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Did curiosity about bisexual play bring you to swinging?

Did curiosity about bisexuality bring you to swinging?  

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  1. 1. Did curiosity about bisexuality bring you to swinging?

    • Yes, for her it did
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    • Yes, for him it did
      5
    • Yes, it did for both of us
      5
    • No, we got into it for the flavored condoms
      6
    • No and we don't like flavored condoms, either
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A post I read recently had me wondering how many people decide to try swinging in order to explore bisexual play. Was that true for you at all?

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Not for me. I was mainly interested in having more penis, either one after another or at the same time. For Mr. Sun it was the same except the opposite genitalia. ;)

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Mrs. Chicup didn't start bisexual play until a year into swinging or more, I forget exactly when, but it was not a driving force to swing.

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We started swinging as straight. I discovered that I liked women in the process of swinging. It's been a very happy outcome for me.

 

My husband remains straight.

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MD has always been curious but it was never about anything other than recapturing those lustful feeling for us.

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Her curiosity in women sorta lead us this general direction, more so talking about that opened us up into talking out our desires to try swinging in general. Him, totally straight.

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Except for discussing one male partner's, apparent, bisexuality, we never gave same-sex any thought during the times we swapped with other couples. But it was through our exploring the lifestyle the second time, years later, that I revealed my bi experience and interest to my wife. She claims to be 100% straight, btw. Anyway, so, it was swinging that led to my exploring my bi side, not the other way around.

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Yes for me, no for him. After I had I few experiences I find I'm much less bisexual than I thought I would be. I could take it or leave it at this point. I like group play and all hands on deck but I no longer desire one on one female play like I did in the beginning.

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Can I change my answer. I had and have a idea that one day we will be swinging and my wife will turn Bi..That is a fantasy :lol: I have and might just happen one day.

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