Do you like your female playmate's breasts natural or with implants?

[djjwp 129]

I'm starting to feel a little insecure with my 'beautiful 75 E cup' , because fake looks better then real?

 

I don't know Candy, by the results of the poll, real beats fake by a large margin!

[good times 991]

You cant BUY selfesteem, you have to work on it from the inside...

 

We always apreciate it when members of the board speak their mind Candy, wouldn't be much point in it otherwise.

 

That being said, and even though I do prefer natural breasts to fake, although, like Spoo, I pretty much like them all, I have met several women that were so self concious about their small breasts that getting them enhanced was a life changing experiance. These women experianced such a change to their self esteem that they seem like totally different people now.

 

Does this tell us that society in general has led women to place to much importance on something that makes very little differfence to most of us? Maybe, but after witnessing the benefit to these womens increased quality of life, their boost in confidence and self esteem that their breast enlargement produced, I have to say that if it is important to a women, I don't see a thing wrong with it.

 

Lets face it, most women get up in the morning and spend an hour or more putting on makeup and wouldn't be caught dead out in public without it. This seems just as rediculous to me as wanting to get breast implants, but you could never convince my wife of it, even though many men have commented on how attractive she looks fresh out of the shower first thing in the morning.

[EvilMJ 65]

you know when I started swinging I was self conscious about the size of my boobs becuase my friend is a well endowed double D cup.. and I am a modest D.

Until her husband said it did not matter because he is a self proclaimed chestnut and loves all breasts, and mine were just fine.

 

Now I just don't care...they're mine, they're real and they are just plain fun for all envolved.

[Candy&Cane 16]

Thanks for your post Good Times, I do appreciate it (thought I would be blown away with nasty comments..)!

 

It appears your experiences tell a different story than mine. I've seen how insecure young women get breast-inplants, hoping to get more attention actually (what makes me feel real sad; to do this for male attention; and if you look at the porn-industry, it does give the idea men are really that superficial -sorry guys! ).

I've only seen two types of changes; either these women feel even more insecure and depressed, or they really seem more secure . but go way past that by giving a VERY arrogant and cold impression (in my eyes, that shows insecurity too).

It also seems as though these women keep focussing even more on their appearence. :rollseyes

 

I know 'fat' and 'uglier' women who really look more beautiful to me, because of there radiant appearence; because they just feel good about themselves, and wouldnt dream of changing!

 

As a bi-woman I can honestly say; A secure woman, who is happy with with who she is (identity), and who (how do you call it in english) 'shines' happiness... A face with many expressions (with or without wrinkles) attracts me a hundred times more than a 'ideal' shell with a empty inside.... (which, in my experience is quite common...)

 

But these are MY feelings about the issue... and I respect other ideas

 

(I should mention; I'm having a bad time concerning a family member.. maybe I'm extra pessimistic now )

[Spoomonkey 421]

they are just plain fun for all envolved.

 

Prove it

 

Spoomonkey

[EvilMJ 65]

Prove it

 

Spoomonkey

 

 

Okay....hooking up the sled dogs and heading towards Ohio (ofcourse it may take awhile as I have no sense of direction).

 

Or I could just wait for that UPS delivery that Mrs. Spoo was offering..!! facelick

[DBL D 120]

Natural but firm(ish)-and I don't care if they are small! facelick

 

Male D

[Vespertine 31]

Natural but firm(ish)-and I don't care if they are small! facelick

 

Male D

 

Yay! I have small (but firm ) breasts and I always cringe when the topic of breast size cums up... I get so happy when men promote small boobies!

 

I'm more of a nipple connoisseur myself. I like smaller, pink ones.

[Nymph an' Satyr 22]

We like ALL boobies, floppers & whoppers and everything in between, and all around.

 

No disrespect to the enhanced boob- it's nice too. But would rather have a real A to a fake D. Would rather have a floppy D (meant with genuine respect) than a "pert" but fake D. We don't want to make the silicon gals feel bad- cuz we like them all- but prefer real, less firm, to silicon gravity defiers.

