We didn't think they were swingers, but the subject had come up in casual conversation. They were curious but remained evasive about their thoughts on the subject. We decided all we could do was broach the issue and see what happened.
       
      The next evening, John and Wendy arrived after Tim and Mistral. They followed the crowd upstairs. As they climbed the stairs amongst the excited and bubbly people, Wendy remembered the afternoon and that phone call. John's voice was nervous and excited, "Hi, Babe! We have a party invite from Tim and Mistral to join them at their friends' swinger party tonight. I know we have fantasized about this. How do you feel?"
       
      Wendy felt panic surge through her stomach, excitement flooded her pussy, and her nipples perked up hard. "Wow, that is short notice. What happens if we don't like it?"
       
      "Babe, I will never make you," John promised. "We both have to want this to happen. I am sorry to spring it on you like this, and maybe we should forget it then."
       
      Wendy said, "No, John, I did not say 'NO,' just what happens? When we fantasized about swinging, you said you would love to watch me in a group of men getting fucked by them all. Are you sure about that?"
       
      Wendy had visualized these events, wishing desperately that John would take the lead and say, 'We will do it.' In their role-playing, they often pretended to be at a swingers party changing partners. One of Wendy's games was to roll up two large pillows, tie a belt around with a strap-on dildo attached to the belt, put her large vibrator into the cup, and ride the pillows, getting fucked hard by the vibrator. John would come from behind and fuck her arse or go to the front, and she would suck him to a spluttering cum inside her mouth. In her mind, these were real men fucking her, and she shared herself with the men, and John loved the attention and continuous pleasure.
       
      In reply to Wendy's question, John said, "Oh yes, while I am having the same with two girls, one on my face and one on my cock, I would love it! Babe, I am sure. How about you?"
       
      Wendy gulped. The secret she had held in her head for so long was about to become real. "Let's do it. Let's go! Are you sure you won't feel jealous watching me come on some man's cock with another somewhere else inside me? I don't have a thing to wear. What do I need?"
       
      John said, "The theme is An Officer and a Gentleman. I can go dressed as a USA Army General using my dad's old uniform. You wear your sexy red top and skirt. You know, the top that doesn't come all the way down, the skirt with the elastic waistband hanging low on you, and your suspenders and stockings. No thong, no bra. You will show off your pussy to her best. My cock is getting hard just thinking about it!"
       
      Wendy replied, "I will be ready when you get home. Your dad's uniform will need a press, and I will prepare everything. See you at 6:00 tonight, darling."
       
      Her hands were shaking when she replaced the receiver breathing shallowly and jerkily as the realization hit home that tonight it would happen! During the afternoon, she got John's clothes ready, checked her dress, found the right shoes, and laid it all out, ready for later. A long hot soak where she shaved her pussy bare using John's razor and made sure her legs and armpits were perfect.
       
      Resting on the bed, she shuffled through the videos they kept hidden from guests and found her favorite, "Suzie's Gang Bang." A fast-action orgy video in which this girl gets fucked by five men altogether. Wendy often watched this and used her vibrator when John was away or working late. Sometimes when her cycle was at ovulation, her sex drive was limitless, and she would role-play watching the action.
       
      The action on the screen hotted up as the men were penetrating Susie left, right, and center. A closeup on-screen of pussy open and dripping. A cock slid into it, wetting itself with her fluids. It slid out, rubbed against her tiny rosebud anus, and gently but firmly slid into opening her slowly. At the same time, another cock pushed into her pussy. Wendy loved this part and rolled onto her side, turned on the vibrator, and sunk it into her arse. Her fingers slid into her pussy, working gently to pleasure her clit. Her hips were thrusting back and forward faster and faster as her climax built. She reached down and switched on her biggest vibrator, a black cock that was as real as it gets. The vibrator was thrust inside her cunt, and she moaned and moaned herself into a massive climax.
       
      Wendy relaxed, watched the movie, enjoyed the post-climactic euphoria, and gently played with her clit. In her mind, she watched the swingers' party unfold - couples fucking, girl-girl, MFM, and FMF at this imaginary party. Inside her head, she had been desperate to fulfill these needs, and it was finally coming true.
       
      In the past, Wendy was often on the verge of saying to John, "Let's try swinging!" She always shrank away from the responsibility in case he rejected the reality. Fantasies are fine, but who knows what the reality will bring? After so many conversations about swinging, so many nearly made decisions, and all those fantasies that included imaginary swinging, they had chosen to go ahead. With an overwhelming certainty, she laid back, smiled, and said to herself, "Tonight, I will fuck a roomful of men. I hope I don't disappoint them; my clit is tingling with anticipation!"
       
