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I think there are a lot more husbands into watching their wives than you'd think, and it doesn't necessarily have to be the extreme "cuckold" type situation, although there are probably plenty of people into that as well. If you look around the "Net at all the wife-sharing and similar themed porn sites it tells me there are a lot of people who, although they might never act on it, find it a turn on.

 

As a single guy who has been involved with couples who share this interest, I think you just need to find the right guy. Although I have a great time with the ladies involved, I know that there are boundaries, and anyone you get involved with should know and understand that. I'm happy with making some sexy friends and can leave it at that. As long as you can screen for someone with a brain that is not going to try and see your wife alone, or fall in "love" just because they had some good sex, or do something else to make things miserable, then I'd say go for it.

 

There are plenty of single men around, you just need to pick the right one who you can communicate with to really know if they get the lifestyle or not.

 

Yeah, I am realizing this must be a pretty common fantasy like you say, even though maybe a lot of people don't go all the way with the fantasy. I think some couples have fun with having the wife dress super sexy or provocative and then going out to the bars and "get off" on watching how many different guys are checking the wife out...just my opinion.

 

Yeah you are right. I was one of those single guys for awhile, looking to meet a couple and be the 2nd guy, but I knew I would have to respect any boundaries the couple had if I were to do it. So I know there are respectful guys out there that would understand and be totally willing to accommodate a couple with this fantasy! I never actually did this when I was single but I came close a couple of times with a couple or different married couples, the last one we were about to meet up and the next week I met my current wife, so I cut it off with them out of respect for my new found awesome girlfriend! :)

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100% agreed it's not necessarily I don't think Gordo was correct.

 

Not to belabour the point but that is where I got the definition from originally. I had never heard of either Candaulism or compersion before and read both at wikipedia. I guess I regard involuntary exposures as force as well.

 

I also note the reference to swinging as "forcing" the female to have sex.

 

forcing a female partner to engage in sexual relations with a third person, such as during a swinging activity.

Somebody with a more balanced state of mind needs to rewrite that one.

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I understand why you are obsessed, it is THE most erotic experience that you will ever have.

Watching someone that you love completely lost in sexual pleasure is sooo beautiful.

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I think it's very erotic indeed. Depends of course a lot on which guy you are sharing your someone you love"

 

I'm the fem half of a couple....my husband loves to watch me fuck other men. He says the visual of watching me on a cock is incredibly hot to him. He's not a cuckold, no humiliation for him, he just loves to sit back, enjoy the views, and watch me enjoying myself. (I haven't done a gangbang yet...want to, but the logistics seem complicated). For me, fucking another man is double fun---I get to enjoy being with a different attractive man and tease the hell out of my man!

 

What else do you want to know?

 

Thanks a lot for sharing that. So hot. I feel like your husband he's a lucky man. Does he joins you and the guy(s) later? Does he masturbate, what does he do?

 

I think there are a lot more husbands into watching their wives than you'd think, and it doesn't necessarily have to be the extreme "cuckold" type situation, although there are probably plenty of people into that as well. If you look around the "Net at all the wife-sharing and similar themed porn sites it tells me there are a lot of people who, although they might never act on it, find it a turn on.

As a single guy who has been involved with couples who share this interest, I think you just need to find the right guy. Although I have a great time with the ladies involved, I know that there are boundaries, and anyone you get involved with should know and understand that. I'm happy with making some sexy friends and can leave it at that. As long as you can screen for someone with a brain that is not going to try and see your wife alone, or fall in "love" just because they had some good sex, or do something else to make things miserable, then I'd say go for it.

There are plenty of single men around, you just need to pick the right one who you can communicate with to really know if they get the lifestyle or not.

 

you sound like the guy we'd like to meet. somehow even with so many single guys it's still hard for us to find the good ones. specially cause it's Victoria first time doing that.

 

The only way I think I would get jealous is if I thought I could possibly lose her to the other person, like they started becoming really good friends or something like that.

 

I think too it is the only scary idea for me. but if you have any doubt in your partnernone shall do experiment that kind of stuff.

 

Somebody with a more balanced state of mind needs to rewrite that one.

 

I would love to find a more clear definition of the term too. I didn't get my definition from Wikipedia only but from many different sources and made an "average".

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My fantasy is to see my wife sucking a nice hard dick, then sticking it in my mouth and slowly jacking him off. Next he sticks that hard wet cock in her pussy and as he pumps her I am there licking her clit and his cock. Next I want her to pull him out and he stick that meat stick in my ass and I look at her as she is watching me get pounded. Finally I want her to jack him off into my mouth and load me up with hot sticky jizz!!! Thats my fantasy! :facelick:

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I have a huge fantasy to let me wife have sex with other people, men or women. I'm not a possessive kind of guy and I can see the potential my wife has sexually. She can squirt and is multi orgasmic. I would love to see her take a BBC or just other guys in general. She had some experiences with another girl as a kid, and I'm sure she would enjoy playing with another woman now too, if she could break down some inhibitions and stretch herself just a bit.

 

My ultimate fantasy is to watch another guy take her hard from behind, making her climax all over him several times. This could be a threesome or even a couple swap experience. I think it would be really amazing. My wife looks good, a woman with a good body and lots of sexual potential should be shared! Sharing is caring :-)

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this concept (her with another guy), and her eventual acceptance of that, is what got us started in Hotwifing. when it's good, it sure is hot! watching & hearing (and joining in), is very hot!!! :D

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How many of you guys have actually experienced it?

My wife plays with other men in fact she is at a fwb house getting fucked as I type this.

One thing I can tell you is even though it's the hottest thing I've ever experienced the reality is hard to handle emotionally.

Now I'm not at all jealous but I've had my moments getting here. It's a massive learning curve, but well worth it. Reclaiming your loved one is the most intense loving sex I've ever experienced. I've still yet to participate with her and her fwb but it's not far away. For her it's been a slow journey and she's not comfortable with involving me other than texting and photos. It'll bring you closer together, just like swinging does, as if you can talk about fucking someone else you can talk about anything!

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There are several theories about why some (in my experience more men have the fantasy than will acknowledge it). You may identify with one, two or all of them.

 

The first is voyeurism. Some men really get-off on watching others have sex. Porn is a great example of this. Some men like to watch their porn live. Watching your wife sleep with another man is watching her have sex from the third person perspective, something you don't get when you are having sex with her. She's already your favorite porn star, watching her with other men is just an extension of that.

 

This brings us to another theory: sperm wars. Men's reptilian brain works in such a way as to make him compete with other men for impregnating a woman. Women who have just had sex can cause greater arousal in men, or more attention from, than a woman who hasn't. Studies have shown that men produce more sperm when watching MFM porn. So it may be your reptilian brain prodding you to "reclaim" your mate or "beat-out" any other guys DNA.

