What Do You Love About Blowjobs?

[sunbuckus 3,567]

This question is just for the gentlemen! Guys, what kind of technique(s) do you like the most when someone is performing oral on you?

[TattooNJ 15]

Twisting is always good. And of course deepthroating. But if she really enjoys giving a blowjob thats when its the best.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I will give oral sex to a woman any time I sense she is reacting to it. But for me, oral sex is reserved for when I want my orgasm. I've never had "bad" oral sex but once it starts, my brain sets a goal -- orgasm! If oral sex begins then stops, my mind screams, "ack, you're just teasing me."

 

That being said, the fastest and most intense way to orgasmic heaven is when a woman uses her lips and tongue and moves up and down the corpus spongiosum. This works best when I am on my back and her body is perpendicular to mine. It's not, technically, a "blow job" as my penis is not inside of the woman's mouth (I would send a picture or a diagram to illustrate the technique, but that would be undignified). One or two woman do, however, know a way of applying this same feeling to the corpus spongiosum by having a lower lip applying just the right pressure while my penis is in her mouth. The best position for this is when I am on my back, she is on her belly and has her head between my legs.

 

Gosh, I'm getting crazy just thinking about it.

[frontosa415 21]

If the lady likes doing it ,that makes it great,but for me sliding the head up and down with her mouth is out of this world

[latenight 15]

There most definitely is such a thing as bad oral. I dated a girl who would scrape the head of my dick with her teeth, all of the time, sometimes to the extent of bleeding. Her excuse was that I'm too big, which would be valid if I was asking her to deepthroat, but all I wanted was for her to use her lips instead of her teeth. My current GF is the best I've ever had, and gives me a boner just by licking her lips. She licks a lot, then will take it in her mouth as much as she can , then will alternate between sucking my balls and sucking my dick and then lays my dick on her tongue so I can watch my load go in her mouth. It is pure bliss.

[sunbuckus 3,567]

I dated a girl who would scrape the head of my dick with her teeth, all of the time, sometimes to the extent of bleeding.

 

Yowwchie! I don't even want to read that sentence again it sounds so awful.

[JandKinBoise 858]

I have the same problem latenight had. My wife has this one tooth, that looks just fine but will drag if she's not careful. I am currently healing from a rather aggressive bj a couple days ago. The worst thing is she doesn't know she's doing it and for some reason I can't feel it till it's too late. ug! Last time we were in for teeth cleaning, I got done first so I stopped in where she was finishing up with the dentist. I pointed out the tooth to him and asked if he could round it off a little for me and told him why. I had no idea Mormons were so sensitive about this stuff. I guess we need a new dentist.

At any rate, good head will be a little different for everyone. The woman has to enjoy sucking enough to pay attention to reactions and movements and work with that knowledge to make him happy. Concerning technique, I would simply suggest trying as many different things on it as you can and learn. Rarely is the first bj the best. Best comes with time, patience, practice and a non-Mormon dentist.

[latenight 15]

Yowwchie! I don't even want to read that sentence again it sounds so awful.

Yep, it really hurt. The question I always had was why? She said it was too big, but I've looked it up and I'm not unusually thick or anything,maybe above average in girth, but nothing too big. I'm pretty long, but I never tried to throat-fuck her or force it , either. the only thing I could think of is that she was either not into it, or was TOO into it. If she wasn't into it, then she did it on purpose, if she was too into it, the she lost track of what she was doing. In any case, I've had a number of ther girls who had no problem and were able to keep from biting.

[ronjak 15]

Balls need attention too, love when they are caressed while my dick is being sucked, and also sucking on the balls them selves while her hand is stroking... ahhh, very nice!

[junglecouple 127]

uh.... everything?!?!?

[two4youinswva 3,068]

and also sucking on the balls them selves while her hand is stroking... ahhh, very nice!

 

I think I'm odd in this aspect, in that I find it slightly uncomfortable/painful to have my balls sucked on.

[oc1234 435]

I find it very pleasurable to have my balls played with while receiving a blowjob. My best friend's ex-wife was extremely talented in giving blowjobs. Unfortunately they got divorced. Even though I am still friends with her, and I am sure her current husband, who I knew before she married him, knows that I have played with her, they don't seem interested in playing.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I love to be licked. Deep throating feels good but sucking hard on just the head is better. Swallowing is also a must. A finger in my ass while you are working my cock with your mouth gives me an incredible orgasm.

[zztx1 18]

The excitement and attitude of the woman is as important as the technique. If it is a chore, I dont want it, I want someone who loves giving as much as I am getting. And of course, I reciprocate. Blowjobs after I have ejaculated with regular sex can be mindblowing. But most of all, I love attention played to the balls. Sends me into oblivion.

