How young is too young when choosing a swing partner?

[Stanza 35]

Recently I am approached by young guys in more than one occasion. Probably the summer thing. Heat making me attractive to them. Some of them are very bold. Some are eye candy. Each time I smiled and turned them down. Mostly because I've never been with some one that young. But again I wasn't a swinger before.

 

So my question is how young is too young for you considering if he/she goes to a war U.N. won’t consider him/her a child soldier? (some of these young men who approached me are students of military officer training school)

[TricianMike 788]

Hi

Before posting my real response, stay away from anyone who can't legally go into a bar

 

You didn't post how old you are or your status. Mike and I originally said we were looking to meet couples close to our age. You will have more in common with them and though you seem to be looking for sex only they will be more experienced. With that being said, we recently went out to "pick up" a businessman for me to be with. Michael just wanted to watch. We ended up meeting two very nice recent college graduates. Mid 20's. I don't think I would ever go any younger.

[Stanza 35]

I'm ooold. My interest in relationship with another person is wiped out by my divorce. So it's just sex that I'm seeking.

 

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[Guy1964 177]

I think that's ultimately a matter of preference. As long as everyone's an adult, you aren't doing anything wrong. What would be the reason to set an arbitrary age limit?

[Lascivious L&L 866]

We're in our early 60's. We've enjoyed threesomes with guys as young as in their early 20's. It can be fun.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

That's an interesting question that should make for a good conversation between us. We primarily search for couples, and we try to stay roughly within our own age range because finding a four way match is difficult at best, and we think the more you have in common to start with, the more there will be chemistry. But, for singles, I can see how that theory wouldn't apply nearly as much.

[JDApopka 54]

we are in our mid 50's I love to watch my wife with other men she has always requested that they be at least 40 or older i think it is due to us having sons 38, 35 & 26. Lately in our search for a regular playmate we been getting lots of intrest from guys 30-35 she keeps saying no but they keep persisting. I think she is going to give 1 or 2 a try

[cplnluv1 874]

For our first experience we posted an ad and got many responses. We chose a young couple in their 20s. We based our choice on looks and I am embarrassed to say on size. We were some what amazed how many nude pictures we got from a blind ad. He seemed to be 2-3 inches bigger than Alan and she was very pretty. It was not a great pick. Yes she was exciting, he wasn't. Fact is he was very quick. Not sure if it had anything to do with his age.

We are having much more fun with a couple our age.

[peggyisfun 16]

younger folks tend to be better physically but not all there emotionally or mentally. just a matter of what you are looking for.

[angelkin 1,326]

In my experience the younger men tend not to take their time and aren't that experienced in pleasing a woman. The few times I bent my age bracket to enjoy a younger man, I was disappointed. They either rush to the finish, fail to understand the concept of foreplay, or have only one speed (rapid rabbit ).

 

I just prefer experienced men and for the most part, only age and wisdom can deliver the pleasure I seek.

[Hippiegirlie 276]

Age makes no difference to me... it's all about the person. I have found many younger men who were more mature than those older lately. I think it's because many of the men near my age are "sowing new found wild oats" as many are recently divorced or new to the lifestyle. The younger men I have encountered are typically those who are craving an older woman. Not to change subjects, but I have found that to be the case more often lately. Anyone else with similar experiences?