Gangbang do's and dont's?

[sexyswingingal 15]

My current partner and I have been swinging for almost a year now. So far everything has gone great. Last week he approached me with the idea that he would like to see me get gangbanged. To top all of this, he says he wants to watch all the guys squirt in my mouth. Now, I will admit to being kinky, but this is territory I have never been down before(no pun intended).

 

I am curious and a little turned on, and probably willing to try it. Does anyone else have similar experience(s) they could offer some advice?

[mathew571 15]

How about him getting gangbanged?

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. If you decide you want to be gang-banged then it is up to YOU to set the rules for what happens and make sure that they are expressed to the guys involved.

 

Here are a couple of other topics that you might want to read through:

 

Gangbangs for him or for her?

 

Gangbang Advice

[Logan692 15]

I have experienced this a few times with a few different girls.

One bit of advice is that make sure you are comfortable with the people your doing it with. I know that my girls always want to know that guys.

 

Other than that just enjoy.

[Misty&Todd 16]

I would like to have a gangbang too, it is a turn-on for me as well.

[Brit_Pair 62]

Gangbang Advice #4232

 

Gentlemen: when withdrawing from between the gangbangee's thighs, be careful how quickly you back out if you haven't taken a precautionary backwards glance first.

[windsor4fun2 130]

Originally posted by Brit_Pair

Gangbang Advice #4232

 

Gentlemen: when withdrawing from between the gangbangee's thighs, be careful how quickly you back out if you haven't taken a precautionary backwards glance first.

 

Never thought of that. You could end up get more than you bargained for.

[Vjklander 138]

It's all about having fun. When we have gangbangs, I set it up and control the proceedings. I make the rules very clear and only invite men I know are dependable. Since my girl loves being spanked, that is usually a major aspect of the proceedings. Condoms are a must for vaginal/anal, but not for oral.

[travelman 15]

Well, being new and all, I'm going to ask the silly question.

 

How many partners at once = a gangbang? 4-5-6-7-City of Albany, NY?

 

I've done the M,M,M,F.

 

Just curious.

[Vjklander 138]

We've done 6, 4, and a few 3's.

[travelman 15]

Oh...okay...I guess I have participated in a gangbang before...cool.

[pelagic argosy 18]

Gangbangs are only fun if you are at the mercy of the bangers. I prefer strangers. The tension about what I'm going to have to do and not knowing how long I'm going to get used is a turn on for me. My suggestion is to go to a frat party, alone, get drunk, and let them know what you want. They'll usually take it from there, if you're half-way decent looking.

[hmr 25]

I enjoy a gangbang, and my husband enjoys watching (and participating) as well. But, as with every other aspect of this lifestyle I am the one in control. I have to be comfortable with the people I am with. I don't neccessarily have to know them ahead of time, but be comfortable after we have become aquainted. Comfortable with my surroundings, and everyone must practice safe sex. My only problem, is I keep pulling the damn condoms off the men! Anyone have any suggestions for fixing that problem?

 

You do what you are comfortable with. Set your own rules. If you want it , go for it. Have fun, and be safe.

[yawanna 17]

My suggestion is to go to a frat party, alone, get drunk, and let them know what you want. They'll usually take it from there, if you're half-way decent looking.

 

Is this person serious?

 

My only problem, is I keep pulling the damn condoms off the men! Anyone have any suggestions for fixing that problem?

 

Umm.. stop pulling condoms off them? seriously tho....pulling them off.... how? If it's during intercourse....I'd suggest lube.

[hmr 25]

Yeah I'm serious!!! This is with lube! It isn't funny or fun when you are trying to practice safe sex!!

[yawanna 17]

DAMN! I was afraid my quotes and comments were going to get mixed up.. I meant 'is this person serious??' about the FRAT party.....

 

I'm sorry..... I've had condoms slip off, too.... scary stuff.

[sportync 20]

HMR, that's some tight stuff! I bet you got an "A" in health class when it came to doing the "Kegal"!

[Brit_Pair 62]

Gangbang Advice #3713

 

Ladies: no matter how great your desire or need, please try to refrain from yelling out "NEXT!!!"

[bear_n_bunny 43]

Originally posted by Brit_Pair

Gangbang Advice #3713

 

Ladies: no matter how great your desire or need, please try to refrain from yelling out "NEXT!!!"

 

Dang, that's the whole reason I wanted to get ganged banged. Yep, this is a big fantasy of mine, I'm hoping Bear will get one for my birthday.

[Brit_Pair 62]

Originally posted by bear_n_bunny

Dang, that's the whole reason I wanted to get ganged banged. Yep, this is a big fantasy of mine, I'm hoping Bear will get one for my birthday.

The perfect gift for the woman who has everything?

[CMHguitarist 15]

Wow... that's one snuggly pussy!

[roadkingklp 15]

Make sure your lady is comfortable, and knows she really wants to try it. Every woman I've known who discussed it with me, then gave it try never stopped it, because they loved it. BUT it is not for every woman.

 

My Ex- G.F. who I should have kept, Carolyn a.k.a. "Nymph" the wild redhead from No. VA got into it and ABSOLUTELY Loved it and could never get enough, she controlled all the activities with all the guys and girls she did.

 

She always knew what , who and how many she was doing on any given night.

 

People thought she was crazy, but not so, she was just very vivacious, and a truly caring loving person.

 

She was making up for a very cruel empty marriage she had. I can never forget her, in fact dream of her every night, that is my penalty for letting others talk me away from her.

 

If you read this C.J.T. "Nymph" you were right I truly miss you since your gone.

 

We were right for each other, you knew it, I was too STUPID.

[ohbaby 19]

We have been swinging for a while and we went to watch a girl have a gangbang. She invited us. Anyway, she has 12 guys, each one bigger then the next and she was having a hard time, well getting and keeping them hard. So and this is the weird part for me, I started fluffing the guys ( fluffing is giving head ) to get them hard. I never asked my guy if it was cool that was the first I never asked and sometime I ALWAYS do and his answer is to be free and do what feels right to us. Anyway at one point I had 7 guys in a circle around me as I was on my knees. I love giving head and have been told since I was a teenager how good I am. Well long story short, the girl got mad at me, because I did my job to well and some of the guys came .... oh well.

[Moss and Marg 15]

College seems to be a great training ground for gangbangs when you're single. I was one of six guys with the more than willing girl. It brings back fond memories.

 

My wife agreed to a gangbang when she was a student and hated it as she was given no control and a couple extra guys joined that she hadn't agreed could.

 

When we were at a party the topic came up and I wanted her to have a positive experience. She was given control and I was there to make sure everyone followed the rules.

 

As she became comfortable she would invite another guy over. At one point four men were touching or playing with her at the same time.

 

Since then we have found it difficult to set up the same sort of arrangement.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Since then we have found it difficult to set up the same sort of arrangement.

 

This seems to be a common refrain when it comes to this type of swinging. Maybe others have some more do's and dont's though?

[couplers 4,652]

How many different guys do you have to have in one session for it to be considered a gangbang?