Wallswing 15 Posted February 1, 2012 Are there couples who only have 3somes? I am new to the lifestyle and MFM/MFF has taken over my desire for couple play. I was just curious if anyone has ever ran across another couple like this? Quote Share this post Link to post
two4youinswva 3,068 Posted February 1, 2012 We have met a couple over the years that were only into FMF, and we know one or two that prefer MFM, but they aren't exclusive to that arrangement. So yes, there are couples out there that are into that setup. Quote Share this post Link to post
shrevecouple 252 Posted February 1, 2012 We are pretty close to that. We only do penetration within an MFM. As far as couples go it's more of an atmosphere thing (live porn i guess you could say). We may soft swap but not full. Quote Share this post Link to post
angelkin 1,326 Posted February 1, 2012 We are pretty close to that. We only do penetration within an MFM. As far as couples go it's more of an atmosphere thing (live porn i guess you could say). We may soft swap but not full. Yep, this is kinda where we are too. We enjoy the parties and meeting new people, we pretty much play fmf or mfm though. Quote Share this post Link to post
DigginIt 1,132 Posted February 1, 2012 We are mixed. We enjoy an occasional threesome but our favorite is couple play where it's not just swapping partners but all four of us having fun on the bed together. For instance, I could be going down on the other wife while my wife is blowing me taking it from behind by the other husband or my wife is on his face blowing me while the other wife is riding her husband. Those are our favorites. Not just the exchanging partners for straight sex. Quote Share this post Link to post
rick181au 85 Posted February 1, 2012 M F M THREESOMES! We started off swinging in the mid 70’s when we were in our mid 30’s and had been married 15 years. We joined a nudist club where we found out their was an underground swinging movement (most of the swinging was off club premises) we eventually joined in, "it was the wife’s first time with another guy as I took her cherry when we were 19". After around five years in the scene we dropped out of the swinging scene and the nudist club because of family circumstances and commitments. Move on another five years to the mid 80’s and we were mid 40’s and family matters were all sorted out we decided to give it a go again, because of our children’s ages at the time rejoining the nudist club was not an option, we had lost contact with the people we used to swing with that were still swinging “if any”. We tried meeting couples through a local sex paper (this was still BC “before computers”) but we found it hard to meet other couples where all four of us were compatible after the initial lust had worn off, and it was hard work making arrangements, meeting couples to see if you all liked each other, then deciding if you were going to do it or not, then arranging another meeting, it was quite frustrating. We talked it over to see what we really wanted out of all this and I admitted that my biggest thrill was seeing my wife going with another guy, joining in and going silky seconds, so we decided to give M F M threesomes a go, “their was never any shortage of willing guys for that” lol. My wife had no trouble at all adapting to the hot wife lifestyle and the M F M threesomes that came with it, we had some very funny sexy situations arise out of it at times, (one such experience when we were at a 100% straight day time BBQ and the wife got the hot’s for a guy ”well they had the hot’s for each other” and I eventually stood guard outside a bathroom door while the wife and the guy had it off inside), occasionally we would come across other couples we would swap with, we even took a couple of our threesome guys along when we were meeting other couples at different times where other couple agreed that a spare cock never went astray. We have had a very rewarding sex life and some very sexy times over the years with no regrets, we are now late 60’s and have been married close to 50 years and we are still very much in love, “and we still enjoy our sex”. All the best Rick. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Just Passing By 140 Posted February 2, 2012 Short answer is it's not unusual for a couple to prefer threesomes. During the years of intermittent "meeting people" we had tried most of the combinations. It was unusual to find four people to all mesh at same time.. We wanted to have good results with MFM , but never fully lived up to expectation. Don't know if it was a flawed concept , or just not coming accross the right M . Mrs JPB grew to have preference for FMF . As we shared much the same preference in women , it was fine with me too. The most intreguing combination that didn't quite come together was with a cpl and their biF friend . Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest screaminggood Posted February 2, 2012 While not exclusive to threesomes, we do prefer them because it seems to difficult to find a couple where all four of us are equally attracted to each other. I wish clubs would let more "variety" of single men in...they tend to have their set studs that are nice but I'm not up for the same guy every time I want to have another man. Quote Share this post Link to post