      Wendy switched on the vibrator, and her hands moved over her breasts, pinching her nipples and then down to her pussy. Her hips were rocking back and forth. She rolled the pillows up, tied the belt around, clipped the vibrator into the belt, and climbed on top, sinking the vibrator deep inside her pussy and working herself to another peak. She closed her eyes and started rocking harder and harder. Then, a voice penetrated the action, and John stood naked and erect in front of her. She blushed with embarrassment, and he thrust his cock into her mouth. It tasted slightly salty. He lasted about 10 seconds and then dumped the load down her throat, bringing her to a climax.
       
      John smiled and gently rolled Wendy into his arms. "You looked fantastic when I walked in and found you fucking your brains out with your vibrator on top of those pillows. If I feel as proud of you at the party as I did then and how aroused it made me, I can't wait to watch you fuck the guys. Will you enjoy watching me and sharing my pleasure?"
       
      "Oh yes," she said in her little girl's voice, "I will love watching you; maybe I can do a 69 with her and lick her pussy while you thrust in and out and feel your balls contract when you come inside her."
       
      "Mmmmmm, I wonder if all the girls will be bi? I wonder if I could do a girly threesome? Mmmmmm, I wonder if I can get two men to come at the same time inside me. That would be fun too."
       
      "Can I be your vixen tonight and play dirty?" John smiled and spoke softly, the care showing in his voice.
       
      "Babe, we will have a fabulous time together and with other couples or whatever, don't be shy to try what you want, and feel able to say NO if you don't want. Above all, enjoy yourself, and pleasure comes first," she reminded him.
       
      So back to the party! They gathered around a pool table, with the group laughing and joking about the action starting all around. Wendy looked at the two girls on the pool table with their legs over the shoulders of four guys who were licking and sucking nipples, pussies, and one man had her toes in his mouth, sucking them like a breastfeeding baby. Wendy started to pant. She could not get her breath. Her heart was racing, her knees buckled, and she began to shake. Tears flooded down her face. John cried, "What's up! What's up!"
       
      Wendy sank against the woman beside her shaking uncontrollably. The girl instinctively put her arms around Wendy and held her close, supporting Wendy against herself.
       
      "Sushhhhh baby, you are all right!" the woman cooed, "What is worrying you? You don't have to do any of this if you are afraid."
       
      Wendy snuggled against the comforting figure, put her face against the warm, feminine neck, and nuzzled her cheek, kissing it gently. Her hand moved without command to the woman's breast, and she felt the nipple harden as she caressed it gently. The shaking was easing now, and Wendy felt a little bolder. She turned the woman's face towards her, looked into her eyes, and moved forward slowly, anticipating a gentle and subtle kiss. The tongue was not stiff and probing like a man's but gentle, enticing, and exciting. Wendy's free hand moved down to the woman's belly and softly caressed the feminine rounded shape moving slowly downwards to find that sweetly perfumed garden where a secret lotus stem was waiting to be stroked.
       
      Hands caressed breasts and pussy. Now both girls turned on to each other. John watched, fascinated. He had never seen Wendy with another woman, and his cock raged hard inside his pants. As if in a dream, Wendy pushed the girl gently onto the pool table so her bottom was on edge. She bent down, opened her legs, put them on her shoulders, and snuggled her face between them, savoring the beautiful feminine smells and tastes. Gently opening up the inner lips with her tongue, finding her clit and teasing, teasing just off the edge, making her wait for the full pleasure. Female wetness was seeping all over Wendy's face as the girl was getting nearer and nearer to release.

      A few minutes passed, and the girl pushed Wendy off, got onto the table, and said, "Get up here with me. We can pleasure each other now!"

      Wendy climbed up, the shakes all gone now. Her pussy was soaking wet, and her breasts were tender with erect nipples and very sensitive. She lifted her skirt, revealing the stockings and suspenders without anything else. The two girls turned head to toe and started a frantic licking expedition to cunt heaven.

      Wendy felt a body get up behind her and present a long stiff penis to her backside. The man tried gently to insert it in her cunt where the girl was licking hard; it slipped in and thrust a few times. The girl firmly grassed it and slid it up the crack between her buttocks, tickling her anus with the end. Wendy's whole valley was wet and slippery. The long thin cock nudged open her arse and gently snaked into her bottom.

      Wendy's heart raced again; this was what she had dreamed of for months! What surprised her was that the cock inside her was giving almost more pleasure than having her pussy sucked. The combination was too great. A massive climax took over, and she nearly fainted with joy.

