Show us a play night outfit, please.

[Alura 2,774]

One of the questions, which should be in Club Wear or some place, but is sometimes asked in this forum is

 

How should we dress for swinging?

 

It occurred to my evil old mind that it would be fun for our members to post pictures of themselves when leaving to play, whether to a special couple's house or to a club. Please specify.

 

Just take a quick pic and post it in this forum. You can mess up the faces if you want.

 

I wish I had a picture of Mrs. Alura in her black jump suit which, when released behind her neck, would slither down her body into a molten heap around her feet. Alas, we never thought to take one.

 

Alura

[angelkin 1,326]

Here's what I wore to the club most recently. It was "see thru night" and this is the most risque thing I've ever worn there. The results were fantastic BTW.

 

 

[Lionheart72 2,190]

Here's one of my favorite outfits my wife wears. Very popular. Me, I'm a jeans and t-shirt guy.

 

 

[ALilOEverything 901]

This is my favorite outfit I wear every once in awhile to the clubs. If it's a bar meet n greet I just wear the corset with black slacks or jeans. We mostly play at clubs or parties so I don't wear lingerie, what you see is what you get. I don't dress down later, I just get naked Most of my sls pics are from clubs so if anyone wanted to see a full range of different types of clubwear you can look on there.

 

[angelkin 1,326]

Love those wide fence fishnets!

[curious_2for2 92]

Here's one from us too! While the pic isn't the best, the sides are made of very thin lace, which gives a classy, but sexy look.

 

[Rockon 19]

Lots of very pretty ladies here!

[Alura 2,774]

 

Look what I found!

 

I took this photo one night just before our playmates arrived. She had on a long black skirt when she answered the door but I liked it better like this. It came off in one motion. Grrrrr.

 

Alura

[prairieshadows 95]

We really don't have anything specific we wear, we just like to be comfortable, we both like wearing jeans and t-shirts, or sometimes shorts. But we don't go to swingers clubs, we just with another couple, just being the 4 of us.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

This proves that I don't get all fancy or wear sexy stuff whenever we go out to a club, even. This is what I wore a couple of weeks ago, the last time we hit a club.

 

I'd say that 90% of the time when we go to clubs it's either short shorts like this or a short denim skirt and a sexy top. Every once in a while I'll try to dress for a theme and go sexier. We've got a black light party coming up and I need to order something neon for that (or white).

[shrevecouple 252]

That would be more like what I would wear....with one addition.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I having an erection that could win an election just thinking about these play-night outfits. So, please, more.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

shrevecouple said:

That would be more like what I would wear....with one addition.

addition?

[shrevecouple 252]

JustAskJulie said:

addition?

A bra...I don't know how you do it.

 

Sorry, I just figured you'd know what I was talking about without me saying it. It was the only thing obviously missing.

[Alura 2,774]

How can a bra be missing? It shouldn't be there in the first place.

 

Alura

[km34 672]

 

I've worn this dress to the club with red and white Mary Jane type shoes.

 

Later in the evening, I tend to walk around nude or just in panties, so no lingerie-ish outfits get worn. If we're playing one-on-one/two-on-two/two-on-one/whatever (not club/party), then sometimes I will wear more lingerie type clothing.

[eldiablo311 201]

Wow, there are some nice looking girls on here! I have never really known any swingers in my personal life so I didn't know what to expect. Pleasantly surprised!

[slevin 1,374]

Later in the evening, I tend to walk around nude or just in panties, so no lingerie-ish outfits get worn. If we're playing one-on-one/two-on-two/two-on-one/whatever (not club/party), then sometimes I will wear more lingerie type clothing.

 

It is very sexy to see a woman confidently walking around a club/party naked.

[shrevecouple 252]

It is very sexy to see a woman confidently walking around a club/party naked.

 

It's funny how different people see the same action. I saw this often and it reeked of desperation to me.

[km34 672]

shrevecouple said:

It's funny how different people see the same action. I saw this often and it reeked of desperation to me.

I think it depends on how/why the person is doing it... I usually just don't like to put clothes back on until the end of the night. Don't see the point. I'm not walking around still hitting on people (although a fair amount of flirting does go on, because, well, I'm naked and people comment on it). By the time my clothes come off, I've usually found the group that I'm playing with for the night. The only reason I'm walking around is to get a drink, bathroom break, or just to stretch a bit.

 

If people are walking around naked just trying to lure people into playing with them... I could see the desperation.

 

I think I'm a bit of a nudist on the inside, though, I only wear clothes when I need to.

[shrevecouple 252]

km34 said:

I think it depends on how/why the person is doing it... I usually just don't like to put clothes back on until the end of the night. Don't see the point. I'm not walking around still hitting on people (although a fair amount of flirting does go on, because, well, I'm naked and people comment on it). By the time my clothes come off, I've usually found the group that I'm playing with for the night. The only reason I'm walking around is to get a drink, bathroom break, or just to stretch a bit.

 

If people are walking around naked just trying to lure people into playing with them... I could see the desperation.

 

I think I'm a bit of a nudist on the inside, though, I only wear clothes when I need to.

If the majority is naked like a nudist place then no it's gonna seem to fit with no intention but when the majority is clothed, looks more like advertising and for just what you said the obvious extra attention. But you haven't seen the swingers in my neck of the woods either. Redneckville USA.

[slevin 1,374]

shrevecouple said:

It's funny how different people see the same action. I saw this often and it reeked of desperation to me.

