Are There Any Mormon or Christian Swingers Out There?

[FunMormon 15]

Greetings. We are Christian couple in our 40's with intriguing base for swinging opportunities with like-minded couple or individuals who also came from Mormon or Christian backgrounds. Together we've been married for 20 years. We have a solid rock relationship. We've always enjoyed sex together so we're not thinking about swinging because we are bored. No. The reason we're exploring this option is to seek additional pleasures and adventures. Together we have beautiful and wonderful children who are about ready to turn into fine adults. It won't be long before they fly out of our coop. We thought we'd go out and explore the field with like-minded Mormons or Christians and see what we might discover. Physical Cleaniness and class are the goals here. Not interested in liquors, druggists, smokers, tattoo and pierced people. Don't waste your time contacting us because we won't be interested in those things. We are extremely fun people. We love the outdoors and we travel extensively, for pleasure and business, covering United States and Canada. We love meeting people too, not to mention hosting guests at our places. We're so into camping and adventures.

 

We are country people. We grew up in the country. We love horses. We've done numerous ranch work in the west. We're into ranching and farming. Therefore we enjoy the peace and calm of a country setting. City life does not appeal to us even though we do travel to cities from time to time for business and pleasure.

 

We believe in respecting other people's marriages. We have no interest in people who are going through rocky marriages. We're looking for solid couples who are looking for the same kind of fun, without worrying about being possessive, greedy or jealous. We have no time or room for this kind of behavior. We're open to the idea of threesome if you are single but we'd much rather have a couple to work with.

 

Wife has huge sex drive. She has always loved sex. In short, she enjoy sex to its maximum. She loves men and always thought she'd work at the brothel if she lived in the late 1800's. She is very shy but yet open minded. She's always willing to try something new, as in experimenting. Once she gets to know a person she will open up in an amazing way. She's a very loyal partner but very adaptive to her environment. She is also an excellent cook and house maker. She is curious about having sex with two men at the same time. It's one reason we decided to try swinging. Her favorite sex activity is oral sex. It drives her up the wall. Many men found her to be attractive and beautiful. But she never crossed the line. She didn't believe in cheating. She wants her husband to tag along into her fantasy lane.

 

Husband also has a huge sex drive. Wife calls him stud. He enjoyes sex to its maximum too. He loves women and enjoys sex. He has a great sense of humor and is candor about a lot of things. He is gentle and intelligent. He's a successful business man and travels often. He loves his wife and his children, as if they were the whole world to him. He's a really great father to his children. He had a lot of experience with women before we married each other so naturally he taught his wife everything she knew about relationship, love and sex. He is not that curious about having two women for himself as he is curious about having two men for his wife. He says his pleasures with two women can come later. He's not in any rush with his own fantasies. He wants to treat his wife with something special first and then if other things were meant to happen afterwards then it'll happen. He's not the pushy type. He's mellow and laid back about things.

 

Mind you, we've never swung before. We've never done it with anybody so we're completely new in this field. It does not mean we're unprepared. We've covered this subject for more than ten years. We've done plenty of research on the subject. We felt very confident about it. We know that we have what it takes to take to be a successful swinger. We know exactly what we want. We're curious about other Mormon and/or Christian swingers' experiences. We want to learn what they've learned. We're not going to rush ourselves into somebody's bed with somebody's wife or husband. We don't mind if it happens but we won't mind if it was only to chat and visit. We don't mind if we end up being under a bed sheet with a new friend. We're easy going and extremely flexible... but again we're in no rush to do anything. We're already content and happy with each other even if we never cross the line and swing. We're only doing this for safe and clean "naughty" fun.

 

Thank you for listening.

FunMormons (For clean wild & hot & fun time!)

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Welcome FunMormon. I am glad you've joined and I welcome you to Swingersboard.

 

You have made a very nice introduction; appreciate that. But your introductory message also reads very much like a personal advertisement. The board does have a forum that is reserved for personal advertisements so I'll encourage to have a look there. But I should tell you that Swingersboard is not fundamentally designed or intended for helping people to hookup. It is the best place in the World for finding information about swing lifestyle. So, since you have brought up an interesting subject, yes, there are several members here who are LDS. I imagine they will come in on the discussion.