      As she fell over the edge into an abyss of pleasure, the man behind speeded up, grunted, and sank deep inside her, flooding her back passage with his fluids. Wendy opened her eyes and looked up at John, who stood open-mouthed, watching her antics. He had a girl on her knees sucking his rigid cock, but his eyes were transfixed on Wendy. She smiled, blew him a kiss, and licked her lips covered in pussy juice from the girl beneath her. John shuddered and spent down the girl's throat pumping his hips in time with his spurts.

      He gently pushed the girl to one side, staggered to Wendy with his pants down by his feet, and said, "Well, you are hot; I could not believe how sexy you are. I am so proud of you; better than my wildest dreams was that fantastic to watch."

      Wendy thought to herself, "Why did I panic? This is fantastic, better than the fantasies we have. This is real sex."
       
      A couple came up to them. The man smiled. "I am Tommy. This is Raquel, my wife. We just watched you and nearly came with you. Would you join us at the table for a foursome?"
       
      Wendy reached down and felt his cock inside his pants. It was semi-hard and big. She turned to John and Raquel, "Let's get together. We can play here or in one of the smaller rooms with a nice bed?"

      They entered the room together. Wendy pushed down her long skirt and flipped off her top. She was naked except for her stockings and suspenders. Raquel slipped out of her long ball gown, revealing a very firm 36's and a sweet little tight arse on top of a pair of legs to die for. She was near perfect. Tommy was muscular with a flat hard six-pack stomach and an erection starting to grow to full size as he gently stroked himself. John was naked in a flash, only half erect after his escapade down the other girl's throat. Wendy turned to Tommy, who scooped her up in his arms and carried her over to the king-sized bed, his erect cock bouncing up and down as he stepped forward. Raquel reached out for John, smiled softly, and whispered, "Come and play with me and let me get you hard again. We will watch them while I regenerate your erection."

      John looked down at her fair perfection, those soft curves all running down into the valley between her legs. A golden pussy fuzz glinted in the soft lights. He reached for her and pulled her towards him. A first gentle kiss, lips opened up, and tongues tenderly searched each other out, exploring each other. His hands held her back, then softly slid down over her buttocks, caressing that incredible apple shape of her bottom. She pulled him harder into her body.

      As Raquel responded to the stimuli, her hand slid down to feel his penis, which was gently growing back to a man-size stiffness. Their kisses became more ardent, and deeper tongues were now demanding, not exploring. Hands moved over her body.

      John broke off the long kiss and searched her neck with his lips and tongue. She shuddered, and he felt her open her legs and move into his body. She thrust her pubis against his leg and started to move up and down. He could feel the wetness spreading along his thigh. John had now reached her breast with his lips and was attacking her nipple, which was bone hard. Raquel started to pant and squirm harder against his leg.

      Suddenly Raquel broke away and fell back onto the bed beside Tommy and Wendy's entwined bodies. Raquel reached up, and John dived onto her, gently landing without his weight on her. Raquel squirmed around so she was head-to-toe with him, with her on her back. Raquel reached up and grasped his nearly hard cock. She slipped her mouth over the head as she pulled back his tight foreskin and started to suck him to total hardness.

      John's head was between her legs. His mouth opened up her secret garden exploring the sides and little creases. He could tell her clit was begging for attention, and he made her wait. He felt careful with his tongue and could feel the hardness and swelling around her clit, which was now erect like a mini penis. His tongue explored her depths and penetrated her cunt, where he would follow with his cock shortly. Raquel was getting agitated and frustrated. She wanted attention on her clit, so John moved his tongue down the crease between her legs out of her cunt and down to her anus. As it reached the little rosebud, she shuddered and thrust her hips against his face.

      Raquel was working hard on making his cock whole again and hard enough to get inside her to ease that burning desire. She threw him over onto his back, climbed on top, grasped his penis in her hand, aimed for her inner lips, and squatted down with a satisfied sigh. John tried to thrust up against her downstrokes, and they found a comfortable rhythm that would gently build to a glorious climax.

      Tommy knelt beside John and Raquel with Wendy's legs over his shoulders, thrusting energetically into her pussy. Wendy's bottom hardly touched the bed as his cock shuttled in and out of her dripping pussy. Raquel leaned over and kissed him hard on his mouth while her fingers searched for Wendy's cunt. Wendy pushed her hand out to John, grasped his face, and pulled it over for a kiss. As the four fucked into each other's partners, the respective partners smiled and kissed each other. Raquel started to whimper like a small cat. Her eyes rolled up as she reached her first climax, and her face distorted. A moan escaped her lips. "Fuck it harder! Fuck it, my cunt is exploding. Ohhhhhhhhh!"

