How Did It Feel the First Time You Saw Your Wife Penetrated by Another Man?

[AngelandTiger 364]

Hi all,

 

I love the camaraderie, the supportive attitudes and general concern that are shown by the members of this board to other members, new or old. I really feel that this is a place where like-minded people can talk, discuss, introspect and honestly "put it out there" without fear of insensitive "snarking" or ridicule. You guys are great, and an absolute treasure as a resource for those of us who are not yet vastly experienced.

 

That said, I would like to pose a question. I'll be happy to be the first one to answer. Even after all of the planning, fantasizing and talking you and your wife or SO did prior to your first experience, how, in detail, did the men of this forum feel the first time you saw your wife open her legs and willingly accept another man's penis into her vagina? As he actually took his place upon or (or she him) and pushed his penis into her body?

 

Despite all of the preparation and desire on both of our parts for this experience, I found a cornucopia of emotions, feelings and thoughts running through my brain and body like a torrent. The male in question was someone we'd gotten to know fairly well; his wife was absent that day due to illness. The hello kiss between he and my wife turned very passionate and prolonged; he began to fondle her breasts and her pussy (she was wearing short shorts) and she began, almost unconsciously, to stroke his cock. One thing led to another, soon they were doing oral on each other, and I signaled my wife that it would be ok with me if she fucked him. We hit the bedroom, and I stood at the edge of the bed, looking into her eyes and holding her hand, as he moved between her legs. She spread them wide for him, and I got the feeling in the pit of my stomach, like a pang of EXCITEMENT mixed with ENVY, mixed with FEAR, mixed with a highly erotic feeling. She put her legs on his shoulders, and as I watched, his very rigid cock penetrated her pussy and she made a noise I'd never heard her make without me. Erotic excitement, incredible arousal and jealous feelings poured through me, as I watched him aggressively drive himself deeper and deeper into my wife. I wasn't sure if I wanted him to stop, or to continue forever. The excitement was incredible, as was the arousal, but strangely I wasn't hard. I watched as she squirted several times for him, and had orgasm after orgasm. Again, I wasn't sure what I was feeling except that it was VERY powerful. Regret that we had decided this and couldn't go back, excitement to do it again and again, incredible desire to join and to put my cock in her mouth, uncertainty as to how to proceed.

 

Finally, I could see he was ready to cum, and when he did, I looked at and kissed my wife as she thrust into him. We always use condoms, so he carefully pulled out, and I mounted her with him behind her, cradling her shoulders as I drove MY cock into her. We thrust hard against each other, and I came deep in her with him holding onto her from behind.

 

Our friend was polite, showed deference and was very gracious; my wife, for her part, really enjoyed it and had nothing but pleasure and positive emotions flowing through her. In keeping with her usual, she really had no memory as to what he did to her after she began to fuck him...she's in another world during sex and remembers very little. I had to fill her in (which she was eager to hear). I, on the other hand, took a bit to integrate all of the feelings of jealousy, excitement, loss, gain, fear, eroticism, pain and pleasure that I had experienced. Things have been similar but less startling as other events have unfolded. I'm not sure, but I really think it is the gamut of emotions, from jealousy and pain to pleasure and massive sexual excitement, that make, for me, seeing her with another man so incredibly hot. I've said before that I think it's our power to channel the power latent in jealousy (and the envy, fear of being left out, fear of not being good enough that jealousy encompasses) into our similarly intense erotic experience that keeps us (at least ME!!!!) enthusiastic about the lifestyle and finding opportunities to play again and again. Our stated reasons for getting into the LS is that we love to watch each other as we're pleasured....and that's still true.

 

How about you?

[Chicup 41]

Don't recall.

 

Seriously.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

I'm with Chicup, I really don't remember. We don't stay fixated on each other while playing (in fact, guys who do are the Mrs. number one swinging pet peeve). We both stay tuned in enough to make sure the other is ok and having a good time, but beyond that, we don't pay that close of attention to even know the moment when penetration took place. It's been that way from the start.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Dunno. I was too busy putting my penis into another woman's vagina. I guess that sounds cavalier. But you asked, so I answered.

 

Actually, I was OK with the idea of it and with seeing the act. It aroused me a little, still does, but I don't get all ga-ga over it. Like I say, I'm typically distracted.

