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How Much Are you comfortable paying to attend a club/ party?  

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  1. 1. How Much Are you comfortable paying to attend a club/ party?

    • Under $20
      4
    • $20 to $30
      7
    • $30-$40
      12
    • $40-$50
      6
    • $50-$75
      12
    • Over $75
      7


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What is the price point you are comfortable paying to attend a club (be it on-premise or off, hotel or free-standing). Is there a difference for you based on the type of club? At what point do you look at a price tag and say "I'm not paying that!"

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For us, it depends.

 

Hotel social: $40-$50.

Basic on-premises club:$60 or so

Nice on-premises club: $75-$100

 

All these are based on BYOB, and no membership fees (or a very small one at most).

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We max out around $50 unless we are celebrating something - anniversary, birthday, etc - and can justify spending more on one night.

 

We're kind of cheap, though... Those student loans aren't paying themselves!

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$60 is about as much as we'd be happy to pay for an on-premise club. We might pay more (up to about $100), but we wouldn't be happy about it).

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If memory serves, it cost about $60 at Menages when we had the MeetUp! there. I think Julie negotiated us a deal, though. It was worth it for the new experience but we'd never been to a club before... nor since.

 

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It depends on whether or not I am paying an annual membership, but up to $50 (for a couple) for an evening of BYOB on-premise fun seems to be my limit. If not paying an annual membership, I would be ok with say $75.

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Hotel social-$30-40

On premise club-$50-75

Membership charge understood at a private owned venue, not neccesary for a hotel social club.

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For us, it depends.

 

Hotel social: $40-$50.

Basic on-premises club:$60 or so

Nice on-premises club: $75-$100

 

All these are based on BYOB, and no membership fees (or a very small one at most).

 

Ditto, although that is pushing it for a hotel social. I don't mind paying more for a nice on-premise since you are getting so much more, but sometimes the hotel socials seems a little steep for what you get.

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We pay $150/night for a nice Inn party. This includes an awesome dinner, snacks all night and breakfast. We love sitting around the fire at night pleasuring each other under the moon. This place is a gem. The local club is $60/night with a $50 annual membership.

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For us, it depends.

 

Hotel social: $40-$50.

Basic on-premises club:$60 or so

Nice on-premises club: $75-$100

 

All these are based on BYOB, and no membership fees (or a very small one at most).

 

These are pretty much our limits, too. We stopped going to our favorite M&G because at their new venue they were charging $35 per couple PLUS cash bar. That was too steep for our taste. They have since left that venue and are searching for another. We're hoping they'll find one that is BYOB.

 

=)

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We're members of a club that charges $95/party plus semi-annual dues at various tiers. Since the party fees include dinner, snacks, breakfast and an overnight stay, that feels pretty reasonable.

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The on-premise clubs we have been to, both are $70 p/cpl byob.

 

Lately we are going to a lifestyle friendly nudist resort. That is the best! $50 p/day p/couple. We rent an rv space for $30 p/day. So, after taxes, just under $180 for the weekend. We don't consider that to be too bad as we like to have a few drinks and don't have to worry about driving or getting a cab.

 

And, the scenery isn't too bad either! :facelick:

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The on-premise clubs we have been to, both are $70 p/cpl byob.

 

Lately we are going to a lifestyle friendly nudist resort. That is the best! $50 p/day p/couple. We rent an rv space for $30 p/day. So, after taxes, just under $180 for the weekend. We don't consider that to be too bad as we like to have a few drinks and don't have to worry about driving or getting a cab.

 

And, the scenery isn't too bad either! :facelick:

 

Sounds like out favorite place in the Georgia Mountains!

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We're members of a club that charges $95/party plus semi-annual dues at various tiers. Since the party fees include dinner, snacks, breakfast and an overnight stay, that feels pretty reasonable.

 

What type of facility is this?

Sounds interesting. :)

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What type of facility is this?

Sounds interesting. :)

 

An on-premises club north of Seattle called New Horizons. I have nothing but good things to say about the place and have been pimping it out pretty much since my first party, way back in the dawn of time. ;)

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An on-premises club north of Seattle called New Horizons. I have nothing but good things to say about the place and have been pimping it out pretty much since my first party, way back in the dawn of time. ;)

 

That sounds very reasonable then. A well run on-premises club with decent facilities is a good thing to find. They can spoil you against hotel events, hospitality suite or not.

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An on-premises club north of Seattle called New Horizons. I have nothing but good things to say about the place and have been pimping it out pretty much since my first party, way back in the dawn of time. ;)

 

We're members there as well, and agree, it's a great place, and worth the price. After our Desire Cancun trip in November, we plan to attend every two weeks or so and become regulars.

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So the poll shows that more than half of those who responded have a comfort level under $40....Not sure what to make of that

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For us, it depends.

 

Hotel social: $40-$50.

Basic on-premises club:$60 or so

Nice on-premises club: $75-$100

 

All these are based on BYOB, and no membership fees (or a very small one at most).

 

Describes us very well!

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That sounds very reasonable then. A well run on-premises club with decent facilities is a good thing to find. They can spoil you against hotel events, hospitality suite or not.

