Fours Company 169 Posted February 2, 2014 Well, last night we went to a party and got to experience our first group sex encounter with multi-couples and it was great! This was a private party that we had never been to before and the couple offering the invite we were unfamiliar with and they plan these parties with the goal of finding regular small groups of couples where the only defining factor is they want couples who are willing to play. We were leery at first, since we can be socially awkward tying to connect with new people especially if there is almost a requirement to find someone to play with and thus it could be consider both a good and bad thing at the same time for us. Luckily when we arrived we found one couple we are good friends with and another we played with before had been invited so we still had somewhat of an "anchor". All the other new ones there were very nice however, but a few left before the action began. After a few hours of small talk warm-up, the host announced he was going into one of the rooms with another couple and anyone who wanted to join can follow. There were a few takers and our friends and us decided after a while to peek in. I should note that this was not our first exposure to group sex per say, as we've watched it at clubs and even played with each other in the group room back in our soft-swing days, allowing at the most another guy in the room to feel up Mrs. Fours. We've also been in two situations with two different couples at once, but the lines still fell into the traditional pair-off, take-your-turn type of sex. Anyway, watching all these naked bodies in one room in various acts was enormously stimulating and we soon found ourselves joining in. Pretty soon it ended up as six couples in a single bed going at it (yes it was kind of close quarters), doing various switch-offs with various different partners and we had never been directly in the middle of something with so many participants before. Although I sometimes have a difficult time finishing due to certain factors such as tiredness or performance anxiety, that was far from the case this time, though by the time I did, Mrs. Fours had already beaten me there several times. There were two other couples who arrived after all was over with and missed the fun and I can't help thinking about what the scene would have looked like had they been there earlier as well as if the other ones who left had stayed. The host actually expressed surprise since while he's witnessed one-on-one swap with more than two couples before, he really didn't expect everyone who was in the house at the time to join in and it did seem spontaneous. Well, I didn't want to get detailed so as to not make this appear as something approaching stroke-off material in the stories section (perhaps another time for there ), other than to say there was a lot of , some:bj:, and even a little bit of . We can now add another notch to our adventure belt and looking forward to doing it again, maybe with an even bigger group. Just thought we'd share. Quote Share this post Link to post
sunbuckus 3,567 Posted February 2, 2014 Glad you had a great time! I think the people attending really does determine whether a party is great or a dud. Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,024 Posted February 2, 2014 . . . Just thought we'd share. I think it's wonderful. Thanks for sharing. And, welcome to our world. Quote Share this post Link to post
Fours Company 169 Posted February 3, 2014 Glad you had a great time! I think the people attending really does determine whether a party is great or a dud. I think it was not so much only the attendees, but the host as well. Not only by encouraging people to join in the room, but also by making sure those he invited were couples that actually played and not just the social primpers we see at too many of the clubs or other parties. To be honest, for us that arrangement can be a double-edged sword. We hate wasting our time at the clubs when no one seems to want to play, yet at the same time an almost mandatory arrangement that everyone does play puts more pressure on us to find someone which can be very difficult when you're not social butterflies. Luckily as I said we had people there we knew and although we initially thought it might be a bust since it took longer than the host expected for somebody to get things going, but once it did, inhibitions be damned and everyone present joined in big time. Quote Share this post Link to post
funcoupledayton 2,708 Posted February 3, 2014 Yay for you! We would consider 12 people a full orgy rather than a "mini" one! Quote Share this post Link to post
Fours Company 169 Posted February 3, 2014 Yay for you! We would consider 12 people a full orgy rather than a "mini" one! I suppose you're right, I was likely just thinking of a gangbang or a porno-type orgy in comparison where people are wall-to-wall. Now if the couples who left early had stayed and the others who came later had arrived earlier, it would have been something indeed! Though I'm not quite sure where they would've fit in the room let alone the bed . Quote Share this post Link to post
SwingSetHusband 110 Posted February 3, 2014 Sounds like a very interesting party! I would love for the wife and to attend a party like that. I'm all for group sex!!! Quote Share this post Link to post
sunbuckus 3,567 Posted February 3, 2014 I think it was not so much only the attendees, but the host as well. Not only by encouraging people to join in the room, but also by making sure those he invited were couples that actually played and not just the social primpers we see at too many of the clubs or other parties. A swing couple once told us about this fantastic party they had attended. The rule was that everyone was an automatic "yes". You had to actually say no to someone if you didn't want to play with them. It sounded like an interesting concept. They said it ended up similarly to what you experienced. Quote Share this post Link to post
SwingSetWife 444 Posted February 3, 2014 A swing couple once told us about this fantastic party they had attended. The rule was that everyone was an automatic "yes". You had to actually say no to someone if you didn't want to play with them. It sounded like an interesting concept. They said it ended up similarly to what you experienced. Hubs and I have talked many times about parties like this, and we are both happy to hear that they exist!! We are usually the awkward ones standing by the wall in the orgy room wondering the proper way to tap someone on the shoulder to make sure its okay to join. Hahaha Quote Share this post Link to post
sunbuckus 3,567 Posted February 3, 2014 Hubs and I have talked many times about parties like this, and we are both happy to hear that they exist!! We are usually the awkward ones standing by the wall in the orgy room wondering the proper way to tap someone on the shoulder to make sure its okay to join. Hahaha We've only heard about this once so I am not sure how common it is. Mr. Sun and I are definitely interested in such a party but we have a feeling that we would have to host such a party in order for it to happen. The swing couple mentioned how the host was very careful with picking out the guest list and letting everyone know the rules. Quote Share this post Link to post
Fours Company 169 Posted February 3, 2014 Since many of the LS rules and etiquette have been ingrained within the swinging world (not saying that's necessarily a bad thing), I think parties like this are far less common than usual. In our case the hosts made it clear that their goal in organizing these parties are to hand-pick select couples who actually play in order to weed out the social bunnies and looky-loos so prevalent at clubs. Though we never did ask what made them chose to send us an invite, but since other couples we knew were there I suspect word-of-mouth might have had some part in it. I think this is the key to organizing or being part of parties like this is all about connections and only choosing select couples for strictly private affairs. While normally I frown upon such things like the clubs that weed out anyone with more than an ounce of body fat or the "non-glamorous" types, in this instance, there are no personal or superficial criteria being considered, just the expectation that the participants really want to swing and for us that's a good thing. Quote Share this post Link to post
asncpl 729 Posted February 4, 2014 So glad to hear you had a wonderful time. I love these mini orgies, as you call it, and the chemistry of the people involved can really make or break it. It's absolute best when you find a group of fun couples, or if you know a host who is good at organizing one. This is a big reason I prefer private parties rather than a club or looking for couples online. When I find a good host/organizer, I hold on for dear life. I hope you get to do it again soon! Quote Share this post Link to post