[lotsoffun201 175]

AngelandTiger....Great story and very well put. Similar situation for us for HER first time, but we were with a couple, and it appears you were with a single male by the tone of your story. Sounds like it was a great experience

[willyoats 324]

It's interesting to think back to those days and find that, like the others above, I can't remember. Our very first experience was separate rooms, so I never saw the first guy go into her. I think the second one was at a swing club and there were a bunch of guys with us in the hot tub. They all got to fondle and kiss. When we decided to got to a room, we invited one guy who had been attentive all evening. I don't remember, in particular, what he did, but we both remember that it was less than spectacular. We both regretted that she had not chosen another guy who had been in the hot tub with us. He was sexy and sensual, but was a late-comer. Somehow we thought we owed the other guy a shot. We never made that mistake of thinking we owed anybody anything; we took the most attractive, alluring, sensual one.

 

After that, as we became more experienced, I remember several instances of watching guys enter her. It was always a gentle thrill, as I knew she was enjoying it. That, after all, was a big reason we got into swinging. i.e., the pleasure that each of us took from being with another person for sex and enjoying the thought that each of us knew the other enjoyed it so much.

 

One interesting note: as I look back on the act of another guy entering my wife, I regret that I never had the chance to guide the other guys cock into her vagina. That may seem a bit strange, perhaps, because I have no desire to play with his cock, only to guide it in and then stand back and watch. But that's how I feel.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

I was feeling bad about myself when I read the original post, because I couldn't recall how I felt.

Then I read the replies.

 

AngelandTiger, it's a really good question, and the discussion should be valuable to newbies. I think the fact that so many of us (so far) don't recall indicates that the feelings were neither awesome nor terrible.

 

I would be interested in how those that had negative feelings addressed them when this happened.

[81lizard69 470]

I thought hey she just met him and she is letting him fold her in and half and hammer her hard. I was jealous..

That was the truth.

[oc1234 435]

The first time was totally unexpected by my wife me. It happened when a couple who were our best friends were at our house and ended up seducing us. Since we were all nudists, we were all nude and my best friend was on the floor massaging my wife and I was on the other side of the room, also on the floor, doing the same thing to his wife. I glanced over to my wife and best friend and saw that he was inside her and the two were really going at it. My first thought was that it was great and pointed it out to my friend's wife. I then went from massaging her to having sex with her. I must say that as soon as I started having sex with her, I didn't pay much attention to what my wife and my friend were doing.

[Methos 17]

Maybe it was because of the way I was raised, or maybe it was lessons learned later in life -- But I've never had any physically possessive feelings toward my wife. Physical stirrings, certainly! But I've known and understood clearly from day one that it's her pussy, not mine. I've had the privilege and joy of her sharing it with me, but I don't own her or any physical part of her. Owning her heart and mind is all that has ever mattered to me (and vice-verse for her.) If she ever wanted to give it to someone else, it's hers to do so with. Now, if that were done covertly, it would absolutely crush me -- not for the physical act, but for the deceit. (And she feels exactly the same.)

 

With that said, it was strangely arousing to see her with another man. And it was thrilling to see and hear her expressions as she let herself go and became completely immersed in pleasure. Pride is probably not the right word to describe what else I felt, I mean I wasn't contributing anything by watching. But I did feel an immense feeling of satisfaction watching her reel and buck through what was probably the biggest orgasm I had seen from her in a long time.

 

Look, to be totally honest (for which she may not forgive me, but we just got home and she just went to bed, so here I go...) After 8 years together, our love life has been less than spectacular as of late. I've had quite a few more experiences and exposures in life than she has, which seemed for a while to place the "suggestion box" for creativity and exploring right in to my hands. I don't know if anyone can relate to that position, but I will tell those who can't that after a while you just get sick of coming up with ideas and suggestions all by yourself. It can get a bit frustrating, to be succinct. So, the weekend was a great weekend of pent-up release, but it was also a huge door-opener for us.

 

Here's the only anomaly for me after a great three-day camping trip... We went for a late breakfast after we packed up and left the camp grounds. Well, she and my buddy ordered dinners that came with the salad bar option. And, after ordering, they went together to fetch their rabbit food while I waited at the table. Later that day, while unpacking and cleaning our gear, my buddy tells me that she slid up next to him at the salad bar with an evil little grin and said, "You know, I came like ten f*cking times this weekend!" Nothing else, and she didn't act any different before or after saying that.

