Are there any straight men here who enjoy anal?

[CHAMPAGNE DAVE 17]

I figured if no one else would approach it ,I would break down the door! Here is the question How many men that are straight also enjoy anal performened on them with toys / oral. I will personally put myself out first and say that I love the feeling of a wet tounge on my ass as well as penetration either with fingers or with dildos , the feeling of having sex and also having somthing buried in your ass is over the top. what do you think? bad or good let me know.

 

Dave

[CHAMPAGNE DAVE 17]

Alright , I can't be the only male out there secure in myself to admit that I like anal without the fear of being deemed gay, maybe Bi but I hav'n't went there yet. I find it really dishearting that while most men can discuss female sexuality and anal that when it comes to themselves they keep the DOOR closed.

 

Come on are you for real or just playing!

 

Dave

[ga_cpl_frknit 17]

good poll dave, i'm with you. I love anal play. I chose mild to full because it depends on the mood. The wife and I even have a double dong for our more wilder moments. Also as I have not engaged in any bi activities, I am not closed to the idea, it's just that none have come up.

 

ST.

[CHAMPAGNE DAVE 17]

it's great that there are least a few good men that can openly talk about this, I also agree that the mood is key I think men need to really to be relaxed , I usally progress to a medium dildo / vibrator and then to a larger ful size . have you ever tried sex with your wife while having a vibrator or butt plug in? you sound like a very open understanding couple , how long have you been married?

 

Dave

[ga_cpl_frknit 17]

LOL, We really like the double dong, it's totally a different experience. In my single years, playing around, i found i liked it. We have done a vibe there. But a bullet..... OMG very small, but VERY powerful LOL. This whole thing has brought my curiosity in trying a bi-swing.

 

St.

 

P.S. We have been married 6 months... and yes, also very open and understanding. Communication with each other is the key.

[LarrySmith 15]

Depending upon the mood, ofter her fingers during a BJ, sometimes our favorite dildo in my ass while I'm giving it to her in her ass.

[spamcatcher 36]

My wife LOVES anal, and she says it feels great. Not being one to deny myself pleasure, we've also fooled around and made an ass of me...

 

So I've had everything up my ass that she has with the singluar exception of a man, and that's not likely to happen. Occasionally, she'll stick a finger up my ass during foreplay, but her fingernails can hurt a bit.

 

I've had small & medium ribbed vibrator sleeves and even a butt plug. For those who've never felt it, there's a sensation you get when the butt plug is "shoved home" -- when the last part where it tapers quickly from the widest part to a narrower one goes in in one swift manuver-- a sensation unlike anything you've ever felt. It's one of those "make it stop!/don't stop!" things.

 

Bottom line -- groan -- I enjoy insertion and the feeling of something in my ass, but I'm far less able to take the 'in-and-out' motion of even the smaller vibrator sleeves. The wife seems to love it all.

 

I'm neither homophobic nor bi-curious. I'm merely ambivalent; not attracted at all to men, but not repelled, either. In a DP situation, there's going to be some incidental contact with another male, and that's of little concern to me. It's all sexplay, which is good, fun and healthy as long as everyone consents and tries to make it pleasurable for the others.

[CABob 16]

Label me bi, or whatever feels comfortable to you, I enjoy anal sex. Discovering my bottom has been a real eye opener. *lol*

[MattMann 17]

There wasn't an option for not knowing if you like it because of not having had anything in there, so I couldn't vote since none of them applied. Not that there's anything wrong with it you you have and enjoy it. We've all had some large things exit there. Ugh. Sorry, just making a point.

[Uneed_Love 15]

OK I jump in the pool

 

I must admit - or confess - that sometimes I like to have a plug in my butt (but not too big...). Besides one of my fantasy would be a woman licking my anus - of course carefully washed before doing this... Untill now Uneed_Love2 doesn't share this kind of fantasy and I respect her choice not to do this (even if I already did it to her in our foreplays.... but not that often...).

 

JC

[BradAndJanet 70]

Alright JC, if you can confess then so can I.

