What really grinds my gears? "Recreational" ED drug use

[Chicup 42]

"Recreational" ED drug use.

 

It reminds me of steroid use in sports. I can get it up no problem, but I'm not "going all night" that shit just doesn't happen. Twice, ok, three times if we take a break, but after that it is nap time. So then I hear/read about guys going on and on and on, often guys who are by no means in good shape and it is obvious the little friends they have helping out. Being I don't like messing with my chemistry unless needed, I feel like poor Frank Thomas watching Jason Giambi steroid his way to the MVP.

 

So I'm thinking... eh a little might not hurt...

[confused12524 201]

I realize nobody wants a minute man but how many women really want a guy that can "go all night"

 

Sooo many guys would write us bragging like that or that it "takes forever for them to cum"

Or they can go for hours.

 

Those are turnoffs for my wife. She doesn't want to be hammered for hours or sucking on something without success.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Sooo many guys would write us bragging like that or that it "takes forever for them to cum"

Or they can go for hours.

 

Those are turnoffs for my wife. She doesn't want to be hammered for hours or sucking on something without success.

 

Same here. I can think of two specific cases where we knew right away we were very interested in playing, and yet in the end didn't do a thing because that very kind of talk being overdone killed the deal. The way she looks at that is like any sort of compatibility issue - that may be what you want, it may be what some other women want, but it is not what I want, so don't think we are a good match.

[81lizard69 470]

I am with you on this. I don't like being hammered for more the ten minutes. If you are good I will have came a couple of times by then and I start getting tired. I start wondering is this guy high... Or is he not that into me? Don't get me wrong I like a good marathon session as much as the next girl... well probably more (teehee) But if you can't come after ten minutes of going hard I am losing interest fast. If we hook up after you cum and go again that's hot, but not, you get the idea.

 

If you cum to fast by all means us the pill. Just know that it is ok not to cum. Hell I don't cum every time so why should a man have to?

 

And you are right... Bragging that it takes forever to cum is not the best selling point.

[carebear 90]

Had my very first 'marathon' partner the other day. My mind started wandering and I seriously started thinking about what I would make for dinners the next week. So yeah...

[confused12524 201]

And no guy yet that we have found can "go multiple times".

 

I can, and I don't lose total interest after I go. And in about 10-20 minutes I'm up and running again.

 

Others however, as soon as they cum, they're looking for the door.

 

Sometimes 10 minutes after they arrived. lol

[2plus2fun 143]

I agree with you, OP. Never taken any of that crap.

[iexxxcpl 19]

I've had some "herbal" stuff that has worked well in ensuring a faster recovery and throbbing erections but it comes with buck-nasty headaches. It doesn't delay ejaculation so drilling hasn't been an issue. I've only used it with my wife though, never experienced it in a swing situation.

[carebear 90]

Oh, and the 'marathon-er' had the condom fall off and spent I don't know how many minutes trying to fish it out. (So would he have to be soft for that to happen? What's the point of staying inside? ) I finally asked WTH are you doing, and he said he didn't want me to freak. Ok, not telling me is going to make me freak. Telling me so we can then deal with it I'm cool with. Geesh.

Anyway, my point lol is: during a marathon fuck session is the guy more likely to go soft at some point?

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

A condom can come off when a guy is hard if it's really slippery, she has strong muscles or it wasn't put on properly to start with.

[NYFlirts 158]

Great discussion!

 

I've been tempted to try a pill because of two situations where I couldn't keep it up. 1) I was with a crazy hot girl that intimidated me so much that I couldn't keep it hard... which just made everything go downhill from there. 2) We were at a party and had a great time with a couple. 30 minutes later their friends came in and the other girl wanted to play too. I was only able to keep it up for a little while even though I'd wanted the girl for a VERY long time.

 

I mean it made NO SENSE AT ALL!?!? I was SUPER into both the girls in both situations and couldn't stay hard. I would have been SO glad to have a little help!

 

The other thing discussed here (that could be it's own thread) is around a girl wanting a guy who can go long enough, but not too long. I wish I could control when I cum, but I can't. I've had situations where:

 

1) I cum too fast

2) I take forever to cum

3) In the process of either trying to cum or trying not to cum I get soft

 

I don't know if all the girls in the lifestyle comprehend the myriad of problems a guy has to deal with in regard to his cock staying hard and cumming!

