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I was reading this thread: Must be Bi-Male Month and ran across this comment:

 

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No I don't want to see guys taking it up the ass in a swing club, if they were, we would find a new club.

 

I let it roll around in my head for awhile, trying to imagine what legal activity (I emphasize legal, because I'm not talking about things like Tijuana donkey shows ;)) would make us find a new club. Over the years, I've seen a lot of things, including guys taking it up the ass (their wives/girlfriends were pegging them, mostly), blood play (yay for plastic sheeting) and fisting (I recommend Black Dragon gloves for those without latex allergies).

 

There are certainly things I don't even like to watch (yes, DP, I'm talking about you) and specific fetishes that I'm squeamish about, but I can't think of anything that would have us packing up and moving on to another club. I don't think that's being overly tolerant or anything, but I do wonder. What could other people do sexually that would make you leave a club and never go back?

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The first thing that comes to mind isn't directly sexual, but on the periphery. It is The Sex Coach. The dude that tells you to pound that pussy and provides color commentary like he's auditioning for Fox Sports.

 

The other stuff? I can actually avoid seeing anything that turns me off, so I've really never thought about leaving a club due to those reasons.

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The first thing that comes to mind isn't directly sexual, but on the periphery. It is The Sex Coach. The dude that tells you to pound that pussy and provides color commentary like he's auditioning for Fox Sports.

 

The other stuff? I can actually avoid seeing anything that turns me off, so I've really never thought about leaving a club due to those reasons.

 

Depends on the club. In our case if its behind closed doors we don't care.

 

This brings up a horrible thought about scat play but I won't go any further.

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We are pretty tolerant and open minded so we don't really care what others are doing sexually as long as they are doing it between them and cleaning up.

 

Since Chicup brought it up, if there is scat play in the open and consistently, fouling the air for everyone, that would make me consider leaving. Nothing else comes to mind.

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Only thing I can think of is open use or sale of crack cocaine or heroin or something like that. But I have, in fact, never heard of anything like that going on at a swingers' club.

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We watched somebody get tossed out of a club. He was warned once to put his smart phone away. The second time, it was not a warning. It was, "get out and don 't come back again."

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Drama!!!! Lots and lots of drama......

 

If we went to a club and the majority of couples were fighting. There were hoards and hoards of single guys. Police were at the place. Imagine everything that you don't want a club to be.

 

If we ever found that we wouldn't go back. Unless of course it was a really off night for the club. Then maybe we'd give them a second chance.

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No consensual sexual activity would keep me from coming back.

 

Too high a percentage of stand and model types/too little play, would.

 

Smoking in the club is also an immediate no for me.

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Haven't been in a club in ages, but there would be a couple of things.

 

Okay, so some body fluids are expected, but blood, urine and feces? That's a deal breaker for me. I'm hoping a club would smell more like perfume and cologne, not a porta-potty.

 

I'm also hoping to find classy, mature people who know how to have fun without all the drama. Classy. Not crude, derogatory (that is NOT one of my turn-ons), loud or over-eager. I would hope that any club would strive to create this kind of atmosphere, and would actively weed out those whose behaviour undermined it.

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Haven't been in a club in ages, but there would be a couple of things.

 

Okay, so some body fluids are expected, but blood, urine and feces? That's a deal breaker for me. I'm hoping a club would smell more like perfume and cologne, not a porta-potty.

 

I'm also hoping to find classy, mature people who know how to have fun without all the drama. Classy. Not crude, derogatory (that is NOT one of my turn-ons), loud or over-eager. I would hope that any club would strive to create this kind of atmosphere, and would actively weed out those whose behaviour undermined it.

 

Wow! That is awful. I guess I should thank my lucky stars we have a clean, classy club where I am.

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Wow! That is awful. I guess I should thank my lucky stars we have a clean, classy club where I am.

 

Luckily any clubs we've been to have been of the clean and classy kind. BS was not tolerated. These are just the kinds of things that would totally turn me off of a club.

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Urine and scat.. Those really gross me out. We know this one couple.. and I really dont know if they are aware that they are so iffy when it comes to their sexual talents.. She thinks she is a squirter.. But she is really just a pisser. We were at a club and I saw her go for the first time.. I looked and said out loud wow that is really hot and thought in my mind I have to get with her.. That thought took all of a second. Then the odor hit me.. It was urine! And she sprayed it everywhere. I pulled the woman I was with close and whispered in her ear. Does that smell what I think it is.. and she said yes. My suspensions were confirmed. My thoughts went from Hey that was hot to.. ewww and how the hell will I walk from here to my flop flops bare foot with out stepping in any. Rumor has it a hotel charged her 500 dollars for peeing on a hotel room floor.

 

For me.. unwanted to much or gross bodliy fluids flung around like a crazy monkey with little regard for others turns me away..

 

The club has to have clean floors.

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We have clubs here but they are on the dingy side. After our membership ran out, we haven't returned. I'd say being dirty and dingy would cause us to high-tail it outta there!

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Hubby and I stopped going to one particular club because we found the group a bit stuck up. Another club opened around the corner, and we find the people there a lot friendlier and more relatable to us.

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Dh and I quit a houseparty group. The host had no problem bending the rules (ask before touching, no means no)

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The first thing that comes to mind isn't directly sexual, but on the periphery. It is The Sex Coach. The dude that tells you to pound that pussy and provides color commentary like he's auditioning for Fox Sports.

 

The other stuff? I can actually avoid seeing anything that turns me off, so I've really never thought about leaving a club due to those reasons.

 

Frankly I LOVE that!! It was one of the hottest things I ever experienced at a swing club!! I feel like a porn star when that happens.

 

Depends on the club. In our case if its behind closed doors we don't care.

 

This brings up a horrible thought about scat play but I won't go any further.

 

We are pretty tolerant and open minded so we don't really care what others are doing sexually as long as they are doing it between them and cleaning up.

 

Since Chicup brought it up, if there is scat play in the open and consistently, fouling the air for everyone, that would make me consider leaving. Nothing else comes to mind.

 

Only thing I can think of is open use or sale of crack cocaine or heroin or something like that. But I have, in fact, never heard of anything like that going on at a swingers' club.

 

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These pretty much sum up mine!!

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