 

Lastly, you may just like to see your wife fully satisfied and well fucked, just laying there like a wobbly little spunk bomb.

 

I know personally I'd feel more aroused when my wife had just had sex with another man. We would have incredible sex after she returned from visiting a playmate, we'd just had a MFM or swapped with another couple. I also liked to see her completely satisfied and worn-out and in that floaty, after sex space where she was barely aware of anything going on around her.

 

That said, I have a good friend that is a true cuckold and gets-off through his wife being fucked by "superior" men and even withholding from him unless her bull says it's okay for her to fuck him. Some men, especially those in positions of power in their everyday life, love the idea of being sexually submissive and inferior to other men in their playtime.

 

So there you go. You may even have other reasons. I hope in the couple years since you started this thread you've realized your fantasy and why it does turn you on so much.

 

LS

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I hope in the couple years since you started this thread you've realized your fantasy and why it does turn you on so much.

 

LS

 

I did! Thank you guys for putting that thread back to life. So many things to say not sure where to start.

 

The fantasy was made to reality and we had few threesomes with my wife and others guys and it was just awesome. All of them and not one bad experience yet. We did took our time picking the right people, making the best settings for the evenings and it was rewarding. I participated and watched her getting fucked at the same time and was more erotic than my imagination. One good example as sometimes reality is even better than the fantasy. I loved it. Probably the fact that my wife was the one enjoying it the most made these experiences somehow hotter.

 

If you have any question please do ask.

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One of the big attractions for me is finding ways of getting my wife stimulated in more places at once than I can actually manage ...

 

One thing I've always wanted is to be able to suck both her tits at once while she rides me .... also to be stroked, groped, brushed, by four hands and two mouths at once while brushing against two guys

 

Her being sandwiched in between two guys - totally desired by two at once and pleasured - all of that - I'd also love to see her go from my cock to a stranger's as she is in the zone ... I'm getting all excited thinking about it - I'd enjoy watching her from a short distance too, but this enhanced stimulation is something I really desire for her (which would get me off too of course!) Is this a common desire with MFM? Most of what I've read here seems to focus on the visual .

 

I'd also be interested to see whether this works for the woman too - or is it just in my head? I've got indications that my wife likes the idea - so maybe it's just the two of us ;) Somehow I think we're not alone ...

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You are definitely NOT alone in the eroticism of the thought..... or deed. I was never the type to fantasize about seeing my wife with someone else of either sex.. well, another woman would be nice. Then over the last few years that attitude has done a 180. Now I set her up for play whenever I get the chance. 1, 2 or more occasionally is something she looks forward to and enjoys discussing the planning with me.. Being able to see her react to so much stimulus, from any position, has been great.. If you two are comfortable with it, I say go for it.. it's been an erotic, fun part of our play for several years and will be for the foreseeable future.

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That's good to hear jungle :):cool: I've often said to her, while we're playing with each other how much I wish I had an extra mouth or hand or cock to give her as much pleasure as possible ... I do my best with what I've got though - which is fun! But I think she could have more ... it's fun just gently exploring the boundaries in our talk while love-making :)

 

"Being able to see her react to so much stimulus, from any position, has been great ..." that's exactly the sort of thing that I hope we can achieve ... will it be any more than talk - who knows? - but the talk and play is HOT!!!

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We were still dating and had never talked about "swinging" but were approached by another couple. She was bi, they wanted to do some type of foursome. I was intimidated because she was bi and that made me nervous. Hubby, then my boyfriend, and I talked about it a lot and we both seemed receptive to swinging but decided to start with MFM, which seemed more in my comfort level, I was quite comfortable with sex and men but not with other women. We had several before we ever moved to other combinations. But, we still do more MFM activity than anything else. Hubby is not at all a cuckold, he is quite active in the entire matter He says he enjoys seeing me dress the part, most of our guys are just regular Joe's we meet in a bar or at a resort, and my whole flirtation routine turns him on as well as the other guy. Knowing that makes me be all the more sexy both in the "pick-up" and then later in bed when I become more of nasty girl, not just for the pleasure of our guest or for my own but because I know it turns hubby on, too. I'm fully ready for MMFM or more.

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We were talking in bed this morning about the idea of having an extra pair of hands to stimulate her and an extra mouth to nibble and suck... When put like that it seems impossible to turn down doesn't it??! She quite liked the idea funnily enough .. At least in the heat of passion...

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We never really fantasized about it or brought it into our love making; just decided to try it after the other couple approached us. After we did a few, it was brought into our love making. For example, when hubby has me two thirds to orgasm, he may spank me and tell me who bad I was on a prior even for flirting but not getting sexual enough or how if so and so is there, I should get him going. That really excites me. I like the spanking part.

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Reading these boards its so interesting the many and varied paths people have taken towards swinging. The exciting part for me is that I have no idea where this might end, I don't quite know exactly what she makes of our "naughty talk" ... It does still feel "naughty" to us both, but I think that turns us both on actually. I know she is taking a full part in our discussions... And it's spicing it up for us both ... Judging from her reactions, which I must admit have surprised me a bit... Fantastic to be surprised in this way.

 

I like the spanking tale too by the way... You guys sound like you have a lot of fun and are proper life partners... With several dishes on the side of course as "amuse bouches" ... ;)

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You are very right about how many guys have the fantasy of having their female lover fucked but so many different path to get there. There is not one fantasy that match another even if they look very similar at first. For instance I love to have sex with my wife when other guys are fucking her too at the same time (same as nakedal describe) but some others would love to only watch. I think any couple that match into what they want to do or experience together is a very lucky couple no matter what is the fantasy and how soft or hardcore it is. There are many men that wish to have their wife with other guys but will never see that to happen. Some are just too shy to tell the wife, ashamed, refusing the idea or did tell the wife and she is very much not into any of that.

 

What I do with my wife and meeting other people together is so hot, so exciting, we are both extremely happy and turned on by it. But none, none of our friends will get that we can't tell anyone it has to remain a big secret. Which is not a problem when you two in one couple share it.

 

I'm so glad I didn't listen to vanilla people saying 'a fantasy shall remain a fantasy'. It is only what they find to excuse themselves for being frustrated by not doing what they wish to do :)

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An interesting point.. That a fantasy should always remain just that... A fantasy... I don't think there's any harm in it remaining as just that.. That might well be enough to spice things up... As it's proving to be with us.. Although not every time for my Mrs... Last night for example, she was not keen to go down that route and to just enjoy each other... I guess that it's going to be important just to keep communicating and to be honest about desires and turn ons, but equally to back off if it becomes clear that she doesn't want them to be taken any further.. Or even if she tires of the fantasy! She's still a hugely sexy lady and fantastic lover.

