Male Performance Enhancement

[tallicafan 41]

Hi folks...I was just curious to know how many of the Guys use any "insurance" or "enhancement" Such as Viagra, Cialis, Levitra? Is this more the norm for a playtime or do you just rely on nature working? I usually don't need it myself....but sometimes get anxious or overstimulated. I have used the blue pill when I can get my hands on it to ensure not embarrassing myself. I've kept in on the down low, but the Mrs. says that I shouldn't care and that most of her play friends have mentioned using it from time to time? Thoughts or experiences?

[Guest AZfunloving]

Well, I don't know about anyone else...but my husband (who doesn't have ED) started experimenting with 36-hour Cialis with GREAT results! He's taken Viagra and Levitra before too (he wants the extra stamina for our weekend getaways...I'm kinda the insatiable type )...but Cialis has been the best in terms of long-lasting, and it makes his dick ROCK hard and, I swear, longer! (We'll have to measure one day to check!)

 

Also have recently discovered the magic of cock rings!!!

[km34 672]

I'm kinda weird in this regard... I have no problem with a guy I am with using something if he NEEDS to. If he's having issues due to medical reasons, anxiety, whatever. But if he's just using it "just in case" or for extra stamina/hardness/whatever when he could maintain an erection just fine without it? No thank you!

 

Having a pill in your pocket in case you do have issues and need it? Great! Taking a pill because you do have ED? Wonderful. Using a cock ring or other non-drug back up (including vitamin supplements or something like that) just in case? Sure! Taking a pill even though you don't need it and probably wouldn't (AKA just because)? No thanks.

 

I just don't think using any sort of drug is worth any potential side effects unless you need it, so I don't put myself in a position of encouraging it from others.

[dpbklyn 9]

i i take cialis 36 hr 1 when i know we are going out i never have a problem with getting a erection but it sure does get me up again after i cum

which wouldnt happen if i didnt take

[2fitfunsters 32]

Hubby uses Viagra when we play for hours. I use it too! Great for women as well! Definitely makes him rock hard and even bigger. For me it gives me extra sensitivity and swells me up down there. We already have crazy fuck sessions and adding that, well, lookout, we go past the four hour mark!

[oc1234 435]

I take Cialis 36 hr on occasion too. There is something very nice about being in your late 60s with diabetes and waking up with morning wood again. It also seems to really increase my sex drive and increases the sensitivity of my penis.

[JM153 346]

I'm kinda weird in this regard... I have no problem with a guy I am with using something if he NEEDS to. If he's having issues due to medical reasons, anxiety, whatever. But if he's just using it "just in case" or for extra stamina/hardness/whatever when he could maintain an erection just fine without it? No thank you!

 

Having a pill in your pocket in case you do have issues and need it? Great! Taking a pill because you do have ED? Wonderful. Using a cock ring or other non-drug back up (including vitamin supplements or something like that) just in case? Sure! Taking a pill even though you don't need it and probably wouldn't (AKA just because)? No thanks.

 

I just don't think using any sort of drug is worth any potential side effects unless you need it, so I don't put myself in a position of encouraging it from others.

 

km34, I enjoy your posts and usually agree, but I can not agree with this one. Of course everyone has their preferences and you are certainly entitled to yours. But let me point out why I, as a man, disagree. You state you have no problem if the guy needs to. Well the problem with that is unless a guy always suffers from ED he will not know in advance whether he will not be able to get it up. Carrying it in your pocket to pop in case you do, does not work, because it takes from 1 to 3 hours to kick in. So following your preference, we meet, we agree to play, and then I can't get it up for who knows what reason. You say OK take your pill, I do and then we wait for 3 hours before we can play. You may be willing, but I don't know a play partner who wants to wait that long. They might tell me to check back later and see if they are still interested. In short what you suggest a guy should do is just not practical. Now as to side effects. First of all a guy should only get them by prescription from a Doctor who has examined him and is familiar with his medical history. That should significantly reduce any of the bad side effects (like not being able to take nitro when having a heart attack.) The other side effects - flushing and headache are not that serious and if a guy is willing to tolerate the discomfort than it is no problem. In fact, your suggestion that vitamin supplements are OK, may actually be more dangerous. Remember most of the so call "supplements" have not been FDA tested nor are the manufacturing facilities regulated. In short with those you never know what you are actually taking and their interaction with other substances are not known. In summery , as long as the use is medically approved then as a guy I would say go for it.

