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Ladies: Breast Implants - would you get them if cost weren't an issue?

If money was no object would you get breast implants?  

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  1. 1. If money was no object would you get breast implants?

    • Yes, I would get them
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    • No, I would not get them: I do not like the idea
      9
    • No I would not get them, I like my breasts as they are
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    • I already got them and love it
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    • I already got them and hate it
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I've just checked with Fi and she says she's very happy with her boobs, but if there was free plastic surgery on offer she'd cosider a neck lift...

I think she's gorgeous but we all have our little complexes....

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I do NOT like fake boobs. Ever. So, I would not change mine. Well, sometimes I think I may get a reduction if I lose weight... I already have back problems... lol

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Mrs two4you said no, she's happy with the way they are. She says maybe a lift sometime down the road, but no adding or taking away.

 

I like where she stands on this. :)

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I will relay my wife's thoughts since she rarely post.

 

She was a C cup when we married. After two children and the associated weight gain and loss, she is a DD. She has wanted a breast lift without implants for sometime to regain some perkiness but is not interested in more size and liked the idea of being all natural.

 

After some research she began to realize to achieve what she wanted would likely require implants. Having seen implants first hand, thanks to swinging, she has decided that she wants implants as well. Something that takes her back to her former perkiness but without adding much, if any, size. Now it is more a matter of deciding type, size and procedure type, as well as psyching her self up to endure the discomfort of the process.

 

Personally, I think her breast are magnificent and I am happy with them as is. But if she wants them and they make her feel more attractive, I support her 100%.

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I would. I have always had larger breasts and they got ridiculous after 2 children. 42I but they were like socks with rocks in the ends. I got a breast reduction that brought them down to a C. I then gained and lost close to 100lbs and now they are DD with the natural sag that comes with age I suppose. But I would dearly love perky DD's. So yes implants to make then perky..yes i would!!

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I adore my girlfriend's small boobies. For some reason, big ones never turned me on and the plastic ones you see in Vegas are simply hilarious.

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I'd get implants, but only to lift my age distressed girls. I am a natural 36DD, but as time goes by, gravity has not been kind - I long for the perkiness my boobs had long ago before children and time.

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Sounds like I'm in the majority. I have natural 34DD's and I want to get a lift but without any implants. I'm okay with them ending up smaller. I just want some perkiness and some choice when it comes to choosing lingerie.

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Though I wanted kids, it never happened. But my itty bitty titties are as perky at 55 as they were at 30. I never wanted any more than I have and think implants look fake. I'm not into fake in any way. So, no, no, no, never!

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I have some nice ddd/e cups. I wouldn't want implants, but a lift would be nice. Oh, and an ass reduction.

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I've only had the opportunity to inspect, up-close and personal, two sets of store-bought titties. I thought they were both works of art; I liked them a lot!

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After 2 kids, breastfeeding, weight gain the girls are up to a 44DDD. Even when I was holding steady with a 34B they were not as perky as I would have liked them (that would have been around age 19-20). However it seems like most reduction/lift procedures come with a lovely anchor shaped scar, whereas implants can be had for a tiny incision in the arm pit or belly button. To get the lift/perk I would totally get implants. Even as a B cup, I never really desired much bigger boobs (maybe just a C cup)...but as my sister so eloquently put it, the boob fairy visited during pregnancy and I have been 'blessed' ever since. :lol: with size, no perk alas lol

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I adore my girlfriend's small boobies. For some reason, big ones never turned me on and the plastic ones you see in Vegas are simply hilarious.

 

I have always loved my wife's small boobs like you adore your gf's. Mrs. Diggs was a 36B but there were so many outfits that she just wouldn't wear because of her boobs. Mostly the ones that fit snug across the top...I love dresses that are like a halter top and she just hated the way they looked on her despite how great I told her she looked in them.

 

She had her surgery about 7 months ago. She hates the really round ones where it looks like they shoved a toy ball in them and it was important that she kept as natural of a shape as possible. She went with the semi-solid silicone gel implants.

 

I have never been a big fan of implants but I have to admit that they look pretty freaking awesome. You might say...those are fake when you see them but they do not have the round ball shape of saline.

 

I think it's also important to note that most of the women here that have said 'no' seems to be large breasted to begin with. ;)

 

Judge for yourself:

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Digginit...would you really say if you didn't like them after all the $$ was spent. :rollseye:

 

I think most good husbands say "they are just fine, I love them" no matter what.

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Digginit...would you really say if you didn't like them after all the $$ was spent. :rollseye:

 

I think most good husbands say "they are just fine, I love them" no matter what.

 

We were out buying jeans the other day and she tried on a $90.00 pair of jeans. She asked me what I thought. I said, for $90.00 you would think they wouldn't have rips in them :lol: and said "eh, don't care for them" and she said...I'm buying them anyways.