 

I feel I'm babbling a bit. But some of it is trying to tell myself that if she doesn't want to take things further, then I must be content with just having opened both of our eyes to the possibility and have a few spicy fantasy sessions ... I agree though that if they are mutual fantasies and there's a shared desire to keep taking things one step further, those couples should definitely indulge themselves... I just hope we are one of those couples!!!

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this is just my 2nd post but didnt see the need to start a new thread since its already here. i want to see my wife with another guy but dont know how to go about it. i read about people findng people online, but how do you know that person is std free or not some craiglist killer or something. ive thought about some guy friends but feel that may be weird to bring up to them.

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this is just my 2nd post but didnt see the need to start a new thread since its already here. i want to see my wife with another guy but dont know how to go about it. i read about people findng people online, but how do you know that person is std free or not some craiglist killer or something. ive thought about some guy friends but feel that may be weird to bring up to them.

 

When it comes to meeting people in a relatively safe environment, I'm a fan of swingers clubs. They are a good social venue where you know everyone is there for the more or less the same reason. Depending on where you are in Indiana, I might be able to point you to a couple of places, or at least names of places.

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this is just my 2nd post but didnt see the need to start a new thread since its already here. i want to see my wife with another guy but dont know how to go about it. i read about people findng people online, but how do you know that person is std free or not some craiglist killer or something. ive thought about some guy friends but feel that may be weird to bring up to them.

 

You could go to a swinger club like Lionheart suggested it's a good way avoiding craigilist killers.

 

If you're like us and hate swinger clubs, I would suggest to make an account in a trustful swinger website (not Craiglist) where people can get certified as 'real' (at least for their photos). You can read comments others put on their profile too sometimes and this can help. One thing is that there are less, to our experience, fake people when it's a pay site or free but better feature if you pay. Most people are cheap and won't spend money to make a fake account. Also putting a credit card in a website gives your name in the database etc. I'm not saying there are no fakes that remains! :)

 

When I made that post it was two years ago and we had no experience at all. Today I can say we had only great encounters (except once people not showing up at the date). I believe the fear of diseases has to be taken more seriously and if the guys use condoms and respect few important health rules it's pretty safe. If there were killers, I believe single people have more fear to have than a couple. I think it's scary and we think about really bad scenario because sharing your wife with another man is just a huge taboo, something we can't talk to anyone about (except here :) ). At the end, people are like you they want to have fun and you two to contact them again! Meet them before for a drink or coffee so you can pretty much feel the vibe. Real issue for some couples is jealousy and if you and your lover have good communication there will be no trouble.

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By the way, I think some mod changed the title of the thread...? Good title but it wasn't a question for me from the start. Title was : "Obsessed to see my wife fucked by man or men". Anyway, no big deal ;)

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By the way' date=' I think some mod changed the title of the thread...? Good title but it wasn't a question for me from the start. Title was : "Obsessed to see my wife fucked by man or men". Anyway, no big deal ;)[/quote']

 

A common circumstance, in my experience.

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You can count me in on the fantasy as well. My wife and I have talked about her fucking another guy while I watched and I must admit the more I though about it the more of a turn on it has become. My wife's nerves however, have prevented us from follow through on this fantasy, as she is at a moral dilemma, and has had trouble getting past that. It comes up about every few months, we then start trying to act on it, and she back out, and the whole process starts again.

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I totally get you. That is exactly how I feel about my wife getting fucked as well. The mere idea of cuckholding turns me off as I don't find it appealing to be submissive and yet the idea of my wife being throughly ravished is one of my biggest fantasies. It's all about the wife.

 

I agree the term is widely misused as when one posts of such an occurence there seems to be someone that throws the c flag.

 

As I said I totally get you.

 

Hi everyone. I've being posting few thread on this website and I've got very good and solid answers so far.

 

It started when my wife and I talked about our fantasies and I discovered she had one since years before she even met me and never fulfilled it, never even talked to anyone about it : it's being a bad girl fucked by 2 to 5 guys at the same time. Her lover watching first 1 or few guys having her, the lover getting jealous and exited at the same time, until he can't stand it and has to participate and fucks her like a whore in some kind of punishing action. Then she is fucked like an object in all combination by me and everyone in the room or new guy(s) entering it. Very submissive fantasy.

 

What real from the fantasy I don't know. But this thing as kept growing in my mind and imagination for years until becoming an obsession of finally seeing someone fucking her in front of me and with me. It became a huge turn on since we talked and she told me she would like to try it in real life, even if she is scared that in real life it does not work for her. she can't tell. But she masturbate a lot about this and when we watch a porn it's always the group sex that makes her come right away. We are not going to start with a gangbang as totally newbies we'll do a MMF and see if the fantasy and the reality are matching the excitement ? could it be that it only works in her mind, not in reality ?

 

That's my BIG question today : I read a lot of things about cuckold and I don't feel at all attracted by any of that stuff. I'm a very attractive guy, always been very successful with women, had many and gave them a lot of pleasure, I never had any trouble in bed, I can last too and I've actually quite a big cock (almost to big for my wife). So why I want so much to see my wife fucked ?! Her fantasy drives me crazy I don't know what to do anymore...

My wife is stunning (she is a model) she is for me the most beautiful woman I've ever seen (and probably she is) could it be the wish of living my nightmare 'all these guys trying to get her 20 times a day in the street, at work, anywhere she goes, as soon as I let her 1 minute alone' that becomes a huge turn on ?

 

Help :)

 

Thank you for the honest open curious share.

 

From what I understand, there's a couple different sexual power dynamics in this common fantasy/practice.

1 is the cuckold, beta, submissive, bi-curious maybe, humaliated man thing.

 

2nd is more an alpha male, probably hetero, wanting to make his wife submit to another man who also finds her irresistible. The dynamic is still wife sharing but the other side of the coin. If that makes sense.

 

Its rather common from what it seems, either side of that coin. There's deep wired mating strategies in humans probably influencing this, even if pregnancy isn't part of the attraction?

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Let's see...

 

Starting slow, with a MMF instead of a full on gang bang is probably a good idea. As you say, see how both of you react to the reality as opposed to the fantasy. It is possible that this only works as fantasy.

 

As for your "big question" ... why. I can't tell you what's going on in your head, but I can tell you what goes on in mine. I had exactly the same fantasy. I wanted to see my wife fucked like crazy by a bunch of guys. I wanted to watch and then take her like crazy. We've made that fantasy a reality... lots and lots of times... and it was amazing! We started with an MMF and worked our way up to a gang bang. I've sat back and watched up to a dozen guys taking my wife, singly or in pairs, before fucking her myself... either alone of with another guy. We love it.

