Bi-curious, questions about first experience

[JJ124 15]

Hey everyone. I recently have become somewhat bi curious and have found myself wondering what it would be like to do certain things with a guy, or be in a threesome with another guy and a girl and have everyone interact with one another.

 

In the past I have been in threesomes with two women and have had foursomes where we strictly swapped partners. I've also watched my then-girlfriend with a male friend of mine, but I didn't join in; I was just a spectator. I'm very comfortable and open about sexuality and sexual situations, but I guess I am just nervous and unsure of how to initiate any type of bi situation, or even finding the right person/couple for that matter.

 

I'm curious how some other members' first bi experiences went, how you came to be in the situation, and if you have any advice on the subject. Thanks in advance!

[Lascivious L&L 866]

My first experience came in a meeting with another couple. His wife was sucking me and my wife was sucking him. I was watching my wife closely, as I love to watch sucking cock live. She then asked me to join her in sucking his cock. I did. It was amazing, it was hot! It aroused my wife, it aroused his wife. What she was doing sucking my cock, I tried on his cock. Worked really, really well. When his first spurt hit my tongue, my first spurt hit her tongue. It was spiritual while raw and primal at the same time.

 

You may be surprised at how many men are willing to be sucked by another male in a threesome/foursome situation, even if they aren't willing to suck. You may also be surprised at how much negativity such bi-curiosity can inspire both on this board and in real meetings with real people. So be forewarned.

 

We try not to meet biphobes, or more accurately, omniphobes. For bisexuality is more an omnisexuality while both homo and hetero sexuality is not. So we tend to be frank about our omnisexuality when hoping to meet singles or couples. We suggest you also be frank, and frank about your inexperience too.

[ViSexual 1,008]

Very well said! I'll have to share this with my yahoo group of guys. We've got three of us who are experienced and two who are very curious.

[Brian and Jo 344]

My first experience came when we were playing with another couple. We were relaxing after the first round when the other guy asked if he could touch me. I thought about it for a moment and then said go ahead. He reached down and began to stroke my cock. It felt good and got even better when he started licking and sucking me. I plucked up my courage and began to stroke him. Before we knew it we were in a 69 together with our wives lending encouragement. It was a very erotic scene and one I have repeated many times since.

[Casurina 28]

Happened to me during a threesome with a married couple. She had been riding me cowgirl style and he was behind her as we were going to DP. At some point I slipped out of her and he held me for a moment before taking me in his mouth. It felt great and was happy to carry on, he did it for a moment or two before guiding me back into her. We then DP'ed. Later while we were relaxing, he was semi hard I lent over to stroke him which he responded too and I then sucked him off. Have done it a number of times mainly when in a mmf or mfmf.

[sparkstar 128]

First time I kissed another girl was when i had my first FMF threesome. I fancied a guy in high school who knew I wanted him as my boyfriend, we were just fuck buddies at first and then he said he will be my boyfriend if we can have threesome with my best friend. We had sex with me and her in missionary, that's when i kissed her while he was behind me going in and out taking us in turns. Neither of us was on birth control so he had to use a condom.

 

My first experience with two men was when I was an escort. A male client had booked me for an overnight with his male friend, both had with them recent STD certificates to prove they were clean. Both were taking me in turns, DP'ing, all three of us were kissing one another, every time they came it was in my vagina, the other guy would go down on me to lick it out then come up to kiss me or the other guy. It was really strange for me as I'd never experienced anything like that before.

