Happy Experience with Single Male

[thump29 16]

Well I just thought that I would let the board know that we had a great experience with a single male! His name is John from the board here. I am really glad that we got to know him, he is really a great person.

 

I had a bad experience with a single male about two months ago, and we werent going to find another single male after that happen. Then we met John and talked and we have only known each other for a short time now it feels like we have known him forever. Im really glad we found a friend in him as well as a playmate.

 

I guess what I wanted to let you all know that I have learned that not all single males are bad and there are some really good ones out there like John.

[DragonsLair 26]

Glad to hear about a positive experience with a single male. We hear so many about bad experiences. John is a great guy (and my adopted big brother ).

[thump29 16]

Yes we do hear about so many bad experiences thats why i wanted to share on some of the good which we rarely hear about. John is a good friend of ours and he is such a special person and so is his family. I am really glad we got to know him and that we have become so good of friends.

[WildFlower 17]

Happy to hear that. Yes not all single males are bad. Glad that you found John and hope you all have many more happy experiences together.

[Alura 2,775]

John is a special guy. We're not surprised to hear you had a good experience with him. Now, if we could only straighten out his political views...

 

Alura

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

The experience was one of those that in one lifetime it is impossible to forget.

 

My political views? OH yeah, they had nothing to do with it.

 

Hubby was nice enough to bring along a camera and if you ask them nicely i'd bet they'd share pics with you.

 

She is one of the foxiest best cocksuckers I have ever met. That man has the thickest cock I have ever seen. It was a real treat for me.

 

I didn't anitcipate this being on here, but I am quite sure my political beliefes added to it mr alura PHTTtt.

 

Oh thanks for all the compliments.

 

The people on this board have always meant something to me and this encounter was not only one of extremely intense sex, but one that involved true friends.

 

Single guys still have a place in the swingers world. I feel priveledged to be a member now.

 

Sure I will have a honey some day in fact dragonsliar and the wonderful aluras always make sure I know that as do, roxy, julie, mrs O, and a few others, and I hope I helped reinforce confidence with wildflower.

 

We are talking bout future escapades, and ya know, its all fun.

 

Now I cant bitch about not getting any tho.

 

You all should see MRs THUMP...holy shit, what a fox. MR. THump..talk about the master swinger. That mans knows when to leave em alone and when to jump in like there is no tomorrow.

 

The thumps have regained my trust and spiritual belief in swinging.

 

John, the happy swinger.

[thump29 16]

Thanks John, for the compliments. We really had a good time and are looking forward to it again. The best part was making a good friend in you.

 

There are going to be alot of good times ahead so keep looking forward to that.

[Regularguy 17]

Wildflower, it was nice of you to conclude "not all guys are bad", just as I think that not every woman is a worthless, fat piece of egocentric crap......

 

Kinda puts your comment in perspective, eh?

 

lol

[imsnowman 34]

John, tell us truthfully, you're really thump29 right!

[WildFlower 17]

Regularguy sorry if I offended you. DIdn't mean it in that context. I love men , I love women. And there bad apples in each sex as well as wonderful ones in each. I was trying to defend the single male swinger ( doing an in adequate job lol) because it seems they get a bad rap. John it is because of sweet sincere guys like yourself that me and my husband swing with single males. I always enjoy reading your comments.

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

Originally posted by imsnowman

John, tell us truthfully, you're really thump29 right!

 

No. I am not. We both have cams so why not set up a three way conversation with us sometime, lol. Hey I'm the guy that bitches bout no sex all the time, I don't make shit like that up. I'm sure you kidding but, just to make sure.

 

John

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

Originally posted by thump29

Thanks John, for the compliments. We really had a good time and are looking forward to it again. The best part was making a good friend in you.

 

There are going to be alot of good times ahead so keep looking forward to that.

 

I cannot elaborate on that much more. That by far is the best part for me, and both of our kids.

 

John

[imsnowman 34]

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN

No. I am not. We both have cams so why not set up a three way conversation with us sometime, lol. Hey I'm the guy that bitches bout no sex all the time, I don't make shit like that up. I'm sure you kidding but, just to make sure.

 

John

Jeez John, I wouldn't stand up for you w/ the GSR couple only to trash you later. That's what the smile was so supposed to show. Yea, it was a joke.

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

Originally posted by imsnowman

Jeez John, I wouldn't stand up for you w/ the GSR couple only to trash you later. That's what the smile was so supposed to show. Yea, it was a joke.

