How big is too big?
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By swingcouple69
OK...we seem to be having a problem that I never thought would be a problem. A little history...before we started swinging, I had never had sex with any man other than Hubby.
Well, it seems that my Hubby is ummm...gifted with the size of his package. I of course didn't know this because I had nothing to compare it to. My friends even accused me of lying about his "measurements" when we'd talk like women do about sex and their men.
So now the problem is that we chat and make great friends which is wonderful. But, then the male half (it is usually the male half) asks for his "measurements." I think it becomes an insecurity issue but I thought that swingers are secure in their relationships? The female halves that do ask...some are very interested...but others are like "NO WAY". They all say how attractive and sexy Hubby is but apparently his size intimidates them.
I won't lie and neither will he because let's face it the couples or females are going to notice his size eventually and who wants to be with dishonest people? How the heck was I supposed to know that 5 inches is normal. Hubby exceeds that by more than an inch or two...lol.
Help?
Thanks!
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By CandT33
The very 1st time...
Was it exciting, nerve racking, defeating?
What was the conversation after the fact, did it effect you two negatively?
Also did you discuss it before it happened?
We are new and I am just unsure how it will effect me and/or her.
She has been with 3 other guys since we started about 3/4 months ago.
I have not had to deal with the above question yet, so looking for some insight from others.
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By stupidquestion
This is a real hangup/massive insecurity of mine. I posted a similar topic a few years ago and I still struggle with this. I'm an average sized guy. If my wife has/had sex multiple times with men who are larger (specifically girthier) than me, will she feel looser as a result? Would she feel tighter if I had been her only partner to date? Or does it bounce back 100% every time? How many encounters with larger men would it take before she feels looser, or does every encounter take something away tightness wise? Ideally I'd love to hear that peoole here have wives who have been with much bigger guys, yet remain just as tight as they always were pre the big guys.
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By muycurious
Now let me preface this with the fact that I am not 8 inches as you may have guessed. So this post is a little bitter but also I wonder this often.
I see a lot of online profiles that say "8 inches or bigger!" and they will accept nothing less. I often wonder how many woman know how big an 8 inch or larger dick really is. I wonder if some see a 6.5 to 7 incher and think it is bigger than it is. Most of us are just around 6. So a 7 incher is pretty big.
I mostly wonder this because I had a friend growing up that had a HUGE dick. At 15 it was just over 8 inches. One day, I think we were around 18, I confessed to him that I had a hard time taking the next step of letting a woman see my dick. I felt it was really small at the time. And he told me he would trade his for mine anytime. He said he had two woman see it and saw "No Way, get that thing away from me", and then two others that tried but could not take it without hurting. I still see him periodically, we are in our early 30s now, and I brought up the same thing just the other day. He is married now, but he said he stopped bothering with small women and even the larger women couldn't take it. He still felt it was a curse.
SO... what I am wondering is if women REALLY know what 8 inches is?
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By nice_cpl_n_bama
Hello All,
Something happened at a recent party that got me thinking about the extra large condoms. First, let me say that I'm a little above average myself, a little over seven and about the thickness of a D cell flashlight. I use Crown skinless skin condoms. They have a slimmer than usual profile. They feel more sensitive. I've used condoms like Inspiral or Trojan twisted pleasure and found that the extra room in those took away from sensitivity instead of adding to it. XXL condoms are just an ego thing as far as I can tell. The proof of that follows.
One of the ladies at a house party we attend was bragging that she had been with a guy who's unit was so big he couldn't use even the XXL condoms. She claimed that he had to special order super large condoms to fit his mammoth tool.
Everyone was getting as little annoyed with her endless tall tales and inability to shut up and give other people a chance to talk from time to time. Little did she know that she was stepping right into the trap of one of my favorite party tricks.
I pulled out one of my crown condoms, rolled it down over my hand, worked my other hand inside. By this time some of the regular attenders were stifling giggles because they have seen this gag before. I stretched it out and put it over my head with the ring between my mouth and nose. I breathed in through the mouth and out through the nose several times to inflate the condom into a giant diving helmet and said "WOW, not even an XXL would fit? Maybe I should stick my head in there and look around to see if he did any damage."
Ok, so maybe that was mean, but she did stop with the wild stories after that.
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