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Hi, we are looking for a swinger resort with: good looking people, real swingers, and serious play rooms! We like Mexico and Costa Rica, and Jamaica might work for us too. We don't want a place where nothing or little happens or where they have beer chugging contests. How are cruises?

 

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I think Hedo might be to your liking. Lots of action in the hot tub after dark. I don't know if any have straight up play rooms. Most require that you play in your own room. What may be more to your liking is something like the Splash Party hotel take-over in Orlando FL (twice a year). It's only a few days (and specific days). When we went we arrived a couple of days before the event (and others did as well) and stayed a day or two after (and there were still people there). Only the specific days are swingers only (and play rooms). Outside of that you have to be a bit more discreet.

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Hedo has our vote. If you check their schedule you can see what groups will be there. Lots of exposure at all times. You will what you want from there. It's not the most upscale place, but it is by far the most fun.

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Desire in Cancun is very nice. Go when there is a swinger group there, otherwise I hear it is about half swingers, half lifestyle. they have a playroom off the dance floor and outside by the hot tub. We really enjoyed everything about the resort. It is couples only.

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When I read the beer chugging comment the first thing I thought of was Hedo but it's really not like that. It has a party reputation and there will be people there partying but a lot are just normal everyday people looking to meet and socialize. Use one of the boards and tag along with a swingers group. Even if they don't have playrooms...they will make them when large lifestyle groups come to visit. We are going on our first cruise in April but Chicup posted a very nice cruise review (two parts) I would recommend reading. Most of the cruises are couples only and singles are only allowed traveling with a couple, staying in their own room.

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We've been to Hedo nine times since 2001, it is a blast, and it can be what you make it to be. Remember each day/week will be different form the next, no guarantees.

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My wife and I have never swung, but have been talking a lot lately about her doing something with another person, woman or man, and the cruise thing sounds interesting...I would be curious about that. We would want to be able to go somewhere and not feel pressured into doing anything, in other words if we just wanted to hang back and not play then we could. I have heard of Desire in Playa Del Carmen as being a good place and also it's sister property Temptations. Any idea if those place are good for people curious about dipping their feet into the swinging pool? ;o)

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We prefer Desire. For us it the right balance between sex/swinging and upscale/laid back. We have not been to Hedo but I believe it is a little more hard partying, but what do I know - I have not gone

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We prefer Desire. For us it the right balance between sex/swinging and upscale/laid back. We have not been to Hedo but I believe it is a little more hard partying, but what do I know - I have not gone

 

Nice that sounds good, combination of upscale/laid back and the swinging atmosphere. I am going to have to keep that in mind for the future.

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Desire is very laid back. I think if you want to try swinging, a big vacation may not be the best way to get started. But, Desire is very romantic and most of the time only about half the resort is swingers. So you can go and observe and meet people and have a wonderful vacation with your spouse.

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Desire is very laid back. I think if you want to try swinging, a big vacation may not be the best way to get started. But, Desire is very romantic and most of the time only about half the resort is swingers. So you can go and observe and meet people and have a wonderful vacation with your spouse.

 

That's interesting, so you would say 1/2 the resort is not swingers? What are they? Vanilla couples? Or nudists not interested in having sex with or in front of other people? It looks like a nice resort, the type we like to stay at, from the pictures...pretty upscale like 4 or 5 start kind of place?

 

I am not sure where to dip our feet into this swinging lifestyle if we decide to do it? Maybe that SLS website and setting up a profile is the way to go? I don't think we have any clubs around here from what I know. Maybe just having her pick up a guy or a girl at a bar or something when we are out sometime and having the person come back with us to a hotel room if we decide?

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Desire is very laid back. I think if you want to try swinging, a big vacation may not be the best way to get started. But, Desire is very romantic and most of the time only about half the resort is swingers. So you can go and observe and meet people and have a wonderful vacation with your spouse.

 

We have been to both Desire and Hedo. Desire has been promoted as a swinger resort. Hedo does not promote itself as a swinger resort. It has nude and prude sections. However, there are plenty of opportunities to swing and swap mates at Hedo in your room. Desire has a playroom for one-on-one as well as group sex. We have noticed couples playing and having intercourse in public areas at Desire even though it is against the resort rules. This rule is mostly observed in its breach. We prefer Desire to Hedo for a more romantic atmosphere and enjoyable sex with you own partner as well as someone else's. There are beds laid out in the open, with curtains for privacy, where you may play up to and including intercourse with your partner. Many couples prefer Hedo for a more boisterous atmosphere and are regulars at the resort.

 

All in all, we prefer Desire for a more laid back and romantic vacation. It's all up to you as a couple to decide what type of atmosphere you prefer. You can have a great time at either resort depending upon your personal preference.

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I have read some negative reviews of Hedonism II saying it wasn't very clean, the rooms weren't very nice. Is that true or is the resort pretty well kept?

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You are going there for a unique atmosphere unlike anywhere else. I read some of those posts before I went and some I believe are people that are just ranting or competition in the area trying to make is sound horrible but some are genuine. Drop the extreme's and you will get a good idea.