 

That was just for a little perspective. I tell my wife honestly what I think, good, bad or indifferent. It's the one thing that she counts on more than anything and it's why she really values my opinion because she knows I don't just tell her what she wants to hear. She gets enough of that crap from her friends. I know you were having fun with the stereotypical male answer but I swear...that's not me. What I love most about her is she is her own person...she also does what she wants even if I don't agree like in my jeans story above.

 

If you had just spent several thousand dollars and you were not happy...your saying you would tell your wife 'they are just fine' because I would have been pissed off at the surgeon and went on a rampage.

 

I would absolutely tell my wife if I thought they had done a bad job or OMG they are too large or whatever. I would also rather go back and have it done correctly then accept something we were not happy with ;)

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I have always loved my wife's small boobs like you adore your gf's. Mrs. Diggs was a 36B but there were so many outfits that she just wouldn't wear because of her boobs. Mostly the ones that fit snug across the top...I love dresses that are like a halter top and she just hated the way they looked on her despite how great I told her she looked in them.

 

She had her surgery about 7 months ago. She hates the really round ones where it looks like they shoved a toy ball in them and it was important that she kept as natural of a shape as possible. She went with the semi-solid silicone gel implants.

 

I have never been a big fan of implants but I have to admit that they look pretty freaking awesome. You might say...those are fake when you see them but they do not have the round ball shape of saline.

 

I think it's also important to note that most of the women here that have said 'no' seems to be large breasted to begin with. ;)

 

Judge for yourself:

 

 

Very nice! My sweetie's boobies are much smaller than those beauties on the left. My sweetie's little girls are more than enough for me.

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Even though my breasts aren't quite as perky as they were when I was a teenager I wouldn't get implants. They fit my body so perfectly and have such a nice natural shape to them. I hated them for a long time (breastfed all four kids) but now that I've seen breasts of hundreds of women in my life (professionally as well) I don't think I have anything to complain about.

 

It's much healthier to love myself with with my imperfections than to have major surgery and put something unnatural in my body that will probably be less than perfect anyhow.

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I will relay my wife's thoughts since she rarely post.

 

She was a C cup when we married. After two children and the associated weight gain and loss, she is a DD. She has wanted a breast lift without implants for sometime to regain some perkiness but is not interested in more size and liked the idea of being all natural.

 

After some research she began to realize to achieve what she wanted would likely require implants. Having seen implants first hand, thanks to swinging, she has decided that she wants implants as well. Something that takes her back to her former perkiness but without adding much, if any, size. Now it is more a matter of deciding type, size and procedure type, as well as psyching her self up to endure the discomfort of the process.

 

Personally, I think her breast are magnificent and I am happy with them as is. But if she wants them and they make her feel more attractive, I support her 100%.

 

 

We actually went down this same road, only my wife had twins, so the resulting end result was a bit saggier than she liked, I LOVED her and them any way they came, but then I'm biased...lol. Long story short she did the lift and small implant and DAMN!!!! she lost almost enough weight to put her back to her early 20's size and my God is she smokin hot! She must get hit on 50 times a day,good for her ego as well, and is so much more comfortable with her looks now, thus resulting in her being even more un inhibited, which actually works well in the LS! Our opinion anyhow. Works for u, but to each his/ her own!

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She must get hit on 50 times a day,good for her ego as well, and is so much more comfortable with her looks now, thus resulting in her being even more un inhibited, which actually works well in the LS! Our opinion anyhow. Works for u, but to each his/ her own!

 

Call it coincidence but our hit count doubled when we took down all of the before pictures and put the Caribe pictures up with the larger boobs. Like your wife, Mrs. Digg's confidence has gone through the roof and she says all the time how much sexier she feels.

 

Coupleerotic22 - I don't care what anyone says...you get what you pay for so choose a good doctor. My wife had hers inserted under the arms. I'm do not know anything about lifts. Those boobs you see above were after two children. They were smaller before :D Other doctors said you could only put smaller implants that way...just goes to show what a difference experience can make. And do the exercises they tell you to do :lol:

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She must get hit on 50 times a day,good for her ego as well, and is so much more comfortable with her looks now, thus resulting in her being even more un inhibited, which actually works well in the LS! Our opinion anyhow. Works for u, but to each his/ her own!

 

LOL, yes! 20 years ago, hell 10, my wife would have been uncomfortable with men paying much attention to her breast but now she loves it. With 38DDs she gets lots of attention, particularly with certain combinations of bra and clothing. Clients and vendors of the business she works for go out of their way to get introduced to her and the up tick in vendors coming in to pick up their checks (she cuts them) have gone way up, even it means they will get them a few days later.

 

I love it when she comes home giggling about this or that vendor dropping by to say hello. She gets so amused when they fidget and try not to let her see them checking her out. She laughs and wonders what they would think if they knew she not only did not mind the attention but enjoys it.