 

 

John

[eddypasifa 16]

This gives hope to me as I am a single male

[thump29 16]

There is hope out there for the single males. We are very glad we met John and I will tell you I had a bad experience before with a single male and I about gave up but John has showed us that there are some great single males out there.

 

Good luck I know you will find people just like us!

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

Originally posted by thump29

There is hope out there for the single males. We are very glad we met John and I will tell you I had a bad experience before with a single male and I about gave up but John has showed us that there are some great single males out there.

 

Good luck I know you will find people just like us!

 

People just like you are hard to find. I feel priveledged to have been lucky. Yesterday on my birthday Mr. and Mrs. Thump and there kids came all the way here to celebrate it with my kids, there freinds and I. A truly memorable birthday for me. I left my fiance one year ago today to move here. To have made friends like this is important and it is so fortunate that one asshole didn't destroy this situation for all of us.

 

John

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

Mrs Thump made me the best birthday cake I have ever had. It was homade yellowcake with german frosting.

 

TO KILL FOR. I ate half of it at one setting. So much for 'you can have your cake but not eat it too'.

 

Thanks Mrs Thumps and huggers to you and your wonderful family.

 

We had to save MR. Thump. He was swimming with a bunch of 4 inch baitfish in the ocean. Real shark worry. But he saved us from the jelly fish. FOr some reason a whole bunch of jellyfish came on shore. I didnt even recognize them. Ive been here one year and never saw one before. IF it werent for him id have picked one up and analyzed it. They were much smaller than normal ones but he showed me the stingers. Kewl.

 

John

[thump29 16]

Hey there! I just wanted to let the board hear about a wonderful time we had with Flori Daman from the board here. We all need to hear good things about the singles males here since there is always such bad things being posted about them all the time.

 

We have gotten to know John really well and he is a real close friend of ours now. He is such a perfect gentlemen, I was really suprised at how nice and considerate he is. We all have become really close friends and we have met and had sexual encounters with him on two seperate occasions. The first time was really wonderful and I thought things couldnt get any better, but let me tell you I was wrong. We met again yesterday and it was a experience that was out of this world. He was very gentleman like and he was so sensitive to my needs it was a really great experience with him.

 

I must say though I still cant get used to how big that man is. I know the look of amazement on my face must show. If he has noticed it then he hasnt said anything but I cant imagine him not being able to notice that look on my face everytime I see him.

 

John has really made a great impact on us and I am really glad I decided to see how it went with him. I was to the point that I thought all single males were alike, now I know that they are not. If it hadnt of been for John I seriously think we would not of added another single male. We have learned that there are some really nice single males out there that are trying real hard to stay into the swinging lifestyle.

 

John if you read this I want you to know that we are really glad we have became such great friends. I also want to thankyou for the great time you gave us both last night!

[Elusive BiFem 70]

Originally posted by thump29

We have gotten to know John really well and he is a real close friend of ours now. He is such a perfect gentlemen, I was really suprised at how nice and considerate he is.

 

Now look what ya'll have gone and done - destroyed my illusion of Mr. Flori_Daman!! What are we going to do with people saying such nice things about each other on this Board?

 

Ok.......not really...I think we've all seen that compassionate and caring side of him slip out rather frequently. Glad you've found such a great friend. -EBF

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

WOW,

 

Mr and Mrs Thump are bout the nicest people I know. What I read was totally unexpected although we are posting our t-shirt picture when I can get it to a jpeg.

 

Hey its all fun and for the THumps to unexpectedly express that single gentlemen do have a place in the lifestyle can only be expressed as a sincere thanks that I was an example.

 

THere are plenty of single guys and gals that can and will add to relationships as I hope I have.

 

THanks so much for the nicest compliment I think I could have gotten as a single swinger and a person.

 

One more thing. Mrs Thump is the most energetic, flexible, tight, foxy chick that I have ever had the experience to experience. MR. THump is the type of guy that I was when I was with a partner. He knows just when to enjoy and just when to really turn up the VOLUME of the action!

 

It takes three.

 

John

[Guest opencouplefl2]

Welcome hi everyone I am 35 bi f I have had 3 bi experience and the one with mrs thumps was one of the best and mr thumps is the best I have had in my life I am so happy we are good friends..

 

 

It is really had to fine good friend most people in swinging just want sex and thats it but they want the same has me and I feel so luckie to have them in my life and my kids life they have a

loveing family.. yes they are young but you know it was the best I have had in my life and I am almost 36 and I will do it again with them anytime .....