[amBIdextrous 17]

I like A cups,B cups, C cups, but go nuts over a pair of double D cups.

Seriously now, it is important how a woman fills my life, not how she fills her bra.

[SH 17]

If you can't have real breasts than why have any at all.

[twobears 16]

Hi, The only thing I can think of that would be worse then foam rubber boobs would be a cardboard box !!! The female body is the most beautiful thing ever created and no matter the size of the boobs, they were created that way. In my humble opinion, a woman that has breast enlargements is a fake and trying to be something that she was not meant to be. My thoughts of course do not include procedures that are needed for medical reasons. Please Ladies, be yourself and be proud of who and what you are. A real man would never reject a woman as desireable just because of the size of the woman and/or the size of the boobs !!!!

[couplehorny 15]

I prefer real breasts. I do not care if they are small as long as they are real. The only exception would be if she had breasts cancer.

[Miss_Piggy 98]

If you can't have real breasts than why have any at all.

 

If I couldn't have real breasts for some reason then I would definitely go for fake ones.

[curiousagain 326]

I tend to be driven to maddness by small breast with firm long/large nipples. But, I haven't turned down an offer to see any breast yet. So, yeah I like them all.

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

I've not felt silicone breasts. I would like to one day to know what they feel like. I would be inclined to say natural would be more enjoyable to me. But I don't like saggy breasts so I might like bouncy silicones over pendulus naturals.

 

Since swinging, I have felt the breasts of two women and they were each very different from the other.

 

I need to feel more breasts.

 

LM

[curiousagain 326]

"Augs" have their own unique feel just like natural breast. What size and shape and placement of the implant, how long it's been in, has the woman gained/lost weight, aged, etc. Some are very very hard and some aren't. The softest pair of augmented breast I ever felt the lady explained the doctor told her to massage them vigorously every day for the first year and they would never get hard as the scar tissue is what caused the hardness. She said she did her daily massage religiously. Evidently it works because I wouldn't have known unless she told me and I was still a little doubtful until she showed me the very fine scar on the bottom of each breast. But, hey if you need an assistant in your research, LM. Lemme know.

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

..But, hey if you need an assistant in your research, LM. Lemme know.

If more hands are needed, we'll be sure to let you know!

 

Thanks for the generous offer of your knowledgeable and experienced hands.

 

LM

[BradAndJanet 70]

... I need to feel more breasts.

 

LM

I am so with you on that thought.

 

-B

[Pepper & Drew 384]

Hi, The only thing I can think of that would be worse then foam rubber boobs would be a cardboard box !!! The female body is the most beautiful thing ever created and no matter the size of the boobs, they were created that way. In my humble opinion, a woman that has breast enlargements is a fake and trying to be something that she was not meant to be. My thoughts of course do not include procedures that are needed for medical reasons. Please Ladies, be yourself and be proud of who and what you are. A real man would never reject a woman as desireable just because of the size of the woman and/or the size of the boobs !!!!

Size is not the only reason why women get implants. Many get them to get back the breasts they had before babies, gravity and or genetics took their toil. And, just because you get an augmentation doesn't mean that you're not proud of who you are. We do lots of things everyday to improve on what we were given. I use a curling iron, had braces, wear makeup......you get the picture. And yes, I've had augmentation. I wanted to wear a sundress without a bra. I wanted to not look like the women in National Geographic. And now, I have that. Why do people feel like it's ok to bash women with implants? Hell, I haven't had a complaint yet.

[Chris&Amelia 253]

I don't think anybody is bashing women who have implants. Just stating that, given a preference, which do you prefer? (if you even have a preference)

[Pepper & Drew 384]

I don't think anybody is bashing women who have implants. Just stating that, given a preference, which do you prefer? (if you even have a preference)

 

I didn't think that you were bashing by asking the question....I think it's a very valid question. Oh, and for the record, I prefer pretty, whether fake or real. What I do consider to be bashing is:

 

The only thing I can think of that would be worse then foam rubber boobs would be a cardboard box !!! The female body is the most beautiful thing ever created and no matter the size of the boobs, they were created that way. In my humble opinion, a woman that has breast enlargements is a fake and trying to be something that she was not meant to be. My thoughts of course do not include procedures that are needed for medical reasons. Please Ladies, be yourself and be proud of who and what you are. A real man would never reject a woman as desireable just because of the size of the woman and/or the size of the boobs !!!!

