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sahajacpl
This about getting two married couples to swing with us in a small town that has no clubs or other swing facilities. We have a vacation home where we visit several times a year, a week or two at a time. We have one couple that is a regular, that we swing with, doing full swaps intercourse with each other mate. We have had a couple of unattached females for f/m/f various times. Now we want to add the two couples that have a business or family connection with us. Generally we stay from approaching couples with a connection that may cause serious issues, but this one, we think, is a reasonable risk with rewards of social and sexual nature that include a full-swap intercourse. Looking for suggeations how to bring this about. We do want to be discrete to the point of not causing a storm yet the message should be clear and unmistakable about what is intended, i.e., play, full swap and intercourse.
One: Regular swing couple Sam and Kelly. Business owners show up at various times. Most times either just or him due to different travel schedules. We do foursome play and full swap for intercourse. Other times when only one is present it is threesome: m/f/m or f/m/f.
Two: Sam(antha) and Pat(rick) Married couple. Sam is my (wife's) distant cousin and college friend. So, there is a family connection.They spent many years in Australia as expats. Now have returned. Aus has a very vibrant swing culture with private couple's (sex) parties quite common. Pat was interested but could not get wife to go along. She is too shy to play with another couple, not that she is against a swap. We need to break the ice so four of us can play, and full swap for intercourse. We have enjoyed their company, have chemistry, done some risque chat, but, have yet to ask for play leading to full swap. Pat is definitely open to the idea of swinging and full swap. He is not sure about how to get wife to go along.
Three: Shelly and Rob. Shell'y Dad is the property manager where we live. He and his wife are a vanilla couple in their late 60s. So, there is a business connection. Hubby met Shelly first at her Dad's office. Both live in the homes near each othe. Shelly is a very attractive woman and hubby would love to do (fuck) her. Found out from her dad that her hubby Rob works offshore for three months at a time and visits home for couple of weeks. Presumely, the couple can have sex. Now Shelly and I have become good friends, talking about all things that women do including sex. I have told her that we as a couple swing with other couples and swap mates for play and intercourse with the other couple's mate. Shelly is open minded, enjoys sex, but thinks that her hubby, Rob, may have an isue seeing his wife play with another man and have sex.
We are looking for suggestions how to get these two couples to play with us. We are open to any ideas, howsoever wild. Just need to be very discrete so as not to rock the boat too much, since both couples have connections with us, family in one case, business ina the other. We need an out if things should go wrong at the proposal stage. How do we approach? Both couples together or wife on wife or two hubby's discussing how to get their wifes to swing? We can entertain in our home for full privacy for play, swap and intercourse.
Thanks in advance for your ideas. Any ideas howsoever wild are welcome. We are looking for some creative thinking since we would love to play with these couples. We have good chemistry and we have made a friendship. We want to channel the friendship into play and full swap of mates for intercourse.
Some of you may say-do not go there because of the connections. That is OK.
Looking for some good advise.
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