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For me age related, when I was young it took longer to cum and I stayed erect afterward for restart inside or in 69, or both.

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22 hours ago, J&Wu said:

and I stayed erect afterward for restart inside

Ever fall asleep then wake up still inside her?  (She was on top.) One of my best college memories.

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36 minutes ago, Numex said:

Ever fall asleep then wake up still inside her?  (She was on top.) One of my best college memories.

Yeah, my wife Kathy is quite even-tempered and cheerful. At a point in my career that I was traveling a lot and putting in ferocious hours. I once just drifted off while I was on top with my dick in her pussy. I literally fell asleep in the middle of a fuck. 😳 She was, shall I say, fucking furious! And her anger, loudly expressed, wiped the sleep from my eyes.

 

This was more than 20 years ago, so I don’t recall all the surrounding details. I do remember that when I explained to her how exhausted I was she calmed down. I don’t remember for sure if we then picked back up where we had been fuck-wise, but I think we did.

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My buddy has this talent and I'm very jealous of it.  For some reason I stay hard for a minute or so after I cum and then go soft.  He can stay hard keep fucking and then cum again and then do it all over again.

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20 hours ago, PeterJ said:

Yeah, my wife Kathy is quite even-tempered and cheerful. At a point in my career that I was traveling a lot and putting in ferocious hours. I once just drifted off while I was on top with my dick in her pussy. I literally fell asleep in the middle of a fuck. 😳 She was, shall I say, fucking furious! And her anger, loudly expressed, wiped the sleep from my eyes.

 

This was more than 20 years ago, so I don’t recall all the surrounding details. I do remember that when I explained to her how exhausted I was she calmed down. I don’t remember for sure if we then picked back up where we had been fuck-wise, but I think we did.

Wow, I don't think I ever did that although I did fall asleep and onto the floor once while writing post-op orders on a second straight all nighter in Viet Nam, felt so good to nod off, downright orgasmic!

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On 1/15/2023 at 9:27 PM, Numex said:

Ever fall asleep then wake up still inside her?  (She was on top.) One of my best college memories.

After I've cum, I'm often too sensitive for additional stimulation, but the wife and I have made a game of sort of finishing on our sides and trying to keep me 'docked' inside her in spoon position. 

 

When done right I stay hard enough to remain inside her as we both come down from our orgasms and lightly nod off.  This usually ends with her gripping her pussy down on me a for a few minutes later to coax my interest back, me flexing into her pussy until she starts responding and humping back or in a few instances us actually passing out for an hour or more with me still docked inside.   

 

One time I recall waking up just in time to deliver a second creampie...  apparently she had been doing some serious keegles on my dick and managed to get me off without me waking till the last second.

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I had a girlfriend who wanted us to fall asleep with me inside of her. It never quite worked out, though we tried a few times.

 

When I was ~20, I was able to cum and keep right on going. It was sometimes way sensitive, but I was able to push past it and keep going. My girlfriend at the time really enjoyed it.

 

Now, decades on...forget it. Mr. Happy does his bit, says thanks for the ride, and promptly checks out.

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On 6/16/2012 at 8:35 AM, JustAskJulie said:

Guys: Do you stay hard after you cum?

Our guys, David and Red, used to pop back up very quickly, but after getting into their thirties, having to work more, dealing with our kids, and still exercising hard - "No."  I suspect too that having another woman or two available, or even eager, isn't the thrill it used to be.

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15 hours ago, couplers said:

having another woman or two available, or even eager, isn't the thrill it used to be.

For me, yes it is.

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