 

I'm sure they meant foam rubber boobs in the nicest possible way, right? All I wanted to say is that not every woman that gets implants is doing it for some man, or trying to be Pamela Anderson, or have boobs the size of her head. There are mothers, daughters, sisters and wives who may just be trying to do something for THEMSELVES that will make them look and feel better. That's all...

[kittynrichard 15]

My breasts are enhanced. Saline, though. I have had them for a cpl years now. They look, and feel natural. Its great to have a cleavage! lol

[jennandjamesinm 87]

I need to feel more breasts.

 

Yep - I'm with ya on that too!!!

 

Jenn

[WildMiCouple 325]

For me.....it depends on the woman. If augmented breasts help a woman feel more sexy and confident about herself....then I'm all for augmented breasts If she's sexy and confident with her natural breasts.....then I'm all for natural breasts

 

It's all about the 'tude with me I've had wonderfully erotic times with both.

 

Brett (and Tammy)

[nwmifun 16]

We're of split opinions on this one - I (Mr.) love all breasts and in my younger years, actually felt myself drawn more to smaller breasted women (I had some logic of smaller breasts, tighter bodies - my shallow days). But as I've gotten into my thirties, I've been drawn to bigger ones more and more which brings in equal opportunity for the fake ones. As I've seen a few people post I'm curious to feel the silicon type now that they've been approved again. I've always been very intrigued by the feel of saline implants.

 

Mrs. has gone off on some tangent (which I apologize, but I'm not going to spend the time to type all of the details) about women should be happy with their bodies and if they're going to spend the money on implants and vanity an equal amount should be given to charity and making the world a better place. Uh Oh, tree hugger in her is coming out. I'm going to change the subject quickly!!!

 

Yes dear, I love your perfectly shaped and sized b-cups. No dear, I would NEVER ask you to get an operation and modify yourself. Yeas dear, those women who have them ARE controlled too much by men. Yes dear, of course dear, whatever you say dear.... LOL LOL LOL

[Tybee Swing 286]

What do you prefer on your female partner? Real breasts, "enhanced" breasts, or "who cares?"

 

I was pleasantly surprised to see the results of this poll so in favor of natural.

 

As a bi woman, I prefer natural breasts on my partners. I've been with a couple of women with fake ones, and they just felt so unnatural to me. I guess it has to feel real to turn me on.

 

After reading all the posts, I'm also surprised to see many people thinking implants are the standard answer to the sagging issue. Adding all that extra weight and bulk to the breasts just means more for gravity to work with. I guess it depends greatly on the degree of sag, but usually when breasts are pointing south they need a breast LIFT, not more stuff put into them.

 

I just had a breast lift (no implants) 4.5 months ago. I love my results! They're more beautiful than I had expected. I went from a sagging D to a perky and beautifully-shaped C. I feel I can wear anything now, and do. I can wear sexy braless halter tops, just anything I want. I can wear skimpy string bikini tops. My breasts are natural, and they look and feel completely natural, of course. They're like 21-year-old boobies again, pert and pretty.

 

For you ladies looking into getting perkiness back, but not looking for the bulk and going to a huge size trying to raise the girls: seriously, check into breast lift. Don't necessarily just jump straight into asking for augmentation. Explore the options.

[BiWoman33 15]

So the question has brought about a lot of opinions on a woman's self esteem and her reasons for doing breast augmentation....c'mon, now. At the end of the day, if you wear make-up , dye your hair, or wear any kind of Spanks, ladies, you, too , are lying....it's all the same in the end. Push up bra- LIE. Blondes??? Don't get me started- the only real blonde adult women are on another continent, or descended from them....the rest are, yes- FAKE! But you have your reasons...you feel more attractive. I'm willing to bet you will come across fake breasts one day and not even know...and she won't mention your roots, either, as she pulls at them.....