 

Yes, I like a butt plug now and then, it really adds something to the contractions at orgasm. Fun and enjoyable

 

-B

[enigma69 15]

As one who has recently discovered the pleasure of anal sex, I wonder whether any of you have tried strapons - wielded by your wife / girlfriend ... not only does it give you a chance to experience what it feels like to be fucked, instead of always being the one that does the work, but it also leads to amazing orgasms ...

 

My girlfriend was a little taken aback when I first suggested it, but now she gives as good as she gets ... and if you can find a willing 3rd (female) partner, you can experience what it feels like to be in the middle of an interesting (and orgasmic) sandwich !

 

I personally believe in experimenting and trying new things out as often as possible, and this attitude led me to discover that men have a "g" spot as well - I don't consider myself gay in any way as a result of it as I am - I have just expanded my own ability to enjoy sex that much more

 

For those of you that are into the anal thing - try this out - I guaranteeyou won't be disappointed !!!

[jdf7379 17]

J and I have both experimented with each other...She loves anal sex, and I love giving it to her...I found out that I like light stimulation (J has a strap-on, and we played around one night...I was stimulated by the thought, however I was not ment for something that large)...Small insertion...we have both performed oral on each other...

 

I did find a toy that I wanted to get us to try...It was a small vibrating butt plug that also attached to your penis...it looks like it could add stimulation to both parties...anybody have experience with this toy?

[spamcatcher 36]

Originally posted by enigma69

As one who has recently discovered the pleasure of anal sex, I wonder whether any of you have tried strapons - wielded by your wife / girlfriend ...

Yup -- way ahead of the curve on this one, although it's a very infrequent pleasure.

 

First time was probably 15 years or so ago, on one of our anniversary gourmet food/wine/sex fall getaways in northern Michigan. (I have the videotape to prove it, but I'm sure nobody's ready for that, and will take my word for it... )

 

Actually, my wife had a strap-on which held a rather largish dildo and a smaller anal teaser probe beneath it. I'd forgotten to take the cable for the audio on the camera, so there's no sound on the tape. But you can see her sitting there topless, stroking the dildo as if she was masturbating with it, saying - silently "I'm gonna fuck your ass."

 

And so she did. But with the small probe, not the dildo. Too big for me.

 

It was a cool position -- bent over with her behind and on top, servicing me. I could reach up and back behind me and fondle her breasts while she worked me over.

 

Ain't a bad thing at all...

[SDFuntimes 15]

I must admit, having a well placed finger while she is sucking me off is amazing, especially at the peak. I don't think I'd be interested in trying anything larger though.

[Brit_Pair 62]

I like having my anus stimulated, but I'm not keen on penetration by fingers / toys, simply because it hurts more than it pleasures. Too uptight? Not enough lubricant? However, Mrs B has a wicked tongue, and having my anus licked / penetrated by her in the midst of a long session of oral is, quite simply, mind-blowing. Rimming rules.

[Funovit 16]

Gentlemen, You're all correct - nothing beats a well placed finger during sex, however the pleasure derived from sex toys used in the anus is sure to please! Women have been enjoying the pleasures of anal sex for years, why can't we?!

 

During my single days, I was introduced to anal play by a very sexual girlfiend, who was patient in teaching the pleasures of anal sex.

Rimming was early on play - the feel of a wet tongue probing your anus, with some finger penetration was quite pleasureable.

Next subject was penetration by dildo/buttplugs. Starting small, and working up to a medium buttplug was highly erotic. Insertion of a buttplug was a play on the mind - the following always came to mind "Ouch, don't go any further / Uhmm, give it to me". I was reminded to find the pleasure in the pain, which always made the session enjoyable. Full insertion of a medium buttplug soon became norm. We would both wear our buttplugs during sex, and challenge each to see how long we could wear them.

 

I always enjoy having vaginal intercourse with her, wearing her buttplug as it gives her vagina a new dimension. She enjoys the added sensations too! The fact that I had something pressuring my prostate during sex, made my orgasms powerful! She has always enjoyed anal sex and I have enjoyed giving it to her!