 

So what? There is nothing covert or sinister about that observation or with her sharing it with him. Yet, that was the moment I felt the smallest pang of jealousy ( or envy if you read Fundamental Law's remark on jealousy thread. )

 

I attribute the pang I felt to it being our first time, and the thought that she had shared an intimate thought with him while I wasn't there. Not so much an issue of insecurity as an issue of not being there to share in the moment -- I felt sort of left out. Probably strange, but this board seems to reward honesty with advice, so there it is.

[ViSexual 1,008]

It seems that most of us here don't make such a big deal of it but I, too, very strongly remember that night in 1975 that my wife was penetrated by a friend of ours. And, I say friend because it only happened because we both knew, trusted, and liked him.

 

He and I had gone through a Police Academy together. He was just out of college and I was just out of the military. He was a big, and very well built, guy. I'm thinking he was 6' 4" and probably 225. I was a tad shorter at 6' 2" and around 200 at that time. When it came to hand to hand combat training, we were always matched up.

 

After we became cops he and his wife became friends with me and mine. None of us cops had much money so we all took turns having parties at each other's houses. At every party, and when slow songs were played, it seemed that my wife and he would be dancing together. His wife and I would even joke about it. It was obvious that they had the hots for each other.

 

After a couple of years I got tired of being broke all of the time and got into sales. We bought a good 8MM projector and I'd found a copy of 'Deep Throat', which was all the talk at that time, and invited them and another couple from the force over to watch it. By the end of the movie the other couple were in a hurry to leave, certainly to take care of their needs, but our friends stayed and we drank, danced, and talked for quite a while longer. Yes, my wife was dancing with him and I was with his wife, either dancing or watching our spouses dance.

 

When it was fairly late my wife said that she needed to sleep and went to bed. He said he was tired too and ready to go home. His wife said that she wasn't tired and I really wasn't either so it was agreed that I'd give her a ride, the short distance, to their house later.

 

We talked and drank but there was really nothing sexual discussed. After an hour or so I drove her home and when I pulled into her driveway she, out of the blue, asked me if it ever bothered me when her husband was coming on to my wife. I, honestly, said it didn't and asked her if it did her? She grinned and said no, and that she actually sort of enjoyed it. Then she told me that they'd had a lady friend before that her husband had even had sex with and that hadn't bothered her either.

 

OK, the dynamics changed quickly and, after a couple of more comments, she asked if I would feel mad if our spouses had sex instead of just dancing. I thought about it a moment and said that I didn't think so. Then she asked me if I thought she was sexy and if I'd ever considered having sex with her. I, honestly, said I'd never considered it but I did like her and would love to have sex with her. I really, really thought I was just going to get to fuck her there in the driveway.

 

Well, she said for me to come on in and she hopped out of the car. We went inside and, as soon as she was through the door, she yelled for her husband and he came out. She told him what we'd talked about and he asked me if I was sure that it wouldn't make me mad if he and my wife did enjoy each other. I, honestly, said no and began to consider just what was about to transpire and liked the thoughts.

 

I gave him the keys to my house and his wife and I sat and talked more about their experiences for almost an hour until he called to say it was cool. So, on the drive there, I pretty much knew that my wife had already fucked him. When his wife and I walked in my wife and him were sitting at the dining table. He had on one of my robes and she had on her own. My wife smiled sheepishly and told me that it was my turn to use the bedroom. His wife and I went straight there and didn't take very long to make things fair.

 

When we came out the four of us talked for a short while before deciding that we'd all four go back to the bedroom. My wife and him began making out again but his wife said she'd like to just watch for a while. Hey, we'd just both had ours and were still recovering.

 

We were all four on the bed. They were making out big time and his wife and I were sitting beside them naked and playing with each other. But we were mostly concentrating on what was happening beside us.

 

That was the first time I'd really seen my wife's face while she was being eaten and it was the sexiest expression that I think I've ever seen. She was holding his head hard against her pubic mound with both hands. She, later, told me that his tongue was incredibly large and wonderful. While he was performing oral on her I couldn't help looking at his cock getting harder and harder and thinking about how it had been inside her so recently. I remember almost forgetting that I was sitting next to a very cute, and very naked, young lady myself.

 

When he finally began crawling up onto my wife I was releived because I was almost afraid that the oral was going to be all there was for that encounter. My wife had, obviously, already had an orgasm.

 

When he was completely on top of her and they were locked in kissing I wanted his cock in her but he wasn't making any effort to insert himself yet. I could see my wife hunching up with her legs around his thighs and knew she wanted it too. I don't know if he was just teasing her or hesitant because his wife and I were there.

