First club visit this Saturday

[Curious1129 20]

Looks like we will be attending our first club visit Trapeze in Ft. Lauderdale, FL this coming Saturday. My wife and I have fantasized about this for quite awhile. We're into public sex not so much swinging, but she has expressed an interest in experimenting with girl/girl. I am very anxious, excited, and nervous all at the same time!

[junglecouple 127]

Congratulations; Hopefully it'll be all you hope for and more.. baby steps.. enjoy your adventure

[mauijanedoe 1,414]

Good luck and I hope you enjoy your adventure, whatever happens.

[angelkin 1,326]

I hope you enjoy the atmosphere and the freedom the club provides:) Be sure to come back to tell us how it went.

[twistedpretzels 100]

I do not think people have rules about what you do or have to do-- I know folks who go to hang out and merely meet people and even to hang out and have a drink or two. It's the perfect atmosphere and a nice beginning into swinging- to have public sex. You may still never want to swing, or maybe you may!!!, in the least you have a forum to perform at and enjoy yourself. Have a great time!

[Curious1129 20]

Tonights the night, we're both extremely turned on right now, and are trying not to screw one another. Trying to save it all for tomorrow night! Wish us luck!

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Have a good time.

[angelkin 1,326]

Good luck!!

[Curious1129 20]

I am glad to update that the wife and I had an unforgettable first time. Surprisingly neither her or I were nervous at all walking into this club, the people were friendly, we chatted briefly with a few different couples, danced for a lot, and made our way to the play areas and really enjoyed being watched by others. The verdict is without a doubt the wife and I will be back, and are ready to try other events!

[mauijanedoe 1,414]

Yay! We love clubs and think they're a great way for people to expand their sexual palette, whether the expansion is great or small.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I am pleased to read this. May you have many happy returns.

[Curious1129 20]

We're going back again this coming weekend! So excited!

 

 

Only thing that sucks is its a 3 hour drive for us.

[DaggersNRoses 271]

I am glad to update that the wife and I had an unforgettable first time. Surprisingly neither her or I were nervous at all walking into this club, !

 

My husband and I had our first club experience recently. I wish I had not been so nervous. I know I came off terrified and prudish.

 

How did you manage to feel relaxed enough?

[Curious1129 20]

My husband and I had our first club experience recently. I wish I had not been so nervous. I know I came off terrified and prudish.

 

How did you manage to feel relaxed enough?

 

Communication is extremely important. I also think that since her and I went without intentions to swing it wasn't that big of a deal. Her and I go to watch and the excitement of being watched. We have so much fun and its a huge turn on for both of us. She is 25 and I am 26 so we are at the young and wild stage of our lives. We have been together for 9 years and married for 1, so we are both extremely confident in one another to stay within the communicated rules too.

[DaggersNRoses 271]

She is 25 and I am 26 so we are at the young and wild stage of our lives. .

 

 

Well that explains it, LOL. I am quite a bit older with kids, work, house stuff and I am in bed exhausted by 10 every night.

 

Comunication was not the issue for me. I don't feel young nor wild anymore; just tired and frazzled most often. I have never really done the normal club thing, hated the one time I went with a friend for her birthday, I don't really dance, don't drink a lot and I don't have much prior dating experience to feel I understood how to interact with people besides my husband. I felt far far out of my element and wasn't sure how to get into relax and have a good time mode.