 

Why? My wife loves it because she enjoys feeling multiple men touching her, teasing her and fucking her. I love it because I love watching. My wife is so beautiful and sexy I like seeing her body move, seeing the look on her face and hearing the sounds she makes while she is having sex. I feel that I can't fully appreciate all that if I am caught up in my own reactions and sensations, so I love watching her with other guys. Also, I have a dominant side (which complements her submissive side) and I get a rush from saying "here, this is my wife but I'm letting you guys share her... until I say stop and take her for myself." It is actually the opposite of cuckold, which is a submissive fantasy.

 

For me, yeah, there is a strong element of "all these guys want my wife... and now there's having her... but she remains my wife. All these guys can have her, once, but she comes home with me." It's a turn on for us both.

 

Explore your fantasy. I hope you have as much fun with it as we do... and I'll be happy to share anything from our experiences that may help you. Ask whatever you like, here or message me directly. :)

 

Reading that post after years still one of the best ones for us. Thanks Lionheart72.

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There are several theories about why some (in my experience more men have the fantasy than will acknowledge it). You may identify with one, two or all of them.

 

The first is voyeurism. Some men really get-off on watching others have sex. Porn is a great example of this. Some men like to watch their porn live. Watching your wife sleep with another man is watching her have sex from the third person perspective, something you don't get when you are having sex with her. She's already your favorite porn star, watching her with other men is just an extension of that.

 

This brings us to another theory: sperm wars. Men's reptilian brain works in such a way as to make him compete with other men for impregnating a woman. Women who have just had sex can cause greater arousal in men, or more attention from, than a woman who hasn't. Studies have shown that men produce more sperm when watching MFM porn. So it may be your reptilian brain prodding you to "reclaim" your mate or "beat-out" any other guys DNA.

 

Lastly, you may just like to see your wife fully satisfied and well fucked, just laying there like a wobbly little spunk bomb.

 

I know personally I'd feel more aroused when my wife had just had sex with another man. We would have incredible sex after she returned from visiting a playmate, we'd just had a MFM or swapped with another couple. I also liked to see her completely satisfied and worn-out and in that floaty, after sex space where she was barely aware of anything going on around her.

 

That said, I have a good friend that is a true cuckold and gets-off through his wife being fucked by "superior" men and even withholding from him unless her bull says it's okay for her to fuck him. Some men, especially those in positions of power in their everyday life, love the idea of being sexually submissive and inferior to other men in their playtime.

 

So there you go. You may even have other reasons. I hope in the couple years since you started this thread you've realized your fantasy and why it does turn you on so much.

 

LS

*Excellent* breakdown. All true.

 

Additionally, men don't get validation from women. They get it from other men. If other men desire then fuck your gf or wife, they are affirming her - then her man's - value.

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I think it has to do with wanting to know how your wife would be in bed with another guy. Simple as that. You know what she is like... But if you werent around would she be a different woman. I have watched mine... And yes, she sometimes becomes a different person. Was interesting. We have fun with it.

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Reading that post after years still one of the best ones for us. Thanks Lionheart72.

 

Victoria's dreams, I've enjoyed many of your posts and I have a question, in your threesome quest, what has been your rate of FMF/MFM?....et j'espère que tu excuseras mon anglais il n'est pas encore top niveau...lol...

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Victoria's dreams, I've enjoyed many of your posts and I have a question, in your threesome quest, what has been your rate of FMF/MFM?....et j'espère que tu excuseras mon anglais il n'est pas encore top niveau...lol...

 

Thanks a lot glad someone read my posts lol. Also your English is as good as mine :)

 

The ratio in our threesomes quest has been about 1/3 of FMF and 2/3 of MFM. Mostly because is is so easy to find guys online and we have to search girls outside the internet. If we had to do threesomes by numbers of people willing to have one with us it would be 1/40 FMF vs. 39/40 MFM :) and we're both good looking we're not beauty and the beast. Just zillion of horny men out there.

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A lot of great information on here, it helps put things in perspective and I agree with OpenMindedPair's repost.

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Reading that post after years still one of the best ones for us. Thanks Lionheart72.

 

Why thank you and, wow, I didn't realize that was from so long ago. We're still having fun.

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Why thank you and, wow, I didn't realize that was from so long ago. We're still having fun.

 

Thank you because, it was the first time we put it out there; our secret fantasies we can't tell anyone about! A great feeling was to read someone that has similar fantasies, but experienced them, had a lot of fun and still has! It made our way through these experiences easier. A bit like it would be, anxious before to go to an unknown land, knowing someone that did many trips there already and telling you "hey don't worry it's lovely!"

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Victoria Dreams

 

"Why am I obsessed to see my wife fucked by other men? "

 

I don't know why you are but after reading all the posts i have to say Why am I obsessed to see YOUR wife fucked by other men now as well lol

What you described is pretty hot and you two must have a very strong partnership which is the lesson that i will be taking out of this tread.

 

Thanks for sharing

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Victoria Dreams

 

"Why am I obsessed to see my wife fucked by other men? "

 

I don't know why you are but after reading all the posts i have to say Why am I obsessed to see YOUR wife fucked by other men now as well lol

What you described is pretty hot and you two must have a very strong partnership which is the lesson that i will be taking out of this tread.

 

Thanks for sharing

Regards

 

thanks a lot Luvin eye full!

 

I believe one big part of the obsession seeing my wife fucked by other men, is the very string desire men have for her. Like she is so hot they just want her so badly. For instance, after reading your post, I uploaded some photos of her to probably provoke that!

 

Out of the situation if not in control, I could be, very jealous. Let say some hot guy I don't know write to my wife a private message on Facebook, some guy trying to seduce her, I wouldn't enjoy it at all. Same when we have a mfm, I am not comfortable of any guy kissing her on the mouth. Even a guy trying to get into deep conversation with her. But, I am super turned on when a guy is fucking her if I'm there. Are we not complicated as human being? :D

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Thank you @ whtasncpl . It made the most sense and covered the most ground. Not all men desiring this are cuckold, beta, bi, submissive.

 

Speaking only for myself, it comes from the very opposite place of dominance, control, sexual mastery, alpha assertiveness. One of very few friends with anywhere near as much sexual variety and experience, married to a stunning woman, has occassioinally hinted at seeing sharing his girl(s) as a desire. They currently share women, but he's seemed curious about sharing her with men as well, and he's wholly alpha.

 

So the excitement spans personality types and whatnot.

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Victoria Dreams

 

If you keep doing that ( uploading pics ) I'm sure you will provoke a lot of interest from many lol. ( well i had to go and look lol)

 

Many years ago now when i was single i had a mate, he would have his girl in gang bangs MFM FMF and my fav DP.

 

I got invited a lot because i understood that play was play and after it was there time to reconnect ( in fact apart from the bf i was the only other to do her anally )

 

this was because of the trust they had for myself and i respected them - they were a team madly in love and apart from the above activity they were inseparable.

I think that's what i really liked about them they knew what they wanted and how to separate their love making from fun.