[Spoomonkey 421]

I'm willing to bet you will come across fake breasts one day and not even know...and she won't mention your roots, either, as she pulls at them.....

 

 

This made my morning!

 

If it makes someone feel better about themselves - I am all for it. If they are doing it for THEM then why criticize? And, yes, I'm talking about make-up, hair color AND boob jobs...

 

Spoomonkey

[EvilMJ 65]

Blondes??? Don't get me started- the only real blonde adult women are on another continent, or descended from them....the rest are, yes- FAKE! QUOTE]

 

 

Shit someone had better tell that to my sister....maybe she was adopted.

Hate to tell you but I know of 5 ...yes 5 REAL blondes on this very continent.

 

Just so you know my naturally blonde sister is from Canada, and our origins are french, english and scottish... As hard as it may be to admit there are some REAL blondes out there.

 

I say we are entitled to do what makes us feel happy .....

[BiWoman33 15]

MJ- I agree...and I know a few natural blondes, myself. It's true, if it makes you happy, who cares- and the reality is, if someone has serious insecurities then no amount of cosmetic enhancement makes a difference, and most people are intuitive enough to sense this in them, no matter what they look like. And I believe they deserve compassion, because the more compassion they get, the more they will understand their self worth, and perhaps they can begin to accept themselves.

 

SPOO- don't choke on your bagel.....(glad it gave you a laugh!)

[2GirlsGoodBenBa 16]

We have two sets of breasts in our ranks and still couldn't get the quiz 100% correct.

 

16/20.

 

But, we like real breast something about how warm and soft they feel is a definite turn on for us both.

[Amanda69 24]

We got 17 out of 20 on the quiz and did it together. I think for the most part we agreed on each set of breasts.

 

We both prefer real breasts, so much nicer to snuggle up to. I was suprised to see the poll is overly in favor of them as it seems to be that so many women these days have the implants done.

 

Maybe we should do a separate male/female poll to see if there is any difference that way???

[catalina8591 15]

16 / 20 --- maybe that because I am bi and not lesbian.... where is the real or enhanced penis test???

 

-Cat

[LFM2 1,482]

We got a 16 outta 20 on the quiz. I really didn't think that was too bad.

 

Mr. LFM just made the remark about silicone Vs. Saline.

 

My sister just got new saline boobs a couple of years ago. Went from a B cup to a D cup. Her's don't feel that bad. (No, Mr. LFM didn't get to try them out) Her husband sure likes them though. Isn't he the only one that matters?

 

I don't want any more added, (I'm alreayd a double D) but I wouldn't mind if mine were a little perkier. Breast feeding children takes a toll! ... then I fear giving up nipple sensitivity over looks. I'm gonna keep 'em the way they are.

[ShellyM 0]

Now, I am not bi curious. But I can tell you that as a woman I like natural breasts. (Even though I am in serious need of a lift myself lol) Now, what a woman does with her own body is completely her business. She earns her money and can spend it on whatever she wants. But I think that there is nothing less attractive than horrible scars. Have your dr go in through the navel if you get them. And, some women go too far and their breasts look like water balloons. Not nipples should point up lol. When you lay down and your boobs are pointing straight to the ceiling they are too big lol.

[ShellyM 0]

I think all breasts are beautiful... However, I am all for a little help as I get older and after having breastfed 4 children.... For my 30th b-day I plan to do a little enhancing... I don't want more... I just want them higher and perkier (so to speak), but if for whatever reason it doesn't happen.... I've never had any complaints!

RG

 

Im with you. Nursing and 34 years of gravity have done my girls a job. I would love to have a lift done.

[Spoomonkey 421]

Have your dr go in through the navel if you get them.

 

This is not always an option and choosing the procedure is not nearly as important as choosing your doctor.

 

Spoomonkey

[Tybee Swing 286]

Im with you. Nursing and 34 years of gravity have done my girls a job. I would love to have a lift done.

