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As some of you know my wife and I are moving to Las Vegas. Right now she has been out in Vegas about 6 weeks. I went out there with her and took a load of stuff out a couple of weeks ago.

 

We do not play separately. However we have thought about the idea of me being the 3rd in a MFM with another couple while my wife interacts with us on Skype.

 

What do you think? sound like fun? Would you want to be that couple? We do not have any one we normally play with, that's one of the reasons we decided to move so far.

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I'm confused. What does play partners have to do with choosing to move so far apart from each other?

 

That said, if you haven't previously played separately, I wouldn't suggest starting now while you are getting used to an LDR. LDR's are hard enough, without trying to work in "new rules".

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Sorry, the distance is temporary. Her job started before my job obligations ended here.

 

We don't play apart so that's why we were thinking Skype to keep her in the loop.

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How temporary?

 

If we were that couple, it would be a dealbreaker...unless there is some relationship prior to what we would consider an odd request, like skyping with your wife, we'd decline. You just never know who is watching or recording playtime.

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In theory, this sounds like fun. In practice, though, not having a regular play couple with which to enact this may make it unlikely. I/we are pretty open to whatever with regular partners, including stuff that would sound hincky coming from strangers, which this would.

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The plan is to just put it on our SLS profile and see if any one bites. If no one bites then we don't really have any other way to make it happen.

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Sorry, the distance is temporary. Her job started before my job obligations ended here.

 

We don't play apart so that's why we were thinking Skype to keep her in the loop.

 

Why not just wait until you two are back to living together before resuming your swinging activities?

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I think it sounds awkward for everyone and could lead to feeling left out. I can't really picture having a threesome and trying to interact with a computer monitor at the same time. I'd just wait until you can be together again.

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It doesn't seem like a good idea if you haven't played separately before. With your wife on a computer screen, you lose certain unspoken communications like body language, or a soft touch. On top of that you are playing with new partners who you are not familiar and you can't possibly anticipate the sort of situations that may come up. I agree with the other posters you should wait.

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I agree with asncpl, it doesn't sound like an ideal introduction to playing separately. We have jobs that see us travelling a bit and have built up the trust and communication to a point where we are comfortable and encouraging of the other to play separately if they feel the need. It doesn't happen often, but reassuring to know that the option is there and we are both happy with it. We understand that it is an awfully big task to satisfy your partners every need (sexually, emotionally, physically, spiritually etc.) so we share the 'load' so to speak. Perhaps you should wait until you are both reunited and try playing separately when your work situation improves.

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