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We're 57 and 52 so you guys are youngsters.

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We don't have any problem finding swingers our age. It seems like most swingers get started in the lifestyle after they're financially secure and the kids are grown.

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two4youinswva said:

There are quite a few spouse swAARPers around here.

 

:D

 

Dave and I resemble that remark! I've got my card here somewhere!

 

55 and 50 here... We're older AND better!! :kissface:

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Great movie called Quartet. One of the characters, 70's, is hitting on a younger woman. His comment is she s missing out on some "seasoned wood". I thought it was a perfect comment. With age comes experience and patience, and a lot of fun.

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I just had the experience of watching my 96 year old aunt pass away. She leaves a brother 93 and a sister 99. I'm a youngster at 62. It's all about perspective. My uncle of 93 got married for the second time at 83. My dad was still getting it up in his eighties. Another brother of his married for the first time at age 50 and had two kids.

 

I am all the ages I've lived. I remember my twenties well, so I can identify with someone in their twenties. They though haven't been sixty, so they can't identify with me. I have the advantage. In the same manner I could swing with people of any age because I've been most of those ages. I like to think I have enough perspective to be able to extrapolate and swing with a 70 or 80 year old.

 

Could I really?

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I'm a 43 year old woman (hubby 51) and just wanted to give the older guys some encouraging news. I just turned down sex with a 26 year old couple (beautiful wife) because young guys hold zero appeal to me. I had the worst sex of my life as a 20 something with other 20 somethings. Not wanting to repeat that misery anytime soon...:)

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