 

I just couldn't help myself and reached down under them and took his hard cock in my hand. I'll never forget the feel of the cock in my hand and his testicles laying on the back of my hand. I used one finger to confirm that my wife was ready, and I don't think I've ever felt her wetter. I remember thinking that it was not only her being so turned on but also because of his earlier, probable, ejaculations in her.

 

I guided his cock into her and only released his cock when he was buried so deeply that I could no longer hold on without interferring in their pleasures.

[AngelandTiger 364]

I so appreciate all the responses thus far! I'm really impressed with the honesty and the willingness to share on this wonderful forum. I suppose that this thread will be good for new swingers, but I see that it has also "stimulated" more seasoned swingers to harken back to yesteryear. I think what I find fascinating is that some men can't recall any specific emotions (or recall the experience at all), some remember it with vivid detail and strong emotion. As I recall mine, it was truly a powerful and emotionally taxing moment, and I had visions of the experience winding through the deep caverns of my so-called mind for days afterward. Even now, a long time past that moment, the mental image of my wife deeply kissing him and incredibly aroused, followed by the sight of his thick cock entering her very willing pussy is something that drives me into a tremendously high state of arousal. There's almost no image that is hotter to me. And yet, I do struggle at times with the dichotomy. I SOOOO love to see this and to see her pleasure, and it's an incredible turn-on. However, there is that part of me that does feel left out of something I can never share with her, and that little voice that says, "Will she be thinking of him when she's with me.....". Obviously, the energy of those "negative" feelings is pretty powerful, but when transformed into sexual energy drives the massive erotic charge that I feel. I'm sure that it's the same for a lot of men (and women); feelings of compersion, the power of which may be driven by the darker emotions of envy, feeling left out, NGE (not good enough), and others that make up the broad category of jealousy.

 

Make no mistake, my wife and I have tremendous fun in the lifestyle, and have no issues between us. We communicate in a most excellent fashion and when issues arise, we talk them through. I'm fascinated by the answers so far, and wonder also if you DID have episodes when the green "OMG, she really went through with it and ENJOYED IT? ("Why did she enjoy it so much when it wasn't me? I thought she loved me?") monster threatened to rear its ugly head, how did you deal with that? For our part, we talk a lot before and after, and the aftertalk clears up any issues that we might have encountered. We have, unfortunately, played with couples who did NOT deal with this sort of thing well...most commonly this has to do with one or the other changing rules midstream. Not "violating" them, but pushing for a change where the other partner reluctantly agrees in the heat of the moment and issues occur thereafter.

[sunbuckus 3,567]

Not a man here but I wonder if the difference between remembering the first time or not depends on whether the first time was a MFM threesome (the focus would be on the wife) versus a couple swap (the husband was distracted with the other wife).

[ViSexual 1,008]

I'm fascinated by the answers so far, and wonder also if you DID have episodes when the green "OMG, she really went through with it and ENJOYED IT? ("Why did she enjoy it so much when it wasn't me? I thought she loved me?") monster threatened to rear its ugly head, how did you deal with that? .

 

Actually, no, I never had any feelings of jealousy or regret at all. But my wife did the next day and I think it was not only, "why did I do that?", but also, "why didn't my husband get jealous?"

[Chicup 41]

If the question was your first swinging experience I'd have a longer answer, but its not something I particularly think I need to share. Its basically erotic story telling and it was awesome, but its basically jerkoff material and the forum already has a stories section for that.

 

I think the issue is there wasn't anything "magical" about penetration, and as sunbucks pointed out, it wasn't like I was holding my pud the whole time, I had a woman to please too.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

Awesome! I couldn't actually see it but I knew from her reaction that he was in her. It was her reaction that I'll never forget. It's that reaction that keeps me wanting more.

[AngelandTiger 364]

If the question was your first swinging experience I'd have a longer answer, but its not something I particularly think I need to share. Its basically erotic story telling and it was awesome, but its basically jerkoff material and the forum already has a stories section for that.

 

I think the issue is there wasn't anything "magical" about penetration, and as sunbucks pointed out, it wasn't like I was holding my pud the whole time, I had a woman to please too.

 

Actually, this WAS a recounting of my first experience seeing my wife penetrated.

[Chicup 41]

Actually, this WAS a recounting of my first experience seeing my wife penetrated.

 

I'm not saying its not a true story, but its still a story

[AngelandTiger 364]

True, Dat. LOL. Chalk it up to inexperience on the forum?