      Raquel collapsed in a heap on top of John. He rolled her off and crawled around to the other two. Tommy rolled Wendy off him, and she got onto all fours. John hit her from the rear straight into her cunt, deep and hard. She thrust back to meet him harder and faster. Tommy went for the face and slid his cock deep into her mouth, making her gag a little, setting a fast pace that could never last. Tommy grunted and exploded semen down her throat, pumping and pumping till he was spurting on empty. Wendy cried out and shuddered and shuddered as she lost it in a huge one. John followed a few thrusts later. With a sigh and a deep thrust, he unloaded inside Wendy.

      The three untangled themselves. John lay on his side facing Tommy, and Raquel rested against him, her head using his hips as a pillow. Tommy and Wendy took up a similar position facing them. Wendy was fascinated with Tommy's penis, which had shrunk to a little wrinkled sausage. She played with it tenderly, remembering how hard and energetic it had just been. John was exploring Raquel's inner sanctuary in a lazy, tender way.

      Raquel got up, poured four glasses of wine from a bottle on the side table, and brought them to the bed. They all sipped and chatted quietly, enjoying the aftermath of the passion. Wendy could feel a slippery liquid seeping out between her legs. She reflected on how wonderful the party had started and how much better real sex in a group was than watching and fantasizing.

      Wendy said, "John, I need to use the bathroom. I will be back shortly. Will you wait here for me?"

      "Of course, darling," he smiled and added. "Come back when you are ready!" She laughed and left the room.

      Three girls and two men burst in a few minutes later, laughing and jostling each other. "Can we use the bed or join you if you haven't finished?" one girl asked. "Sure, get on and join us," John replied with a smile.

      Each girl selected a mate and sidled up to him as bodies entwined and hands were everywhere. The scene changed from relaxed, easy caresses to hot passion. John was having trouble getting hard again so soon after the last session. One of the two guys noticed and put his head in his lap, sucking gently on his cock. The girls watched with rapt interest. John froze for a second. This had never happened before. Then he relaxed as he thought to himself Wendy does this to me all the time. I go down on her. She won't mind, so what's the problem? John laid back and started enjoying a new experience.

      Wendy walked naked through the large room towards the lady's bathroom, passing groups and couples in all types of contortions. One threesome had a man on all fours, the girl on his back legs wrapped around the guy on top as he fucked vigorously. Her head was bobbing about like a broken rag doll. The whimpers coming from her showed she was in fuck heaven. Wendy passed them and smiled. She could not believe how many different positions were being displayed.

      In the bathroom, a girl was sitting on the side where the washbasins were, legs wide open, washing out the fluids that had been pumped into her. She licked her fingers and said, "Yummy, don't you just love that salty taste? I just got too full after a big gangbang. I had eight inside me, one after the other. Some of the greedy buggers came back for seconds and thirds." Wendy asked, "How long did you do it for?" The girl said, "About an hour and a half. I am a bit sore now and need a rest to recover after coming so many times."

      Wendy left the bathroom and wandered down a corridor from the large room. She heard sounds from a room; she stopped and looked in through the open door. Nine men were around this one girl who was being fucked from behind by one with another in her mouth, and a few were by her head. She had a cock in each hand, and the others were masturbating around her. The guy in her pussy speeded up and pulled out, rubbing himself furiously. He spurted all over her bottom. Another took his place and speared her without ceremony pushing in and out of her sweet little pussy. He inserted a finger up her bottom, and she wriggled and cried out, "Fuck my arse as well!"

      The men pulled out and rolled her over. One climbed underneath. She sat on his cock and lay on his chest. Another pulled her cheeks apart, stretching her anus slightly open. He rubbed semen that had seeped from her pussy around her dark hole to ease his passage and penetrated her slowly. The other guys were in her mouth, between her breasts, anywhere they could get.

      Wendy watched the action, fascinated. This was what she had dreamed of in every fantasy. One of the guys with nowhere to fuck noticed her standing by the door and came over and said, "Join us, lovely. We would love to satisfy your desires and fuck you senseless."

      Wendy entered the room as if in a dream; her fantasy had finally come true. Three guys remained with the girl. The other six moved over to Wendy. She lay on her back, waiting for it to happen. A man's body leaned over her, his cock hard and erect, probing her face as he bent over her and probed her cunt with his tongue. She grasped that beautiful cock and sucked it to absolute hardness. Hands over her breasts, tongues in ears and around her neck, hands now everywhere. Her body had become one large erogenous zone. The tongue in her pussy was replaced with a very large cock which started slowly and stepped up as the rhythm became one for both.