[AR1547 131]

I'm a freak. I've never in my life had an orgasm from a blowjob. I have some weird mental block about getting off that way. I like blowjobs, they feel good, but I never finish that way. The sad thing is that so many women over the years have taken that as a challenge, so I've recieved the best blowjobs ever, and it still doesn't work.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . so I've recieved the best blowjobs ever, and it still doesn't work.

You need to rid your mind of that concept of "yucky, nasty". Girls do not think of it that way. They like to make a man have a complete orgasm.

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

I love how wet I get while giving. I really like the feel of him in my mouth and making him feel good. Positive feedback (verbal and non-verbal) is great. I like it when he comes, but if not that's ok too. I kind of like the power it gives me.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . I kind of like the power it gives me.

You have confirmed what I have sometimes suspected. I remain über-sensitive immediately after orgasm and some women seem to sense this and do everything they can to make me jump and squirm. I have to simply hold on for the ride because I'm rendered helpless. Maybe I need a safe word for oral sex.

[bogeyman 31]

I enjoy a BJ best after a long session of foreplay maybe after I've gone down on her and even given her an orgasm first. Then she's able to slowly milk a good amount of pre-cum and spread it around the head of my cock slowly with the tip of her tongue. Then taking her thumb and first finger and wrap them around my scrotum and slowly and gently pulling my balls down and simultaneously tickling the bottom of my balls with her ring finger while blowing me. Humming the star spangled banner with her mouth tightly wrapped around my cock is also highly arousing, (the high notes are awesome). After 15-20 minutes of this, then being finger fucked up the ass while really going to town with her mouth usually results in one of the best blow jobs ever. Before the vascectomy, in my younger days, this could result in rivers of spurting cum that would put Peter North to shame.

[Coffeeblack 38]

When it is totally unexpected...Like when I wake up and shes slobbing on it with her mouth. Hmmmm... I'm getting a chubby just thinking about it.

[Fours Company 169]

To me the best part is finishing in her mouth. Maybe it's the different sensation in body parts or noises she makes while swallowing, but orgasms have always felt more intense this way then vaginally and I've felt much more sated afterward. My wife gives the best blowjobs and so far she is the only woman I've came with orally.

 

For her, she enjoys the fact that she can do this to me and the way I respond...the tightening of the testes, the penile spasms..right before I release down her throat.

I can get turned on just re-enacting it my mind .

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

Knowing that in giving them I get to totally take control of someone else's orgasm.... There's a whole backstory to the psychology of that but I won't go into it; maybe I will on my blog sometime.

[Guy1964 177]

Knowing that in giving them I get to totally take control of someone else's orgasm.... There's a whole backstory to the psychology of that but I won't go into it; maybe I will on my blog sometime.

 

I hope you do that. It would be very interesting.

[81lizard69 470]

I love it when the girl giving me a blow starts when I am soft. I love it when she puts my manhood all in her mouth pulls my penis out while sucking and does this over and over till I am hard. The finish...lets just say if she can time her swallows and movements with my orgasm;'''Yumm

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

There most definitely is such a thing as bad oral. I dated a girl who would scrape the head of my dick with her teeth, all of the time, sometimes to the extent of bleeding.

 

Been there done that, burned to the T-shirt. Pardon the pun, but it sucks. I literally quit dating a girl because she loved giving blow jobs, always wanted to do it, and the end result was ALWAYS painful.

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

Two things.

 

1. Enthusiasm. My wife really loves giving blow jobs and it shows. There are times she is so enthusiastic that is almost as if she is attacking, but not in a bad way. More of she just has to have a dick in her mouth.

 

2. I am not sure exactly what she does, but it is a combination of her head going up and down AND rotating slightly. Her tongue in high gear rotation and her hand stroking up and down and rotating. Wish I could explain it better, but when she starts doing that it is mind blowing and it is far too intense to concentrate on what she is doing because of what it does to me. I usually end up gripping the mattress as if I was hanging on for dear life and I am often very light headed when she is done. It is almost sadistic how much she enjoys doing it to me.

 

Another thing she likes laying on her back with her head off the bed, with me (or someone else) standing and she deep throats me. Since I (or whoever she is doing) has control over the stroking motion, she is more cautious about who she does it with. Getting too aggressive with the stroking motion is painful for her. But it does feels incredible when she is doing that.