I can see how there will be cases where someone may be walking around naked for attention. That's not really what I meant though. The club we've been to there are lots of naked people around and plenty of people who are not very covered up. It's just that a lot of people walk around with a towel covering them, or some negligee etc. Being naked is definitely not out of place; but being comfortable and confident enough to walk around naked is very attractive to me. The same holds true even with two couples in a hotel room. Not trying to cover up when sex is over, or in a lull/break. Just being naked, or walking around the room naked is very sexy. To me anyway.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

Alura said:

How can a bra be missing? It shouldn't be there in the first place.

 

I hate bras, during the summer especially. With loose tops like these I will do my best to bypass them even in non-swinger settings. But, I almost never wear them in swinger settings.

 

As for nudity at clubs, and I don't think twice. I'm rarely the naked one, and but there always seem to be a few, but and I say "you go girl (or guy)!"

[curious_2for2 92]

Since this topic seems to be drifting from the original intent, we're putting it back on course. Here's a little number that Mrs. Curious likes to wear at clubs when it's lingerie or less. And like Julie, she doesn't like bras unless it's reeeaaaalllly cold outside.

 

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Since this topic seems to be drifting from the original intent, we're putting it back on course.

 

Thank you!

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

two4youinswva said:

Thank you!

For what, putting it back on course or the rather nice picture of Mrs. Curious 2for2?

[Alura 2,774]

Spotted Toad: "What do you think, Red Antelope?"

 

Red Antelope: "I think swingers write too much, don't post enough pics of Play Night outfits."

 

Spotted Toad: "Ugh!"

 

Red Antelope: "Absolutely!"

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

This is a dress I will often wear to socials/M&G's if I'm feeling a little more conservative for some reason.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

 

I think this is supposed to be a shirt, but I've never worn it as such.

[Lionheart72 2,190]

My lady wore this to our clubs Mardi Gras last year.

Show in true Mardi Gras fashion of course...

[angelkin 1,326]

 

I wore this on oxford shirt night

[sunbuckus 3,567]

Shoot. I will have to get Mr. Sunbuckus to take a picture the next time we go out. I love getting dressed up because I don't get a chance to do it very often so sometimes I will be overdressed for a party. But I know I'll look great. Mr. Sunbuckus and I were just talking about this last night though...he hasn't been impressed by some of the outfits that some women wear when we meet them. I told him that perhaps I have been overdressed and he's too used to that. Either way, I'm still going to go out in my killer clearance rack dresses.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

bbarnsworth said:

For what, putting it back on course or the rather nice picture of Mrs. Curious 2for2?

Both of course.

 

Now let's all be quiet while the ladies continue sharing their outfits.

[shrevecouple 252]

two4youinswva said:

Both of course.

 

Now let's all be quiet while the ladies continue sharing their outfits.

Some of us aren't all about the ladies.......

[angelkin 1,326]

shrevecouple said:

Some of us aren't all about the ladies...

Yeah! Guys, show us your sexy duds

[angelkin 1,326]

Uh - hello gentlemen!! Where are your sexy outfits?

[sunbuckus 3,567]

We have a bunch of shy guys here.

[Mr TybeeSwing 201]

 

For the dancing.

 

[Lionheart72 2,190]

Ok, I'll bite. Thing is, I'm usually the one holding the camera. So, I got the wife to take this one special. This is my usual club wear. Not Robert Redford here, so don't say I didn't warn you.

 

[angelkin 1,326]

Impatiently taps foot....hope these get approved before I go to bed Sweet dreams for me

[angelkin 1,326]

Yeah, that's what I'm talkin' about Thanks for sharing guys!!!

[shrevecouple 252]

Good for the guys for stepping up. Nice to see variety in this thread.

[Chicup 41]

The difference I find is that while ladies clubwear, even the more conservative kind, would turn heads anywhere but a club.

 

The men's could be worn at a bar, or a restaurant, or target without getting a second look.

[slevin 1,374]

Chicup said:

The difference I find is that while ladies clubwear, even the more conservative kind, would turn heads anywhere but a club.

 

The men's could be worn at a bar, or a restaurant, or target without getting a second look.

Very true; is there something you think guys could wear that would turn heads though? Turn heads while still looking good.

[shrevecouple 252]

Very true; is there something you think guys could wear that would turn heads though? Turn heads while still looking good.

 

I think the biggest difference is this. Women get attention more for the lack of clothing than anything else and just being what they are, female (t&a). Men get more attention by knowing how to dress. It doesn't take expensive clothing or a suit. Just care about how you smell, wear something that fits properly (that don't have holes and stains, no saggy asses) and good grooming (hair and manscaping).

 

By the way, my profile pic would be typical for me (when we went). I'll see if I can find another.

[sunbuckus 3,567]

You all make me want to put on an outfit and just take a picture so I can post what type of clothes I go out in. Actually, I just like putting them on and feeling sexy. lol

[Alura 2,774]

sunbuckus said:

You all make me want to put on an outfit and just take a picture so I can post what type of clothes I go out in. Actually, I just like putting them on and feeling sexy. lol

Good idea! We'll look forward to it!

[sunbuckus 3,567]

 

Here's a couple that I've gone out in with success. The best thing that I like about them is that they were each around $10 on the clearance rack!

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

I love clearance rack finds. I find the cheaper stores aimed at younger people are great for good club/party wear at a discount. Seems like whenever I go shopping with my mom I end up finding dresses that are great for the club. I bring them home and Pet is like "you bought that with your mom there?" "yeah, and she didn't even really blink" because the reality is they just look like a nice fun going out dress. Kinda like what you are wearing here, and probably even one or two of what I posted.

[shrevecouple 252]

Very classy. I like those outfits and the price!