 

 

your best friend

 

opencouplefl2

[thump29 16]

Welcome open couple I am glad you took my advice and came to the sight it is a place with a lot of wonderful people here!

 

We had a really wonderful time with you too. I am still learning but it was really a wonderful experience with you, and I know Mr. Thump felt the same way.

 

I agree also that we want friendship not just sex. You rarely see another couple as compassionate as we are and who want to be friends as well as playmates!

 

As far as doing it again we are really looking forward to it you can trust me on that. I was really happy with the way things went the other day.

 

Welcome to the board and I know you will find this place interesting as I do since we are so much alike.

[Guest opencouplefl2]

Welcome the thumps are really cool and nice people they have a loving family and they care about people and I think they are real people some of the people that swing thank they are all that and no one is better then them.... And they are not like that we had a really nice time with them and there family and look forward to it again really soon

 

 

 

your best freinds forever and lovers

 

 

carol and paul

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

neat,

 

I always said mr and mrs thump are the greatest.

 

John

[thump29 16]

Thankyou opencouple2 and John for the kind words. I think we have such good experiences in swinging is because we have a wonderful relationship and we keep the communication going with each other.

 

Thanks opencouple I am glad that you liked our experience we had together I know we both did and we will definetely being doing it again:8-0:: .

 

I want to thank you too John for all the support you have given us. One thing I feel I need to mention is that we do want friends as well as playmates but the friendship is the most important thing to us. We are not just looking for sex it is more than that to us.

[mrd3901 15]

This is my first post and being a married but going it alone guy on her I am glad to see this post. I am middle aged and was starting to doubt whether I should be on here or not. It was easy years ago when my wife was into the swing lifestyle but, now she has shut down all type of that activity for whatever reason. I thought I was doomed as a result of her decision. Thanks for the post it makes me feel like I may serve a worthwhile purpose in a relationship.

[saranmark 15]

Well, the thing with mrd3901's post is that he didn't specify if he was, in fact, cheating on his wife.

 

Perhaps he has his wife's blessing to swing without her. Maybe she simply doesn't want to participate anymore, but doesn't mind if he does.

 

He shouldn't be judged based on so little information.

 

Best,

Sara

[Quin 17]

Originally posted by saranmark

Well, the thing with mrd3901's post is that he didn't specify if he was, in fact, cheating on his wife.

 

Perhaps he has his wife's blessing to swing without her. Maybe she simply doesn't want to participate anymore, but doesn't mind if he does.

 

He shouldn't be judged based on so little information.

 

Best,

Sara

 

Don't know of many swinging couples who would still be interested, even with a note from home. Having been in the swinging life for 20+ years, I don't have enough fingers and toes to count the married men I've seen attempt to enter without their wifes. And still not enough fingers and toes to count those that have claimed their spouse either didn't care or said they could. It's a common lie that these men think people are stupid enough to buy into. Regardless of whether his wife gives him her blessing or not, I don't know of too many couples that will open that can of worms. And it is a HUGE can of worms full of ugly creepy crawlin worms of all kinds.

 

He doesn't even know why his wife is no longer interested in swinging or in sex???? Doesn't that send up some fireworks for ya??? Serious communication problems. He obviously doesn't care what's going on with his wife or else he would know why. If he's not asked her why, I doubt he's asked for her permission to continue. His whole post reeks of communication problems within his marriage...and I bet there are some even deeper problems there. What swinging couple in their right mind would want to get involved with that? Just like I said in my other post, he needs to get affairs in order within his own marriage before he goes messin in other's marriages.

 

Quin

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[Quin 17]

Originally posted by windsor4fun2

I was a little surprised to read the intimate details myself but if all parties involved agreed with discussing it I don't think it is a discetion issue as you infer. Maybe a little more info than we needed

 

As far as people on this board being indiscete, I tend to feel most here are generally more concerned about it than the couples I've met elsewhere and in person.

 

Jesse

 

While, apparently, it was agreed upon by all parties to bring it to the boards, I think it's tacky, juvenile and I felt as if I had been propelled back to high school and was listening to some 15 year old who got his weenie sucked for the first time. This is a public forum about swinging, it's not someone's personal avenue to stroke their ego or stroke another's ego and that's basically all this was.

 

What those involved don't realize is they may have cut their own throat. Would I have met any of them prior to this, probably not, but the option would always be there to meet if I/they ever wanted. Would I meet any of them after reading this, no way in hell. And I don't think I'm alone in that, so they just cut their potential playing field down immensely.

