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What should a man wear to a hotel party?

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MrMarvin    268

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Greetings All--

 

My wife and I will be attending in the next month or so our first hotel party (which seems to be different than a simple "meet and greet" which we have tried). Perhaps a silly question-- what should I as a guy wear? Forgive me if this has been answered before but I could not find a prior thread discussing the topic (many threads on women wear). I ask because I obviously don't want to stick out like a sore thumb and I admittedly have zero fashion sense, especially with any new "trends." I would appreciate any help on this, again I know, silly question.

 

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Is there a theme for this party? There often are, but you never need dress to it, although you should pay attention to any cues that a party will be formal. Otherwise, it depends on your age. If you're under 40, then good jeans or khakis and a button down shirt. If over 40, then I'd say slacks and a button down shirt. Everything should be clean and pressed and your shoes should be irreproachable. ;)

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Is there a theme for this party? There often are, but you never need dress to it, although you should pay attention to any cues that a party will be formal. Otherwise, it depends on your age. If you're under 40, then good jeans or khakis and a button down shirt. If over 40, then I'd say slacks and a button down shirt. Everything should be clean and pressed and your shoes should be irreproachable. ;)

 

What she said.

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Also go easy on the cologne or aftershave. There are a lot of women with allergies or sensitivity to smells. Just my helpful thought.

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Unless the party is formal or a theme you want to dress for, you can probably dress the same as you would for a meet and greet.

 

As far as themes, I love them. Many more girls dress for themes than guys. Guys who dress for themes will get more attention. So if you want attention dress for the theme. If you want to hang back and just observe the scene, I wouldn't dress for the theme. Personally, my husband and I have had some of the best times ever when we both dress up. It really adds to the sexy party atmosphere for me.

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