      For the next hour, Wendy felt cocks in all her parts, fluids being pumped and splashed. Each orgasm she experienced lifted her higher and higher until she lapsed into oblivion and was gently laid to rest, covered in semen and a little sore from the multiple entries. One vague recollection towards the end was of two cocks inside her pussy together, stretching her and giving her a final massive orgasm. Wendy drifted on the edge of exhaustion, languishing in the euphoria of her greatest fantasy, a gangbang. She lay there with semen dripping from her pussy, running down the crease between her legs. She fingered her anus softly, rubbing in the slippery cream to ease the soreness. She felt wonderful.

      After half an hour, she got up and returned to the room where she had left John. She passed Mistral, Tim, Greg, and Susan on the way, heading upstairs. As they passed her, they smiled at her sticky legs and body, and one said, "You sure have had some fun, huh, Wendy?"

      She arrived at the room and stepped inside. John was entwined with another girl, and a guy gently probed him while the girl tried to get him hard again. Wendy watched her man and smiled to herself. "Now he knows what it feels like to be fucked up the arse. Once used to the stretching, it is yummy."

      Wendy called him, "Honey, will you shower and sauna with me? I need to clean up a bit?"

      "OK, babe, let's get showered and find where Tim and Mistral are," John replied. "They did promise us a special time together, but I haven't seen them tonight."

      Mistral took John to one side the next day at work and said, "I know you both enjoyed your first swinging party; sorry we never got together. Would you both like to join Susan, Greg, Tim, and me the weekend after next at our place for just a casual dinner and some fun?"

      "Sure, we would not miss it!" John quickly replied. Mistral said, "Greg told me he saw Wendy walking past him in stockings and suspenders. He said she has a fabulous body, her cunt dripping down her legs, and he wants to fuck her after dinner. You can have Susan and me together if you fancy. It will be a hot night!" With a wide grin, John quickly shot back, "How about six all together in the sauna then?"
       
    • By Mistral Wind
      My husband, Tim, met a new prospective client the other day, and an hour appointment went on for another three hours. Then Tim returned to the office glowing with excitement. "Hey, Mistral, the new clients want the Full Monty and more from us!"
       
      A few days later, I met Greg and Susan and found we had an immediate relationship with them both. Glen is a "go-getter" who has enormous energy and vision. He had just acquired three more companies and ran a group of four on a wide area network that needed our services. The questions flowed thick and fast at the meeting: "Can you do xxx for us? What about these services? How about getting the VPN up?" A gem of all clients had been discovered by accident through a conversation with a friend who put us together.
       
      Greg is a tall, dark, very fit 45-year-old with boundless energy and a very sharp, intelligent mind with a wacky sense of humor. Susan is a Nicole Kidman look-alike, red blonde hair, 5'2", pert small breasts with really pink nipples, and the greatest tight little butt I have ever seen. Her hair was shoulder-length curly and shone like spun red gold. Some women you meet and like from day one. We liked the same food and wine and laughed about some of her office's young, horny, and frustrated studs.
       
      Within three weeks of working almost every day with them both, a very positive relationship had started between us. I began to feel that Susan might be bi. She often sat close, and when we were going through my graphic designs, she would sometimes run her hand down my arm or touch my face gently when asking her searching questions. Her being a client, I was always careful not to respond in a sexual way just in case I had misread her. As the working days passed, the banter became more friendly and frank.
       
      After a few dinners and lunches, we were invited to their place for a relaxing weekend after getting most of the projects specified and starting to build. Their income was high, so we expected a nice place when we drove up. It was spectacular!
       
      Greg had said, "Well, it's a small mansion, built about 1795, Robert Adam style." Greg's idea of small contained seven bedrooms, a covered heated pool with a Sauna and Jacuzzi, and the garden had the cutest little Japanese Bonsai tree garden with a beautiful love seat.
       
      When we arrived Friday late afternoon, we just had time to briefly chill out with them doing "the tour." We were shown many large elegant rooms alongside some small intimate settings that would suit a pair of lovers. We met Jonathon, Greg's 21-year-old son, who had just finished University and would take a year off to explore the world. Jon is into falconry in a big way and owns three Harris Hawks: Brody, Bandit, Blackthorn, and a Peregrine Falcon called Blade. I spent an hour chatting with Jon about his birds. I quickly realized the Harris Hawks were an intelligent community-minded group that would work together to hunt their prey.
       
      Later that evening, Jon left to go to London for the weekend to be with his girl. When he left, he kissed Susan (stepmother), and to my eye, it lingered just a little too long. I raised my eyebrow, and she frankly stated, "Well, he is beautiful and half of my husband, so why not enjoy a younger version as well? Greg is pretty relaxed about it."
       