[Fours Company 169]

I clearly can remember it mostly due to it being unexpected and it also serves as a lesson regarding how fast things can change in the heat of the moment and what happens when one exceeds rules quicker then the other especially when transiting from soft to full swap.

 

We were at a house party in the group room with two other couples. Man #1 and 2# were fooling around with Man #1's wife while my wife, myself and Man#2's wife watched. Though I'm still not sure how it happened, other then it happened un-expectantly, but before I knew it Man #2 ending up with Man#1's wife and Man#1 with my wife and he was suddenly on top of her and in her.

 

My emotions at the time were a mix. First was surprise since as mentioned we had both not agreed yet on full swap. Another was a little anger due to the fact my wife seemed to make no attempt to stop it despite the fact one of the last couples we were with the other woman practically begged me to fuck her and even though Mrs. Fours claimed it was ok, I knew her enough to know her permission was reluctant and I declined. Yet here she was doing something I felt I was denied last time and I was somewhat resentful. I also felt a strange fear, both in the fact this was the first time I'd every witnessed a cock other then my own inside her as well as the fact he was not wearing a condom. yet despite all this, I also found myself getting extremely aroused by it and when he came inside her, that almost put me over the edge. No one was more surprised by these emotions and the fact I found this erotic them myself.

 

I will admit I did have a little internal struggle with this afterwards only due to the fact of her reaching a goal sooner then me, especially since I came about empty-handed that night since, feeling I was given license to advance as well, I attempted to make out with Man #2's wife who, clearly not into what was going on with her husband and Wife #1, started crying and flaking out.

 

We talked about it afterwards and although we knew communication is the key in the LS, that one experience cemented that rule and once I allowed the positive aspects of both of us finding it arousing in our own ways overrule the resentment and surprise of that night, we agreed that we were now a full-swap couple and on our next experiences we got to experience it together.

[New2swinging225 53]

I certainly seem to be of a different mindset to some on here, but when my girl is with another man, knowing that she is experiencing great pleasure, it turns me on more than my own impending orgasm. Our first real experiences were FMF's with one of my wife's best friends. It was understood that since I got to live out that fantasy she would get to live hers out and I was eager to oblige. Like many of the husbands on here, I don't recall the first moment that she was penetrated by another man, but that experience was fantastic. However, I remember the second time quite clearly. It was the same friend and it happened to be his b-day, and I had been joking with him all day that he could have my wife as a b-day present, but eventually the joke turned into a plan. We both went to our homes and I told him that my girl and I would be over in a bit, but I had a contractor giving me a quote that night, and he was taking a little longer than I figured, so I sent my wife off to my friend's place without me and told her that I would catch up in a bit. A half hour later as I walked to my friend's house, I wondered if they had started without me, and if so how I would feel about it. I remember that I was turned on for the most part, but as I eventually walked through his bedroom door to see him fucking my lovely wife doggy style on his bed, I was amazed at how erotic I found it all to be! It is still one of the hottest memories I love to look back on!

[Swingularity 108]

One word: Fanfuckingtastic!

[Coupleerotic22 1,419]

It seems this thread has been parsed down from the initial experience of our first encounter, which was how I originally read the meaning, to the act of penetration.

 

I certainly did not parse the evening down that way at the time. I looked at it as the experience as the whole then and now. It was a MFM so I was able to take in much more of my wife's reactions than I have in couple meetings.

 

Short answer, the whole experience rocked. But so has most every encounter since then.

 

I do remember posting about the strange mix of feelings it produced, but alas I have tortured the board so much with my postings I cannot look back far enough in my history to find it.

[sparkstar 128]

The very first time? I was overwhelmed with both excitement and jealousy, like VERY jealous. As soon as he started fucking her I wanted to stop them, but I was enjoying the view all the same so I just let them go at it. It was so memorial for me when she came back and sat with me as her hair was messed up and her face was all flourished/red as if she'd had a real nice time. I always remember penetrating her later after she had been with him, I was thinking to myself how extremely kinky it seemed sliding into her after allowing her to fuck another man, I was having all sorts of "dirty" thoughts as we talked about it and what to do next. I was so surprised though! I couldn't believe how well she took everything as if it was all cool with her, I mean a lot of women would be turned off or disgusted at their husband for it.