 

We graduated to a strap-on sex. My girlfriend shocked me and bought a strap on with a small penis dildo. During sex, she bent me over and gave it to me. Now that was an experience. Being on the receiving end has led to many pleasureable experiences.

I have yet to experience any bi play - I won't rule it out, it's just something that hasn't surfaced in our swing circle of friends. As you all know, bisexual guys aren't welcomed in the lifestyle - although they do exist behind closed doors! One day we may go there, at this time, we enjoy swinging with other couples and our role reversal play!

 

The backdoor is more than an exit anymore!12

[saranmark 15]

Okay. At the risk of being ridiculed, I have to ask ...

 

My husband enjoys anal play. He has had other women in the past who are quite experienced at it, and he enjoyed it immensely.

 

My problem is, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!! I know, I sound ridiculous... but humor me!

 

I did insert my finger awhile back, and I just didn't do it right. I didn't feel where his prostrate is at ALL!

 

I know he would enjoy it if I would just "go about business" sometime while we are having sex, but I can't think of a smooth way to bring it into our play with out seeming stilted.

 

Somebody help!!

 

SARA

[Funovit 16]

Sara,

 

Next time you are going down on your husband, take your index finger, and with the pad of the finger, press lightly on his anus. Watch his reaction. Lube your finger, and press again, harder so that your finger slips in. A well lubed finger moves comfortably in the anus.

 

If your husband is on his back, with your palm facing upward, please him with a "come hither movement" of your finger. Surely you'll contact his prostrate gland. His erection and facial expressions will dictate. The prostrate is a walnut sized gland in the anal cavity.

 

This was demonstrated to me in similar fashion, and it feels great!

 

Happy playing!

[saranmark 15]

Thank you, funovit...

 

One more question, though-- will I FEEL the prostrate, or do I just have to watch his face for his reaction?

 

Thank you for the directions... I appreciate it!

 

SARA

[LarrySmith 15]

Saran,

It will feel like a firm area, where the root of his cock is on the inside. the rest of the walls of the anus will feel soft and yielding.

[saranmark 15]

Thank you, Larry!

 

I will try it again....

 

SARA

[stoutgatte 25]

yeah, like mild stimulation, haven't tried a dildo/strapon/buttplug, butt would love to once i have the courage

[ionsawmill 86]

I have to agree with two things:

 

Rimming rules.

 

Prostate stimulation is the bomb!

 

I can't take anything large though. Our Cyberskin dildo is about as large as I can take.

[jagfan54 15]

I Just Love The Feeling Of My Wife Playing With My Ass While Giving Me A B.j.she Is A Little Grossed Out By It Though So I Really Need To Get Her Hot For Me To Get My Butt Plugged.oh What A Feeling,and I Don't Mean Toyota

[TxCouple98 15]

Something that he doesnt like to talk about, but does enjoy! Have used diff sizes toys on him while giving him a bj. First time i did that i couldn't believe how hard he came for me We also have tried a double ended toy together too. That took a lil bending of his arm on my part lol We have also talked about using a strap on, but haven't gotten around to that just yet

[TxCouple98 15]

oops and have tried with my tongue too. First time we tried that i kind of surprised him one day when we were taking a shower, and it sure got him hard in a hurry

[Blondx2for4 15]

My opinion is that there is a mood and a trick if the user is good enough. Teach your wife how to hit your prostate right for a while and your cumshot gets to be more than a spoonfull--at least it did for me. Anyhitng larger than a silver bullet disturbs me, but thats just my feeling. and you have to be relaxed too...

 

And sick as it sounds, watch what you eat and the last time you went. We had a moment (me inside her) and we hit chocolate. Not good.

[Brit_Pair 62]

watch what you eat and the last time you went. We had a moment (me inside her) and we hit chocolate. Not good.

Hit chocolate. Now that's got to be one for the SB lexicon of one liners and pithy catchphrases!