 

As a side note, my wife used to not like giving blow jobs very much. So I would never push the issue, but gladly accept them when she was in the mood. Over the years she has gotten to where she loves giving them. I'm not sure what the change was and neither is she. Since we started swinging she has been on a quest to perfect the blow job. The result is 1 & 2 above. Now I am not sure she has perfected it, but if she hasn't I am not sure I could take it if she got any better. But I am certainly willing to try.

[Guy1964 177]

I love the feeling of acceptance; of knowing that someone wants that much to pleasure me. It's an amazing turn-on. As far as "technique," it's best when the method and technique changes several times.

[carebear 90]

i had no idea mormons were so sensitive about this stuff. I guess we need a new dentist.

 

bwahahah!

[Gordo 618]

Blowjobs give much more sensation than a vagina and I love them especially if they go all the way and allow you to come in their mouth. My wife has a technique of taking it in the back of her throat and just pulsing her muscles and surrounded by moist heat and flesh I just about blast the back of her head off!

[Fours Company 169]

One of the best things is when a woman incorporates scrotum play. The wife has perfected a technique to where when she feels I'm starting to go over the edge, she'll massage my testes rhythmically while using a finger to push on the perineum and this always heightens the orgasm immensely.

[Gordo 618]

I am so getting my wife to read this thread:D

[AZCouple 99]

Getting one!

[Cancuple-he 37]

When my wife has been riding my and grinding me for awhile, getting her juices all over me, and then suddenly lifting off to give me a BJ so she can lick off all her deliciousness!

[Sirramm 111]

Swirling the tongue around the head or licking and pushing the tongue into the hole gets me every time...of course a good ball roll or sucking helps a great deal as well! O and LOTS of spit and eye contact!!!!!!!!

[Sirramm 111]

O and also commenting on how tasty it is...that helps too! LOL

[SwingSetHusband 110]

I just love them all together. I guess the only complaint I would have is if she didn't know what she was doing.

[SwingSetHusband 110]

of course a good ball roll or sucking helps a great deal as well! O and LOTS of spit and eye contact!!!!!!!!

 

Yeah, you're right about this part!!

[gsu22 187]

Looking for older posts to add on to and thought this was a good one.

 

I love when my balls are gently held with a tiny bit of pressure as I cum. That plus a finger or something else in my ass makes me shake and bust HARD! Deep throating and ball licking feel damn good. I like when they grab my ass cheek when they realize I'm about to bust to bring me in all the way so my whole load goes down their throat. The soft, smooth feeling of a woman doing it is the best.

 

When I GIVE blowjobs, I fucking love the power it gives me. Being a bi man, I'm obviously an expert with the equipment. Love alternating between sucking slow and fast, licking nut sacks(prefer big balls), slowing pressing my free hand on their lower abdomen and slowly move it down past their belly button reaffirming that with their dick in my mouth and my hand on their stomach, I'm in CONTROL! The throbbing of the cock just before they bust is amazing especially with their hand on my head pressing me all the way down on the cock as it explodes. The grunting, and movements that are made as a guy cums is awesome.

[TricianMike 772]

I am the wife but will answer why my Mike says he loves it. He has always liked it he told me because i do a lot of changing of pressure and yes I do what so many men have written they like. He is very open telling me or directing me as I do when he is going down on me. I know it drives him wild when I play with his boys and even lower. I will even go to other places if we have just showered.

[wntr 18]

i really love when my gf fondles my balls when she gives me blowjob. plus, i really like my balls being licked and sucked. and also, i like it real slowly when the time i almost come in her mouth. and she real loves to do all these and she's perfect the way she do. ^^

[Guest]

There are no bad blowjobs.

[LFM2 1,482]

There are no bad blowjobs.

 

Dave would agree with you on this.

[sunbuckus 3,567]

There are no bad blowjobs.

 

I don't know...I saw some of the responses and there seemed to be some pretty bad and painful blowjobs out there.

[gsu22 187]

There are no bad blowjobs.

 

Great point haha. I think I love giving them as much as receiving them

[DnM69 70]

The fact my wife genuinely loves doing it makes it so much better. If she plays with herself while giving me a bj she will cum before me, and feeling her moaning on me feels incredible. She also likes to show off, so it often finished in a rather messy fashion.

[HappyCpl 89]

Take your time, it's not a race. Also, don't make those awful gagging noises that the gals do in the porn films.

 

 

 

Other than that, mind your teeth and have fun, because I certainly will!!

 

[FlirtyGirl 20]

To be honest I love listening to the partner I am with....the joy or pleasure I am able to create....the feeling of them inside my mouth, the swelling and bouncing in response to my movements.....the spasm and flexing when they reach their orgasm and the squirting hot pleasure that they pay me in return!!