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

I don't know if all the girls in the lifestyle comprehend the myriad of problems a guy has to deal with in regard to his cock staying hard and cumming!

 

Uhh, they know. At least they do if they have been around the LS for more than a little bit.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I expect that this might sound "cheesy" to some people but my purpose in an encounter is to satisfy the woman. I'll do my best to bring her to an orgasm or to make her experience a positive one. I will take a performance enhancing drug to give her that experience whether I need it or not. I will not tell her I took a pill. I want her to believe that she made me rock hard. Yes it's dishonest but the effects on her will be far more devastating if she feels she is not sexy enough to make me hard. All of us guys know that there is more to an erection than the sexiness of the woman we WANT to have sex with.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

Is it OK if I use just half a pill?

[AR1547 131]

HUGE house party tonight, 60 couples or more, and it lasts until sunrise. Our regular couple will be there, and 3 others have communicated with us in advance that they want to get together tonight. I'm pretty sure I'll be able to uhhh...FIND a helpful pill, and I will take it. Forget the 4 hour erection they warn you against in the pill commercials, I'm going for 10.

[asncpl 730]

can someone explain what does these pills do? I am a bit confused from reading the posts. I thought they help a guy maintain an erection but it has no effect on making him cum sooner or later. I mean if he does cum quickly, the pills help him to keep it hard and get going again. Am I wrong?

[Chicup 42]

can someone explain what does these pills do? I am a bit confused from reading the posts. I thought they help a guy maintain an erection but it has no effect on making him cum sooner or later. I mean if he does cum quickly, the pills help him to keep it hard and get going again. Am I wrong?

 

No you are correct. Some are a bit confused.

[Walterwhite2323 16]

Do ED drugs make your manhood even harder or just make you hard? If you don't have ED do you get any benefit?

[EastInWest 1,524]

Do ED drugs make your manhood even harder or just make you hard? If you don't have ED do you get any benefit?

 

I don't mind admitting I've done this with Cialis and have nothing to complain about. I'm generally a "twice a day" guy, and yes, you get benefits. Mainly it's fun on a vacation where you don't have much to do but stay in bed, because it removes "if/when I get hard again" from the equation. I'm certain I'll be hard again if I want to be. If I don't finish, who cares? It's not like I'm wasting a moment and might not ready to go again later. If I do finish, who cares? We'll go have a sandwich and get back to it. Blast away.

 

I've heard people say that Viagra gives the result people are complaining about above: a big erection that just won't pass the finish line and gets frustrating after a while. With Cialis, it seems very natural. As I would without the pill, it gets harder to cum after I've already cum plenty. 3-4 orgasms in, I'll still get very hard, but it's going to be like some people mentioned above: it might take an hour to finish, if I can actually finish at all despite being rock hard and it feeling great.

 

Mrs. EastInWest and I spent a weekend in a hotel room on a lake like that. 8 times in less than 36 hours, sessions before and after every meal and in the middle of the night. It took me a couple days to recover, like I blew a fuse. Lots of fun.

[JM153 346]

can someone explain what does these pills do? I am a bit confused from reading the posts. I thought they help a guy maintain an erection but it has no effect on making him cum sooner or later. I mean if he does cum quickly, the pills help him to keep it hard and get going again. Am I wrong?

 

A couple of potential negative side effects are headaches and taking a long time to cum. Doesn't happen to everybody, but it does happen. Also the different drugs effect different men differently. If you need an ED drug try all three and see which one works best for you. If you have a headache take an aspirin. If you can't cum stop before you wear out your welcome and move on to the next lady.

[KinkySwinger 15]

If you are going to use Cialis for the first time, don't take a full pill. Take half to see your reaction first. I have had a bad experience with Cialis, my eyes and face was red and very hot for a few days and I would get an erection on every single human interaction I did for days. I'm still young enough so I don't need it - it just made my little me go up all the time even when not needed.

[Fuckfest2016 15]

My wife and I are going to be meeting a man from another country he mentioned delay pills and creams but needs something like viagra to keep him hard on the other medicine. Does anyone have a product they suggest. (I come quickly and often)

[let's do it again 416]

I don't see where it makes a difference if your wife is fucking a much younger stud, who can reload 2 or 3 times. It isn't a competition or contest, go out and fuck for your enjoyment pill or no pill.