 

[AdventurousTxM 19]

I have loved anal stimulation since my first girlfriend (who is now a minister!) pressed her finger against, and then into, my anus when we were in the middle of a heavy petting session. When I discovered how incredibly arousing that was, I had her penetrate my anus with a finger, while she used her other hand to stroke me to an orgasm. I thought I was going to pass out, it was so intense. The anus is loaded with sexual nerve endings, and many women (and for all I know, some men) can achieve an orgasm just with anal penetration.

 

What I have discovered in recent years in how incredibly sensitive my anus is to the flicking of a woman's tongue. I recently kneeled over my partner, and masturbated while she performed analingus on my anus. I came and came and came. I love it when she tells me she wants to lick my anus, because the intensity of it makes me soooo hot. Analingus is the most exciting anal play she does to me, followed by inserting her finger, or a small dildo/butt plug. I don't enjoy having really thick objects inserted in my anus, but she sure does!

[HotMoCpl 20]

Only my wife gets to do this to me. Fingers or toys.

[DBL D 120]

OK CHAMPAGNE DAVE!!!

 

You may find that you might not want to challenge our boards sensibilities so firmly in the future.

 

I don't have a problem with ANYTHING ANAL.

 

Happy now? Geez. Now I know how secure in myself I am for telling everyone this. Thanks DAVE.

 

Male D

[puneswings 15]

It has been my favorite fantasy to be having anal sex with Asha while someone is having it with me! I don't even know if it is physically/anatomically possible, but what the heck, one can dream, and who knows I may get a chance to find out one day

[curiouscpl0105k 16]

my hubby loves to use our dildos...(or have me use them on him!)

he only recently fully admitted it (before, occasional finger play was usually the limit) but seems quite happy with the decision to be open about it!

[marriedwet 34]

Try this for something really wild! Both hubby & wife do anal with other partners at the same time while watching each other. We've tried this a few times & got to tall you when we are done he is sooooo hard & I'm....well...........you figure out the rest

[Mr. Mac 15]

Another guy, I'll put myself out there too. JennyMac ocassionally will to mild stimulation. I don't actually have to coerce her into it or anything, it just happens. And then if I am wound up enough, who knows? But bi sexual play is not in the cards. Not interested...

[jrw 18]

I love anal/rectal play with my wife or alone. I have found deep penetration profoundly relaxing and short thrusts VERY AROUSING. I have even experienced "anal ejaculation" which is way cool. As far as I am concerned sex is sex no matter who you are with. I am intrigued by the reticense to accept male/male coupling in swing circles. Why is this?

[Spoomonkey 421]

I am intrigued by the reticense to accept male/male coupling in swing circles. Why is this?

 

Because few of us are bisexual...

 

What the heck is anal ejaculation? Or do I dare ask?

 

Spoomonkey

[northindycpl 32]

 

What the heck is anal ejaculation? Or do I dare ask?

 

Spoomonkey

 

I don't want to know...

[bikerider69 15]

Yes I like getting a dildo or vibrator up the ass. In fact I get much more intense orgams that way. I cum with projectil force. The other day as I did my girl freind from behind I had a good size vibrator in my ass. Many years ago in my teen age years some guy freinds and I experimented with anal sex. One friend had a 7" cock, what a stretch.

[adventureUS2 25]

I love my ass played with WOO HOO TOSS MY SALAD BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[jrw 18]

Because few of us are bisexual...

 

What the heck is anal ejaculation? Or do I dare ask?

 

Spoomonkey

 

An anal ejaculation is somewhat similar to female ejaculation . As a result of the very high erotic arousal and simultaneous deep relaxation possible in deep anal penetration a "total letting go" occurs and a clear fluid is released as in female ejaculation. Look through the writings on Taoist massage particularly on "sexual reflexology" for a full picture of anal and genital penetration for pleasure, good health and longevity.

 

to get a full picture of this

[dredog 15]

My wife and I BOTH love anal. She loves to have my cock in her sexy butt and I love to have the vibrator in her pussy. I get the stimulation from the vibrator which creates an intense orgasim for me and when I cum inside her, her eyes just roll to the back of her head while she cums. It is the best of both worlds

[jrw 18]

You go guys !Anal sex is the best kept secret in the world. True gourmets drink deeply from this intoxicating" loving cup" both as a full course meal in itself {as you so pictuesquely describe !]and as a prelude to truly"over the Top" vaginal sex. Try it folks you'll like it !!!!!!