[angelkin 1,326]

Welcome to the forum, glad you've found your way here. This is the most informative site I've found for learning about swinging - I hope you find it as interesting and open as I do.

[FunMormon 15]

Thank you Michael for explaining some things to us. We didn't know so we apologize for the misuse if it was interpreted that way. It was not intentional. We were given this link and told to introduce ourselves. I thought it was up to us on how we wanted to introduce ourselves... didn't mean to spill too much into our introduction. My apologies. Thank you for letting us know about the forum. Will check it out as we're still learning our way around this site. Thank you again for taking the time to let us know. Really appreciate it.

[FunMormon 15]

Angelkin, thank you for the greeting. We hope to learn from experienced swingers and I'm sure we will. Appreciate the time you shared.

[sunbuckus 3,567]

Welcome to the forum! The SwingersBoard is a great place to voice your concerns, ask for advice, and joke around with those who are like-minded. Continue to explore and you will find a few ways to find other couples in your area.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Glad to have you here with us!

 

There are several threads here on swinging and religion that a search using the key words "religion" should find for you. Looking forward to seeing you in the forums!

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . My apologies. Thank you for letting us know about the forum. .

 

Please don't misunderstand. No toes were tread upon and I should not have made it sound like a scold. My hope was that you were not steering toward a disappointment.

 

Again, welcome.

[BiloxiCouple 695]

I was raised Mormon. Since I am not active, it's not a problem. Ask away!

[cupl4fun 361]

We used to be very Christian. I was even a pastor for 13 years. We wouldn't really claim to be "Christian" anymore, but would be more than willing to answer any questions you both might have. Best of luck to you, and Welcome to the Swingersboard!

[Alura 2,774]

Mother Earth and Father Sky are my deities, but I have some very fond memories of a Mormon lady in Salt Lake City!

[FunMormon 15]

Thanks Cplnuswing. Will check into it.

[FunMormon 15]

Cupl4fun, thank you. Will learn my way around in this forum and contact you.

[FunMormon 15]

Thank you too BiloxiCouple, will add you to the contact list. We're excited already knowing that we're not alone. ; )

[FunMormon 15]

Thanks again SW Pa Couple. Like we said in our introduction post we won't be disappointed if nothing happens because we already have a great sex life together. Just looking for extra fun. Nothing more. Appreciate your help.

[grayfox42104 38]

Greetings Funmorman,

We are also Christians and swingers. In my opinion, yours, mine, and everyone's relationship with God is one on one only and all have sinned and come short of the Glory of God. I have guilt twinges at time, but I deal with them because I do not feel that we are really doing anything wrong as long the wife and I do not cheat on each other. The biggest problems we have had is letting people know about our being Christians and them judging us and having a problem with it and it seems that former Christians are the worst at judging us. We just do not broadcast our religious feelings but never deny it if asked. Live and let live and have lots of fun.

[KMCouple 156]

Despite at the time of this writing, my girlfriend and I have not actually "swung" yet.....

 

Both of us have a very profound belief in the Christian God. And we have engaged in a threesome before together, and each of us individually has had a few activities involving multiple partners before our current relationship. I do not believe that they are against any true Christian beliefs. Though I do have a little bit of Buddhism sprinkled in my beliefs: as it pertains to this conversation "Do not indulge in sexual misconduct". Many take this to mean that your should refrain from sexual conduct that is harmful to yourself on another. In the case of swinging, if all are willing, able, and happy, there is no violation.

 

Of course, there is the commandment about adultery. But, and admittedly this is my own opinion, if a husband was allowed to have more than one wife, then obviously the definition of adultery does not include having relations with someone besides a singular wife. So I have always taken this to mean "Do not engage in sexual behavior that is against your spouses wishes."

[LFM2 1,482]

Welcome to the Board!! Looking forward to many more posts from you two! If you have questions or comments, we'd love to hear.

[D&D 362]

Welcome!

 

We both grew up Morman in northern UT. I went on a mission... Neither of us are believers anymore, so not too sure that we would be very helpfull in answering your concerns regarding Mormanisn and swinging. In anycase I dont think religion is that much of a deterrent: in the short time weve been doing this we've swung with people who were southern Baptist, Episcopalean, Catholic, Jewish, athiest, agnostic, and with couples who were a mix of religions. I think in the real world, sex to too complicated, our individual needs to varied, to be captured under a set of beliefs or rules that is general across many individuals.