 

Tom

[Sirramm 111]

The first time I saw my ex-wife take another man's cock out of his pants, admire it, stroke it, and then ultimately suck it for several minutes before laying back on the bed, spreading her legs and allowing him to crawl between them and slowly shove his torrid hardon into her I was so unbelievably turned on I thought I'd literally crawl out of my own skin! I've always liked watching people have sex and watching "my own" turn another man on to the point that he sprays his cum all over the place for me is an incredible turn on for me, and for my now new wife who is just getting into the swinging life. I'll admit it does take a certain 'breed' of humans to not flip out and halt the action and then not only want and desire a repeat of events but welcome it.

 

Watching a woman get a man so aroused he loses control and ultimately cums, HARD, is a HUGE turn on for me!!!!!!

[DigginIt 1,132]

It was fun! Can't say it rocked my world; it certainly didn't rock hers. The guy was young and had a great body but he lasted all of about 4 minutes. We still had a good time for a first experience. Only thing magical about any of it was that the wife and I had moved into a new chapter of our lives with lots of fantasies to explore.

[JandKinBoise 858]

I was very young, inexperienced with swinging, but thought I wanted it as I was obsessed with sex. I believe I was 18, maybe 17. J and I were hanging out with a couple. The guy of the couple, was J's ex-boyfriend. He had banged her while dating her. We had spent many nights together having same room sex, with our partner. A little cross touching but not much. One night, long story but we decided to swap. I was way too distracted to enjoy myself. I couldn't keep it up with his gf. We tried getting off the bed, tried leaving the room. Nothing would work for me. Finally we just left and didn't try it again with them for several years.

[Eddiem 139]

Old post but I have been googling forever for someone who has had the same "experiences" regarding their feelings of seeing this happen. Oddly enough I have not experienced this yet but the thought I find very arousing but at the same time I am nervous, jealous, excited etc... I want nothing more than for my wife to come out of her sexual shell (very conservative) which I know she has a sexual beast inside her to enjoy herself. For me... I feel as though I have robbed her of experiences as we have been together since she was in her late teens and she never had the chance to experiment. She is beautiful and sexy. I try everything to please but she has hinted that she would love some additional before we are old. :-) However I believe my better half would want him to finish inside.

 

Anyone have an experience whereas they agreed not to finish inside then the wife asks for it inside?

[intuition897 2,179]

I'm still in fantasy-land over ViSexual's recount of his first encounter. That was awesome.

[cplnluv1 871]

The first time we met a couple I was more excited watching my wife with another woman. That was the first time I ever saw her have an orgasm by someone else. It was the main reason we met them. I figured more was going to happen but my thoughts were more of me being with a younger gorgeous woman. I had almost forgot that we chose this couple for more than her looks. He was much better looking than me, younger than me and bigger than me. When it happened I did get excited more by oral on him than when he entered her. I was worried it would hurt her, it didn't. I also felt better that I lasted longer with his girl then he did with my wife. Maybe I should have felt bad that she didn't get to appreciate him. Does that make me bad? Think we both got passed the first time. I do enjoy when she grabs my hand when someone gets her off.

[ZoDee 81]

For us it was awesome.

She looked at me & the other wife indicating she's wanting a cock too.

 

Then the look of hope enjoy this as much as I do, & we seemed to be in who can please who the most challenge after that.

 

Sex after we swap back is always great, while were with our other partners, we are getting watch what we are in store for next.

[love2dp 52]

I though it was hot as hell!!! She was sucking on me when my buddy slid his cock into her, she let out a moan like I never heard her do before. She said later she was so turned on to have my cock in her mouth while another cock was fucking her pussy. She said she absolutely loved it. What we all loved even better was the DP. We did that several times before her and I split up. I would have wanted to have a threesome every single night so she could have more then one cock. I don't get dick envy. My but was bigger but shorter. I used to use pretty big toys with her too. Much larger then me. She always felt great too, never lose. A full gangbang would be pretty hot to watch a girlfriend have for sure then join in when she's in a frenzy for more cock. Love it!

[havinfun0 72]

It was such a huge huge turn on! Seeing her naked in front of me and another guy then spreading her legs wide and waiting for his hard cock made me so horny. I about came just from watching him thrust inside her and seeing the pleasure on her face. It did not take very long for her get on her hands and knees with him thrusting behind her so I could have her suck my hard cock at the same time. So so hot. We've only had more fun from there.

[ZoDee 81]

I though it was hot as hell!!! She was sucking on me when my buddy slid his cock into her, she let out a moan like I never heard her do before............

 

Think that's the "Whole different cock thing".

 

MrsZ thinks when we play she feels like a naughty school girl....

[love2dp 52]

But of course, that's why we all do and want to do this lol! Fucking is so freakin wonderful lol. I dig the thought of pretty much most all humans fuck. LOVE IT!