 

Quin

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[pa_chip 15]

Thanks, Quin. I thought it was just me. Been in a rut and feeling my age lately. So I thought maybe it was me. Though I am happy for John, this thread just hit me wrong.

 

Yours truly; Pa_Chip

[Elusive BiFem 70]

Originally posted by Quin

This is a public forum about swinging, it's not someone's personal avenue to stroke their ego or stroke another's ego and that's basically all this was.

 

Quin

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Affirmation, Quin...just affirmation...

 

And no, pa_chip...it wasn't just you...EBF

[windsor4fun2 130]

Originally posted by Quin

While, apparently, it was agreed upon by all parties to bring it to the boards, I think it's tacky, juvenile and I felt as if I had been propelled back to high school and was listening to some 15 year old who got his weenie sucked for the first time. This is a public forum about swinging, it's not someone's personal avenue to stroke their ego or stroke another's ego and that's basically all this was.

 

What those involved don't realize is they may have cut their own throat. Would I have met any of them prior to this, probably not, but the option would always be there to meet if I/they ever wanted. Would I meet any of them after reading this, no way in hell. And I don't think I'm alone in that, so they just cut their potential playing field down immensely.

 

Quin

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I agree with you on this.

 

My response was with reference to recent discussions on discretion here on the board where one party divulged info the other party didn't ok. Maybe just a matter of terminology I guess.

 

Jesse

[Quin 17]

Originally posted by windsor4fun2

I agree with you on this.

 

My response was with reference to recent discussions on discretion here on the board where one party divulged info the other party didn't ok. Maybe just a matter of terminology I guess.

 

Jesse

 

Sorry, Jesse, I haven't seen these other discussions so I really can't comment on them or compare them in regards to this thread.

 

Quin

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[Guest Seymore]

I thought it was a pretty cool thread to read. Its not as though it was a specific blow-by-blow (pun intended) porn story. the best thing about this board to me is the way it lets people feel as though they're a part of others lives, and share experiences they've had. If it were strictly information oriented it wouldnt be as much fun.....and i've read more explicit stuff here than this!

 

I just posted about my first experience with swinging...maybe Im just hoping no one's going to critizice me for it Seriously though, for me it's not something I can talk about anywhere else ...so I just want to share my experience with other like-minded people. Im sure these guys just felt the same way.

[Quin 17]

Originally posted by Seymore

I thought it was a pretty cool thread to read. Its not as though it was a specific blow-by-blow (pun intended) porn story. the best thing about this board to me is the way it lets people feel as though they're a part of others lives, and share experiences they've had. If it were strictly information oriented it wouldnt be as much fun.....and i've read more explicit stuff here than this!

 

I just posted about my first experience with swinging...maybe Im just hoping no one's going to critizice me for it Seriously though, for me it's not something I can talk about anywhere else ...so I just want to share my experience with other like-minded people. Im sure these guys just felt the same way.

 

I don't think it was the sharing of an experience that bothered people, Seymore. People do that all the time, whether it be here or in the stories section (which may have been a more appropriate forum to get into the more personal side of it all). I think it was more a matter of the naming of names along with specific details, mostly the naming of names.

 

Very few people enjoy name-droppers and I think that's how many people responded to this thread.

 

Quin

 

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[gsu22 187]

yeah me too!

[DragonsLair 26]

Personally, I didn't see anything really wrong with this thread. Maybe there were a few too many details shared, but the overall message was that not all single men are bad. And after all the single male bashing that's gone on here, I think this thread was needed.

[yawanna 17]

While it is nice to read about 'happy experiences', in this particular instance/thread.....red warning flags went up for me.

 

It's nice that several have met and had a great time, and swinger friendships have ensued, it remains that those meetings and friendships are really none of anyone else's concern or need to know.

 

On a few occasions, someone has commented in a public forum that it was 'so nice to meet you! We had a great time last night!' and I DIE. They meant well, were even being complimentary BUT..... that's total indiscretion. Who we meet with and when and where, let alone what we do when we meet..is private business. And, it has left an impression on others that we set it up to look popular or in demand, and others have told me that the person making the public 'compliments' may be using the fact that they met us as a way in to meeting others.

 

All in all, for me anyway, it felt like eavesdropping and I stopped reading the thread, until it popped up again as a 'new posting'. It is also IMHO indiscrete, whether all parties agree to talk about their activities publicly, or not.