campgirl2in1 74 Posted February 2, 2012 MFM is the preference here. It is far easier to figure out and connect three personalities than it is four. Also women are crazy and men are stupid. Stupid is more predictable than crazy. Just sayin'. Quote Share this post Link to post
twistedpretzels 100 Posted February 3, 2012 MFM is the preference here. Also women are crazy and men are stupid. Stupid is more predictable than crazy. Just sayin'. OMG-- what a funny and true line. Love it! Quote Share this post Link to post
twistedpretzels 100 Posted February 3, 2012 These posts were great to read as Pete and I have not found any super compatable couples in our quests. I keep walking away scratching my head-- or his head... I keep thinking I am too picky and don't need to spend so much time looking for cpls for us. At one point it was like a part time job! It does feel easier doing a threesome and easier to arrange also-- although we have not found a F as a threesome-- anyway, these comments were good to read. When i read posts or stories about 'one weekend we decided to swing, went to a club, and we had a perfect time' i sit and think:confused::sad:wtf: Quote Share this post Link to post
Ladyj0424 65 Posted February 3, 2012 F M F is our fantasy. We still haven't found a person we have both been into Quote Share this post Link to post
Playful1 434 Posted February 3, 2012 i have run across a ton of couples who only do MFF stuff. honestly, after doing this for a long time, i stopped playing with couples like that. i found they wanted a living sex toy and didnt really give a damn what i wanted and/or they were MFF only because there were issues, and even doing that caused more and i would wind up in the middle. now i only go after couples that full swap with other couples as well. i dont know a lot that only do MMF, but i do know plenty who are open to it in addition to the other stuff. So, no, neither is unusual or anything. You'll have no issue finding men for MMF...finding reliable, good guys, might be harder. finding a single bi woman who is drama free and not flaky will be hard, but if you become friends with a couple, you might be able to do something where you guys switch off for 3somes sometimes. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Coupleerotic22 1,419 Posted February 5, 2012 I guess we are less complicated. If we meet a man, woman or couple we like and we are comfortable with them, we will play. There are times we prefer one over another, but it is more about the people and less how about the specific number involved. Quote Share this post Link to post
shrevecouple 252 Posted February 6, 2012 I would think people who want threesomes would be less complicated. One less personality to click with. Quote Share this post Link to post
angelkin 1,326 Posted February 6, 2012 When we meet a sexy single who wants to enjoy a threesome, we *know* they are into us. When meeting a couple, it sometimes appears one or the other of them is feigning interest because their spouse wants to get with us. Threesomes are just far less complicated. Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,024 Posted February 6, 2012 I guess we are less complicated. If we meet a man, woman or couple we like and we are comfortable with them, we will play. There are times we prefer one over another, but it is more about the people and less how about the specific number involved. Right on. You've captured the essentials. Quote Share this post Link to post
LFM2 1,482 Posted February 6, 2012 Threesomes are just far less complicated. Truer words were never spoken. (Although I've used this quote before) I have to agree with angelkin. Seriously, you don't have the problems you do with 4 people. We often find that getting into a threesome situation is much less complicated. MUCH. Quote Share this post Link to post
Dont.Stop 339 Posted February 6, 2012 We've done FMF and MFM. While we prefer FMF, we'd really, really just rather have another couple. Now, those FMFF we had with the lesbian couple? A whole other kind of fun. Whew! Quote Share this post Link to post
Tobacouple 111 Posted February 7, 2012 Threesomes only for us. To us, it becomes shared sexual experience for both of us. Also they are easier to arrange, maintain and less prone to drama. Quote Share this post Link to post
Alura 2,774 Posted February 7, 2012 We found foursomes to be a lot of fun... with more permutations and combinations to be explored, including threesomes. Alura Quote Share this post Link to post
rockin 21 Posted February 7, 2012 We are only into threesomes (MFM). I (wife here) sometimes play one on one, if that counts, but we have never been with another couple nor are we really interested. Quote Share this post Link to post