      The air took on a sexual tension that made me feel a little uneasy as we made it a policy not to play with clients, and this has an overtone that could get difficult. Susan and I chilled out before dinner with a swim in the pool and a sauna to finish off. She dropped her bikini on the floor and sat naked in front of me, completely relaxed. Her legs rested on the opposite seat, slightly open, revealing a beautiful smooth snatch. Susan caught me looking and made a show of 'accidentally' allowing her legs to open even more. Watching her outer lips peel stickily apart, I was tempted to reach out and touch but remembered Tim's words: "Don't play with clients!" Susan seemed to sense my conundrum but seemed willing to let things ride where they were...for now.
       
      Dinner passed pleasantly with a couple of bottles of red French Merlot. We all chatted intimately, getting close and closer together. Greg announced an early start as Tim was invited to hunt with Blade the Peregrine while we girls chilled out and enjoyed the morning. About midday, Greg and Tim returned empty-handed Greg said, "We are taking the hawks out. Several wild rabbits are around, which would be great for dinner tonight; grilled rabbit with bacon and garlic is yummy!"
       
      Later the "hunters" returned with three rabbits for the table and a couple for the Harris Hawks. Tim was in awe of the birds and said: "Babe, you should see them hunt together. They would make great Marines. They are intelligent, work well together, and the kills are lightning-fast. No rabbit suffered."
       
      "Time for a shower and a rest before we set up tonight," Tim suggested. So we slipped upstairs to our room and showered together. The shower was only big enough to get both inside and had a flexible pipe with a variable spray head. The naughty schoolboy in Tim surfaced, and he turned the shower onto pulse and started to work my breasts and nipples with the jet. I slid my soapy hands down onto his cock and worked it hard. Tim moved the shower between my legs, and I opened up for him. The jet started to bombard my clit. This was too much too quick, and I said, "Pack it up. That hurts."
       
      Tim settled down onto his knees and softly kissed her better. She responded quickly, and I pushed his face deeper into my crotch. The outer lips were gently opened, and his tongue probed for the inner lips teasing around my clit. I got impatient and rocked my hips into his face forcing his tongue onto my clit, demanding his attention. My legs spread apart of their own accord, and a hand crept around, caressing my bottom and making the cleft tingle with anticipation. As my pussy heated up and the waves started to build, that other hand was around my anus, caressing and probing the pink rosebud.
       
      As the first waves started to run through my body, a finger tickled and slid inside my arse. The orgasm exploding inside me was made more magnificent by the probing finger. The finger working deep in my bowel was enough to hit my "G" spot from the other passage. As I came down from the first shudders, the jet spray added its contribution, and I nearly passed out with pleasure. That brought on a multiple, and it kept coming and coming until I slumped against him.
       
      Tim dried me off, picked me up, and gently laid me on the bed. He dried himself and leaned over me. His cock was still hard. I lazily reached up, pulled him into my mouth, and sucked and sucked, working around the helmet just under the rim. He did not take long as he wanted a cum as much as the sucking. It exploded into my mouth, and I slurped it down, leaving about half on my tongue. Tim collapsed on the bed beside me, and we kissed, sharing the salty fluid he had deposited. "You minx! You are supposed to swallow that!" teased Tim. I shot back: "You know it turns you on tasting semen, so stop complaining."
       
      We both drifted into a deep sleep for a couple of hours. The house is very warm, so I put on a floaty dress and a white silk thong with a diamante glitter buckle at the back when I dressed. Tim smiled and said, "Babe, that does show off your bottom beautifully. I am enjoying their company. Susan has a great mind and body. What do you think of Greg?"
       
      Dodging his question, I asked my own. "Would you want to be inside Susan's pussy?" I asked, "Does she have fuckability?"
       
      "Oh yes, and more. But remember, this is not a swinging party; these are clients. We must be careful; a wrong move could mess things up big time."
       
      "Susan sort of hit on me in the sauna by 'accidentally' showing me her pussy," I admitted. "It's smooth and beautiful, and I could tell she was very wet."
       
      "Interesting," Tim said, "but it doesn't change the fact they are clients. Let's enjoy dinner. Come on; it must be time to go on down." I could tell, though, that my admission had hit home with Tim, and his stomach wouldn't be the only thing on his mind at dinner.
       
      The rabbit was fabulous, and we slowly munched our way through the various courses. Coffee and brandy followed, and we retreated into a smaller intimate family room with sofas, large seats, scattered cushions on the floor, and a big fireplace with a bright fire in the grate. Susan found a DVD, "Eyes Wide Shut," with Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise. Tim commented, "You look just like her, Susan."
       
      "She is a fine woman," Susan agreed. "I wish I had her bottom and her breasts. Watch the first scenes, and you get to see all of her. She is beautiful!"
       