Actually it is possible to turn your entire body into one unending errogenous zone

The Taoists have a saying " it's good to sratch the itch when you have it, but it's far better not to get the itch at all" meaning don't wait for the itch to have sex ,have sex all the time whether you have the itch or not! The Chinese paved the way over 5000 years ago for mind blowing and physically transforming sex in every orifice for both men and women.THIS WORKS FOR ME AND MY WIFE!

[pcbeach303 15]

I have to say that I am very surprised by the comments from this group on this subject. I have been visiting this site for several months now as strictly an observer. You people as a group seemed very honest, educated and open but I am really taken aback by the lack of insight on this. Setting aside the taboo, (you guys have thrown it out for most other “vanilla” forms of sex), the scientific facts on the prostrate gland are easily available. This has been called the “G-spot” for men and trust me if you figure it out you’ll know how accurate the term is. It doesn’t have anything to do with being bi or gay or secretly wanting sex with a man. It boils down to the fact that men have a spot that when stimulated correctly will cause an orgasm so strong and so intense that you will drool uncontrollability and make sounds you never thought you could make. The big joke is you have to go through your butt to get to it. I personally think it was designed that way to keep guys from doing at the office or bus stop. Do some research on the net, at home alone and then introduce it slowly to your partner. It is something you can’t explain or much less ask your buddies about. It’s you and your partners own secret. It was slow but now my wife and I have found it to be a very powerful thing to be used at the correct times and under the right circumstances. Wouldn’t talk to anyone about it but would trade it for anything in the world. Caution: I wouldn’t try this with a women who you might divorce, the fear of exposure could cost you a lot of money!!! Good Luck.

[Mr. Mac 15]

This has been called the “G-spot” for men and trust me if you figure it out you’ll know how accurate the term is.

 

I agree with you althouth I am no doctor I believe that the coined term is a "prostate massage"

 

And it will create an UNBELIEVABLE orgasam with combined with oral.

[jrw 18]

Our bodies are in fact sexual playgrounds and the coolest toys are found in the unlikeliest {to western people at least} places. Oriental and continental Indian cultures have known this for millenia and practiced accordingly. The writings of the Kama Sutra, The Secret Garden and many other sexual treatises{sic} from the East all speak to the whole body and all of its orifices as the gateway to bliss whether alone or with a partner.

[playmatesinpgh 18]

I absolutely love it when my wife plays with my ass. The first time she tried it with me was while she was giving me a BJ. She lubed up her finger with some saliva and started rubbing it all around my anus. I really started to moan, almost without control. Then she slowly pushed her finger in. OMG....I had never felt anything like that before but didn't want it to ever end. I came after just a couple of minutes with the biggest and strongest orgasm I had ever experienced. After she got it all, and it felt to me like I came a gallon, she rose up and just said WOW... AND SO DID I...

 

The next time we tried it, she got out some of her toys and OH MAN!!! It only got better. I can only tell you guys who have never experienced this. Try it.

[Dalum 15]

I figured that this could be my first post. Sorry if I brought up a dead post.

My girlfriend and I are very open and sexual. She talks a lot about swinging and I've been there in past relationships. We've been together for quite some time and she's the only one that can get me to cum with a fullblown orgasm through my ass. This is something that not even my ex-wife couldn't do and we were REALLY active too. As a matter of fact, we had some amazing ass play last night. We bought an 18" double dong and had a wild ride last night. i totally agree with playmatesinpgh... Just let your inhabitions go and doing this doesn't make you gay. I'm not.

[PiNKFLoYD 16]

Don't knock anal stimulation if you've never tried it. My first experience was with anal beads, and I almost blew the roof off the house I came so hard. I'd never heard myself scream from cumming before. Moan or cry out, yes, but never screamed until the beads.

 

I've since tried an 8" dildo and the results were mind-blowing.