 

Though in time we moved on last time i heard from them they were still happy - what i learn from them was that love for each other comes 1st and then play.

 

Good memories lol

 

Keep up the good work!

 

Regards.

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Thank you for the honest open curious share.

 

From what I understand, there's a couple different sexual power dynamics in this common fantasy/practice.

1 is the cuckold, beta, submissive, bi-curious maybe, humaliated man thing.

 

2nd is more an alpha male, probably hetero, wanting to make his wife submit to another man who also finds her irresistible. The dynamic is still wife sharing but the other side of the coin. If that makes sense.

 

Its rather common from what it seems, either side of that coin. There's deep wired mating strategies in humans probably influencing this, even if pregnancy isn't part of the attraction?

 

As someone who is at the stage of finding this scenario incredibly erotic, I realised that neither of these scenarios really describes what attracts me to MFM - for me, the attraction is wanting to have my gorgeous wife experience the thrill of being stimulated by 4 pairs of hands two mouths and having the potential of two cocks to play with all at once ...

 

What I am most interested in is the reactions of her body and face and mouth ... I'd love to see her experiencing pleasure on a new scale ... and also what it would do for her in realising just how desirable she is to other guys ... then knowing she'll be naked with my in my bed EVERY night ...

 

So it's sort of like 2, but there's no power thing in it for me ... more a desire to see her asserting herself sexually in a way I haven't seen so far and experiencing new thrills.

 

Does that make sense? Am I weird?!

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Thank you @ whtasncpl . It made the most sense and covered the most ground. Not all men desiring this are cuckold, beta, bi, submissive.

 

Speaking only for myself, it comes from the very opposite place of dominance, control, sexual mastery, alpha assertiveness. One of very few friends with anywhere near as much sexual variety and experience, married to a stunning woman, has occassioinally hinted at seeing sharing his girl(s) as a desire. They currently share women, but he's seemed curious about sharing her with men as well, and he's wholly alpha.

 

For what it's worth, our first "soft" experience... We were just getting settled into a relationship dynamic, and as the more experienced partner, I was often egging her on to try new things. I've always gotten a kick out of some light dominance, I'd taken on a trainer role and it was great.

 

So we're at this party and I start giving her a hard time about these two guys we'd been having a couple of drinks with, all in fun. It had been a big step to get her to wear something skimpy to begin with, she was obviously having fun on the dance floor, and didn't mind when I lifted up her skirt to show off her ass. When I suggested she should fool around with one of them, I was kidding and figured it was ridiculous - until I wasn't kidding anymore and she was protesting that she wasn't going to fuck anybody and her dress was unzipping. Fantastic testosterone rush to lead a woman into that position and very different dynamic from the cuckold/hotwife pattern. I think it was a sort of pattern where my bad influence gave her license to do things she enjoyed but felt like she wasn't supposed to be doing, so it worked well.

 

Our second experience, more recently, was a little different. No power dynamic that I can think of: we just both wanted to screw around a bunch with mutual acquaintances, and now she's much more open-minded than she used to be. Some of the novelty about getting wild is off, it feels like reproducing some of the taboo would be difficult - some. I can think of a few ideas to challenge her.

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For what it's worth, our first "soft" experience... We were just getting settled into a relationship dynamic, and as the more experienced partner, I was often egging her on to try new things. I've always gotten a kick out of some light dominance, I'd taken on a trainer role and it was great.

 

So we're at this party and I start giving her a hard time about these two guys we'd been having a couple of drinks with, all in fun. It had been a big step to get her to wear something skimpy to begin with, she was obviously having fun on the dance floor, and didn't mind when I lifted up her skirt to show off her ass. When I suggested she should fool around with one of them, I was kidding and figured it was ridiculous - until I wasn't kidding anymore and she was protesting that she wasn't going to fuck anybody and her dress was unzipping. Fantastic testosterone rush to lead a woman into that position and very different dynamic from the cuckold/hotwife pattern. I think it was a sort of pattern where my bad influence gave her license to do things she enjoyed but felt like she wasn't supposed to be doing, so it worked well.

 

Our second experience, more recently, was a little different. No power dynamic that I can think of: we just both wanted to screw around a bunch with mutual acquaintances, and now she's much more open-minded than she used to be. Some of the novelty about getting wild is off, it feels like reproducing some of the taboo would be difficult - some. I can think of a few ideas to challenge her.

 

Interesting!

 

I don't think I could do that to my missus ... lifting her skirt in public unless she had told me or heavily hinted that she would be OK with the idea ... I don't want to frighten her off the idea ...

 

It's been a couple of years though since we first discussed the idea - well it was just after Christmas 2014 ... so am I being too hesitant? I think I'm being considerate ...

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Interesting!

 

I don't think I could do that to my missus ... lifting her skirt in public unless she had told me or heavily hinted that she would be OK with the idea ... I don't want to frighten her off the idea ...

 

It's been a couple of years though since we first discussed the idea - well it was just after Christmas 2014 ... so am I being too hesitant? I think I'm being considerate ...

 

It wasn't totally out of the blue and we were tucked away in a corner. She'd been on the dance floor with one of them and gotten a little handsy already, and the conversation turned to what a nice body she had. We'd had enough to drink that it seemed reasonable to pull back the slit on her skirt and show her off a little more. The conversation just went downhill (uphill?) from there, with her blushing nervously the whole time. She liked the attention and it helped that we were far from home and in costume, and it was like inertia from there to get her into it.

 

As for your timeline, that was nearly ten years ago now, then we got serious and didn't really revisit it for a few years. Then we debated the wisdom of trying it again now that we're serious and experimented with some things - mainly a little light exhibition, flirting while we travel, role playing - to get her thinking, but felt stuck knowing what we wanted to do but unsure if she was really up for it. Then we finally did it this year when an opportunity came up that called her bluff. It went incredibly well. It took a night of soft play before she broke down and accepted that she wanted to try full swap, and we were lucky to go for it with the same couple who had invited us the following night. Now we know we liked it and are trying to decide how to continue with it. The idea of the club scene still overwhelms her a little.

 

"Asserting herself" is definitely still something we're working on.

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I love these stories ...

 

they give hope that even when things are slow, it may not necessarily take something seismic to take a shift ...

 

and your story gives a lot more context ... of course I will always be respectful towards my sexy wife and not push her into anything she doesn't want ... it's just being open to the ambivalence and noting where what may be needed is an encouraging nudge (or not depending on the vibe!) We both know each other pretty well after 30 years together :)

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they give hope that even when things are slow, it may not necessarily take something seismic to take a shift ...

 

I don't know your situation, but I agree. It's been my experience that there's a fine line for the Mrs. between "that sounds really fun, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea" and "fine, let's do it". If someone hadn't invited us, we'd be still debating whether or not we should try it.