 

The activities, let alone that you all met, is none of our business or concern, it was too much information (John is really big!!!), it looks like name dropping, and I would not want to meet any of you in person for fear you may wish to compliment me in a like manner. If the intent was to share that there are some good single men around, that could have been shared in a less intimate and personal manner I think.

 

These are just my thoughts and my take on the matter and are comments on the behaviour, not the people themselves. Please don't flamethrow me.

[thump29 16]

I really have missed alot on this thread here. First of all on my part I wanted to let people know that there are some really nice single men out there, we here all the time about bad experiences with single men. I know because I have had one and it almost took me out of the swinging lifestyle alltogether. If it hadnt of been for John I really dont think I would of ever got with another single male again. Yes it was agreed upon to share some of our experience here on the board, but believe me it was not meant to stroke anybodys ego. If anybody took offense to it then I do apologize but if you dont like what is being said in the thread then dont read it. If I go into a thread and it has something in it that I dont have a answer on or a interest or if I dont like what is being said in it then I just leave that thread.

 

As far as attacking John that was really uncalled for. Come on we are all adults here and this was just plain out childish. I know John real well and he is not bi-polar nor does he use drugs. John is a great person and he has been having it a little rough here lately but we all do have problems that we deal with. I have a son that is bi-polar so I do know how they act and what it is like and he is not. People with bi-polar cannot help how they act by the way it is a chemical imbalance in our brain. After reading what was said I feel really bad for my son if people are going to treat him badly because he has a illness.

 

The reason for me posting this thread is to let others know that may have had bad experiences before with single men, that they not all our bad guys. I do appreciate and thank John for showing me that.

 

Like I said before I do apologize if anybody got offended by this thread, but this is a swingers forum and we all felt it was ok to post some personal details. With that being said cut John some slack he is not a bad person or a alcholic or drug abuser or anything like that.

 

Something else to think about here too, maybe it is because we are not new to this lifestyle, but when we go out in public we do share hugs and etc and no nothing to embarass anybody but we dont mind giving the other person a hug. We have been in this lifestyle for 8 years now and nobody knows we are swingers unless we tell them, so I am not worried about some body finding me out when we go out. We are very discreet and unless it is agreed upon before hand nothing is said or done.

[Alura 2,775]

Originally posted by yawanna

 

On a few occasions, someone has commented in a public forum that it was 'so nice to meet you! We had a great time last night!' and I DIE. They meant well, were even being complimentary BUT..... that's total indiscretion. Who we meet with and when and where, let alone what we do when we meet..is private business. And, it has left an impression on others that we set it up to look popular or in demand, and others have told me that the person making the public 'compliments' may be using the fact that they met us as a way in to meeting others.

 

While I agree with you in general, Yawanna, I wonder how you feel about the "Meet Up" forums...

 

The only time we've met anyone who frequents this Board was at "Meet Up" meetings. After several weeks of posts about an upcoming "Meet Up" it would be, in my opinion, unfortunate not to at least mention that the meeting was pleasant and worth the trouble. It doesn't make sense to me to have all kind of posts leading up to a meeting and then pretend the meeting didn't happen. I think our fellow board members would be interested in whether or not the meeting was successful, if for no other reason that to weigh the information in making a decision to attend a "Meet Up."

 

I see nothing wrong with general compliments. I believe I once remarked in a thread that Elusive BiFem is attractive (I don't remember the context; it may have been in the "Beautiful People" forum...) and I see nothing wrong with that. Since EBF didn't didn't call me down on it, I can only assume she's not mad at me.

 

I agree with you that compliments on penis size or sexual prowess are indiscrete, to say the least. I guess that's why we have a "Swingers Stories" section. Perhaps that's where this thread should have been posted in the first place.

 

Mr. Alura

[M&B 21]

This thread turned out to interest me after all.

 

What I found refreshing about the exchange between John and the Thumps was an expression of a genuine bond that was formed. Finding people to make this kind of bond with isn't always easy for people. These people did and they jointly told their story.

 

Was it too much information? They, as the principles in the saga, didn't think so. As a listener- perhaps. But, what I got out of the dialog was that a couple found a good friend in someone. That someone was happy to have found some more good friends.

 

Is the devil in the details or did the details bring out the devil?

 

I do think that it really would make one hell of a Swingers Story!

 

Of course, any reference to chunks of corn would.... oh, never mind!