[SH 17]

It was the most amazing thing in the world. I watched her face as he penetrated her and saw the ecstasy she was experiencing. It was as if I were experiencing what she was feeling. I have never felt anything like that before. I am more into pleasing her than pleasing myself so when we have sex I try to make myself aware of how she is. I watched but also tried to make her feel good when she was having sex with him.

[swflcpl14 19]

The FIRST time was before we were married. We weren't even together yet. It was with my brother. My wife lived with him for a year in college before I started dating her. I would stay over there from time to time and saw them have sex a few times. I also knew he shared her with others. So yea, I guess you could say it turned me on to say the least! I went out with her for one thing after she and my brother broke up and ended up marrying her!….lol. We've been married ever since!

[kikonkrome 844]

My first real WOW moment was when my wife was getting fingered by another guy. We had just finished and he bagan finger her and his wife at the same time. She was withing around in ecstasy. It instantly made me hard again for round two.

 

The first time I saw her penetrated I was so busy with two other women I just kissed her really quickly and to check in that she was OK. Turned out she was more than OK!

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . .

The first time I saw her penetrated I was so busy with two other women I just kissed her really quickly and to check in that she was OK. Turned out she was more than OK!

My story is similar. My wife said to me, "yes, I'm OK. Now get out of here and go find your own fun." It has become our modus operandi.

[oc1234 435]

The first time for me was also our first time swinging. We have been nudists for most of our lives and had our best friends where also a nudist couple over for the evening. They were very close friends and we were all nude and lying on the floor, my wife with him and me with his wife. He and I started massaging the others wives. After about ten minutes I heard something and when I glanced in their direction, he was starting to penetrate my wife. I whispered to the woman I was playing with to look over, and she smiled. Needless to say, his wife and I took the clue and started having intercourse.

 

It was the most wonderful experience my wife and I had ever had, and it was totally unexpected. Neither of us had any regrets or jealousy. The couple eventually divorced but we have remained friends with both. We still play with the man who has remained our best friend. Although we do not still play with his ex, we do get together with her and her now husband several times a year. Her husband if fully aware that I used to play with her.

[findinganswers 369]

The first time and only time was just last week with good friends. I felt relieved and excited know this can be the beginning of a lot of fun. I didn't see the actual penetration. I was busy with my own initiation and smiled when I heard a familiar sound coming from my wife. I can't imagine a better couple to do this with. My wife's best friend and her husband. Our good friends. No jealousy from me.

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

Was not my wife, but a really hot 21 y/o on our second date. We'd already had sex on our first date, in the same room where her rookie was having sex with another man. 2d date we'd had dinner & moved on to a apt & party. I'd understood this was a 'swinger party' 1970s style & we'd could be having sex with others present. She'd got me settled with another woman & then moved on to another male. It triggered mix emotions. My date was easily the hottest woman in the room from my PoV, & when he entered her mouth first & then her puss both heads were fairly inflamed. The woman with me picked up on what was going on, made a comment or two on how horny watching them "makes me too" & then quickly mounted me. That was enough to dissapate the jealousy, & it was completely eliminated when my date returned to me & sucked me hard again later.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

...and you let this girl get away!

[johnandlingf 25]

I had talked to my wife for ages about swinging, all with no luck, but she was always into the idea when we were having sex. A few years later on holiday in Florida we met a guy who ran the local picture gallery, he took a shine to her and I finally convinced her to fuck him. Holiday fever and excitement took over and She agreed but I couldn't watch. This was half way through our time there. She told me all about it and she knew how excited it made me when she recounted the sex with him.

After a lot a discussion she agreed to fuck him whilst I watched. I spoke to the guy explaining the situation and he also agreed provided I just watched, which was more than fine by me.

I still remember that for me special moment. I was so nervous, almost shaking. I sat in a chair in our hotel room a little to the side, she didn't want eye contact with me she said.

When the moment came and she spread her legs and he moved above her between them although I couldn't see the actual moment of penetation, when he pushed forward she raised her hips and gasped, and held his hips with both hands, I knew he was then in her. He stayed still for some time before starting. I almost came in my trousers. I looked at her face she had her eyes closed but I could see in her expression what she had just experienced. I just could not believe what I was seeing, to me it was the greatest sexual charge I had ever had. He was very good with her, aware that she and also me were so very nervous.

It was the most exciting pit of stomach churning feeling I have ever had.