[km34 672]

km34, I enjoy your posts and usually agree, but I can not agree with this one. Of course everyone has their preferences and you are certainly entitled to yours. But let me point out why I, as a man, disagree. You state you have no problem if the guy needs to. Well the problem with that is unless a guy always suffers from ED he will not know in advance whether he will not be able to get it up. Carrying it in your pocket to pop in case you do, does not work, because it takes from 1 to 3 hours to kick in. So following your preference, we meet, we agree to play, and then I can't get it up for who knows what reason. You say OK take your pill, I do and then we wait for 3 hours before we can play. You may be willing, but I don't know a play partner who wants to wait that long. They might tell me to check back later and see if they are still interested. In short what you suggest a guy should do is just not practical. Now as to side effects. First of all a guy should only get them by prescription from a Doctor who has examined him and is familiar with his medical history. That should significantly reduce any of the bad side effects (like not being able to take nitro when having a heart attack.) The other side effects - flushing and headache are not that serious and if a guy is willing to tolerate the discomfort than it is no problem. In fact, your suggestion that vitamin supplements are OK, may actually be more dangerous. Remember most of the so call "supplements" have not been FDA tested nor are the manufacturing facilities regulated. In short with those you never know what you are actually taking and their interaction with other substances are not known. In summery , as long as the use is medically approved then as a guy I would say go for it.

 

You have your preferences, I have mine. I'm one of those people that will eat a garlic clove a couple of times a day, drink herbal tea and tons of water, and rest for a week to see if I can clear an infection naturally before going to the doctor to get a prescription for synthetic antibiotics - I just don't like man-made drugs unless they're necessary.

[Guest AZfunloving]

JM153...FYI Cialis kicks in after only 30 minutes (and I can attest to that!). Am sure we *all* can find something to keep us otherwise occupied for 30 minutes!

[junglecouple 127]

This is hilarious!! While it's not quite an argument, it's bordering there, on a "personal preferences" discussion. "I like xyz".. "NO you don't".. pfft

KM. as for you.. you'd never know if or when the gentleman took any meds unless he told you. So to disapprove makes no sense.

[tallicafan 41]

You have your preferences, I have mine. I'm one of those people that will eat a garlic clove a couple of times a day, drink herbal tea and tons of water, and rest for a week to see if I can clear an infection naturally before going to the doctor to get a prescription for synthetic antibiotics - I just don't like man-made drugs unless they're necessary.

 

I also enjoy your posts and have even checked out your sls profile for fun....We are practically neighbors too. Anyway, I'm in my early 40's, not my 20's like you guys. I also suffer wicked anxiety and never know when it will kick in when it comes to playtime. I will use 1/2 of a 100mg Viagra before the outing to ensure success. I can go longer and not have to worry about embarrassing myself. For some reason it also gives me some nice morning wood the day after. And yes...I did go tho the DR. and did it the legit way. Cheers!

[mauijanedoe 1,414]

I actually have been able to tell when male partners have used some variety of little pill, at least some of the time, because of some post-orgasmic rigidity. I don't have an opinion one way or another, although I generally avoid western medicine, because it's not my body. However, I do have an aesthetic preference for cock rings, which I think are quite lovely, so I've handed out a good few in my time.

[tallicafan 41]

I've never tried the cock ring route. I might give that a go as well! Normally I function quite normally. I have had several occasions where I am with a beautiful woman and I get all psyched out. Sucks big time... They feel like I don't find them attractive or I'm not into them when the opposite is true. I remember our first experience....The lady was gorgeous!! I could barley get there. I don't have any jealousy issues or anything, just anxiety in general. Thats why i met with my Dr. and got a scrip.

