Ladies - do you prefer muscular men or skinny dudes???

[MapleCpl 67]

Just wonder if women in general like their men to be strong and muscular, of if women like skinny men with little or no muscles??

I am 210 pounds and considered muscular, and tend to get some attention, but can't help wonder what it would be like to be skinny and if I would get attention. Ladies and gentlemen please provide your thoughts on this.

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

I would prefer skinny to football player type "muscle". I'm very short, and I like to be on the bottom so I don't like to be with someone who is really large. Or if I'm on top and his waist is big it's awkward. Tall and thin is fine with me. Muscular, but not refrigerator size is great. It's really fun to be picked up/held up while having sex.

 

I also like short (in shape) guys a lot. My husband is quite a bit taller than me. It's super fun for me to be close to the same height as someone when I'm wearing high heels. It makes kissing quite different. I am still shorter than everyone without significant heels.

[mauijanedoe 1,414]

Muscular, all the way up past refrigerator sized. I'm also small, so it can be a challenge in some positions, but I like the overwhelm that big men bring.

[asncpl 730]

Hmm, I am also petite and short and it's interesting to see how Dayton and Maui came out on opposite end of this. My husband is on the skinny side and tall and we have fun doing a lot of different positions. In terms of swinging, I will have to go with Maui's thoughts on this. I like rougher sex and it's a turn on to have a big guy. It's a change of pace from my husband, and I like to be manhandled.

[sunbuckus 3,569]

 

Another interesting thread. I can't say I've been with a super muscular man. I have had the opportunity to play with men who were fit but also very skinny and personally, I prefer some softness on a guy so I don't feel his bones under my fingertips while I'm scratching or grasping at his body.

[Guest]

I pick more on personality, after conversation. Hubby says he always amazed because for the most part, he's on the big, muscular side and they tend to be a little more chubby than he.

[Kade oj 63]

I definitely lean towards skinnier guys. Definitely get me going

[padoc 1,704]

Mrs Doc is fairly tall (5'7") and likes guys who are taller than she is with broad shoulders so her choices tend to be 6'-ish and around 200 lbs making them generally on the larger, more muscular side. Surprisingly tho, the male of our favorite couple is about 5'9 and 160 and she says he's the best swinger sex ever. If I live to be 100, I'll never figure that woman out.