Since that time I have watched her with many men it always turns me on, but never like that very first time.

[marriedcouple84 24]

hey there..

 

i will tell u how i felt...and how it started...

we always talked about it even before marriage...so after getting married...we made an ad on craiglists..and had a lot of emails replying back..i choosed this turkish guy..he looked nice and sexy as she said when she saw his normal pics..

 

we went to his house..had some drinks..some music on...she was wearing a very short skirt and tight open top showing her big boobs...

after a couple of drinks..i wanted to smoke a cigerrette so i went outside in the open air..coming in back i found them sitting next to each other and starting to kiss..french kiss...

i sat on the chair opposite to them and i watched them..i was so turned on...watching my wife taking out his cock ...handjobing it...and then sucking...so turning...

 

then they both were naked... i couldn't help myself so i started masturbating on them...ohhh i remember i was so hard..then they went inside...in the shower room and there he started to fuck her so hard..she was screaming...she came 3 times...

he came after spanking her while he was doing her doggy..

 

i loved the whole experience...

loved watching her...and yes we did it again and again and again..

[Captd 15]

Wow I love to watch my girlfriend get fucked also! Better if it's a big cock.

[Eddiem 139]

Great post... I felt exactly the same. Seeing a good friend´s cock hard as a rock hover near her pussy. He rubbed her pussy with his cock, they asked my permission I said "if you want it..." she did and he entered her pressing back and forth. I could not almost wait for him to have an orgasm he pumped and pumped asking her if she wanted his cum... she said yes and he pulled out, she pulled off his condom and he started spraying her. She grabbed his cock and stuck it back in filling her with his cum. I could see it leaking out as he fucked her. Was a great site...

[Eddiem 139]

Excellent! I was too in awe, not wanting it to end to do anything else. We often talk about it over a glass of wine or two. Nice to see a normally shy person really enjoy herself with someone she would normally never think of in that way. I kind of knew things were forever different (better) when his cock came out of his underwear and she tugged on his underwear and her legs spreading apart just a little more for her first new sexual experience in years. I wanted to film or take pictures but was too excited. Great stuff...

[Shore2Please 610]

I just posted about watching. My husband said watching me the first time was extremely exciting. The sex I had in front of him was not that exciting for me. I felt we were putting on a show. My first swing experience was in a different room and was wonderful. In front of my husband everything changed and I felt slammed, orally and vaginally. There was no romance involved. I enjoy being romanced.

I was curious watching my husband, not excited. I watched to see if she was pleased by him. I don’t know if I wanted her to be pleased but I wanted her to know that my husband is a great lover. I think I wanted her to orgasm from that point.

[Numex 2,409]

My wife and I weren't youngsters (30s) when we met, so we were both sexually experienced. I had been married, but she hadn't, although she'd lived with guys twice, it wasn't for long. We were and are very open with one another, so we talked about all of our partners and experiences. Turns out she has about five times the number of partners that I had, because I was married for 15 years fucking the same woman, while she had one or two new lovers a year.

 

That was fine with me, and as my wife pointed out, I had way more sex than her fucking my ex wife all the time with her only coupling up several times a week. But anyway, our talking got me used to the idea of her screwing other guys and the fact she likes to rotate among them. So long story short, I told her she could fuck around if she felt the need. She was very hesitant at first, but after a while when she encountered an ex she really likes it made her wet. She didn't do anything, but told me about it that night (then we fucked like crazy) and I told her to go for it.

 

I didn't get to watch her fuck him until months later even after she screwed another ex. It happened once when he was horny for her, and she was open to accommodating him but she said for her convenience he had to come to our house. She met him at the door wearing only a robe, and after introducing us they really went at it. She had him naked and erect in seconds, took him into the guest room, laid on her back and spread her legs. She was so wet that he slid right in without her manipulating his dick, spreading her pussy lips, and wiggling her hips as she usuallly does for me and as I saw later, others.

 

How did I feel? Heart pumping two hundred beats a minute, stomach in knots, dick as hard as a rock ready to blow it in my pants, but my mind was calmly taking it in. Two things I was thinking - so this is how my wife looks fucking and she's doing it different than with me, I guess that's why she fucks other guys. You didn't ask, but the other big moment was when he came and pump cum into her. Intellectually I knew she had done it and so what, but emotionally, I wasn't prepared.

 

After they were done he had to leave pretty quickly. My wife was satisfied and tired from the day, but I was so excited she let me fuck her sloppy seconds, then come again in her ass.