      The film was remarkable, and we all watched it enthralled during the sex party scene in the large country house. The men in masks and long dark cloaks, women in cloaks, and other women wearing just about nothing. Couples fucking all over the furniture, and one girl was being done resting on the back of another man. A girl in the corner was being fucked doggy on a coffee table. I started to get wet. The film was deep, and the sex was great, although never construed as a porn film, much too delicate for that category. My pussy was alive, so I couldn't wait to get Tim back upstairs later. The movie finished, and Susan said, "That was the hot scene at the party. Wouldn't you love to join in and be one of them!"
       
      A careful silence was followed by Tim and me, which gained the retort from Susan. "You are swingers, aren't you? Otherwise, you would have said something about not sharing your wife!" I giggled, and Tim finally uncomfortably said: "Well, it takes all kinds of people with different attitudes to sex to make the world go around."
       
      Susan got up and walked out of the room. After a few minutes, she returned with a small basket of condoms and a collection of exciting toys. Susan smiled at me and said, "Mistral, let's give the boys a show. Then I will fuck Tim to a standstill as long as you are OK about it and want Greg!"
       
      "OK. I want to fuck Greg as much as he wants me. Same for you and Tim," was my husky reply. Suddenly, all the rules had gone out the window. Susan smiled and shrugged off her long dress, sliding it down to the floor, and she had nothing underneath. I got up and selected a toy from the basket, a rabbit dildo. I stepped out of my dress and knelt in front of Susan. She opened up her legs, and I switched on the vibrator, slid a finger inside a very wet slippery pussy, and pressed the toy to her clit.
       
      "My, we have been thinking rude thoughts this evening, hmmm?" I chided her. Susan said, "Well, the DVD certainly opened up the conversation. I tried to interest you in the sauna, and I saw the fuck-me look in your eyes but then got ignored. How come?"
       
      I ignored the question. "Get on the cushions. I want to open you right up and explore," I commanded. I worked slowly down Susan's body, tonguing every crevice. At the same time, the vibrator was held against her pussy without really trying to get inside. She rolled over onto her back, pulled me on top, slid off my thong, and peeled apart the lips of a very wet Mistral pussy. She arched her back to get her head between my legs, then slowly worked her tongue around my clit, just missing the most sensitive part: teasing, teasing! My head was between her legs sucking hard on her cunt, the vibrator discarded alongside us.
       
      Susan tasted and smelt divine, a cunt to die for, and we gently and slowly worked each other to a beautiful girly climax. I slid her clit between my lips and sucked gently, giving it all the attention it could take. Her bottom started to thrash about, and a muffled cry came from her as she exploded and released a dribble of pussy juice onto my face. Strong hands lifted us apart, and Greg sat me down on his lap, legs facing him. He kissed me gently, opened my mouth with his tongue, and started to probe my soul with his penetrating tongue. When those two had shed their clothes, I don't know!
       
      What I wanted was getting harder under my thigh and starting to poke up between my legs. My hand reached down and stroked the elegant cock, trying so hard to get inside me. Greg put on a condom and was ready for me. A thrust up then down onto it, and he was inside. I could not wait and would not wait. My hips thrust madly at him, exploring his cock and filling myself with pleasure. It must have only taken me 30 seconds to hit the first orgasm, and Greg was getting faster and faster until he exploded.
       
      We kissed and looked over at Tim and Susan. They were in a 69 with Susan sucking Tim hard and working her two fingers inside his anus. His balls tightened, and he emptied himself inside her mouth. She got up, came over, and kissed me deeply, sharing the contents of her mouth with me. Susan returned to Tim and started gently sucking him back to hardness again. Greg was working my bottom with his tongue, firm strokes working into the most private and sensitive area a woman has. I pulled him up and kissed him deeply, and again he shared the semen from Susan's mouth.
       
      Greg smiled and said, "OK, we all shared Tim. Would he enjoy sucking me?" I was a little unsure how Tim would react. Susan said, "He can't talk right now since his mouth is full of my pussy."
       
      Greg lifted me off him and walked over to the other two, kissed Susan, and then leaned over and lightly bit Tim's nipple, who, for a straight guy, relaxed and did nothing. Greg slowly worked down his body and started to get near his groin. Susan got up and thrust her pussy back into his face. Tim hungrily lapped at her while Greg took Tim's cock into his mouth.
       
      Tim started to push his hips at Greg, who was working the sensitive spots on his cock with expert reverence. I had never seen Tim with a man before, and it fascinated me to see how he responded to a man's attention. Tim gently pulled Greg around so they were 69 together and opened his mouth to get Greg's cock down his throat.
       