 

It's a 3 star hotel. Nothing you wouldn't expect from a holiday inn, etc. but the grounds are beautiful and well kept. The food is better than average on some days and average on the others. Always a lot of variety unless you stay for more than a week because the menu repeats.

 

You sleep in your rooms, watch some porns, have sex, take a shower, that's about it. The rest of the time you are out doing something so don't get hung up on the rooms. They are clean and basic. There are much classier places for sure but you are there for the fun.

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You are going there for a unique atmosphere unlike anywhere else. I read some of those posts before I went and some I believe are people that are just ranting or competition in the area trying to make is sound horrible but some are genuine. Drop the extreme's and you will get a good idea.

 

It's a 3 star hotel. Nothing you wouldn't expect from a holiday inn, etc. but the grounds are beautiful and well kept. The food is better than average on some days and average on the others. Always a lot of variety unless you stay for more than a week because the menu repeats.

 

You sleep in your rooms, watch some porns, have sex, take a shower, that's about it. The rest of the time you are out doing something so don't get hung up on the rooms. They are clean and basic. There are much classier places for sure but you are there for the fun.

 

 

Good to know! Thanks!

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That's interesting, so you would say 1/2 the resort is not swingers? What are they? Vanilla couples? Or nudists not interested in having sex with or in front of other people? It looks like a nice resort, the type we like to stay at, from the pictures...pretty upscale like 4 or 5 start kind of place?

 

I am not sure where to dip our feet into this swinging lifestyle if we decide to do it? Maybe that SLS website and setting up a profile is the way to go? I don't think we have any clubs around here from what I know. Maybe just having her pick up a guy or a girl at a bar or something when we are out sometime and having the person come back with us to a hotel room if we decide?

 

Desire is beautiful. The rooms are clean, but pretty basic. We enjoyed the food. I'd say it's about he same quality as Sandals resorts or cruises. The people, guests and staff make the resort. It's very friendly. There are nudists, swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs and just regular couples on romantic vacations. There are more swingers on takeover weeks. this forum has tons of good info and people talk about other swinger/nudist resorts also http://forums.desiremexico.com/

 

If you join sls or kasidie you will be able to see swinger events in your area. I think meet and greets or clubs are a good way to start. Personally I think playing with couples is the best start rather than trying to pick up singles who may not understand swinging, your motivations or respect your marriage.

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Desire is beautiful. The rooms are clean, but pretty basic. We enjoyed the food. I'd say it's about he same quality as Sandals resorts or cruises. The people, guests and staff make the resort. It's very friendly. There are nudists, swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs and just regular couples on romantic vacations. There are more swingers on takeover weeks. this forum has tons of good info and people talk about other swinger/nudist resorts also http://forums.desiremexico.com/

 

If you join sls or kasidie you will be able to see swinger events in your area. I think meet and greets or clubs are a good way to start. Personally I think playing with couples is the best start rather than trying to pick up singles who may not understand swinging, your motivations or respect your marriage.

 

 

Okay, thanks for that advice. Yeah, the meet and greet or club seems to be the way to go...multiple people have told me that one this forum over time. The one exception I was thinking might work for us also is to invite the male stripper back to our room for a "private show" next time we go to Olympic Gardens in Vegas. The male stripper we got there last time, for a private dance at the club, was very respectful to both of us...the whole situation was hot! My wife was sooo wet! He had his hand down her panties playing with her clit and she was giving him a handjob, though not to completion. Maybe that situation could be taken back to the hotel room?

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Okay, thanks for that advice. Yeah, the meet and greet or club seems to be the way to go...multiple people have told me that one this forum over time. The one exception I was thinking might work for us also is to invite the male stripper back to our room for a "private show" next time we go to Olympic Gardens in Vegas. The male stripper we got there last time, for a private dance at the club, was very respectful to both of us...the whole situation was hot! My wife was sooo wet! He had his hand down her panties playing with her clit and she was giving him a handjob, though not to completion. Maybe that situation could be taken back to the hotel room?

 

Hello

 

I came upon your post about your trip to OG in Vegas and was curious about a few things. My special lady and I are planning a trip soon. Would you be open to answering a few questions about your OG experience? Nothing personal, just about the experience itself

 

Regards

AA

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Went to Hedo many years ago and it was great. It is a mixed group of people most of the time - some swingers and some not. No pressure at any time to participate in anything you don't want to. The reports after the new ownership took over have generally been positive. The people there (both guests and staff) tend to be very friendly. I can't comment on any of the other resorts as we have not been but the adulttravelform site has many threads specific to all resorts, with the comments on Hedo representing most of the traffic.

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1. Lifestyle cruise (any), 2. Desire RM (if you want to play), 3. Desire Pearl (nicest accommodations and best food, quiet for swinging), 4. Hedo 2, not bad, not great, but Desire is better.

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We have been to both resorts in the last 12 months. There is not a big difference in quality between Desire RM and Hedonism. Desire Pearl is fancier, but is much smaller with 88 rooms than Hedonism's 260 rooms. In addition, Hedonism has the best beach by far. If you have not seen all of the upgrades in the last two years at Hedonism you may not realize it is nice clean resort, and that it costs less than Desire.

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