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I don't know your situation, but I agree. It's been my experience that there's a fine line for the Mrs. between "that sounds really fun, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea" and "fine, let's do it". If someone hadn't invited us, we'd be still debating whether or not we should try it.

 

So an element of chance and being open to the opportunities whenever they may arise then ... plus keep communicating, although don't keep pushing, pushing, pushing is what I think I have learned from this and other chats ...

Thanks for your thoughts East - very useful :)

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So an element of chance and being open to the opportunities whenever they may arise then ... plus keep communicating, although don't keep pushing, pushing, pushing is what I think I have learned from this and other chats ...

Thanks for your thoughts East - very useful :)

That is definitely a good rule.

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Many years ago now when i was single i had a mate, he would have his girl in gang bangs MFM FMF and my fav DP.

I got invited a lot because i understood that play was play and after it was there time to reconnect ( in fact apart from the bf i was the only other to do her anally )

this was because of the trust they had for myself and i respected them - they were a team madly in love and apart from the above activity they were inseparable.

I think that's what i really liked about them they knew what they wanted and how to separate their love making from fun.

Though in time we moved on last time i heard from them they were still happy - what i learn from them was that love for each other comes 1st and then play.

Good memories lol

I love your story and they seems like good people and we similar to them ;)

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Years are passing by and it seems the pleasure of sharing my wife doesn't get old. Same from her side, she loves it a lot. I still need from time to time a nice FMF and also love it so much. It seems to really working for us as a "threesome" couple.

 

We have rare and poor experience with other couples and we're not as excited by it. Maybe it would change if we find the right couple, right atmosphere. Who knows?

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Years are passing by and it seems the pleasure of sharing my wife doesn't get old. Same from her side, she loves it a lot. I still need from time to time a nice FMF and also love it so much. It seems to really working for us as a "threesome" couple.

 

We have rare and poor experience with other couples and we're not as excited by it. Maybe it would change if we find the right couple, right atmosphere. Who knows?

 

It's good to here that it's working for you guys - and others that have posted - i think the best LR's are the ones where everyone is happy to play and the playing is what both want out of it.

Also you know we will need to see pics of all this action right lol ?

I got to show the wife your pics this time - she thinks you guys are a good lookin couple as well.

 

have fun - be safe.

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      Judy continued working me with her mouth, and I started to respond to her efforts. As I started to swell, she took less and less of me into her mouth. She started stocking me with her hand and mouth. After a short time, she “popped” the head of my cock out of her mouth. “Oh my,” she said as she stroked me with her two hands, “I didn’t expect this.” She gasped, then took the remaining length of my cock beyond her two fists in her mouth. “Dude,” exclaimed Darrell, “do you mind if I take pictures of Judy with that?” I could only nod my head in approval; I didn’t want to break the mood.
       
      Darrell fumbled with his phone and started taking pictures. Judy, with just the tip of me in her mouth, hands-free. And then one of my full length from her chin to her forehead.
      “Damn,” Darrell stated, happily clicking away. Judy used one hand to stroke me while sucking on my balls. Darrell had the sound activated on his phone, and there were times it rapidly stuttered as he excitedly took multiple pictures as Judy skillfully continued the assault on my full erection. She tried to take more of me in her mouth but could only manage about half of me before her gag reflex kicked in, and she loudly gasped, popping me out of her mouth and sucking in a large amount of air while stroking with one, then both hands. Every now and again, she would run her tongue from my balls and under the length of my cock, sinking as much of me as possible into her mouth.
       
      At some point, the shutter noise on Darrell’s phone stopped. I wasn’t sure when, but he continued to move the phone camera around Judy’s head and shoulders, I assume taking video. After several minutes of this, although I’m not very sure of the time, Judy stopped. “Let’s go in the living room.”
       
      I kicked off my sneakers and pants and, with her holding my cock in her hand, led me into their living room to a sectional couch and had me sit on an oversized ottoman. She took a pillow from the couch and knelt on it in front of me. She resumed stroking me. One-handed, two-handed, then into her mouth. Shallow, deep, gagging a bit, then back to stroking. Time drifted away as I was enjoying every moment of her efforts. “Tell her when you are ready to cum so I can get a closeup,” instructed Darrell. Again, no answer from me other than nodding my head.
       
      Judy continued vigorously, trying to get me to cum. She rested occasionally, stroking my length with her two hands. After a bit of time, I heard her ask Darrell, “Can I try this? I really want to try him.”
       
      “Hell yeah,” Darrell exclaimed. “Is that ok with you?” he asked me.
       
      “Sure,” I responded. Judy is still working on me. “Only cum in her mouth,” Darrell instructed. I mumbled an “ok” in agreement.
       
      Judy told me to lay back on the ottoman as she stood stripping off the tee shirt. Her breasts swung freely, jiggling with her every movement. I expected that I would be given a condom or she might roll one on me, but instead, she turned away from me and started to lower herself onto me reverse cowgirl. Seeing my concern, Darrell assured me it would be okay if I was okay with it. I agreed.
       
      My crotch was soaked with Judy’s saliva. I watched with eager anticipation as she positioned herself over me. Darrell was giving her some instruction so he could get his video of her lowering herself onto me. I witnessed a few rivulets trickling down her inner thighs. She grasped my cock with her hand and rubbed the end of it along her lips while slightly lowering herself back and forth but not penetrating. After a few moments, I felt her start to take me in. She gasped and stopped for a moment, then repeated, taking me out, rubbing me back in. God, she felt great.
       
      Judy shifted herself slightly, still holding my cock. She guided me back into her opening, taking just the head of me into her. After a brief pause, she lifted her hips up a little and then backed down a little further. A few strokes and then a little more. Each time she did this, shallowly stroking what she had in her, she would slowly take a little more. With each deeper penetration, her body would gently quiver a bit.
       
      “Damn, this is hot”! Darrell blurted out. If he thought what he saw was hot he should see this from my angle. Damn is right.
       
      I do not think either of us were aware of time. There was no rush, no frenzied groping or pumping. Judy was in complete control as it should be, all about her pleasure, her comfort.
      It wasn’t long before I was completely embedded inside the warmth of this woman. Using her body to stroke me, she would take me shallow, then deep strokes, occasionally stopping, deeply penetrating, and grinding on me, almost like dancing on me with her hips. I could hear her murmuring something from time to time, but I didn’t make out what she was saying. I was too engrossed with what she was doing to me.
       
      After a while, she stood, releasing my cock. She turned, facing me, and straddled my waist. Grasping my cock she guided me into her, and she settled completely on my cock. “Damn babe, do that again,” Darrell, now directing this video. I didn’t care at all; I was thoroughly enjoying myself.
       