      Susan had slid behind me and worked one of the toys into my pussy. A little finger was up my arse, and the big rabbit worked magic inside me. I watched, fascinated, while the two men ground their cocks into each other's mouths, sucking and mouth fucking together. I could reach Greg's anus from where I was crouching, and I slid a finger inside, feeling for his prostate. I found the firm nut I was after and massaged it, bringing him to a rapid spunk explosion. When he started, I worked the prostate harder, milking the orgasm to its absolute. Tim was greedily swallowing all that Greg could deliver. Tim's hips began to shudder as he succumbed to Greg's tongue and spurted his load down his throat.
       
      The guys then got up and came over and kissed us. Greg pushed a quantity of spunk down my throat while Tim probed Susan's mouth. For the rest of the night, we moved upstairs to a large bedroom with a king-sized double that could sleep six without trouble. We swapped, we fucked, we cuddled and rested, then swapped, fucked, and cuddled some more, eventually falling asleep around 5 a.m.
       
      I awoke around 7:00, needing a drink. As no one else was around, I walked naked downstairs to get some orange juice. Halfway down the stairs, Jon appeared with a smile and a naked girlfriend beside him. "Hello, we returned late last night and realized you guys were having fun."
       
      Penny, Jon's girlfriend, said, "Come into this room. We had a camera in the large bedroom and watched you all together. What a turn-on!"
       
      I followed them in with dread, not knowing what to expect. Jon said, "Don't look so worried. We enjoyed the performance and wanted to share some of it with you."
       
      As I looked at the display, the threesome on the screen was waking up, and Susan was fondling both men. Penny said, "I often watch Greg and Susan's swinging parties here, and we fuck like bunnies while we watch. I enjoyed a threesome with Jon and his stepmother. What was Greg like? I haven't had him yet?" I just stood there, mouth open in shock, unable to speak.
       
      Jon pushed me gently onto the bed and started caressing my body while Penny approached the other side. Jon gently sucked my nipples while Penny's tongue delicately explored my womanhood. "We want to fuck you properly, Mistral, but I know your pussy must be sore from last night, so we'll stick with our tongues this time, OK?"
       
      After a few minutes of light sex, Penny said, "We better slip away quietly as we are not supposed to be here. Are you two coming to next weekend's party?" The feeling of this beautiful young feminine creature's tongue still fresh on my mind, I shot back, "You bet. If we are invited."
       
      "Oh, I expect you shall be," Penny smiled. She gazed into my eyes, dropped her hand between her legs, and worked a finger deep into herself. "Until next time...," she said, trailing her finger, wet with her secretions and Jon's cum, stickily across my cheek before resting it on my lips. An invitation which I readily obliged by opening my mouth. Her long finger worked around my tongue, gifting me the taste of her and her lover.
       
      I slipped upstairs and joined the frolicking three on the bed for more and more of what my body desired. Eventually, we fell asleep again and woke around 3 p.m. feeling completely satisfied and sexually drained. A shower and a good cleanup refreshed my body and spirit. Tim and I were due to leave soon, and Susan came to me and said, "You must come to our next weekend party. Please say yes. If you like, bring some friends that will enjoy what you two have this weekend. There is so much more I want to do with you and Tim. We have had a fantastic time."

      On the way home, Tim said solemnly: "You realize that the weekend could have gone dreadfully wrong if it was a trap. We were caught out, well nearly!"

      The following weekend swinger party is another edition of this story…
    • By NerdsAreFun
      Some stats on the swinging world.  Interesting that a slim majority (50.2%) of men now identify as bi.  65.8% in the 18-39 age group.  I think the days of that being a closeted thing in the swinger world are coming to an end.  Also surprised me that 80.5% were soft swap only.
      https://swingershelp.com/swinger-survey-results-2022/
       
       
      And they also provide a list of most popular swinging sites in various cities.
      https://swingershelp.com/popular-swinging-dating-sites/
    • By TNNFORFUN
      Hello everybody.  Married MW couple for 18 years today.  We have been out of the LS for 5 years but prior to that we where in the life style for about 10 years and had a great time.  We are in our mid forties and going on the bliss cruise in November.  This will be our first swinger cruise. 
       
      The question is, How is mm bisexual play seen in the LS community on this Cruise? 
       
      In our past experience it was always accepted FF bi play but MM was pretty frowned upon.  My husband and I have had a couple MMF in the past and had a great time.  We are hopping to find that again.  There is something  that I just love watching him get it from another guy and sharing the other guy orally together.
       
      Any and all comments greatly appreciated and recommendations encouraged. 
       
       
    • By lott
      I was reading an article where the person said that she witnessed a gangbang and felt it was very homoerotic and maybe the men had latent homosexual tendencies.
       
      I don't feel that way, I just like to see a woman get pleased and get as sexual with a lot of men but I was wondering does anyone think what the writer of the article stated was true in a sense?.
×
×
  • Create New...