[RyJ 21]

My wife and I went for dinner at our friends place (another couple), and jumped into the hot tube after we ate. The 2 girls started talking about how hot it would be to watch us 2 men together, and asked if we would try. We agreed that we would try and made our way back into the house. We started with each others wives until we were naked and ready to go. His wife whispered in my ear that she wanted me to suck his cock with her, so I agreed and the rest his history. I LOVED it and so did our wives. We gave each other head and followed with anal for both of us. Ever since then, I have played with a few men in the lifestyle and really enjoy it. Although I don't announce to everyone that I'm bisexual, I thought I would at least tell my best friend. I was a bit nervous telling him as he was straight since I've known him. I told him that I was bisexual and he told me that he curious about playing with another guy but didn't have the courage to ever say something about it. I told my wife that he was curious about being with another man, and she was happy to let me experience that with him. To this day we play regularly and he loves it just as much as I do!!

 

On the other hand, some people are really uncomfortable with the thought. You just have to be yourself with others and if they don't like you for who you are, there not worth the friendship.

[ViSexual 1,008]

On the other hand, some people are really uncomfortable with the thought. You just have to be yourself with others and if they don't like you for who you are, there not worth the friendship.

 

I have a message written on a roofing tile out by my hot tub. I got it in New Orleans and it's my favorite decoration. It says;

 

"A true friend is someone who sees through your act, yet still enjoys the show."

[Guest thewriter]

My first male to male experience - I was a teenager, he was mom's cousin. As soon as I took his cock in my mouth I enjoyed it. Swinging is all about enjoying sex so if you get a chance to experience male to male sex, try it. Who knows, you may be surprised to enjoy sucking another man's cock.

[Baconheads 432]

Very hot stories!  I thought I would bring this one back to the top.

 

My first MM experience was at the Red Rooster in Vegas.  It was also my very first time with another couple.  I was playing with them in a private room, he was fucking his wife as I caressed her.  I asked  if I could go down on her as he fucked her and he approved.  As he pushed in I would swirl my tongue on the top of his cock and he said that I could go ahead and suck him.  Well I did and loved it.  I tried to suck him down my throat, but I wasn't that experienced to get it down.  I would have love to continue but he asked if I wanted to fuck her.  Well, I wasn't going to turn that offer down either!  I put a rubber on and put my cock inside her and came very quickly.  I usually last for a while but this time I was so excited I couldn't stand it!

[Numex 2,412]

On two different occasions I did oral then anal with another guy, both giving and receiving.  We men didn't seek it out at all, but our wives wanted to see it, so we did it.  One of the guy's wives said if he wanted to ever get her ass again, he'd have to take it, so in I went.  Nothing was bad about the experiences and we all got off each time, but we haven't done it again.

 

PS Both times when I was sucking, I snoballed the cum with my wife or his.

Edited July 5, 2022 by Numex

[Jocarter8183 3]

I was 12  and it was with a male cousin of mine. I would spend the night at his house and we would always sleep in our underwear. One night I was about to fall asleep when I realized he had his hand in my underwear and was rubbing my cock. I knew what was happening( I was molested  by several family members when I was younger) so I thought I was supposed to reciprocate. Before I knew it, he had started sucking on my cock. It went on and off like that for the rest of the night. It kept going on until it lead up to us having full on sex by the time we were 14. 
 

P.S. I later found out that he too, was molested by the same family members I had been.

Edited December 31, 2022 by Jocarter8183

[J&Wu 408]

I was about 4 when my mom caught me and a neighbor boy playing with our butt holes trying to put objects in, probably not our penises. She was pretty put out to say the least, definite grounding. Really doesn't count as true Bi experience? But the curiousity and the sensual pleasure were alreaady there?

[ChristianSwinging 59]

On 12/31/2022 at 9:10 AM, J&Wu said:

I was about 4 when my mom caught me and a neighbor boy playing with our butt holes trying to put objects in, probably not our penises. She was pretty put out to say the least, definite grounding. Really doesn't count as true Bi experience? But the curiousity and the sensual pleasure were alreaady there?

I don't think you can call it a pure bi experience yet.
It's a normal game at that age and is part of the discovery process.
Your mother's reaction is completely over the top and to intervene so harshly in such cases destroys the completely natural desire for normal intimate experiences with others, in the worst case also for the future.