      He directed her to rise up almost off me the slowly back down. I was lost in her breasts hanging down on me, her nipples brushing along my chest with her rocking motion. Judy’s breathing was quickening with the occasional moan. I loved stroking her breasts, using both hands to hold and squeeze while my mouth teased and pulled on her nipples. She started to ride me harder for a while, stopping every so often with full penetration, wiggling her hips. Once she started raising herself completely and then slamming herself back onto me, taking full, deep strokes, I started to feel that I was getting there.
       
      “I need you to take me,” mumbled Judy as she raised herself off of me. I stood, and she knelt on the ottoman. I accepted the offer of taking her from behind, but I took my time. Partial and shallow strokes, then slowly pushing in deep.
       
      Gauging that she was comfortable with this, I spread her cheeks apart with my hands, went as deep as possible, and paused. With each deep penetration and pause, she would gasp slightly and pump and grind against me.
       
      I’m not sure who was breathing more excitedly, Judy, me, or Darrell, who was totally lost in videoing and watching through the lens. He had swapped out his phone for a handheld video camera at some point, but I am not sure when. I hadn’t noticed.
       
      Judy set the pace. She started bucking back onto me hard and solid. I took the hint and picked up the pace, slamming back into her with full deep strokes. Her verbal jerky breathless “aaahhhs” and “oohhhs” excited me and Darrell. He was moving around us videoing from various angles commenting as he goes.
       
      Judy announced we had to stop. I was concerned if she was ok. She was; she just wanted to be on her back.
       
      She grasped my hand and, giggling, pulled me quickly down the hall, with Darrell a step behind me, to a bedroom. She sat on the bed and quickly took me into her mouth, running her tongue along my length. She laid back her butt on the edge of the bed, pulling me to her. “Fuck me hard,” she said, “but I want you to cum in my mouth.” I nodded that I understood.
      I position myself between her raised legs. She pulled her legs back and wide open, bent at the knees. I leaned in, pressing myself against her opening, grasping each breast in my hands. Bending to nuzzle and suck on her nipples made me enter her partially, making Judy wriggle a light and let out an audible sigh. I squeezed both breasts together and alternated between each nipple as I started to push deeper inside her. She wiggled her hips, trying to press onto me. Once fully penetrated, she ground herself on me.
       
      After a few minutes, I raised myself above her and started slowly pumping into her. I alternated shallow pumping with a few deep full strokes and, from time to time, pressing deep into her and just grinding against her. It seemed to excite her, judging by her body response and breathy moans. “Fuck me hard,” she said, “take me hard!” Our director shouted the same, “Pound her hard!”
       
      Placing a hand on each thigh to hold her legs open and back, I started a steady thrusting, alternating occasionally slamming against her hard. Judy responded with pleasing moans. She fondled and squeezed her breasts and then gathered them both on her chest, cradled by both her upper arms. Her breasts rocked and waved with each thrust. It was marvelous. I was desperately trying to keep the same pace.
       
      Judy traced her fingers over her lower tummy, bringing both over the top of her pubic mound. Her fingers, finding her sweet spot, started vigorously rubbing above her clitoris. I continued to piston in and out of Judy. Her mouth opened, and her breathing sounded labored.
       
      After a few minutes, she started to make a soft-pitched whimpering noise. I continued to thrust hard into her. Only slightly withdrawing, then slamming back into her, making her whole body jerk, her breasts jolting about with each impact. Her whining noise was getting a bit higher and louder, and then it hit. She suddenly sucked in a big breath of air, her head picked up off the bed, a long guttural moan that ended on a high note. “Aarrggeeeee!” Then, her back arched as she slammed her head back, followed by rapid breathing and intermittent uncontrolled giggling. I felt her contraction, an intense gripping of my cock as she climaxed.
       
      I slowed to a slow, deliberate, full-stroke penetration. I knew I was very close. I declared, “I’m going to cum!” and pulled out of Judy and stepped back. Judy slinked off the bed to her knees on the floor. I was pumping my cock by hand. Judy pushed it aside and started to rapidly jerk my cock by hand. “Cum for me, come on, cum” Judy repeated this a few times as the build-up reached its peak. I moaned low and loud. The first volley went across her open mouth and right cheek. The next, she aimed me directly into her mouth. Third and forth, under her chin and neck, the remaining small spurts and drops landed scattered over her breasts. “Wow, oh my god!” Judy squealed excitedly.
       
      Darrell was beside himself with excitement. Other than the pictures and videos they made themselves, this was the first video allowed with someone other than Darrell. He said, “This is crazy sexy, hot as hell”! The clock in the bedroom indicated we had been at this for about 90 minutes. A first for all of us. But to be fair, a hell of a lot of manual and oral play, stop and start, prolonged it all. Judy agreed, reached over, and pulled Darrell to her. She quickly pulled down his sweatpants and promptly took his cock in her mouth. I picked up their video camera and started videoing the two of them.
       
      Judy had Darrell hard in just a few seconds. She made an extra effort to lavish his cock with her mouth, bobbing her head up and down and then swallowing him whole.
       
      She then pulled him down on top of her. He quickly slipped inside her and started hammering away with Judy, encouraging him along, “Take me baby, fill me up!”
       
      From my view, I had a clear shot of him pumping his cock in and out of her. With her telling him to take her hard, cum for her, and watching the two of us for the past hour and a half, he had no hope of lasting very long. He started groaning, Judy telling him to fill her. He let out a bellow and started cumming inside her. I caught the whole thing on video. His pumping and cumming. His cum leaking around his cock out of her. And when he pulled out, the cum leaked out of her. When things calmed down, he viewed the video and couldn’t believe how hard he came and how much he gave her. Judy chimed in, “And you said you didn’t have anymore, holding out on me.”
       
      We didn’t get dressed. We went into the kitchen and talked about what had just happened and past swinging adventures. About an hour later, Judy walked over to me and asked if I could go again. I looked at Darrell, and he quickly shook his head yes. “If you can, that would be awesome”. I agreed.
       
      We walked back to the bedroom and climbed up on the bed. We kissed and fondled each other a little bit. I then positioned myself on my left side and maneuvered Judy on her back with her legs up and over my hip. I easily slipped my semi-soft cock inside her. She was very warm and wet from Darrell. My hands were free to caress and squeeze her breasts. Darrell switched between videoing and kissing Judy. He occasionally played and sucked on her breasts. I slowly pumped a little into Judy. After a few moments, she exclaimed, “I can feel you growing inside me,” and giggled in amazement.
       
      Once I was fully hard I changed position to a supporting missionary. Using my knees to keep Judy’s legs open and my arms keeping me up to watch and nibble on her breasts. I started slow, long thrusts and built up to harder, faster, full-length thrusts. In about fifteen minutes, I was pulling out and dribbling cum on her tummy. Judy sat up and slid down, taking me into her mouth, making an effort to suck and lick me clean.
       
