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We are an older married couple,60, and have always enjoyed a great sex life. While we have talked over the years of expanding our sex life to include others we have never acted on it. The closest we have come was being naked in a jacuzzi with a female friend, which we all enjoyed. We are going on a trip next week and have decided to go to a club and check things out for ourselves. I guess my real question is; will we be accepted and what can we expect? A couple of newcummers

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Don't know what you have heard about swingers' clubs that would have you concerned. They're not fearsome places. They're fun places. Give the club hosts a call or send an e-mail question of you have specific concerns. Watching people at a club is fun, if nothing else.

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Older swingers are always welcome. Most of us started swinging after the kids left the house and we became more finacially secure. Put up a free profile on sls and see what happens.

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We attended a hotel party this past weekend. A couple that we have been friends with for a few years was there. She's mid 50's, he's in the 65-68 range.

They are usually the life of the party.

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So we're the couple that posted this last week and were is such a such that we forgot to register. Now that we have I thought I'd post something about our first experience. As I said we went on an out of town trip last week and although we had discussed going to a club and had the address and all, I think there was some hesitation on our part to go through with it. So we drove by during the day to check it and make sure we could find it at night. That evening we sat around our room talking about it and then decided it was time to take the plunge and see for ourselves what it was all about. We paid our donation at the door to one of the owners of the place and dropped our drinks at the bar. the greeting from all were very pleasant and we decided to sit near the dance floor and get comfortable with our new surroundings. There were a few other couple and about 10 single guys and a couple of single gals. The age varied so while we definitely were no where near the youngest we weren't the oldest either. After having a drink and visually getting to know the place we decided it was time to check our surroundings. Since it was during the week it was fairly slow but that was fine as we got an opportunity to look around without a crowd. First off to the pool/Jacuzzi area where the only person was a guy in a towel. Then we walked around to see what else there was. The upstairs, couple only areas, was closed for the evening. Slow night I guess. So we had another drink watched some dancing and then decided to explore some more. Some of the downstairs bedrooms were in use and having read the rules knew better than to open the doors. So off we went to the group room where another couple was sitting on the sofa and the gal was stroking another guy laying next to her. I must admit I was kind of surprised when my wife said, "let's sit down" as I had told her this was a no pressure visit and just getting a feel for the place was fine with me. So we sit on the sofa, there's the one other couple and about 5-6 guys in the room. (Yes, single males are allowed). She starts stroking me as I enjoy the feel of her hand and I start to feel her tits, which after a few minutes manage to come out of her bra as I look around all of the guys are watching. Suddenly my wife has my dick out and is burying her head in my lap with her lips locked around me. After a few minutes she zips me up with a promise of more to cum! She wants another drink and that's when we notice how late it is and we had to leave early the next morning. We reluctantly decide to leave say goodnight to our hosts with a promise to return. As we head back to the hotel we talk about how pleasant everyone was and how relaxed we were in our first visit. I told her I was surprised by her actions as we had discussed the fact that we were just going to check things out but she said she was really feeling relaxed and thoroughly enjoyed herself. After getting back to our room and ripping each others clothes off for a great fuck we promise ourselves a return in the VERY near future so we can explore more of our new lifestyle.

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So we're the couple that posted this last week and were is such a such that we forgot to register. Now that we have I thought I'd post something about our first experience. As I said we went on an out of town trip last week and although we had discussed going to a club and had the address and all, I think there was some hesitation on our part to go through with it. So we drove by during the day to check it and make sure we could find it at night. That evening we sat around our room talking about it and then decided it was time to take the plunge and see for ourselves what it was all about. We paid our donation at the door to one of the owners of the place and dropped our drinks at the bar. the greeting from all were very pleasant and we decided to sit near the dance floor and get comfortable with our new surroundings. There were a few other couple and about 10 single guys and a couple of single gals. The age varied so while we definitely were no where near the youngest we weren't the oldest either. After having a drink and visually getting to know the place we decided it was time to check our surroundings. Since it was during the week it was fairly slow but that was fine as we got an opportunity to look around without a crowd. First off to the pool/Jacuzzi area where the only person was a guy in a towel. Then we walked around to see what else there was. The upstairs, couple only areas, was closed for the evening. Slow night I guess. So we had another drink watched some dancing and then decided to explore some more. Some of the downstairs bedrooms were in use and having read the rules knew better than to open the doors. So off we went to the group room where another couple was sitting on the sofa and the gal was stroking another guy laying next to her. I must admit I was kind of surprised when my wife said, "let's sit down" as I had told her this was a no pressure visit and just getting a feel for the place was fine with me. So we sit on the sofa, there's the one other couple and about 5-6 guys in the room. (Yes, single males are allowed). She starts stroking me as I enjoy the feel of her hand and I start to feel her tits, which after a few minutes manage to come out of her bra as I look around all of the guys are watching. Suddenly my wife has my dick out and is burying her head in my lap with her lips locked around me. After a few minutes she zips me up with a promise of more to cum! She wants another drink and that's when we notice how late it is and we had to leave early the next morning. We reluctantly decide to leave say goodnight to our hosts with a promise to return. As we head back to the hotel we talk about how pleasant everyone was and how relaxed we were in our first visit. I told her I was surprised by her actions as we had discussed the fact that we were just going to check things out but she said she was really feeling relaxed and thoroughly enjoyed herself. After getting back to our room and ripping each others clothes off for a great fuck we promise ourselves a return in the VERY near future so we can explore more of our new lifestyle.

 

 

Sounds like you guys had a great time. Thank you for coming back and registering and updating us!

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So as I had mentioned we visited a club for the first time last week and this morning my wife and I were just talking about a few things and one was about a post she read on this forum yesterday about a coupe who had been to a club, for the first time and had quite a crazy time. It involved that couple's first visit to a club and the fact they actually were screwing at the club as they watched another couple doing the same thing at the same time. She tells me she"s been dreaming about going back to the club we were at last week and can't seem to get it off her mind. So we're wondering if this is the same reaction other couples have had after going to a club for the first time. I think my wife is strongly hinting for a return engagement with a more active participation on our part. Thoughts/comments?

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Welcome and thanks for updating your thread! It's always nice to see new people around the forum and their great experiences.

 

I think when you first start out, you can't get the LS out of your mind, even if you're just playing with each other. The idea of swapping with another couple can be intoxicating. Just be sure to keep talking, take it slow to make sure you both are comfortable with how everything is going, and have fun! Our first time at the club was similar to yours and on our second trip, we went all the way with each other at the club (no swapping--just public sex at the club).

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We find the more active we are, the more active we want to be! However, the longer we go between club visits/swinging activities, the easier it is to let it fall to the back-burner (and harder to restart).

 

If you think she's hinting, ask HER! Sounds like she definitely enjoyed herself. She does know which account is yours right? (Just wondering if she was reading/enjoying your own thread).

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