 

ShellyM, the lift is great! I think you mentioned scars - the scars depend a great deal on the quality and skill of your surgeon, as well as the rate you heal. My lift (no implants) was only 7 months ago, and the scars are very fine, thin, smooth pink lines that are already quite hard to see! They continue to fade, of course. There is some risk of loss of sensation, it can happen. For most people, the nerves heal and feeling comes back during healing. Mine are sensitive and enjoy stimulation, like before. I am thoroughly enjoying the perkiness factor, and wearing anything I want with confidence - bra or not. I can't even describe how much fun hubby's having with them. LOL! Our Lifestyle friends have had great responses, too. No complaints. I'll post a pic of me with no bra. Perky for age 47, huh!

 

If you really want it, I highly recommend it.

[gatorvol64 216]

Tybee Swing,

 

By that name I am going to assume you live on Tybee Island. How did you go about chosing a surgeon? I've really been considering this lately. Hubby can not believe it. When I was younger I always said no way (he has never suggested it at all). Went from an A cup before pregnancy to a D cup now. Bigger is nice but all that stretching was not. Now, I am 42, nursed two children and such. I am satisfied and ok with the way I look. So, maybe that is what released me to really consider the surgery. I had to be happy with who I was first. Anyway, sounded like you had a good surgeon and wanted to know how you found him/her.

 

Vol

[Relaxed_n_Fun 15]

Both my hubby and I agree, beautiful natural breasts are best, but we also love to play with any breasts which are perky or big. Mmmm, boobies... I have 2 great ones, but still love to play with all the others... ;-)

[Calgetty 29]

As Creed said on "The Office", "swing low sweet chariots".

 

There is just something so sexy about milfy breasts.

[CXXC 435]

My personal thought is this:

If a woman feels sexy, it matters not if they are natural or enhanced!

 

Mrs. CXXC agrees with me! BTW, hers are natural at this time. Tomorrow? Who knows!

[cmarriedc 15]

Well because (I the woman) have fake boobs I like um fake but my husband loves all boobs

[divenaked 325]

We did an impromptu and unscientific survey at The Grove. Our finding were that natural breasts float better than silicone. Or they just have more freedom to float perhaps. Anyway, once you've seen one boob, you want to see all of them!

[trevor 17]

Why not ask which do you like better, Instant or Real mashed potatoes.

[SecretAsianMan 348]

I was hanging out with some friends and talking about this subject... and my friend's 12-year old son came by and overheard us... his response (which settled this whole discussion)

 

"...if I can touch 'em, they're real enough for me!"

[Tina and Bob 236]

At the end of the day, you get what you get. I think everyone would prefer natural assuming all is equal, but nature does takeover eventually so a little augmenting, lifting, tightening never hurts, Bob

[RyanF 15]

Ah people are so silly when it comes to breast size...

 

Its quality not size

 

I've seen some beautiful A-cups and not so beautiful D-cups and vice-versa also. Natural is the way to go.

 

although I will admit that my first swinging experience was with a woman who had large enhanced breasts, and I certainly didn't complain lol

[BigNikki 43]

Big Nikki here.

 

Ah, what a thread. Which seems to have drifted off to discussing size.

 

Natural is great, but we gotta understand the dilemma of the sagging size.

 

My preference in women is 10-15 years older than me (though I have no problem loving women my age, and younger usually isn't a problem -- just that I'll let the youth-hounds have first dibs). And so I've lovingly spent time with plenty of 50+'s. No surprise that they, and I, would like a little more perky and a little less sag.

 

So I have no philosophical or aesthetic objection to silicon enhancement.

 

My beef is with women who have no taste & judgment.

 

I once -- and once only -- make it with a woman who had gotten herself a pair of balloons. Firmly inflated. (In my mind I keep looking for a needle to pop them with.)

 

They weren't fun to touch. They weren't fun to lick. They weren't fun to squeeze.

 

But she was Texas-proud of them. And bless her, but not at the altar of my church.

 

-- Big Nikki