I really like this...

[D&D 362]

So we had a really good experience this weekend. The couple we met was a lot of fun.... About five hours of fun. Of course today I've been walking around with a silly grin. However, I was surprised at some of what I took from this.

 

I wonder if others have the same "day after" feelings

 

First thing is I really enjoyed the "other wife", she was amazing, beautiful, SEXY, very sexual! Hope I get a second chance at her! Really I could have spent a lot more time just enjoying being next to her, looking at her and touching. Since my wife of 19 years was my first and only until two months ago, I am in total amazement at what other women are like.... Dont get me wrong, the sex was awesome, but I am really enjoying the exploration I never had. (also this was the first time everything went right for me the whole evening)

 

The thing that I was pleasantly surprised at was my reaction, after the couple went home and today. I can't get enough of my wife. After they left I wanted my wife so bad I swear my teeth ached. The "after sex" was incredible and so was this morning and this afternoon. But it isn't just that: I am noticing things about her that I haven't noticed before. I notice how she feels now, the way she has a different softness. The sounds and faces she makes while we get tangled up. And the way she smells...that has been getting me all day.

 

It's not that I didn't know and love those things, it's more that I didn't recognize them as being her! What I mean is I didn't know how she was different. I'm telling you, it's the details that are important. When we finished the fun with the other couple what I wanted was her skin against mine, her eyes looking in mine and I wanted her smell. Laying in bed this morning i just wanted to smell the nape of her neck and her hair. I think I annoyed her a little when I kept coming up to her and smelling her neck. (Frankly I didn't know I was that into smell. ) I just wasn't expecting the sharing to result in me being made so aware of the details in how I enjoy mrs D&D

 

I think I was worried a little that if I had a woman other than her that she would get a little lost in the "noise". Of course I didn't think that I would love her less, it's more that Up until lately I just havn't had a lot of other women running around in my head. I'm really enjoying the fact that the "other women" are bringing her into sharper focus. I'm getting to know her all over again and this time around its how she different.

 

I really like this...

[2fitfunsters 32]

Absolutely! We love reconnecting after our experiences. We go totally crazy on each other and the replay and fantasizing we do after charges us up into a frenzy. He woke me up at 4:30 this morning and we couldn't get our hands and bodies off each other till we finally finished at 9pm tonight! The closeness and bond just grows deeper. We have been on a wonderful journey together and it just keeps getting better.

[swinginCO 18]

I think that is the best part for me, the "newness" of her after she has been with another man. Every touch smell and taste is new an exciting.

[angelkin 1,326]

D&D, the best part about the 'sharper focus' is that it doesn't go away:) What a wonderful way to describe what you are feeling!

[Tobacouple 111]

My wife calls it a sex hang over. She loves this type of hang over

[D&D 362]

Hopefully I get some more of those sex hangovers!

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

I really liked the way you described your first after-experience! It's very hard to put into words, but you did a great job. I hope you have many more happy, sexy times!

[weloveeachother 29]

I agree, awesome description! A couple of weeks ago, we were playing in a bed with several couples and my wife had sex with another man. It was the first time I was able to lay there, relax and really take in all the sounds and facial expressions she was making. We had swapped one other time but it was not done right. The next day was hell as were weren't even ready for that.

 

I don't mean to high-jack your thread. I just want to comment on how good it sounds like your first time went. It really makes you appreciate your wife even more when she shares herself like she has.

[D&D 362]

Wellove,

 

Thank you, and you didn't hijack the thread. It's good to hear other's on this. I still can't get over my own feelings on this. I know I've heard about this after experience glow before but I just didnt think that what I was going to take from swapping was such a new way of knowing my wife. We have a possible experience coming up this weekend and while I am looking forward to the new couple, I can't wait to feel, touch, smell my wife after. It's what I am thinking most about now. I want to get lost in my half of the couple and I want her to do the same so that when we're finished I can find her again. The "finding" is so good.

[Alura 2,775]

The "finding" is so good.

 

In my opinion, it's the major reason we enjoyed swinging so much. Congratulations to you both!

[tallicafan 41]

We call this "The Bangover"

My wife calls it a sex hang over. She loves this type of hang over

[akdreddog24 17]

We love to talk about it after our play date goes home. We have a journal so we can sort of keep track and only use initials so we can keep it. We talk about what happened usually while im licking her clean i know this is not everyone cup of tea but hey to each there own. talking about it gives her such an intense orgasm.

[D&D 362]

We love to talk about it after our play date goes home. We have a journal so we can sort of keep track and only use initials so we can keep it. We talk about what happened usually while im licking her clean i know this is not everyone cup of tea but hey to each there own. talking about it gives her such an intense orgasm.

 

The journal idea sounds fun! We love talking about the experience, but we are still a little shy of getting into the details. I would like her to tell me what she liked that the others did. Its not like I know everything! I think we are still a little nervous of it sounding like we are comparing/judging. I am not into cleaning her up with my tongue, but enjoy going down on her after the night is done and telling her about her pussy. While she enjoys penetration from other guys immensely, I think she is still a little shy of relaxing when someone else goes down on her. Something about feeling like its show. She can take a while to orgasm but when she does it's extremely intense, so far the other men just haven't had the patience/perseverance! Of course it's also that she starts to get nervous about how long it takes and just tells them she wants to fuck. The result though is that early in the morning I get to witness an eruption! When she begins to relax about just enjoying it, she is going to have some incredible times.

[akdreddog24 17]

when we write about our playtime we just put the date and initals. then we both write about what happened and what we liked and would like to do again.