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Mature Couple Swingers

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kalin    15

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My husband and I are in our 50's to early 60's and are very interested in becoming active members of the lifestyle. Yet everywhere we search for information, clubs, parties, etc. the age group that seems to be wanted is in the 20's-30's. Where does an actual "mature" couple go to find other "mature" couples. Just because we are older does not mean that we are not interested in sex, quite the contrary. We are very sexually active and very experienced. Any suggestions?

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mauijanedoe    1,414

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First, welcome to Swingers Board. I'm glad you found your way here.

 

I'm not certain where you're looking that young people are the focus/desired group, but it's not the case at our club, where the age range is from 20s to 70s, with most folks in the late 30s to late 50s range. Do you have an online profile at one or more of the swinger hook up sites?

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beardedone    50

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When I was in my 30's, I went to lots of parties in many different clubs. Indeed, most of the couples in most of the clubs were in their 20's and 30's, *each* one had the full spectrum of ages. One particular club focused on the 40's and 50's, but they too had the full range of ages. One of my best memories, when I was in mid-30's was with a couple that were in their late 50's! :)

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M&S    266

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Agree with above -- I think you just have to try a few more clubs. In our experience, there is a wide range of ages and MANY people in their 50s and 60s

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AlwaysLrning    22

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M&S, like you my husband and I got a late start on the lifestyle. We're 60 and it wasn't until a few months ago that we visited our first club. We wrote about our first visit in a thread entitled "curious at 60". Like you we thought we may have missed out but believe me there' are opportunities out there. We've been back to the club a couple more times and each time we've gotten more comfortable and a little more brazen. We're making a trip to Las Vegas in the next month or so and we are so looking forward to it and what it may have in store for us. Life is short and if you're serious about giving this a try, jump in the water's fine.

Enjoy yourselves and we're looking forward to hearing about about those first steps! ;)

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latin2012    22

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Like everyone else that has replied. We too are in our early 50's had started playing late about 3-4 years. At our local club there is also a wide age range for mid 20's to 60's. I must admit, from seeing a lot swing porn, lol glad it did not turn out like that, all super models and very very young. Point being they are all real people if you click, great enjoy. If not caulk it up to have met nice people and look for someone you do click with.

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junglecouple    128

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During our required Pre-Party interview with all new guests the most common question was "what do the other people look like?". I always felt this was a rude question, but I would tell them, "go to the local grocery store and walk the aisles. You'll see some lovely folks, some not so great, some that you don't care to see again, but THAT'S who will be at the party. For the guys, you're hoping the ladies will all look like Playboy Centerfolds, for the Ladies, you're AFRAID everyone will look like centerfolds!.. Like the RW, you'll see all types, don't think your going to the playboy mansion.

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larry818    58

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The club we go to, arguably the best one in the western US, actually advertises that they want a "younger, hipper" clientele. I've been going to this club for 23 years and I'm in my mid 50's now. Many couples are my age and older, and I'd say most are 30's to 40's. I've even seen a couple there recently that must have been north of 80 (and they outperformed most everyone there!). While it's irritating to me that the club seems not to want me there, I go anyway and have a good time. I just wish the DJ there would get a clue... when he plays "50 Cent", absolutely nobody dances...

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ncalfuncpl    20

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We are late 40's early 50's. We dont have a problem finding people our age or older. We use SLS and we will look at the parties on Hot Date, then look at the attendees..if they are all young..we find a different party. We have found one club and one regular party not far from us that has the age group we are looking for. You are normal and your age group is out there

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Chicup    42

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Someone tell me where all these 20-30's swingers are, as all we tend to find at clubs are 50+ :sad:

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Isobel    56

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Someone tell me where all these 20-30's swingers are, as all we tend to find at clubs are 50+ :sad:

 

I'm here ;)

 

Depends were you go... A lot in my area state under 35s.. BS.

My partner and I generally looked at the theme nights and the ages of the people signed up. I have been with older men, but find younger couples easier (late twenties to late thirties)....

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Isobel    56

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If I drove, would love to travel to other parts of Europe and explore.

I am in Germany, as a foreigner.. And some of the clubs are... O.o... Well, they leave a lot to be desired!

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JustAskJulie    2,595

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I would suggest trying SLS and see who you find. In our area the average age is high 40's to early 50's (and up). Every party and location is different. You may find that in your area the couples in your age are there they are just sticking to more private parties.

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jobillie44    21

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As many other people have said we also started around our sixties. We were very fortunate that casual friends of ours made an oblique suggestion that if we were interested they would be happy to introduce us to the lifestyle. Since then we have enjoyed many evenings with them and an ever expanding group of friends. We avoid clubs because it isn't who we are. We have found several bars which other lifestyle friends frequent. They are great places where we meet and then go from there. Ironically our age has never been an issue. Most couples are younger than us. Our age seems to be an advantage.... Couples seem secure with older couples. Enjoy

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81lizard69    470

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Someone tell me where all these 20-30's swingers are, as all we tend to find at clubs are 50+ :sad:

 

They (20 to 30 year olds) are all over the place. They make new ones every day.

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Isobel    56

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They (20 to 30 year olds) are all over the place. They make new ones every day.

 

I hope so >:)

Off to try a new club tonight, but not sure what age range will be there! We will see :D

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