      It was almost noon, and I had to run to get home on time. We promised each other we would get together soon, all four of us. And that we did. They joined our group and played once or twice a month at our parties. We also traveled and shared very often for 4 - 5 years. Then, they moved to New Mexico for Darrell’s work.
    • By Interestme82
      Hi out there. I’m married and in an evolving relationship. Last year I did a burlesque photo shoot for him as a gift. He loved the way it turned out but asked if I’d be willing to do something more risqué in the future. I got a reference from the original photographer (female) and told my husband the new photographer would be a male. Being the protective husband he is we both requested a meeting over a cup of coffee. We met which was great and made things all the more comfortable. I loved what I saw from his book and my husband did as well. 
       
      We had the shoot and the pictures came out great. He got really turned on by knowing another guy was doing the pictures. I was shocked. I asked him if he’d consider doing a couples shoot with me and he said he’d try but was reluctant. Pretty soon after he agreed and we were off again.
       
      Prior to the shoot my husband and the photographer talked about his career. My husband, who’s faithful, shocked me a bit with his envy and open talk about what the photographer experienced. I’m extremely open and joined in the conversation. Both of us felt like we were conversing with someone we really liked and knew a lot longer than we actually did. Unfortunately my husband had difficulties getting hard which is completely out of the ordinary. The photographer said it happened a lot and just to relax. 
       
      Surprisingly at my husband's request he asked for me to do a POV shoot the photographer showed us in his book. Basically it’s the photographer including himself in various ways while taking the pictures. As we started taking the pictures I liked being touched by the photographer even though it wasn’t active foreplay or sex. It really was strictly for the pictures themselves. During the pictures my husband quickly got hard and watched. Eventually the photographer asked him if he was going to get involved. The rest of the shoot went as we planned. Afterwards we all sat around and talked and went through the pictures.
       
      Some time passed again and we talked a lot about the fun we had with it. My husband admitted he liked watching the photographer touch me and if not for that he may have been to nervous to get hard. 

      I really want this to develop further but I’m apprehensive because it’s a major change in life obviously. I’m also not sure about how I feel about seeing him with someone else. When I say I’m not sure I mean most likely not. I don’t even really think he wants to. I almost feel like if I bring that up it will be too much too fast. Multiple times when having sex we’ve dirty talked about me doing another shoot and giving myself up. I’d feel more comfortable to actually do it than talk about it. 
       
      I feel like my husband has opened a door that I want to walk into. Am I reading it wrong? Is it best for me to just set something else up and let it work itself the way it will? Based on our interactions I have no doubt the photographer would be into it also. Would I be going to far given our relationship if I reached out to the him and told him how I feel, how my husband feels, and confirm he’d say yes? 
       
       
    • By Falcon88
      My wife and I have been together for almost 25 years. Through out the years sex has been fantastic. No complaints on either side. We are very faithful and never cheated on each other.
       
      Then one day two years ago we were having a few drinks and watching porn. We watch all kinds of porn. That night we were watching some really good gangbangs. Curiously, I turn to my wife and asked her if she ever thought about swinging and group sex. If it ever crossed her mind. Surprisingly, she looked at me and said she’s been thinking about it for while. So we ended up talking about swinging and group sex for hours. We got online and read stories on experiences about swinging and group sex. The pros and cons. It turned me on taking about it but at the same time I got a crazy feeling in my stomach. Nerves I guess.
       
      So to make a very long story short we ended up having an open marriage and took up swinging. We both decided to have (safe) sex with other people until we felt comfortable on having our first group sex. All this took very long planning and preparing, especially mentally.
       
      Finally last November we planned out her first group sex. We carefully selected three familiar friends to join in the fun. Of course they decided to do it and agreed on our rules.
       
      So, it finally happened that November night. I really enjoyed watching my wife get screwed by more than one man. She had the time of her life. She had multiple orgasms one after another. The crazy feeling never left my stomach but I really enjoyed watching though. After the guys left we kicked back and talked about our experience. Then we go back about agreeing on what we’re doing and never to do it without the other knowing. We keep an oath of trust. Every time we have a date with someone we let each other know. It’s always planned out days in advance so it will never interfere with our personal lives. We have a great understanding.
       
      Since last November she’s been involved in several group sex averaging 3-4 guys each time. Of course I joined in most of the time. Lots of lube is needed. But now she wants to go a little further. She wants to do a gangbang of 6-8 guys. Seriously.
       
      Lately she’s been playing with large toys to get her vagina ready. She wants to try double-vaginal penetration. I’ve been preparing her by inserting a dildo in her while I’m inside. Very carefully with lots of lube. We practice every time we have sex. She even carefully inserts a large thick toy in her vagina while watching a movie and keeps it in there. Yes, our sexual curiosities has increased tremendously. My wife wants to explore even more and I’m all in.
       
      Well the day we both have been looking forward too occurred this past weekend. We managed to round up 7 guys for an all night gangbang. It involved a lot of planning and phone calls. We’ve noticed that guys will be all in at first then drop out later. But eventually we got things going. That night when everyone arrived she was kinda nervous but excited to have that many cocks at once. Most of all, she finally had double penetration in her vagina from two guys for the first time. The strange thing I seemed more nervous than her. Lol But she absolutely enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed watching her. She came hard many times. She doesn’t like anal so that wasn’t attempted.
       
      So after joining in all the fun and after almost two hours of great sex we had the grand finale. My sexy wife knelt down and we all gave her an awesome bukkake. Her face was drenched with cum. It was one heck of a hot night. After everyone left we took a long shower and stayed up almost all night talking about it. We were both so turned on that we were already making plans for the next one. But we are gonna take a break for about three weeks. It’s just going to be me and her for now.
       
      Yesterday she mentioned about having a messy cum sex in the near future after watching a great creampie movie. I was like, a messy cum sex? She asked me what I would think about her having a messy gooey bukkake and creampie night. Having about 4 guys cum all over her face while 4 guys cum inside her. Then rubbing the cum all over her breasts. Man, just listening to her drove me crazy. My wife was willing to be explosive. But that would take lots of planning because we are very cautious. My wife cannot get pregnant anymore so that’s really something we don’t have to worry about. It’s about the unprotected sex. We do know many cool friends well enough that we can trust but still we must remain careful. Yet, I’m sure it’s gonna happen very soon.
       
      I’ve been asked if we have taken it too far. If there’s actually any sign of regrets. Some close friends wonder about my wife wanting too much now. Our answer is no because we enjoy it and have a deep understanding and trust. We are responsible adults and are having fun. We first talk about what we’re going to do and have to both agree 100%. Any sign of doubt from either side we will not do it. We are friends with our sex partners but no feelings are involved or ever shared. We have proven that to ourselves already.
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