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My wife and I are planning to go to St. Maarten this summer. We have never been there but want to find a nice, hopefully all-inclusive resort, where we can both relax in a nice island setting as a couple in a romantic way and also go out and party...drinks, gambling etc. We want to keep the price around $3,000 per person or so for 12 nights. Also we have been discussing the possibly of HER "playing" soft or otherwise with another person, woman or man, in the recent months but have never brought another person into our bedroom. She is warming up to the idea now though. The talk has always been about HER doing stuff with other people, not me, I would just watch or play with my wife. Any suggestions for things to do out there?

 

We are new to swinging so I don't know if there are clubs or bars or beaches to go to where we could watch/possibly let her play? ;o) We are in our 30's, so we would want to meet other people probably no older than mid 50's if she were to do something.

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Well this has nothing to do with swinging, but take a day and go to the beach by Princess Juliana airport. It's crazy with the planes....YouTube it!

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Well this has nothing to do with swinging, but take a day and go to the beach by Princess Juliana airport. It's crazy with the planes....YouTube it!

 

Oh yeah, I know what you are talking about. I have seen the pictures of people in the jet wash getting blown back! Crazy!

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The French side has great nude beaches (Orient is the biggest). If you walk around the paths, there are some great coves there. We were fucking our brains out in a cove and turned around to an islander watching and jacking off....I'm sure you could entice in that sort of situation. Plenty of all-inclusive hotels right around there.

 

One caveat: those beaches all come and go with the hurricanes so never certain if they are still there.

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The French side has great nude beaches (Orient is the biggest). If you walk around the paths, there are some great coves there. We were fucking our brains out in a cove and turned around to an islander watching and jacking off....I'm sure you could entice in that sort of situation. Plenty of all-inclusive hotels right around there.

 

One caveat: those beaches all come and go with the hurricanes so never certain if they are still there.

 

A lady at work that goes to that island a lot with her husband was telling me about Orient beach and that is is all nude and that there is an all nude resort or hotel right near there also. She also was saying that all of the beaches on that island are topless! I did not know this! I am encouraging my wife to go topless when we go, at the least maybe I can talk her into the all nude beach.

 

I was trying to find some all inclusive place, that is nice, near Orient beach. The closest nice resort I have found so far is Oyster Bay Beach resort to the south about 15 minutes.

 

Are there any swinger type clubs out there on the island that me and my wife could check out if we get bold enough?

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I don't know about clubs, but we have stayed at Oyster Bay Resort and it was very nice. All the beaches on the French side are topless, not certain about the Dutch side. If you walk past Orient Beach, there are several small, private coves...we used those almost every day...and often had an audience so there may be some possibilities for adding a playmate that way. And put the man on the bottom, girl on top...no sand in the wrong places!:facelick:

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I don't know about clubs, but we have stayed at Oyster Bay Resort and it was very nice. All the beaches on the French side are topless, not certain about the Dutch side. If you walk past Orient Beach, there are several small, private coves...we used those almost every day...and often had an audience so there may be some possibilities for adding a playmate that way. And put the man on the bottom, girl on top...no sand in the wrong places!:facelick:

 

Ha ha ha! Yeah sandy vagina is bad! That sounds interesting, if we were feeling bold we could try that!

 

We have changed our plans now though and are going to Playa del Carmen just south of Cancun. We booked an all inclusive, adults only resort. We will see how that is. Hopefully it is safe, being Mexico and all, from everything we have heard and read, it is very safe. We are looking forward to it!

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Are you going to Desire? It has double gates and feels very safe!

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Are you going to Desire? It has double gates and feels very safe!

 

No, we are going to Secrets Meroma Riviera Maya, about 5-10 miles south of Desire it looks like. I am not sure if my wife is ready to stay at a place like Desire yet, but we wanted to stay somewhere where there are no kids. Also hopefully we can meet some other cool vacationing couples or even singles and flirt some...maybe more if my wife is into it! I will take her lead on anything we do.

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Are you going to Desire? It has double gates and feels very safe!

 

 

Glad to hear it's very safe down there! We want to relax! The last thing we want, is to have to worry about violence! All of the recent reviews I have read about where the resort we are going to, and the State Departments website all say it is safe in that area. There are no State Department advisories for that part of Mexico right now.

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Club Orient is a hotel with nice cabins on the nude beach. We have stayed there many times. More nudists than swingers, but I am sure there are swingers, too.

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