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How soon do you swing with another couple?

By BiloxiCouple, in Polls & Never-Ending Threads

"How" Do you swing MOST OFTEN? (swappers only)  

276 members have voted

  1. 1. "How" Do you swing MOST OFTEN? (swappers only)

    • We have to develop a relationship FIRST (ie. a couple dates)
      109
    • We want to "get to know you" for at least an hour, and then have sex.
      100
    • We at least want to talk a LITTLE (under an hour), get to know you, then have sex.
      38
    • If you're attractive to us, we'll ask you to join!
      48

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Tia Vampire    167

Tia Vampire
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We meet our play partners at house parties, so after a hour or so of talking, we will make that dicision if we are going to play with them or not. We don't usually play until 2:00 AM or later. We are able to spend the night at the house parties we attend. So there is no rushing on our part. Plus we have become good friends with the host/ hostess and the DJ and his wife. Who of course stay the night there also. So if we do not find that special couple, we always have a back up plan.:D

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sweet_tna    680

sweet_tna
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It depends on the circumstances, really. If we're at a party, then most likely we'll talk for an hour or so before getting down to business. If we meet them through online ads, it's obviously going to take a bit longer, even once we meet in person.

 

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cplin78260    15

cplin78260
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Well, maybe not a couple dates, but some banter on yahoo or the phone.

 

The mental connection is what grabs us first.

 

Looks are only skin deep, but if can keep our attention outside of that then you are golden.

 

Our big thing is that if you cannot communicate outside of the bedroom, how are you going to communicate when not a lot of words are said?

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amylev41    15

amylev41
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We feel its absolutely essential to get to know the people you may be encountering sexually , a few puclic meetings , dinner etc

to break the ice ...get to know them etc

and see if all parties feel mutual attraction

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jnbsmokin    29

jnbsmokin
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We prefer a sex-only relationship with our playdates. Of couse we have a drink at a public place, normally the hotel bar before stripping down. We avoid any kind of attachments. It works for us.

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two42lovers    273

two42lovers
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When we meet new people we usually have a drink, maybe play some pool, and talk and get to know each other. Usually takes more than an hour to actually get naked, but we'll know there is chemistry - and if we want to play - in the first ten minutes.

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