 

That has been one of the unexpected benefits of swinging. Years ago she was shy and wasn't very comfortable with people noticing her. No matter what I said, her self confidence was low. She thought my compliments were because I was blinded by love, I can't tell you how many time I head that I was blinded by lover or just blind or crazy when I complimented her looks. Since we started swinging and other men are clearly attracted to her, it has been a huge boost to her self confidence, which just makes her that much more sexy.

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I don't care what anyone says...you get what you pay for so choose a good doctor. My wife had hers inserted under the arms. I'm do not know anything about lifts. Those boobs you see above were after two children. They were smaller before :D Other doctors said you could only put smaller implants that way...just goes to show what a difference experience can make. And do the exercises they tell you to do :lol:

 

Absolutely, fortunately there are some very very good plastic surgeons locally. I think it has a lot to do with the cancer facilities at the local medical center, reconstruction and all.

 

The lift surgery removes a crescent shaped portion of skin above the nipples, effectively lifting the nipple and entire lower breast up an inch or so. The scar is around the nipple so it is less noticeable. Implants are often recommended to replace lost tissue and fill the breast out a little more. They could put the implants in where they remove skin, but the implants would be above the muscle.

 

Under the muscle and inserted under the arm for a more natural look and less noticeable scars is the way I think she wants to go. Particularly since she is not looking for larger breast, so the implants would be low volume. In fact if anything I think she is thinking about a slight reduction, since finding the bras she likes get more difficult when you go from D to DD. She is a self proclaimed wimp so she is still wrapping her brain around the additional recovery time and pain with under the muscle surgery.

 

By the way, your wife's breast look great!

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I appreciate them :facelick:

 

There are people out there that like the rounded look and I probably insulted a few ladies by describing that they look like someone pushed a toy ball inside them (sorry :( ) but you see very few gel implants and I think there is a big difference in appearance.

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Absolutely, fortunately there are some very very good plastic surgeons locally. I think it has a lot to do with the cancer facilities at the local medical center, reconstruction and all.

 

The lift surgery removes a crescent shaped portion of skin above the nipples, effectively lifting the nipple and entire lower breast up an inch or so. The scar is around the nipple so it is less noticeable. Implants are often recommended to replace lost tissue and fill the breast out a little more. They could put the implants in where they remove skin, but the implants would be above the muscle.

 

Under the muscle and inserted under the arm for a more natural look and less noticeable scars is the way I think she wants to go. Particularly since she is not looking for larger breast, so the implants would be low volume. In fact if anything I think she is thinking about a slight reduction, since finding the bras she likes get more difficult when you go from D to DD. She is a self proclaimed wimp so she is still wrapping her brain around the additional recovery time and pain with under the muscle surgery.

 

By the way, your wife's breast look great!

 

Our procedure was to place the small implant halfway under the muscle and half out at thebottom to give a natural look and feel. Mrs still had alot of breast tissue so there was plenty to hide any part of the bottom of the implant...if I knew how to post pix on here I would post...they really did come out AMAZING! 34DDD/ 36DD and on her small frame they really get noticed!

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The one thing that should be said is when the implant goes below the muscle, when ever she mover her chest muscles there will be some "jumpy" boobs...can't be avoided, but with our 1/2 under 1/2 out they dont seem to "jump" as much. Our $.02. Do ALOT of research on dr reviews...we spent 6 months looking, and couldnt be happier! Good luck with yours. D & K

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We also decided to go with the saline at the dr's urging. He felt for the look/ feel of a "mature" womans breast it was the closest match to natural.... like we said...they came out perfect. If it wasn't for the small scar above her nipples no one could ever tell, even when touching them.

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if I knew how to post pix on here I would post

 

Her profile picture on SLS shows them quite well. They did come out really well and can see why you are happy with them ;)

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Her profile picture on Swing Lifestyle shows them quite well. They did come out really well and can see why you are happy with them ;)

 

Well, duh! LOL! didn't think about that... New to the board..what can I say

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May I add: if the implant surgery was free and pain free, I would go for it. I hate the way my breasts look after breastfeeding our three children and losing 70 pounds (and trying to lose more--I can't imagine how much more flat they can get). The cost, the recovery, and talk of future maintenance surgery are issues that keep me from going for it. I wouldn't go to a ridiculous size but at least SOMETHING so I don't feel like a flat board.

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Yes, I would. I have always had small breasts. But after 3 kids I went from a small and perky B, to a full D, down to s deflated B. They are sad and I cannot wait for my kids to be older so I can have them done.

 

Mr.Waiting is 100% supportive

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Bump! My answer still holds true today as it was a few years ago. I do not do well with pain. :o

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Best money I ever spent! After my son was born I went from a perky B to a flat A. I can go to the gym and exercise to lose weight and get toned, but my boobs are something I couldn't make better. Now, I'm a nice C, and the implants are under the muscle so they look totally natural. I often get compliments, not in the creepy way, but you have to go to a reputable doctor and look at their before/after pics.

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