[NWAtlSwing 522]

You know I have to say that a woman coming out against a man using the drug is weird. Women don't have to get it up. It is a whole different game for guys. It is not like we can rub on a bit of lube if we are dry and be fine. I think you are way, way under rating the possible effects of performance anxiety. Women have NO idea about that at all. Heck, even as swingers, me are the one's risking rejection far more than the women.

[km34 672]

I have no problem with the use in general, I just prefer not to associate with people who use drugs for fun. Cialis, Viagra, etc ARE drugs. Using them is great when you need to, but I don't see the point of doing it just because.

 

If you've had cases of anxiety that have caused you to struggle to maintain an erection , then you have the need, so I have no problem with you using it.

 

One of our past regular play partners occasionally had ED when he got nervous, so he used Cialis when he knew he'd be in a triggering situation (a larger group or club in his case - he was fine when it was just he and his wife with one other couple) and I had no issues with it at all since he actually needed it. If the only reason he had taken it was to last longer, I would have had an issue with it.

 

I've had a couple of borderline unpleasant experiences with men who've decided they needed to take enhancement drugs without cause, so I avoid men who are open about it now. My preference has nothing to do with the choices you make for yourself, and like I said - a history of ED = a reason to take it so I'm not taking issue at all with anyone who uses a pill to avoid repeat occurrences.

[TheRedHalf 81]

If the only reason he had taken it was to last longer, I would have had an issue with it.

 

Lasting longer is a requirement for men in the lifestyle. We have two choices, put off orgasm until the end (Risk of losing the erection the longer you play) or be capable of recovering quickly in between orgasms. Some of us can't dribble the orgasms like a basketball and may need a little extra help. I've never used anything but I've recently looked into it after a trip to Naughty in N'awlins and 4 LONG nights of nonstop fun. I have until April to come up with a plan for the cruise.

 

I've never been a fan of medications and I'm one of those people that double check the pills when I get them and spend hours researching the side effects trying to find a reason not to take them. I don't think I would turn someone away because they use one of these medications. That's kind of like turning someone down for taking vitamins when they could just eat their vegetables.

 

We men deserve multiple orgasms too you know.

[km34 672]

We men deserve multiple orgasms too you know.

 

This made me smile...

 

One of my favorite swinging memories is when the guy I was with had an orgasm without ejaculating, just a few minutes after having his first orgasm of the encounter - he'd never experienced it before and it made my day. It was kind of like being with a woman the first time she's ever squirted. Evoking an "I didn't know I could do that!" moment is awesome.

[Playful1 434]

most of the men i know/have played with use it. I dont care, as I know full well they dont make someone get an erection if they are not aroused.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I understand that it is an incredible ego boost for some women to know that they made a man horny enough for them that they got hard. It is a bonus when they can make a man have an orgasm. The opposite is also true. It can be devastating to a woman's confidence if she has an experience with a man who can't get it up. I see nothing wrong with taking Viagra or whatever. A woman should take advantage of a man who can be hard for hours. We do it to please you ladies! It's not that you are not sexy enough that we wouldn't be able to get it hard for you without it.

[Guest AZfunloving]

I understand that it is an incredible ego boost for some women to know that they made a man horny enough for them that they got hard. It is a bonus when they can make a man have an orgasm. The opposite is also true. It can be devastating to a woman's confidence if she has an experience with a man who can't get it up. I see nothing wrong with taking Viagra or whatever. A woman should take advantage of a man who can be hard for hours. We do it to please you ladies! It's not that you are not sexy enough that we wouldn't be able to get it hard for you without it.

 

Amen!! Well said!!!!#

[sunbuckus 3,567]

I understand that it is an incredible ego boost for some women to know that they made a man horny enough for them that they got hard. It is a bonus when they can make a man have an orgasm. The opposite is also true. It can be devastating to a woman's confidence if she has an experience with a man who can't get it up. I see nothing wrong with taking Viagra or whatever. A woman should take advantage of a man who can be hard for hours. We do it to please you ladies! It's not that you are not sexy enough that we wouldn't be able to get it hard for you without it.