 

I think so, too. NH also has regular Wednesday events that run from 6pm to 1am and include dinner. That's $55 per couple, which is also reasonable.

 

We had an opportunity to attend an off-premises event recently, which we declined, but the cost plus hotel would have been significantly more than a party at the club. Plus, we would have missed the sounds of lots of different folks having sex, which - to borrow a cliche - is priceless.

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For us, I'd say $40-$50 tops for an off-premise / hotel social type event. IF it's BYOB. If I am also going to have to buy my drinks there, then my price point caps at $40 and I'm not even going to be happy about that.

 

For an on-premise club, I'd say $50-$75 is reasonable (including a temp membership fee). If the club offers more (ie. dinner/ overnight accommodations) then I'd definitely be willing to pay more. It's always about what am I getting for my money.

 

Membership charge understood at a private owned venue, not neccesary for a hotel social club.

 

Unfortunately it is for the sake of being legal. That doesn't mean it has to be much or that it has to be anything other than a one-time lifetime membership. If it's a private club it's necessary. Even if it's just $1 (and there are some vanilla clubs that go "private membership" after certain hours in order to stay open past typical hours that do charge just $1 for your 1 night membership.

 

We're members of a club that charges $95/party plus semi-annual dues at various tiers. Since the party fees include dinner, snacks, breakfast and an overnight stay, that feels pretty reasonable.

 

various tiers?

 

So the poll shows that more than half of those who responded have a comfort level under $40....Not sure what to make of that

 

It's important to note that that poll is multiple choice, so you can't really add up everything under $40 and say that people are only comfortable spending less than $40. 60% are comfortable paying up to $50.

 

I think it has a lot to do with what is and has been available to them. The types of clubs that some have in other areas (offering overnight accommodations, etc) are really not common at all. It is also going to be dependent on what else they have to pay for. If you are having to get a hotel room because you traveled then that cuts into your comfort zone as well.

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various tiers?

 

Yep. It was recently recast as a not-for-profit member owned club. It has always had local and out of town options for dues, but now you may select member with voting rights, member without, or out of town memberships

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Yep. It was recently recast as a not-for-profit member owned club. It has always had local and out of town options for dues, but now you may select member with voting rights, member without, or out of town memberships

 

Interesting. Thanks for the update.

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We are paying maybe $3000 to attend a party soon.

 

Of course it is a 7 day cruise...

 

In most locations swing parties are not "big bucks" one of the bigger organizers here of off premise parties made maybe 15k a year for her efforts. I don't mind paying higher fees.

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We are paying maybe $3000 to attend a party soon.

 

Of course its a 7 day cruise....

 

In most locations swing parties are not "big bucks" one of the bigger organizers here of off premise parties made maybe 15k a year for her efforts. I don't mind paying higher fees.

 

I agree that most swinger clubs are not big bucks. At best most off-premise hosts (and many on-premise) might make the equivalent of what they would make at a part time job (if they even do that). An on-premise club (talking full time on-premise, not someone's house that becomes a club on the weekends) has higher overhead to deal with, and may still not make a huge profit. Obviously, they do make one or they wouldn't continue to do it forever.

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I agree that most swinger clubs are not big bucks. At best most off-premise hosts (and many on-premise) might make the equivalent of what they would make at a part time job (if they even do that). An on-premise club (talking full time on-premise, not someone's house that becomes a club on the weekends) has higher overhead to deal with, and may still not make a huge profit. Obviously, they do make one or they wouldn't continue to do it forever.

 

I've always said I hope the party organizers and club owners make enough money to keep doing what they do. No one's likely to get rich hosting events, but I don't want them to go broke for their passion either.

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What is a fair price to go to a club?

 

Too cheap and you're faced with the audience that you'd rather not see even in the most distant corners of the darkest rooms. Too expensive - and you can't afford it very often. What feels fair to you?

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I'm pretty comfortable paying $60-80 USD for an average party or $100-120 USD for a bigger event party (like a big New Year's Eve bash or massive Halloween party). It also depends on whether alcohol is served or not and if it's an open bar... (I don't drink, but I gotta get my wife blitzed before she'll bang another dude... JUST KIDDING!!!)

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We've not been gone to clubs as much lately as we used to, but what Myzyri said above is about right for us too. I don't begrudge anyone making some money for providing good service, and swingers clubs aren't something I'm going to value shop on worried about twenty bucks either way. But, on the other hand, make it too expensive and it's not something people can afford to do very often and you may price yourself right out of the market on whether people feel like they got their money's worth or not.

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Mrs R and I are returning to the club we went to in December. That was our first experience and in the confirmation email with the club they asked for a $60 door prize or a monetary donation to the club. We brought a door prize. When we arrived, they were grateful for what we brought, but, asked us to bring a donation next time. So, what is a good donation? It is a private residence. Good size dance floor, DJ, security, billard table, multiple rooms, pool, hot tub.....and there were quite a few people there.

 

We don't want to seam cheap, but, we also don't want to go over board. Opinions?

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