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My wife and I were invited to a fondue party by a couple that have an open relationship. We met them once through another couple at a regular bar. Question is what are the chances of this being a swing party? Do people still disguise swing parties for something else? Or are we worried for nothing? My wife and I have never swung but she does like women. We are not into swinging but are willing to play in other ways. We haven't even soft played before. No matter what my wife says she is trimming down below :facelick: and I said same here. She replied that we both should. lol Yikes.

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Don't be surprised if when you arrive it's just a fondue party.

 

And that would fine as well. Our intension is to go to continue on making new friends. But then we got to thinking lol. Perhaps too much.

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And that would fine as well. Our intension is to go to continue on making new friends. But then we got to thinking lol. Perhaps too much.

 

Seriously, my impression was that you were asking whether or not fondue party is a euphemism for sex party. Tell me if I have guessed wrong. If that was you question, I can say that none of our lifestyle friends have even spoken of any fondue parties.

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The research I found was back in the 70's it was a code word or could be a code for swing party. That is why I'm asking. To see if this still exists.

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I suspect it's just cheese, fruit and wine. If they are adventurous.....it might include hot oil and steak! :facelick:

 

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In the 70's, there were also a lot of fondue parties that just included fondue and I'm guessing that's just as true now. If there's any hidden agenda, though, you'll know soon enough and you can always politely decline.

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... and you can always politely decline.

 

Or not ::P:

 

Seriously, OP...I think you have a valid concern. Sounds like you are excited at the prospect though (trimming and all) - go to the party and enjoy the company and if it's just fondue, that will be fun too. One of the best things about swingers or those in an open relationship is you can enjoy the company of people who share your views on adult fun without sleeping with them :)

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Or who :) (a l/s couple we know have wine and people tasting parties)

 

That's creative! I like it!

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I was watching an episode of Two and a Half Men tonight (with Charlie Sheen). Charlie's mom had interrupted his fun with a girl saying you can't. Long story short was that the girl may have been his half sister due to some swinging his parents did in the 70's..... but the line that caught my attention "It started with a weekly fondue party, but one night the dipping didn't stop at cheese."

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Go to the fondue party and enjoy the cheese if there is no swap for sex between couples! Let us know what you found (ue) out. Lol.

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We think you need to look for additional signs. If there are some white rocks in the yard (this may not be a factor if it is snowing), some flamingoes, and a flag with a pineapple on it (did we miss anything...something about sawgrass?), we think this could be a swingers party under the guise of fondue. Take precautions...trim well!

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Sounds as if you are enjoying the anticipation of not knowing for sure. I say, go with an open mind. If it's just for fondue, no harm, no foul. You can always have fun later talking about how excited you both were and who and what turns you on the most. Since you are both trimmed, dressed up to party, and thinking sexual thoughts, then make sure you make use of the time together.

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I was watching an episode of Two and a Half Men tonight (with Charlie Sheen). Charlie's mom had interrupted his fun with a girl saying you can't. Long story short was that the girl may have been his half sister due to some swinging his parents did in the 70's..... but the line that caught my attention "It started with a weekly fondue party, but one night the dipping didn't stop at cheese."

 

I've seen that one. Charlie's mother makes me laugh anyway.

 

I've not heard of a fondue party to mean anything other than cheese, chocolate, wine & fruit.

 

When you go to this party, come back and let us know what kind of party it really was!

 

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Well unfortunately the party was canceled due to the bad weather. "SNOW" Gotta love the north. lol So until further notice. Sorry guys.

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OK.... I'm dying to know. Was it fondue? Or FONDUE?

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Decided. Our next couples sex party is called fondue party. We provide the wine, you bring the pussies. No complaints accepted if it does not taste great.

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