 

Thank you for posting this. Personally, I love making a man aroused and knowing that I either gave him a great orgasm or made him come to conclusion earlier than he wanted. However, I played with a husband twice who was very eager to play with me and was really attracted to me but he seemed to always have trouble getting aroused. I don't know if this was normal for him or not but I did have doubts about myself afterwards. And I am sure it doesn't help the male either when he has this kind of trouble. Mr. Sunbuckus takes half a pill whenever we go out "just in case" so this doesn't happen to him...although, he did forget the last time and lo, and behold, there was some trouble below due to fatigue.

[tallicafan 41]

My scrip for Viagra ran out last week. I haven't been to the doctor yet as I have a new one. A LS friend of mine gave me a small pack of Filagra. Supposed to be a generic of the real deal made in India. I was VERY skeptical, but in a pinch I tried a half of a 100 mg tablet. Wow! Worked just like the real deal. He said he paid around 3 bucks a pill for them. They looked like the name brand and were the same color, shape..etc. They were packaged in a blister pack and looked legit, so I took a chance. Again...great results. I am looking to order some myself. I'm sick of paying $21.00 a pill at Costco!!

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . I'm sick of paying $21.00 a pill at Costco!!

You're making me feel fortunate for the group medical plan that I have. I pay $3.25 per pill for the real Viagra.

[angelkin 1,326]

Just a girl asking this question...but does anyone ever think that the pills are mind-over-matter and having some sort of placebo effect?

 

Hubby swears by watermelon, eats it whenever we plan a get-together...but, if it works, more power to him.

[TheRedHalf 81]

Just a girl asking this question...but does anyone ever think that the pills are mind-over-matter and having some sort of placebo effect?

 

I think it's both Angel. I know some people who have it as a back up and they claim it helps just knowing it's there. I've also met people who take it and keep going and going and going like the annoying little bunny.

 

I say to myself all the time, "Be the bunny, be the bunny!"

[angelkin 1,326]

I say to myself all the time, "Be the bunny, be the bunny!"

 

That's funny right there!

[IVcents 115]

Guys you should be aware of the latest e-bay scam. I sent for a penis enhancer and received a magnifying glass. Instructions said it should not be used in direct sunlight.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

? . . . I sent for a penis enhancer . . . .

Yes, but did it work?

[TheRedHalf 81]

Guys you should be aware of the latest e-bay scam. I sent for a penis enhancer and received a magnifying glass. Instructions said it should not be used in direct sunlight.

 

This is too funny.

 

The directions were confusing. It was a bit awkward at first but once we turned it around it worked great.

[Guest freeflyer200]

I recently had to start using ED drugs. Several months ago I began to have a bit of trouble and got the script but did not fill it because it's expensive. First I tried Cialis but due to the cost switched to Levitra. Interestingly, I had better luck with Levitra and the cost was $10 per pill at Walmart. I get the 20 mg and cut them in half to get a ten mg dose which ends up $5 a dose! Cool that! I found that Levitra enhances the experience beyond just giving me a wonder erection. I can perform intercourse as long as I want and it's a hightened experience with great orgasms. After two bad experiences of a failure to stay erect, I embraced the ED drugs with a smile.

I can't say loud enough that even if you don't have ED, the drugs will enhance your experience. Now we can take our time and I can extend the foreplay which my wife now appreciates. It's a win win all round. As for Cialis, I had a mixed result. The first time was perfect but the last couple not so perfect. Levitra works best for me.

[TRex 72]

Im 25 years old. Dont really have any ED issues except for "stage fright" that only happened one time. but honestly i look at them as insurance. but man the headaches can be wicked though. I use xen 1000 and knight rider

[let's do it again 414]

On 8/27/2012 at 12:13 AM, 2fitfunsters said:

Hubby uses Viagra when we play for hours. I use it too! Great for women as well! Definitely makes him rock hard and even bigger. For me it gives me extra sensitivity and swells me up down there. We already have crazy fuck sessions and adding that, well, lookout, we go past the four hour mark!

Good for you, I thought me and my SO were about the only couple who share viagra. I have to agree that it swells the clit and easier to orgasm. I am surprised more women don't use viagra,  we have shared viagra for years.