[Guest coupleinca]

Hi FunMormons

 

I was curious about your post. We (my husband and I) have swung before. We are members of the church. Wondering if both can happen in life. Would to to chat some time...

[Ibrew 29]

In my opinion, living 3 different lives might be too complicated. With a mormon background I could see that people were living 2 lives. The every day to day life (family, work, and other) and then the religious side. Cognitive dissonance rules this separation, more simply the reality of life and the perception of religious views. Now a third aspect is going to be added.

 

Lying will have to be incorporated into this new lifestyle. The couple will have be on the same lie at all times. "What did the two of you do saturday night?"; one cannot be saying movies and the other saying dancing. "oh what movie" "oh where do you go to dance?" The Mormon culture is a total rumor mill, because the constant interactions between members. You think fantasy football sucks up time?

 

Interviews between members and leaders can at times be very invasive into private lives; especially with questions like "do you only have sexual relations with your spouse". What if one of the couple buckles under that question? Would the couple be ready to be ostracized by the congregation? Is the husband ready for his wife to be encouraged to divorce him? Furthermore, would the couple be prepared to be ostracized by their families?

 

Swinging requires complete honesty between the couple, self, and the people you swing with. Lying is not a part of this lifestyle.

 

I don't feel that swinging and my day to day life conflict, it is only a side of my life that I don't let everyone know about. It also does not create a cognitive dissonance. It actually helps me find out who I am and gain a little self esteem. "Wow, others do find me attractive" well maybe more of massaging my ego. If our families found out, we could care less of their opinions. If someone starts asking me intimate details of my life, I can tell them aggressively "none of your (insert expletive) business!"

 

I truly do not want this to come out as flaming the OP, but serious questions and serious discussions need to be worked out by any couple who decides to engage in this new life together, regardless of ethos.

[Guest thewriter]

We are Christians with swinging you are not having sex behind your spouses back you both know what the other one is doing. The Bible talks about adultery well that is cheating we all know cheating is wrong. Where swinging you both know what the other one is doding as you are most likley watching each other. So if you both know what the othe one is doing because you are watching them I see no conflict.

[dd92392 15]

Hi FunMormons,

 

We are Mormons and swing too... We believe our sex life is private and no ones business. Since we started swinging we have become so very close in our marriage. We talk about everything and don't keep anything from each other. We are a middle aged couple. If you have questions let us know. We are looking for people like us.

[interested-05 135]

Fun mormon, glad to have you on board. My wife and I are from christian backgrounds. currently we may not be attending church, but that has more to do with our lifestyle than it has to losing or rejecting religion, as some may feel for themselves. WE choose not to attend more along the lines of not wanting to embarrass the church as a whole. Since Christianity has the sometimes self imposed stereotype of being against sex, and people simply don't understand.

Simply put, , looking at the old testament saints, DAvid, Abraham, Solomon for starters, It would be tough to describe them as being monogamous in any sense of the word. Arguments could be made scripture requires it, but just on these three examples that are held up as examples of Men who sought after God, He did not cast them into damnation for their Lapses, as many modern day theologians might require. I could go on, but you get the point. In the end, it really isn't what I think, the preacher thinks or the atheist thinks that matters. When our lives are done, He who knows the hearts of all men will clear up the misunderstandings.

Country people, horses, getting out of town and away from prying neighbors, Its a great life. Too bad we have to live near NYC. Enjoy it with your loving wife and make the most of it. Choose your swing friends wisely.

[Ibrew 29]

Ok, I have to ask do garments stay home when Mormons swing?

[dd92392 15]

The g's stay at home.. unless we were to find an active LDS couple who wear them and then I don't see the need to leave them home. just speaking for us

[BiloxiCouple 695]

Mormons who wear garments wouldn't be swinging and keeping active with the reason they wear them. They would be totally inactive and not wearing garments at all.

[angelkin 1,326]

Mormons who wear garments wouldn't be swinging and keeping active with the reason they wear them. They would be totally inactive and not wearing garments at all.

 

I have to admit, I had to Google Mormon garments... I had no idea! A very interesting practice indeed.