What are the alternatives to swallowing after oral sex?

[njbm 2,924]

I guess she could let it hit her chest or face, but my s.o. is hesitant to swallow an unknown man's sperm out of health concerns. I said no one would complain if you put it in your boobs. Other ideas?

[SoFlaCouple 188]

Snowball back to his wife, discreetly spit in a towel, don't take it in the mouth to begin with....

 

I never expect someone to swallow. I never expect someone to take it in the mouth. But then again, my wife enjoys me finishing on her. A symbolic, if not literal, finishing together. ;-)

[Lionheart72 2,191]

Spit is the customary alternative to swallow. In our experience, guys have always asked my wife if they can finish in her mouth.

[mauijanedoe 1,414]

I don't spit. If there's a reason I don't want to swallow, then the instruction ahead of time is, "If you come, do it on me rather than in me."

[DigginIt 1,132]

Sorry, finishing someone off with a bj isn't going to happen unless MD has been seeing you for a while. She considers it something she will do when it feels truly appreciated.

 

We have never had anyone try to get her too so not sure if that is a single guy thing or a couple thing because I would never expect someone's wife to give me one to completion although it has happened on many occasions but it was always at her prompting and not my requesting.

[asncpl 730]

Spit is the customary alternative to swallow. In our experience, guys have always asked my wife if they can finish in her mouth.

 

That's my experience too. I usually swallow but if I don't, I would spit it out on a tissue. If I don't have a tissue nearby, I spit it in my hands and go clean up.

[Chicup 42]

My wife doesn't swallow, being if she does it doesn't stay swallowed.

 

As such, BEFORE she tells a guy to let her know when hes going to cum, and it hasn't been an issue.

[Tia Vampire 167]

Or have a towel near by to cum on. That's what I prefer.

[JustAskJulie 2,596]

To me the best alternative if you don't want to swallow is to pull your mouth away right as he's about to come and finish him with your hand.

 

IMO, if your concern is over STD risk he shouldn't be coming in your mouth to begin with. Spitting it out isn't really going to alleviate the risk.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I respect your concerns but if your wife commits to sucking my cock my favorites swallow. Not swallowing is not a deal breaker but it is personally disappointing. I can respect her feelings and carry on with the experience. Most women in my experience that find a mans cum repulsive wont like it on their face or chest either.

[DigginIt 1,132]

I respect your concerns but if your wife commits to sucking my cock my favorites swallow. Not swallowing is not a deal breaker but it is personally disappointing. I can respect her feelings and carry on with the experience. Most women in my experience that find a mans cum repulsive wont like it on their face or chest either.

 

Really? Do you realize how selfish that sounds when you say that? Oh, how disappointing, another chick who won't swallow, this night isn't going to live up to expectations. Honey! Scratch them off our friends list.

 

The fact that someone else's wife has has taken enough interest in you to want to have sex with you suddenly becomes a let down because she doesn't want to swallow one of your bodily fluids. Please tell me that it's just late and it came out much more blunt than you intended.

[stonemtncouple 45]

My wonderful sexy wife never swallows. She loves sucking cock and will let a man cum in her mouth then let it spill out back onto his cock as she continues to stoke him with her mouth on his cock. It's super sloppy, wet, and oh damn does it look and feel good when she blows me!. Then we use tissue or towel to clean up. I love it and she's never had a complant. Sloppy wet, sucking Blow Jobs are the BEST!

[Lava&Spike 28]

First any polite man will let her know he is coming. Second, both of you should discuss in advance preferences. Not a deal breaker at all for me. Most of the time I do not cum in a partners mouth unless she specifies that is what she wants. My wife only allows me to cum in her mouth. That is just our rule.

[cplnluv1 879]

We have never had a problem with her swallowing me. We enjoy oral and depending on mood and playfulness is how we finish. She knows I like to watch as I shoot so we sometimes do what so many porns show, her with an open mouth but I also like the feeling of her sucking to the last drop. We still haven't gotten to the point of a guy finishing in her mouth. If I can brag about her, she is very good at giving a bj and I guess it is the first sex act I watched her do. Both men we have been with finished doing doggie. I think it would be hot to watch her do a sloppy bj.

[cplnluv1 879]

My husband told me about this question on here. He already wrote that it never bothers me and it never has. And I laugh about it now but it goes back to when I first did it many many years ago. My first bj was a friends brother. It was after school and I was fully dressed and didn't know what to do when he came. I wasn't ready for it but I knew I didn't want it on my sweater. During my dating years I don't remember ever spitting it out. I do remember guys who pulled out and shot on me. I never liked the messy part or getting it in my hair. There was a guy in college that told me not to swallow and he took it in his mouth from mine, but most guys I was with wouldn't even kiss after oral. My husband like me to finish him sometimes in my mouth but he has told me likes the visual of himself shooting on me. It is a joke we have and part of our fun. Neither of the men we have played with have cum in my mouth. One was about to but I sensed it so I stopped. The other man we met twice and so far he has held off finishing in my mouth, which I am happy about only because we enjoyed what we did after oral. I think when we see them again I might let him finish orally because after my talk last night with my husband I wants to watch that.

I know many of my friends, well the ones who I can have some sex talk with don't like when their husband cum in their mouths. I have a very close friend who has told me she never lets her husband do that. I think I understand but to each their own.