Interracial hotel bar pick-up

[TricianMike 772]

My husband and I recently tried an idea we found on the forum, picking someone up at a hotel bar. Last week we (I) met two young men, staying at a local hotel for business, and went back to their room for some fun. My husband just watching.

 

After this experience we were talking and Michael, my husband asked if I ever wanted to pick up a black man. He asked me this not in a racist way. I know my husband well and neither of us are racist at all.

 

We all know the stereotype stories of the big black penis. I have to admit I am not that experienced in seeing black men naked. Michael has probably seen many more naked men then I have in his gym. I think I surprised Michael when I told him I have actually had sex with two black men way before we met. He did want to know why I never told him. It just never came up and like most couples, we all have a past and I just never thought it was important. I asked him how he would feel watching me with someone.

 

Now, we have watched many xxx snippets of interracial couples and have joked about the size of some of the guys. He answered that if I wanted to do it he thought it would be exciting to watch us. I asked him if he would be interested in meeting a black woman. His answer was one word. Asian. It seems he has always had a desire to be with an Asian woman. Then I asked about Halle Berry and he smiled. His answer was that would not mind being with a black woman but his real fantasy was an Asian woman. I really didn't understand or knew of his desire. I asked him if he knew what he was looking for, he couldn't answer. We googled Asian women and he is right, many are gorgeous women; duh, just like any race. Good looking and not good looking. I just never knew he had this attraction.

 

So now we are learning more about ourselves. I learned about his fantasy and he learned that I dated black men before him. I guess it is natural that he has asked me about the penis size of the men. I assured him that he is fine and not to worry and we will always go home together.

 

Does anyone know a couple in the LS that is interracial Black/Asian who wants to meet a white couple in NJ? LOL

[cplnluv1 872]

I shared this thread with Alan. He said he read already and asked me my thoughts. I asked him if he would want to meet a black couple. Would it be because they are black or because he thinks all black men are big. He knows I have been with black guys before and I told him not all are huge but he remembered I told him I was with a very big one years ago.

My first time with a black man was because I was trying to prove something. He happened to be a very nice guy, not even that big. I felt like a rebel at the time. I grew up in a white area and had mostly white friends.

[TricianMike 772]

Mike wants to watch me with a very large man. He said that the visual of an interracial meeting just turns him on. Since we spoke about it he has searched for huge black men with white women movies. I keep telling him that not all men are that size just like white men. The two men I met were normal size.

 

Cplnluv you were with what you said was very big. How big? How did you know he was going to be very big before you met? And most important, was it uncomfortable? I know this may sound stupid because I have children but the movies we watched looked painful. I am not totally convinced about the size thing but have no problem with any color.

[cplnluv1 872]

Cplnluv you were with what you said was very big. How big? How did you know he was going to be very big before you met? And most important, was it uncomfortable? I know this may sound stupid because I have children but the movies we watched looked painful. I am not totally convinced about the size thing but have no problem with any color.

 

Trician he was very big. Almost too big and I remember being scared. It goes back to when I was a sophomore. I wasn't totally a "goodie" when I went to school but I learned to enjoy when I could. The whole big thing happened when I was with some friends and we were talking about the guys we had been with. It was funny that we had more in common than we knew. I guess it was normal because we all knew the same people on campus. Then the convo turned to size and one of my friends asked about the boy I was dating. And she held her fingers together knowing he was small. I didn't want to agree but she said she "knew" and that she could never date someone like that. He was a real good looker and before I met him he was always with gorgeous girls. I was excited when we first met but maybe why he never kept a girl was because his size. He WAS small, I admit.

 

Anyhow the talk turned to someone we knew who was the opposite. I didn't know him that well but I knew who he was. My friend Rhonda said he was hung bigger than a horse. She knew. Of course we all joked about it trying to guess how big. She said probably a foot, bigger than her arm, the biggest thing she could think of. Of course we joked and thought she made it up and she said I should ask another girl we knew. We had some other laughs about other guys and wondered if she was telling the truth and if she did would I really want that. The other girl that was mentioned was a very petite girl and I would never had thought she would be with someone big, but I saw her and asked her. She asked me how I knew and that it was true.

 

Eventually I did hook up with him and it was the biggest thing, bigger than I could have imagined. He made fun of me, being a white girl and never experiencing a "real" man. Did it hurt? Yes even though he didn't push, I controlled it. He would do oral on me so the only lube was from my saliva on him. How big? My hand just about went around it and I remember trying to measure and took me four hands to get to the top. I know that sounds too big but he had to be at least 12 inches. I only was with that once. Me on top, so I could control and then he did it from behind which took by breath away. I still have the memory though that night I thought I was going to die from being so sore. The movies are accurate that you watched.

[asncpl 729]

As an asian woman, I certainly understand the attraction. Although my husband is also asian, we have played with many different ethnicities, including blacks and interracial couples. But even coming from probably the most diverse part of the country where we regularly meet interracial couples, the black-asian couple is a rarity, and a black-asian couple who are also swingers is even more rare. If I remember right, I think we met only 2 couples with black male and asian female over many years of swinging. I'm not trying to discourage the search, but I think the fantasy has a higher chance of success if done separately.

[TricianMike 772]

We think you are correct about an Asian Black couple. Even more difficult than a single woman. It is funny how many couples are looking for a single woman and the stories they come up with to get a unicorn. We had met a mixed race couple through friends that we were going to have fun with. Michael has this thing about me being with a black man still. I even told him if he found an Asian couple, I would meet them as well. I know he is always looking on line for a special couple. He found a few Asian couples but I wasn't attracted to the guy. I told I would meet one even though there was no attraction so he could have her. Lucky for me, he understood I didn't want to meet them. He also said he would find me a black man or couple. He would show me pictures of his pc contacts. I know he is looking on sls and other sites. Then he asked me if I would go with a couple and just let him watch. Wasn't sure where he was going with that. I know he enjoys joining in as well. He has now said he contacted a interracial couple looking for a white woman.

[TricianMike 772]

We finally met a couple that Mike has been talking to. No, she isn't Asian. Actually very white, whatever that means. They are a married interracial couple, still pretty new to this but not totally new. From what we can get from our conversation, she has always preferred black men and he white women.

 

I don't know how how Michael convinced them to meet us. I am sure they could have found a couple more like them. It is funny how many black man/white woman couples I notice. Not as many the other way. She was also bi and from what she said they were looking for a couple with a bi woman and had difficulty. I am not sure why. One of Michael's prerequisites was he wanted to watch me with someone endowed. I told him to stop trying to stereotype but he was insistent. I wasn't...lol. Well from the pre-meeting picture I was a little nervous but I also saw his wife was not bigger than me. Well he got his fantasy done. Now on to his next one, an Asian woman.

[JessicaJamison 861]

Picking up men and women in hotel bars is my specialty lol.